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@CS besides, Africa is more than West africa

I've seen two teens on a bus--one was white, and the other black (middle toned).

They were friends traveling the US together, and both from SOUTH AFRICA

2 days, 13 hours ago on Open Thread: Brainstorm Session -The Forum

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@ShepherdNation @Bren82 hmm i wonder how many grown kids he has....and how much child support he has to pay... stay away from dudes like this

2 days, 15 hours ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@jazzyfae45 @Sybellis "it sure has"...at least, many of the young girls late teens early 20's i know in the family are staying virgins==this is 2014, and many of the guys out there, never seen a man and woman together in a healthy way..

2 days, 15 hours ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@darkandlovely @Bunny77 @trinigirl1 guys tend to be WORSE WHORES, since they could make more than one out of wedlock child at a time.....

2 days, 16 hours ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@trinigirl1 it was always a bad scene when women don't keep their pants on. Perhaps, at an earlier time, you could 'get away' with it for a while, but in 2014 its ESSENTIAL; IMO, especially if you want to get married

2 days, 16 hours ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@RhondaSpeights I've heard of something called CATFISHING.. in the Dr. Phil show

many of the people who were tricked were older women, who gave 1000's of $$ to men who weren't ever REAL

AND STILL BELIEVED they would be with them

Stranger yet, they were sometimes widows who had grandchildren but instead of enjoying their grandchildren, and happy their kids had a good marriage, they hope for NOTHING....

2 days, 16 hours ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@darkandlovely @PoetOfDarkness it IMO, seemed to just get WORSE after that--

i remember my moms baby brothers getting into drugs (mom was 2nd oldest out of 10), along with my ex-brother in law--he started beating my sister, when he didn't do it before

4 days, 13 hours ago on QOTW: “Why Are Black Women So Hesitant to Date and Marry Non-Black Men?”

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@PoetOfDarkness its funny you have said that:

since they WERE.... 

a friend of mine who is black married a WM, and I've seen a picture of his grandmother from his dads side

he tended to take after his MOM, who was blonde and blue eyed

when i saw her, she looked like a LIGHTSKINNED BLACK WOMAN... and even my friend didn't know her husband had black ancestry (except at one time, when he said he didn't have the sickle cell trait--she does)

its like "huh'? how would he since he is white and looked a little like Chuck Norris

4 days, 13 hours ago on QOTW: “Why Are Black Women So Hesitant to Date and Marry Non-Black Men?”

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@onmywayup there is no excuse for bad spelling as a rule, especially with AUTO CORRECT

i used to be an excellent speller until recently and it sure helps (husband and all of his kids {including mine} are horrible spellers and ask me to 'help' if they aren't near a computer)..LOL

4 days, 13 hours ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@MikeMittelstadt and i know, when you go off sugared foods for a while, you wont miss them-(i've heard, for a sweet tooth, Chronium Picolinate is good to use since the 'sweet tooth' could be a deficit in the body)

i'm also GLAD that WATER is becoming a popular drink for many, and there is even some places that has filtered water next to the  water fountain for their bottles

i only drink a REAL SODA and not DIET, once in a while


its actually BEST to buy either a BRITA or ZERO WATER water bottle that filters out the bad taste..

4 days, 14 hours ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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@Browncow @zipporah @lorelei84 LOL you CANT go to those silly nationalist groups!! since you married a non BM

you should try out other groups that are out there--although i don't homeschool, you will find me around groups who have asians, latinas, and some blacks.. i tend to not like all black things in the 21st century

4 days, 15 hours ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@The Working Home Keeper that is how it is in the Black community==i'm glad you never had to go through the mess of colorism

1 week ago on QOTW: “Why Are Black Women So Hesitant to Date and Marry Non-Black Men?”

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@lorelei84 they probably are DOING THIS because they ARE UNEMPLOYED and probably tired of the videogames--while they see BW and WM getting married, and both working until she gets pregnant....so she could finally be A S/WAHM if she wants to be

1 week ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@ChocolateDiva IT LOOKS LIKE most of these biracial black celebs look like they have two black parents.........at least Muslim Bushido said 90% of them since the early 70s has a non black MOTHER...

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@Lady A ..wow, the men have no SKILLS, and the WOMEN have to go to college to clean up their messes?

that is really UPSIDE DOWN, since the male is supposed to be the more responsible one..

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@Sfbta GENDER is MORE important, since we are MALE AND FEMALE.. race is just a construct.....

AND a black man from HARLEM could have SWEDISH ancestry as well...rare, but does happen...LOL

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@Oaktown Paul  @curvydivajc WOW,, those 'LONG HAUL' TRUCKERS.... what a MESS....

Mygrandma caught my grandad with another woman , in the very act, took the kids and divorced.

Since she was a seamstress, she was able to take care of herself and kids, by making dresses for rich people and by the time the depression hit, was able to get to a place which had lots of produce.

in fact, my dad was a produce driver at 16 in 1936 when other men were starving, depending on where they were in the depression.

What she did do, was expose my dad and siblings to other married couples to see what normal married people looked like--dad was the youngest sibling...

