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Wow. Thanks Amber-Lee. That is what CARE is all about. I still follow you and check you out. Continued success in Alaska. You are Awesome !
10 months, 4 weeks ago on One Word For 2014: Care
Hi Kaarina. Thank you. Still love your writing, wisdom and inspiration. You Rock, my friend. Skype soon ? Ha. Luv ya.
Love this Melissa (and Jen) It reminded me of a post (below) I wrote for switchandshift last year. Yours is better.
1 year, 3 months ago on 10 Traits Of L.E.A.D.E.R.S.H.I.P. From The Inside Out: How To Get Ahead In The Social Age @MelissaGalt #bealeader
Great job Ted. Can't wait to read the book Stan. I think you both know how much I agree with you !
CARE is what it's all about. Thanks for all you do to make a difference.
1 year, 8 months ago on Foreword for What's Your Green Goldfish by @TedCoine
Pain In The Ass. I am sure she meant PETA .
2 years, 2 months ago on Six Tips for Better Business Writing
Thank you. Animal rights is a great cause. Come join us. lmao.
Whut r u talkin bout ?
Thanks Daniel. One of the best I have read in awhile. This is one that should be read by everyone. All politicians and leaders, especially. Fantastic, my friend.
Also, thanks for the RT of my guest post at Ted and Shawns place. Much appreciated.
Take CARE brother.
2 years, 2 months ago on A Message To America’s Leaders: Respect The Competition
God bless you my friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Big Hug.
2 years, 4 months ago on Life…and Death…Rest in Peace My Son
Way to go Erica. So happy for you. You are selfless and have helped me and many others along the way.
Proud to call you a friend. Continued success. Take CARE.
2 years, 4 months ago on Hey Baby, What's Your Sign?
Love this Ralph. And I love golf too. Shoot about like Bill Dorfman. Ha. Would love to play with you guys sometime. Don't get to play as much as I used to. Like Bill, when I was in Florida (Ft. Lauderdale), I played all the time. I miss it down there. Some nice courses here around Atlanta too. Thanks for writing about golf Ralph. Take CARE brother. Maybe we will actually speak or skype one of these days.
2 years, 4 months ago on Keeping your COOL and the ART of the Mental Game
@Lori Probably wont make it back till November or December. My plan is to move back in the next year or two. Take CARE and enjoy your time away.
2 years, 4 months ago on Are You Drawn to the Water?
Hi Lori. Had to chime in on this one. I LOVE the ocean. Mainly the water and beach in Ft. Lauderdale, FL. I grew up there and hope to eventually move back. I was just at a lake in SC for a quick visit with relatives. Didn't have time to enjoy or take a boat out. A lake is nice and I enjoy it, but their is something special about the ocean, salt water, breeze and sun rises, on the southeast coast of Florida. Ahhhhhhh. Can't wait for my next visit. Luv ya.
Big Hug ! and a High 5 !!
Amen Erica. To all of it. Thank you !
2 years, 4 months ago on In Life and Business, Just Do the Right Thing
Love this Chris. It is all about the CARE. You said it. When you CARE for your people, they will CARE about you. When they feel "A Part of" instead of "Apart From" they will be happier and more productive. Yes, indeed.
Thanks again for this and for the connect on linked in, too.
2 years, 5 months ago on Leadership Means Babysitting
Great post Chris. I try and practice the CARE acronym in all my affairs. Communicate, Appreciate, Respect, Encourage. It works.
Thanks again for all you do. take CARE.
2 years, 6 months ago on 4 Ways To Inspire Your Team Members Today
Hi Chris. You are definitely hanging with some of my favorite people. love Liz Marshall, Carol Roth, Ted & Shawn and Angela Maiers. All wonderful people. its time for me to join the group. Ha. I have a story to tell. CARE and share with others. Make a difference. "Inspire & Influence Positive Change"
thanks again for what you are doing.
2 years, 6 months ago on Fix Your Reputation, in Two Minutes or Less
Congratulations Autumn & Erica. A great addition. Continued success to you both.
2 years, 7 months ago on Follow Friday: Autumn Thompson (Trust me, she rocks!)
Great list Daniel. Hope all is well with you. The only thing I thought of was, of course to genuinely CARE about people. Ha. and the other one, you kinda covered with #2 Empathetic. and #5 Interesting, made me think of this. "Be Interested" before being Interesting. Like you said, people LOVE to talk about themselves. I we learn to ask relevant and good questions, and LISTEN, the relationship is usually off to a good start. Make it about them.
Thanks brother. This is going on my favorite list as a reminder.
2 years, 7 months ago on 12 Ways To Sell More Y-O-U
Absolutely. Its all practice. My favorite is from Angela Maiers of "You Matter" fame. http://www.angelamaiers.com/ She and her message are awesome. I spoke with her on the phone a few weeks back. A giving, humble and Caring person. Thanks again.
2 years, 7 months ago on What Will Your TED Talk be About?
Of course, I would attend yours. And yes, a TED talk is on my to do list. This title might be a bit long, but here goes mine; "Positive change in your life is possible and a little CARE goes a long way"
Thanks Lori. High 5 and a Hug !
