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Dan  - no  point in  blogging if you  cant  be  real - so  keep it  real  , if  people   have an issue  with  it   then its  their problem .No one  is  holding them  here against  their  will .  Disagreeing    in your  space in    acceptable  , being  rude  is not  . Sadly  a lot of people  dont    seems to know the   difference .

4 months, 2 weeks ago on Taking My Blog Back. Taking My Life Back.

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 @ThomasRoss  @Rob W  Im blushing lol

11 months, 1 week ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Rob W  Hard to  give a proper reply when im not sure what post  you are answering but yes  persecutions of Christians  goes on  in many countries and not like  we often in the western countries  complain about - real persecution , real torture , real death - we really have nothing to  complain about - I  am a supporter of OPENDOORS , youth  site is UNDERGROUND and  I can   recommend them if you really  are wanting  to find out just what goes on . I get  regular   updates  , prayer needs etc  , people who  convert are the subject  to  horrific attacks  and it appears very similar  to  what is happening to  homosexuals in these countries 

Persecution is  persecution  no matter   who is the victim, pepole have the  right to be , to think , to believe .

 

 

 

 

11 months, 1 week ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @ThomasRoss  @riggly  @Ono  Jesus  does  heal  ,  but  not always and I have  no idea  why  sometimes he does and other times doesn't . I have suffered  from severe depression  a number of  times throughout  my life . One of the most unhelpful  things that was ever said to me was  - oh i had that  I just prayed and had enough faith   and it was gone -  In other words   i  didn't  have  enough faith , hadnt prayed in the right way  and by taking  meds it was proof I lacked faith .

I guess similar to those who believe you can pray a gay better and its lack of faith when it fails-  lol  sounds like a advert 

To suggest  someone with cancer  doesnt need treatment is practically  murder. 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Ono  @riggly  Compared to  world wide where people are attacked , abused and killed for being  a practicing Christian  or converting I dont  believe any of us our  in  a position  to  complain. Yes  people do  say  things  ,  at times  employers  make it difficulty , recently a British airways   staff member was sent home for wearing a cross , a hospital  worker got in trouble  for saying God bless or will pray for you   to a patient .  Things are said  and done that would never be allowed or tolerated  towards  other faiths - On one had the PCC brigade have gone too far   and we have lost  our ability to take things in good humor and then on  the other hand , we have a huge  part of our perspective communities  who are still in the dark ages  with regards to human rights and that  is a far bigger wrong in my eyes . Ok  when people  diss God   and are rude about Jesus it does annoy me  but he has big shoulders and can take it .

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @sing4gd  @EdCrown  @Ono  @Rob W  @ThomasRoss  Sing4gd   Im not a theologian and i cant quote the Bible and scripture  at people the way a lot do . And i think thats ok  as long as i  do my best to  follow Jesus's teaching   and display  the love  he had  for us all-  I do my best  , still fall short  but i know i wont  get my wings  till he comes again .

 

See I dont know about you  its like you sorta have the idea but are just  not quite  right about things - I sort of seeing you   thrashing yourself and  wearing sack clothes 

 

"  yes we have free will but before we know Christ the only free will we have is to follow our depraved nature."

 

I have the same  free will as I had before I became a Christian ,   i could have been considered  a "good" person   which wont get me to heaven  but i used the  free will God gave me  everyday  to  do  good things to chose between   doing the right thing and the wrong thing  . The things  I did wrong  I still  do wrong  but it goes back to the original sin .  God  is a jealous God , he wants us to love him  , to follow him because we want to , its why he gave us free will . So we would make the right  choices   and know why  we where making them , a bit like me , i made a lot of right choices  before ( because thats the sort of person i am ).  Now  i know why  its the right thing to do - i know Im  probably messing  this up  but 

 

" I believe that we are so depraved and fallen that we can't choose God.And the Scriptures line up with it too. It says in Romans 9- "No one seeks God, ALL have turned away."

