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Christelyn MISSED the mark here!  Short post when so much more could been written.  I think nicki is trying to appeal back to her black base.  She promotes white skin, blue eyes and blond hair. Not a good image for a black girl to see.So she did this to appeal back to them, this right after getting flack for wrong using the image of X.

7 months, 2 weeks ago on Really, Nicki Minaj? What Are You Trying to Prove?

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True. I see a number of black women who are dating men who are losers. I suppose if they had other types of men interested they would not be doing this. These women all live in predominantly black areas as well.

10 months, 2 weeks ago on Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up in the Matrix?

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I find the fetish aspect mentioned in the beginning interesting. Black men never seem to have a problem with being seen as a sexual fetish. I hear white women talking about trying a black man and talking about how big their members are.  I hear no black women or men for that matter talking about how they are seen as a fetish.

10 months, 2 weeks ago on Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up in the Matrix?

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I hear the waiting thing alot from black women.  I know only one couple who married within a good time frame for my age group. They are still married today

10 months, 2 weeks ago on On Men Popping the Quesion: Which Race Gets it Right (Or At Least Less Wrong)

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@Clinton G //Articles in response to other Hate articles dont prove that you are better, or right, they only fuel the person behind that hate to go further...//
In other words, don't respond right?  Typical.

11 months, 1 week ago on Sisters, It is Time to STOP Giving Birth to Men Who Hate You.

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@Brownbear32 Options..they probably didn't think they had any.  I know 2 women also with degrees and are single mothers. Both by choice. They were not accidental pregnancies.

11 months, 1 week ago on Sisters, It is Time to STOP Giving Birth to Men Who Hate You.

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@The ArchAngel  

Not to me. Canada is the greatest to me.  I can easily think of 5 things (major) that i have that many black americans don't have.  American brainwashing is amazing.

11 months, 2 weeks ago on A Canadian Comments on Similarities between BWE, Black Empowerment Advocates, and Feminists

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I don't know why that line stood out to you so much Christelyn. I too was initially struck by the asian women excuse about 'not being stuck in traditional roles', then I remember watching a show where alot of them were saying superficial things.  They just have a thing for white men.

11 months, 2 weeks ago on New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to Date Interracially.

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 @youngteach I wonder what his wife thinks of all this. My guess..she doesn't mind at all.

1 year, 10 months ago on Black, White, Other, DBR IS DBR IS DBR (Damaged Beyond Repair)

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 @sharisajidan  @JennMJack Most of africa is black. Not too bright.  My bigger point that Jenn was not able to deal with was the differences in the way they developed. This has been discussed here before and people got it.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack Yeah jsut calling our your hypocrisy. I knew you would say that just because you disagreed with what I wrote.  No surprise there.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack Yes and most of the people of that country are black / african descent. I heard a sports player say' I am not black I am dominican'. What a laugh that was. Guess you agree with that.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack  //They could have been Dominican. They could have been Caribean//

 

Those people are mostly black. Why are you using countries?

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack Who cares.. They are black.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @sharisajidan  I love the hypocrisy of an IR blog that is mad that i discussed differences. Yet most of the women here want a non black man. Yeah race is not real.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack //Europe, Asia, and Africa are continents. Not races of people. Japan is a countr//

 

It is part of asia. Try to keep up. I see you ignored the rest of the most so you can discuss continents...a joke.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack Like I said before I mentioned how these people evolved. Are the people of africa as developed as europe? Of curse not. But of course I am a racist.    You have not disproven anything. Are certain diseases found in some races more than others? 

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @sharisajidan If i look it up I will get a number of scientists telling me different things. There is not one authority on this.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack Oh I mentioned people, not continents.  I am talking about how they evolved. Keep pretending. Race is not real? Yeah right