Excellent Robert. Simply put, just be a friend, be open and honest and Do the right thing. Hope all is well, brother. Take CARE.
2 years, 7 months ago on The Keys To Strong Partner Relationships
Fantastic Jeannie. "They always smile and get it right" Wow. Wouldn't that be a wonderful thing to say every time you left a place of business ? Love it. Thanks.
2 years, 7 months ago on Costco, Customer Experience Success & Little Things.
Absolutely Yes !
2 years, 7 months ago on Is it Better to Have Loved and Lost…
The forgiveness quote came from the incredible book; Forgiveness, the greatest healer of all by Gerald jampolsky. Still read thru it today. Regarding forgiving the guy who hit my brother, it was through prayer. the resentment prayer specifically in the aa book. awesome tools in there. thanks again. luv ya.
2 years, 7 months ago on How Do You Let Go?
This is wonderful advice. Much needed. I am saving as a favorite and will make sure to read over before my upcoming talks. yes, I have seen some speakers who so desperately needed this and others who do it so naturally. Looking forward to learning, growing and sharing the CARE message. thanks again for your willingness to share your knowledge and continued support and encouragement. Luv ya.
2 years, 7 months ago on The Elephant in the Room: Tackling Persistently Bad Public Speaking Skills
Thanks Lori. Powerful stuff. Being in "recovery" I have found what works for me is to "Let Go and Let God" turn it over, ask for help. Surrender the pain or problem. It works for me. I also use other quotes and sayings to live in today, move on and forgive others. "Yesterday is history, Tomorrow's a Mystery, Today is a Gift, that's why we call it the Present" and "Forgiveness is letting go of all hopes for a better past" Both of these have helped me a lot. especially that second one, when I am upset or angry at someone, for what they have done to me. And one last one from the book "A Course in Miracles" "I can choose peace rather than this"
It takes practice. A lot of practice.
I have dealt with some serious issues regarding forgiveness with someone severely injuring my brother in a drunk driving accident. It took a long time to forgive. I have no idea how I would deal with the murder of a family member. wow. I will pray for Jennifer and her family.
Thanks again Lori.
And a big Hi (Five) to you too. Miss you. things are crazy as usual. ha.
2 years, 8 months ago on Chinese Finger Traps and the Danger of Comparison
Love this Shonali. Agree completely. Get out of our comfort zone and the main thing is treat others HOW we want to be treated, without prejudice (of anything) The HOW thing is coming up all the time recently. Maybe it's just me, but if we are Honest with ourselves, have an Open mind and are Willing to see things from anothers perspective, our world can truly expand. It starts with ME.
Thanks for this awesome post. The Stones are always playing on my road trips. Love em.
Glad you were "Open" to the trip and "Willing" to go. Ha.
2 years, 8 months ago on Lessons in Humanity from Shidoobee
Thanks Erin. And I hear you. First thought; "To Thine own self be True" Be yourself, do what YOU love. The world needs YOU and your genius, not some copycat version. YOU are awesome. I try and just be happy for other peoples success and grateful they share their talents with us. (I said try) Ha.
We definitely need to remain teachable (I know I do) Learn to Listen and Listen to Learn helps me.
Gratitude, Optimism and a burning desire to really make a difference and help others.
Yeah, thats the ticket. Thanks again and take CARE.
Thanks Ken and Peter. One of the best i have read in awhile. Just put a video on my site about this subject. You need to CARE for your people first. When you CARE for them, they will CARE for you, be happier and more productive. No brainer.
2 years, 8 months ago on Care For Those You Lead
Awesome post Margie. Congrats on the two years of blogging. I plan on reading your stuff a lot more. This post reminds me of my recovery days. (alcohol & drugs) Hope is so crucial. Things WILL get better. Forgiveness of self was something I had to learn about and also practice. My fav quote; "Forgiveness is letting go of all hopes for a better past" This really helped me move on. Also, HOW this works. Be Honest with yourself, Be Open minded and be Willing to Change. This is so important, not just in recovery or losing weight, but in life. When things need to change, it usually means YOU need to change. Take a look at the person in the mirror.
2 years, 8 months ago on the fat picture
Thanks Jay. Havent read you in awhile. Sorry. This is great content with lots of value.
I have a long way to go. Appreciate all your knowledge. I will be back soon.
2 years, 8 months ago on Fight Premature Monetization – Add a Second Step to Your Content Marketing
Congrats Shonali. They are lucky to have you. Nothing but the best in your future.
2 years, 8 months ago on Change: It’s A-Comin’
This is so good. Thanks Allison. So many good points. Removing ego and becoming "A Part Of" instead of "Apart From" Actually Listening to the other person. Wow, there's a concept. Ha. Thinking about the meeting before the meeting. The one with yourself. Prepare. Use the HOW acronym. Be Honest with yourself (and client) have an Open-mind (their ideas might be better) and be Willing to change, adapt and maybe even take suggestions and learn something. When we collaborate and work together, you form a partnership (thanks Shonali) and when the ego is removed, you really do want success for all parties. Thanks Erica.