See i dont like this  picking  bits of scripture out of thin air and using it to win an argument  , i should really look this up in context  but im tired and tbh , i enjoy following this  blog  but i  dont have time to  look up every   piece of scripture  that is waved in the air  but you use it wrongly  because  clearly   we have not all turned from  God 

 

when my  kids  where little and they where mean  to each other  i used to explain  to them  about saying sorry  and  true  every-time i told them they needed to say  it and why  - they would say sorry - sometimes a pause before the But....... and i would   ask  how do you spell sorry  and they  would go  S..O..R..R..Y  -  And i would say wheres  the B  - what  B they would  ask  .  exactly  no  B(UT) in   sorry 

 

God  loves  everyone , Jesus loves sinners( and came to save all that  accept him )  No  small print , no exclusions, no hidden  terms and conditions

 

 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @sing4gd  @Rob W  @ThomasRoss  But you  still miss the point and compare homosexuality to silly things  like your children fighting , or adultery  , both things  are decisons  that we make to do or not . Being  gay  is no more a choice  for them than me being  straight , it is what we are .

Your  friend   the one you used to sing with , you dont agree with  his sexuality  and you say  you still love him , every-time  you see him do you feel the need to rub in his face his "sin" or do you just keep that for   gay people you dont know ?

 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @kathleen z  @Rob W  @sing4gd  @EdCrown  @ThomasRoss  @Ono  think im glad  I missed it then 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @sing4gd  @EdCrown  Im saved because  I accept  Jesus   paid the  price of my  sin - end of it really is as simple as that  and i dont understand why people complicate it further .  

 

I just try and display  the love he has for us all to everyone else   no exceptions and its best by doing  not preaching constantly 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Ono  @FrankPhilip  I think it is important to discuss it , been hidden away too long , even  if its me as a straight   Christian  mother of 3 saying  - its ok , its ok  to be who God made you .   or to point out  that no way would Jesus get on  the way  those who protest and spread hate  with their posters  do .

Though  i do think  you need to be careful about  getting  embroiled in their bitter arguments  , just as Christians in general   need to be careful   about getting involved in bitter  arguments  with atheists.

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Kievjoy  Im  losing  count how many kids  you  have Kievjoy  but sounds like you  have your hands full . I would say  MASHA  is testing you , her birth mother   abused her   and  she is trying to prove   if you love her  or not  or will you give her back . persevere   she will learn to trust  that she is loved and safe and  going no where .

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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And can see this from 2 sides , her's and yours Dan.  Gosh  what does it say about her ?  She doesn't love herself  , that she doesn't think anyone will love her  as she really is .  It  also suggests that she has been let down and badly  hurt in the past ,  judged for what she looks  like  and not who  she is . Maybe on line she can   forget about that and pretend  but then comes the meet , oops  now she  can  put a few old photos  up  as she was before weight gain in the hope that by the time   shes meets the guy  he will already  love her  for how she comes across on line  but highly unlikely . I guess years of being overlooked , last  to be picked for teams   and i guess blaming   things on if only  I was a bit thinner has played its part into her thinking  it was ok   - after all its  not really a lie , its still me , just  when i was a younger , slimmer me - what harm  can it do .

 

More than  likely though  when a guy first clicked on her  profile   he would  see her and think   - nope not for me , we are a superficial race  and with all the will in the world Dan   more than likely  you and  most others will move on to the next profile .  After all at this point  there nothing has been invested in the relationship ,  while  start  something  when you can   go  for someone  , younger , prettier  , thinner . Maybe a little unfair  as I dont know you but mostly its how the world  works.  

