I'm your worst nightmare! Well, actually, I'm not. I'm the guy whose picture my ex-girl friends' Moms would display well after the relationships ended.
Then there's passive aggressive procrastination. Putting something off because one feels undue pressure or is given an arbitrary and unnecessary deadline so he/she decides that the stress of putting off the task and scrambling to finish last minute is well worth the joy he/she will experience by knowing the issuer of the task is under even more stress while waiting for the task to be done. Hypothetical example.
3 weeks, 2 days ago on Procrastinators: Stereotypes and Science
Happy New Year! I'm ready! Wait, what am I doing again? I was so fired up by your post that I just ran out my office screaming "LET'S KICK SOME BUTT!" Two people called HR and another hid under her desk. I guess folks aren't used to my acting in such a manner.
Here's to hitting your personal and business goals in 2015!
1 month, 3 weeks ago on 2015 Business Goals
People date after meeting in the comments? Why didn't anyone tell me that? Hey there fellow Crazy. Come here often? Can I buy you a Spin Sucks book?
This is great. Who needs Match.com? (Please don't tell Mrs. V I said any of this)
Happy Birthday Spin Sucks! I'm proud to be a member of the Crazies.
5 months, 2 weeks ago on Happy Birthday, Spin Sucks!
Well done Laura. Choosing video examples that show Gini's video with the most views. You'll go far at AD.
5 months, 4 weeks ago on Kiss Your Video Marketing Fears Goodbye
Not only is Michael reigning champ, but he makes certain, in the most subtle of ways, to remind Gini of this fact. Check out my Zite feed from July 14, 2014, almost three years after Michael's record setting post. Well played, Michael. Well played!
6 months ago on Two Lessons from Most Commented on Blog Posts
This is all great information, but I wonder what the REAL owner, Arment, has to say on the subject.
7 months ago on Gender Roles: Is it Really a Man’s World?
7 months, 1 week ago on Extra Credit Reading
I love David Sedaris' work. I haven't read this piece. Thanks for sharing. Don't get the whole skip the wine pairings thing, but I'll try to wrap my head around it.
Yes, that's the book. I like his stuff overall. Love his story telling. Seeing him read out loud in a couple months. Wait, you need a stove top to cook mac and cheese?
7 months, 2 weeks ago on What Having it All Really Means
I was reading a book by David Sadaris yesterday and he talks about how when he visited Australia, he became friends with a successful business owner, who happened to be a woman. She told David, and I am paraphrasing, to think of life as four burner stove (it doesn't matter if it's gas or electric). One burner represents friends, one represents family, one health, and one is work. She went on to say that to be successful in life, one has to turn off a burner and to really be successful, most likely two burners.
I don't necessarily agree. I believe, as you you've stated, that success or having it all depends on the person. My success could be having something on each burner, while someone else's could be to turn off, say health and family, to focus more on career and friends. I would say having it all is obtaining the exact combination of burner on/off that you desire. You can have it all and have all four burners on, but I do wonder if you can say you have it all if all your burners are off. Interesting thought, though.
7 months, 3 weeks ago on What Having it All Really Means
@ginidietrich @Danny BrownI I'm with Gini. I was going to write a similar reply before reading hers.
9 months, 3 weeks ago on Sucks is a Bad Word
I'm with @Danny Brown. I was about to write a similar comment before reading his.
Glad to hear you're ok. Imagine that poor kid who has to grow up with Mr. Road Owner as a father.
9 months, 3 weeks ago on Share the Road: A Few Tips for Cars from Cyclists
My first daughter was born when I was 30. Now both of my daughters are out of the house. I feel like I'm 30 again, only this time I'm heading backward into my 20s with more wisdom and life experience. You kidding me? This is awesome!
OK, more wisdom and life experience, but less hair.
Thanks @ginidietrich for the post. Important questions. I will dig into them and share. Maybe we swap answers over a bottle of some sort of red beverage.
10 months, 1 week ago on 31 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Die
I'm with Mitch on the whole jeans/speaking thing, but you already know that and I know that you know that I would comment on that.
11 months ago on The Spin Sucks Inquisition: Mitch Joel
These folks may be on to something. In fact, I've decided to shut off comments and replies to my speaking. No need for me to hear what others have to say. What I have to say is important enough for everyone.