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@_Toni_ "BW are socialized to not expect marriage and a present father for their kids"

well, they 'used' to be, at least until the late 1960's

of course, there were crazy men and women, but for the most part, black women were socialized just like other kinds of women were...

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@Statuesque @kennaGransberg ..BW  attempting to Clean up BM's messes....sigh

...as the world watches... that is my beef...

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@Sybellis @Statuesque I BELIEVE part of the   OVERDRESSING of the males, is part of it

i've seen BM dress waay too fancy for what their girlfriends were wearing, and some BW 'cheering it on'



1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@Statuesque @BWC i just talked to a lady around my age a WW, and she said, that this was happening for a while

When she was in her early 20s, she is in her mid 50s now, she worked in Social Services and there was this guy who was only a DISHWASHER but had at least 12 KIDS 

THE GUY COULDN'T EVEN SUPPORT HIMSELF but has 12 KIDS!?!

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@friendswmimi ahem.. DICK was a common way to spell RICHARD until the sexual revolution became popular.. remember DICK YORK, DICK TRACY etc..? but you are right about too many BW not training their daughters into finding 'real men' for husband material--i wasn't around those circles though as a rule

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@darkandlovely I remember my dad telling me, when he was in WW2 in the segregated army, that one saturday, he heard this black guy say and 'proud of it' "oooeee" i think i just made me a baby last night"...

he got so mad, and yelled at him "you mean you got some women pregnant and don't care?" and was furious

my dad would be around the same age as your uncle---

its just these silly BM have absolutely NOTHING!!

no career, way to make a living, just look like a dandy, gamble, and waste their lives==(the BW who are swooning around foolishness just have to 'cut it out'!)-it seems like we have been fighting this for a while...

my dad took care of his family, and had a career in trucking

1 week ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@The Working Home Keeper Besides, this really isn't a non BM page, it seems only 'anti BM' who are into S**p Slop and c/RAP

heck there are  even some BM who are angry about what has happened to black men in the last 35 years or so


I just believe many are ANGRY when they see anti 'hood women leaving the fold into GREENER PASTURES....

1 week ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@TiaYoung IDK... where were the 'real men' out there to tell them to STOP IT.. unless they are too bold

1 week, 2 days ago on He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street Harassment with Dual Perspectives

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@chocolateadmiral i believe it was HIP HOP that 'DESTROYED' Us as a people

IMO,

BTW, how old are you? i know it might be personal, but i remember the 1970s, and BM did not have this animosity towards women before c/RAP and crack...

1 week, 2 days ago on Open Forum: Community Brainstorm Session

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@MichelePaynter1 i've signed the petition as well

it looks like many BW are getting 'choice' non black men (guys who have something going for them--BTW, not white trash guys either)----for them to try to shut her down

she went into territory Evia couldn't even touch

1 week, 2 days ago on Open Forum: Community Brainstorm Session

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@ChocolateDiva femininity posts would be VERY WELCOMED in this day and age==it would eventually lead to marriages with 'real men'

just sayin', since we need more of those

1 week, 2 days ago on Open Forum: Community Brainstorm Session

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@The Working Home Keeper @Elegance I BELIEVE the black community existed BEFORE c/RAP and crack

it took what ever strength the BC had and eclipsed it--with so many black women holding it up--and no  decent black men to be found...

1 week, 2 days ago on Open Forum: Community Brainstorm Session

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@markhaaseth @zipporah @AnakaMuthaEarth LOL! they have been doing that for a while....yes its annoying--

1 week, 2 days ago on He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street Harassment with Dual Perspectives

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@beneal It would be best, if you wear a ring on your left hand... he probably thought you were 'lying' 

it seems like guys look at a girls left hand as well, because they don't know how strong her husband is, or if he is armed..

1 week, 2 days ago on He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street Harassment with Dual Perspectives

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@EarthJeff @lindsaynagle I also believe, its up to 'real men' to see what is happening and 'step in' and say 'knock it off' etc....

well, THEY USED TO... at least in places i was around...in the 70s and 80s

1 week, 2 days ago on He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street Harassment with Dual Perspectives

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@AnakaMuthaEarth "where are the FATHERS"

THAT IS A FACT!!--IF there were any 'real men' there, they would say "LET THE LADY ALONE!!" so she wouldn't be KILLED IN A BOWLING ALLEY!!

BTW, i saw the video in Antioch CA of lots of Black girls fighting each other=yes there were black guys out there, but they didn't even try to stop it!! they were SMILING as they had out their smartphones...to film and upload to WORLDSTAR... :(

1 week, 2 days ago on He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street Harassment with Dual Perspectives

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@AnakaMuthaEarth Lafayette?!..LOL what a name....since i know of two cities with that name

otherwise, i believe the street harassment may have gotten WORSE since the late 80s, and also notice that Latinos tend to do in MORE at least when i was single and younger...(you walk down the street and they start to 'hiss'--really annoying)

1 week, 2 days ago on He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street Harassment with Dual Perspectives

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@Lady A tommy has been shut down on you tube, and he just got more channels (he has a lot!..LOL).....he even made a video about himself being a BASTARD.. i couldn' t believe it! and about his mom and daughter being such! 

i told him that his daughter don't have to have children out of wedlock, etc...and could walk her down the aisle..