2 years, 8 months ago on Want Creativity and Success? Facilitate Collaboration!
Great post Shonali. We are where we are and what we are, because of our choices. wow. Thanks for that reminder. Ha. It is so true. I used to make all the wrong ones and still do occasionally, but i try and think things through and use my gut instinct. that is usually the right one. Love this. Thanks again.
2 years, 8 months ago on Choices
Thanks Lori. This is great. I try and always look at the bright side. Get up every day and first thing is to be thankful. Practice gratitude. Have an "Attitude of Gratitude" Smile. What a difference a simple Smile can make. For awhile now I have focused on staying "Faithful and Grateful". It works. All these positive affirmations take practice, it is a change in mindset. For 2012, my mantra is to "Inspire and Influence Positve Change". The change begins with me and so does the attitude. Today. I choose to be positive and share that message with others.
Thanks again for this wonderful post on a Monday morning. Reminds me of Kaarina's post; what a great Opportunity to be Optimistic. Take CARE.
2 years, 8 months ago on What’s Your Favorite Positive Affirmation?
Great list Bill. Glad u snuck in the back door. "Never stop growing and learning" always need to remember that. Remain teachable. Sounds like things are good. Thanks.
2 years, 9 months ago on Seven Simple Steps to Become a Trusted Advisor
Thanks Lori. I have hope, too. Faithful and Grateful. Always.
I really believe in the very near future, we will be teaching classes on how to "have a conversation" with people, not just communicate, but connect. Listen. Real basic and simple. We will see.
2 years, 9 months ago on What is Normal?
I sure hope so, Lori. We have to change the mindset. Practice new principles. CARE, if you will. Changing a habit is not easy. With the economy the way it is, gas prices, etc., people feel like they have to take care of themselves and "look out for #1". And they do. But, we also have to be willing to do what we can to make a difference.
Yeah, that listening post from Bob Burg was great. let's just try and do that. Become better listeners. It takes practice. I will continue to work on it. Thanks.
Wow Lori. Love this. One of your best. I couldn't agree more with you. First of all, as a society, we are over medicated and under educated. We need to look at the causes , not just the symtoms. Everyone wants a quick fix, so just give me a pill (or two) and send me on my way. It's total BS. A lot has changed over the years. It seems we as a people, used to care more about each other. Engage with each other. Help each other. We have become a self absorbed society. "Its all about me" . Don't get me wrong, their are a lot of people, doing great things and helping others. I am talking about people in general.
As great as technology is and the wonderful ability of social media, to let us "connect" with so many people, it has led to a "disconnect" with our fellow man. Our neighbors.
Social media has contributed to us being anti-social. Kind of ironic. Sounds like a blog post title.
Especially the new generation. They don't talk to each other anymore. Not in person and hardly on the phone either. You said it;
"Even when we’re away from our homes we’re shutting out the world with earphones, texting while we walk, ignoring the people who are right in front of us."
We all need to make a conscious effort to actually speak to people. Real people. Say hi. And most importantly, LISTEN to them. Care about them and value them enough to really Listen. Just Listen. We might actually save them a trip to the Doctors office and perhaps another prescription.
Thanks again Lori. This is a powerful message.
Al is actually not my real name (surprise) I am named after my father, Paul Alfred Smith. hence the Al. personally, i think it was easy to spell and my parents were helping me out. Al Smith, how easy is that ?
I did receive a nickname in the 8th grade. Still not sure how it came about. a friend started calling me "Snooze" It stuck. especially in college, when I napped just about every day. Only a couple friends in Atlanta call me that, but all my buddies back in Ft. Lauderdale still do. the end.
Luv ya Lori. High 5 and a Big hug !
2 years, 9 months ago on Do You Have a Nickname?
Great suggestions Lori. Disconnecting from technology and reading are my favorites. I have been watching too much tv late at night. Thanks for the reminder. Another good one is daily exercise. i need to start doing that again, too. Be grateful for the day and look forward to tomorrow. Take CARE.
2 years, 9 months ago on How to Get a Good Night’s Sleep
My Dad is # 1. A lot of people, different authors and leaders. Like Bill and Kaarina, I am inspired by the people who make a difference and help others, because they want to. If we could all do that, what a beautiful world this would be..
My mantra for 2012; "Inspire and Influence Positive Change" Time to start living it. Thanks Lori.
2 years, 9 months ago on Who Inspires You?
This is great. Thanks Lori and Melanie. Why not Smile ? It's easy. A smile makes YOU and everyone else feel better. A smile is extremely contagious. Our society, family and above all, the workplace environment, needs your smile. So let's all put a big ass SMILE on our faces on this beautiful Monday morning. Thanks again for this. I really appreciate the reminder.
Luv ya Lori. Miss you too. High 5 and Big Hug !
2 years, 9 months ago on Why Do You Smile?
Sorry honey. That sucks. yeah, you have to get used to the humidity. Hope you are feeling better. Miss you. Take CARE.
2 years, 9 months ago on Change Your Culture to Invite Social Media Use