On the scheme on things not a big  lie  but  a really important one ,  you  are after all on a dating website  with the hope of meeting" the one". How can you start a relationship with someone who  is less than honest, you dont expect someone to  tell you all on a first date  but you do expect someone to  be who they say they are and Im not sure  a trustworthy  relationship  could be  started on  such a shaky foundation 

 

 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on Dating Website Misrepresentation

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 @EdCrown  @Rob W  Im pretty  sure that  scholars of which i am definately not one have got the  whole  sodom and Gormorrah   wrong , yes if was a corrupt city in many ways  but we all know in Biblical  times language was limited .   At the time of  Jesus's conception it was made very clear that  Mary his mother  had not "known" Joseph till after the birth . I think we all accept this correctly  to mean in a sexual way . But  we do  not  take it  to mean that everytime  it is mentioned, clearly   at times to know someone means just that  to know them , to meet they to be known by them , nothing to do with sex . I remember reading  once that the term is mention  over 900 times but only a small  precentage  means carnal knowlege - Im sure the clever people will   have an idea  of the exact details 

But  whether  its right or wrong all things can be measured  against the teachings of Jesus  and   if they  fail to match up to him  then they are wrong . Simply  WWJD

 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Rob W  @CurtisBeauJackson  @Kievjoy  @ThomasRoss   @sing4gd  Ah the good old boys  clubs  alive and kicking  2012.

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Rob W  @Kievjoy  @ThomasRoss  @sing4gd 

 

"He spreads out the northern [skies] over empty space; he suspends the earth over nothing" (Job 26:7, NIV)

 

Men could not have observed the earth suspended  and there are  so many other scientific  things that are in the Bible  that  much later where proved to be correct . We have to be very careful that we dont  take every word of the Bible  literally ,  context  and   the time it was written has to be considered but it would also be a mistake to take it more  than a historically  record of what  happened  because it is so much more than that 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @ThomasRoss  @Kievjoy  @Rob W  @sing4gd    your looking  Biblical  scriptures for  the earth being  round as opposed to flat ?

 

"He sits enthroned above the circle of the earth..." (Isaiah 40:22,NIV)

 

at the time  wasnt a word for sphere just circle 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Kievjoy  @Rob W  @ThomasRoss  @sing4gd 

had saved this  link  ages ago 

 

 

 http://www.bhagavandharma.org/pdf-documents/Magdalene_Feast_Day.pdf

 

I know  people  who  say it was left out because it had nothing of value in it  but who are they to say what has value  and what  doesn't . I think  it  helps supports a  women's place , something many like to  discount and of course the missing text.....

 

 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @CurtisBeauJackson  @Rob W  @Kievjoy  @ThomasRoss  @sing4gd  Ah yes  of course there is Mary Magdelane , im pretty sure it was excluded because  it acknowledged her to be important and on an equal footing  with men , something the RC church   seems to be against . 

The  conspirator in  me  also wonders why its not  complete  at a point  that she was for telling  something important about  Jesus. Buts its clear she Knew Jesus well ( I like the feel of these passages )  how well  we will never know  but again something the RC would be  set against 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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 @Rob W  @Kievjoy  @ThomasRoss  @sing4gd  I actually  think the  accident  analogy  is quite a good way of describing  it .  The four gospel's  where written  by ordinary  people  , it was inspired by God so that  the important  details are right but they have been colored by the men  who wrote  them , I cant help wonder  what would they have been like if  one had been written by a women , maybe  they would have  contained more emotional  content . 

we need to  almost stop looking  at the Bible and contents  from  a 2012 point of view , instead  get into the mind set  of  the time it was written and then apply it  to our daily lives . Not easy 

I believe  the  Bible is the inspired word of God . Jesus described the Scriptures as the very “word that comes from the mouth of God ” (Matthew 4:4)

But  you have to take in in context  of the time it was written,  lauguage was limited  and very often  the same word was used to  describe many thing s , there was no word  for sphere for instance. So often we take a bit of  scripture and totally miss the  message because we are  forgetting that . The  Bible is fine , the problem is  the way we  look at it and very often  twist it to suit ourselves . Look at the way it was used as a weapon against women and people  of  different race , in much the same way it  if being used now against the Gay community , 

 

 

 

11 months, 2 weeks ago on I’m Christian, unless you’re gay.

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