BTW, i couldn't believe tommy is in his late 30s when he seems older

1 week, 4 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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i saw this on FAUX NEWS about one month ago and that he was caught

many other groups and newsfeeds didn't show this==its on them

1 week, 4 days ago on Cop allegedly sexually assaults eight Black women – where are the women’s groups?

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..anyway, (off the subject)

i've seen a BW who is into SCUBA DIVING and went down 50 feet! of course, her husband is a WM who was into it and taught her how to do it=BM could be into it as well, but its still rare...

Yes, it does show the world we could SWIM TOO....lol

so much for some  racist whites who said our bones are too heavy to be good swimmers.....LOL

1 week, 4 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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@Daisy_inthe_Field @jazzyfae45 its also the non black women who are threatened as well

of course not all but hey, most women want guys who could at least make a good enough living, and not just in construction (if you know what i mean)

1 week, 4 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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@rexy012 i think what could be happening, is that many are getting 'threatened' by many BW leaving the 'fold' 

hey, many WW are having a hard time finding marriage minded men who could support a family

1 week, 4 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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@EmpressNK ..and boba tea...LOL

i like much of asian culture as well, especially the 'cute stuff' they have HELLO KITTY etc..

2 weeks ago on Friday’s G+ Chat: Real Talk About Dating Asian Men

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@malaena1 @Christelyn ratchet is simply the 'new slang' just like 'jumpstreet' was the slang of the 70s and 80s

besides a RATCHET is a TOOL a WRENCH to build things with

WRETCHED would actually be the word...

2 weeks, 1 day ago on A Picture Says 1000 Words…

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@darkandlovely @Lisa_Lisa @Christelyn WHAT?! why didn't the SEND ALL of the WOMEN HOME

unless the colorism is really that bad....

2 weeks, 1 day ago on A Picture Says 1000 Words…

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@caribbeanlady well, IMO, its usually REAL MEN who do this

yes, there are some BM who do this but they CANT Be within the 'black collective' (if you know what i mean) but in a pseudo colorblind society=i know of a few, also, there are WM who are lousy in protecting their families, etc.

2 weeks, 1 day ago on A Picture Says 1000 Words…

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@TI89 this site does NOT hate black men

but guys who are trifling,,, be they black, white, or anything else==(like, i wouldn't go to a 49ers game with crazy scraptino (latino) men. Just a few days ago, there was a line in the mens bathroom {rare} and this guy said the other stall was open--the scraptinos almost BEAT HIM TO DEATH--btw, one of them had a tattooed forehead)

also, you must NOT have seen the articles when they 'tarred' Robin Thicke

2 weeks, 1 day ago on A Picture Says 1000 Words…

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@MannersCount This is a reason i HATE MODERN COMMERCIALS that show the man looking BAD and/or stupid And the woman being the know-it-all

i wish they had more father-son outdoorsy commercials instead

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Do We Give Female Domestic Violence Abusers a Pass?

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@tonyrog yes, but he would BELT her one, call the cops, and the cops wouldn't take the man away (she just got out of hand officer)

i say this because my sister had a bad marriage to an abusive man==he wasn't abusive until two years into their marriage

she got pregnant two other times, and i would see the bruises on her pregnant belly--which was a reason i didn't want to get married until age 30...LOL

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Do We Give Female Domestic Violence Abusers a Pass?

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@dani-BBW @LovelyLulu WOW, just hearing about Lil Wayne and Chris Brown (since they were born in the late 70s early 80s) being abused by women could be a reason they have so much rotten lyrics, and are abusive to women in general-

and saying this, i wonder how widespread this is--of women abusing young boys who didn't hit puberty..

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Do We Give Female Domestic Violence Abusers a Pass?

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@tonyrog hmm,,,, the first part sounds like the guy on WHITE CHICKS.. Terry Crews played him..LOL==when he 'bought' one of the white girls which was one of the Wayans in disguise ( a pretty good one though)

3 weeks, 1 day ago on Wake Up, Black Women! IRR “Permission” Is Never Coming!

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@tonyrog ..as long as 'them' doesn't turn into a 'him'

its not color but character...LOL

3 weeks, 1 day ago on Wake Up, Black Women! IRR “Permission” Is Never Coming!

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@phillychick @zipporah @mzsunshine funny you should say that

IMO, this sounds weird, but if listen to the 'french accent' it sounds like they don't use their palate (typical of the people who don't have one, and needs to be fixed 'operation smile' ) like the letters g, j, and n--but everything that is connected with food and romance is in FRENCH...lol..restaurant, anniversary (in french it means birthday)

Latin as a spoken language, don't have this problem since they used the language in the Catholic church==AND has these letters pronounced..

3 weeks, 2 days ago on People Magazine Shows Racial Shade During Shonda Rhimes Big Network Television Night

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