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack yeah the truth about racial differences is hard. I knew it. Every time it is mentioned, it's not dealt with.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @sharisajidan  Oh and yes we are more alike than we are different. Let us not deny the differences though. Hence the topic of biracial people being black. Race is real.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @sharisajidan Thank you for admitting there are differences.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @JennMJack  Disease, for one. Sickle cell is more likely found in the balck race. Osteoporosis more likely found in white race. Development. the continent of Europe is more developed that the con. of Africa. Just the way it is. There are still tribes in Africa where as in Europe you cannot hear anyone talk about the tribe they are from in europe. Look at Asia .50 years ago Japan was destroyed look at them today. Redeveloped their own country to be the top in Asia. India still has some primitive practices you cannot find in Japan. Just the environment they are from.  Historically in this country, whties have been far more violent to blacks than blacks yet yet dare call us names and look down on us.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @Statuesque No it's real because there are real differences in us. though it may be true that there was no such tings as race from a scientific POV that does not take away that differences still exist. Example: If scientist never knew that planets existed does that mean planets are not real? Of course not. Just because man never saw differences doesn't mean they were not there.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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 @Statuesque  Wait a minute. Race is not real yet here you are on a IR blog where women talk about the things they like in white men! Get real. Go tell the bw here that the things they see in bm they don't like are not real...lol   Race is real. Race may be a modern concept but it is real.

1 year, 10 months ago on Who Says "Black" is "Black?" Kola Boof Has Folks Hopping Mad...Again.

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The BMVent crowd love this and whites will be joining in. Not sure how this fits into a BWE crowd. Perhaps we will get to see the video of BM being aggressive.

2 years, 2 months ago on "Bridezilla" For Friday Funny, Cuz PLEEZE Let This Be a Joke!

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 @Veron Excellent point. We are over doing it with this boycott chick fil-a.

2 years, 2 months ago on Chick-Fil-A Proves You Can't Bully People Into Agreeing With You

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@deconteeloveborbor `Still not the same. Plenty of them?

2 years, 2 months ago on Chick-Fil-A Proves You Can't Bully People Into Agreeing With You

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"I mean is it now a requirement that if you don't get lynched or burned at the stake you don't have a legitimate civil rights complaint? Really."

 

Not a requirement but why are the two constantly being compared. It almost minimizes one over the other.

2 years, 2 months ago on Chick-Fil-A Proves You Can't Bully People Into Agreeing With You

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 @Lady M I am non-religious but like Whoopi said on the view, I support free speech. In fact I had never even heard of the chain. It''s funny that the gay organization had to do a "same-sex kiss day". lolA good point was made that we really don't know what the views are of many of the places we frequent. At least we can choose to support or not support these organizations.

2 years, 2 months ago on Chick-Fil-A Proves You Can't Bully People Into Agreeing With You

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Good for him. Saw him today.

2 years, 2 months ago on Olympic Swimmer Cullen Jones Is Helping to Teach Black Kids How To Swim

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 @Pearl Rose  @Patricia Kayden traveling never hurt anyone. Heck, I met a Wm who told me he was fed up of women in the US and was going abroad. I chucked. By the way there is actually a not-too-nice website dedicated to men wanting to go abroad.

2 years, 2 months ago on Reason #3,879 Why We Should Disown Mississippi: White Church Refuses to Marry Black Couple

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 @Pearl Rose  @Patricia Kayden Wish it was not that way either. I think due to some whites (who have never been threatened with anything) feeling extremely sensitive to anything that may seem anti-white., there has been an increase in racist propaganda. Since the president took office, in particular. I think I was the only one who didn't want him president.  I used to love the Moody Bible Inst. I found out that they were behind the obama waffles. All of these things just open your eyes. I am actually travelling abroad in the near future and expanding my option.

2 years, 2 months ago on Reason #3,879 Why We Should Disown Mississippi: White Church Refuses to Marry Black Couple

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 @Patricia Kayden Yes. You would think that, but clearly like many have said, racism has gotten worse it seems. Many are blatant and open with it now. I remember seeing a bumper sticker that read "Don't Re-Nig in 2012".  I also read a number of articles about racism in South Carolina. One about a man refusing to marry an IR couple, another about the rights of the confederates and yet another about a Klan Rally in some other state.  I also read about a BW who went to a known racist restaurant. Apparently the owner used to pass out flyers about why slavery was a good thing and what not (No I am not kidding). These things should not be swept under the rug. I want to see white shows study why there is so much racism from white. I want to see what the causes are of this behavior. If they can study us, they can study themselves. Since I have been here, my sense of well-being has gone down and I have become more racial in my thinking.  Not a good thing.

 

2 years, 2 months ago on Reason #3,879 Why We Should Disown Mississippi: White Church Refuses to Marry Black Couple

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 @KTW1  @zipporah Well I look around and see   that alot of it is not sterotyping.

2 years, 2 months ago on Trojan 'Charged Sex Life Survey' Released, Black Sexuality Singled Out for Study and Commentary

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 @Jamila I think BM really do have more partners.The evidence is there for this generation. In fact I would say men in general have more partners.

2 years, 2 months ago on Trojan 'Charged Sex Life Survey' Released, Black Sexuality Singled Out for Study and Commentary

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 @Joojubee How did you trip go. Did you book to Germany yet?

2 years, 3 months ago on Do You Ever Travel Alone? Some Tips for the Solo Female Traveler

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 @abhayanila    There is an increase but the numbers are still low overall.

2 years, 3 months ago on "White Girl Bleed A Lot" Are the 'Peace Walls' Coming?

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 @mdiva2002 Same thing I was thinking. Knowing how they were, why didn't she say something. Anyway it is over and done now. The younger gen. can learn.

2 years, 3 months ago on True Story: "My Parents and Brother Ran Off My Boyfriend"

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 @zipporah  Much of it is truth and not sterotyping.

2 years, 3 months ago on Trojan 'Charged Sex Life Survey' Released, Black Sexuality Singled Out for Study and Commentary

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Wow I am now reading this. Snotti is clearly angry.  And the moment he hears he is angry tells you not to play that BS with him! Ha what a joke. I was shocked that his first post was so intelligently written. I knew him from a group on FB and the moment his angry, ugly black a-- got there he started with the bw hate. One comment in particular stood out when he stated most bw are not even worth him speaking to.Doesn't this idiot know we feel the same way?

2 years, 3 months ago on Burn That Book!

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I remember this topic from a few months ago and seeing it covered on some talk shows years ago. I think it is important to compare what obesity is in other countries. This obesity thing is not a worldwide issue. It's a shame that it is normalized though. I remember Monique's miss PHAT and some of the women were off the chart obese. I cannot see why that much fat is something to celebrate. These women were under 45.  I am glad the root causes of some of this weight is being talked about again. I will show others where it comes from.

2 years, 3 months ago on 3 out of 5 Black Women Have Experienced Abuse, Linked to Obesity

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 @Neecy "nd NO, just b/c some they threw some fancy gown on  Black woman (who is referred to as a ponie/prostitiute) is getting her hand kissed by an alleged White slavmaster LUNATI"

 

So true. That hand thing is not a big deal. We know all about Tarantino.

2 years, 3 months ago on Take a Peek at the 'Django Unchained' Trailer Featuring Kerry Washington

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"Even if a successful educated black guy WANTED to marry a black woman, I could honestly see him struggling to find one that matched the quality standards of the white women around him on a daily basis. Largely this has to do with weight, personal grooming, in 2012, many BW are still figuring out their hair."

 

Yeah I wonder why they are figuring out their hair when they are being compared to whites and being denigrated for going natural. While that BM may be successful and educated it doesn't mean he has what BW want either. I found that comment put BM on a pedestal. After all many of these BM when they do marry are not finding success in their IR marriages according to the stats. I hear this thing about the standards of the white women around him also a generalization. You have no idea  how many of them are sleeping around and cannot figure things out. You are outside looking in.

2 years, 3 months ago on Time to Address All this "Men Are Men" and "The Myth of the White Knight" Memes

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 @Patricia Kayden Haaa and they pulled their article. What losers they are.

2 years, 3 months ago on Ebony.com Makes Formal Statement on Genarlow Wilson "Notorious to Glorious" Debacle

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 @Veron Maybe not one poilcy but changes to the existing ones can help. Let's stop rewarding women for having kids whether they work or not. Let's change some of the drug policies (that would be more libertarian). People forget that this oow thing happened when liberal laws took effect. What was initially seen as help became the way to live.

2 years, 3 months ago on Poll: Would You Vote for Mitt Romney if He Promised to Address the Out-of-Wedlock Problem?

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 @ASwirlGirl Sometimes it just you haven't met what you are looking for. It's not always a particular personality that you lack.  I am done scrutinizing myself. I have changed some things about myself but some aspects of my personality I like. Most of the men I meet who are too aggressive, for instance, have no desire to change. Yet, I beat up on myself for smaller flaws.???----yeah right.

2 years, 3 months ago on "Why You're Not Married...Yet," a Review by 'ASwirlGirl'

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 @R. Kamaria omg...funny how you meet that type again.

2 years, 3 months ago on "Why You're Not Married...Yet," a Review by 'ASwirlGirl'

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 @JessNYC I am glad they chose to compare two white women. Their audience is mostly white.

2 years, 3 months ago on Murder the Messenger--The GAT-DL Blacklash of NWNW

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