11 months, 1 week ago on Why We Won’t Shut Off Blog Comments
I've always felt like I was a good listener. I've been told I am. I scored well on the test you provided. I have room to improve, but it's easy to look good in this area as the bar is set pretty low by many. I once had a boss who almost always finished people's sentences for them. She was intelligent, but a little impatient. She didn't like to be corrected or contradicted in public so it became a game with those of us reporting to her to see how well we could react to where she took the conversation. Many times she'd finish our sentences and her endings would be way different than ours would have been, but instead of saying something like, "No, that's not where I was going" we'd shift the discussion to her direction. Not the best way to handle the situation, but it avoided the conflict and was kind of an inside joke among some of us. It even inspired me to write a tongue-in-cheek article on what I called Preemptive Listening (http://www.itjungle.com/tfh/tfh111405-story04.html).
Thanks for the post. Great topic.
11 months, 2 weeks ago on Listening in Life and in PR
Happy #FF @AmyMccTobin! I once lived near the beach, but I'm so hip* that I moved away from the beach to live downtown.
*sorry, I said hip, I meant stupid.
11 months, 4 weeks ago on #FollowFriday: Amy Tobin
You need to learn how to pick better friends..wait! Forget I said that.
Good advice that certainly applies beyond the vendor/client relationship. There are some good leadership nuggets in that list, too. In fact, 3 and 4 apply in just about any aspect of life and probably 5, too...except the killing part.
11 months, 4 weeks ago on Five Tips to Deal with Angry Clients
Reminds me of my elbow grease story. I'm about eight years of age, and I am washing dishes after a Sunday dinner. I was struggling with a particular pan. I yell out to my mother, who is in another room and can't see what I'm doing, "I can't clean this pan!". She replies, "quit whining and put some elbow grease into it."
I spent 15 minutes searching for elbow grease...
I look forward to the webinar.
1 year ago on Narrowcasting: How to Use Research and Engagement for Growth
@amandalgant @KateNolan @ginidietrich Whoa! This is getting way out of hand. Wasn't being nice? Taking sides? Who started this? Oh, right. Never mind. I'm on everyone's side.
...and I know how to fill a wine fridge.
1 year ago on #FollowFriday: Amanda Gant
@amandalgant @ginidietrich Excellent idea! Why didn't I think of that? Breakfast it is!
Well I hope you're happy @amandalgant. I was the big deal around here the last couple weeks. Now you come along and I'll be forgotten. A has been. A distant memory. No one remembers @ginidietrich's #FF from two weeks ago. Only this week. So, have fun. Take it all in, but just remember that it won't be long until you, too, will be thrown onto the #FF scrap heap only to be replaced by Gini's flavor of the week. Remember all those who you climbed over to get here. You'll have to see them on your way down, and it won't be pretty. No need to thank me. It's my duty as one who has gone through these ups and downs. You've been warned. But, hey, Congratulations!
@ginidietrich Yes, of course. How silly of me.
1 year ago on Become a Spin Sucks Brand Ambassador
I'm in. Congratulations on the book! I see wine in our future...on your LA book tour stop.
@ginidietrich Yes, I thought that was part of being a good leader. I forgot to mention that I decided not to take any chances. I fired everybody and started over.
1 year ago on Over-Communicate to Be a Better Leader
In the words of Tommy Boy: That. Was. Awesome!
1 year ago on Follow Monday: Say Happy Birthday to Gini Dietrich!
We administer an employee survey every couple years. When analyzing the results from the first one we ever did, we noticed that a lack of communication from management was at the top of the list. We thought we were doing a great job communicating to our folks, but when we dug deeper we found many areas where we could improve. We score much better in that area these days. We now communicate more than we ever thought we would, and we still get hit with this suggestion for improvement every so often. We can't rest on our laurels.
I have an personal example similar to your closed door story. I used to walk around the office on Friday afternoons casually talking to the software developers and managers who work for me. These conversations were rarely work related and usually took no longer than a minute or two. It was kind of my "Gin and Topics". A way to wind down the work week, and wish the folks a good weekend. This went on for months until one day one of my managers mentioned in a one-on-one meeting that some of the folks figured I was using this time to check up on them. to make sure people were still at their desks on Friday afternoons and had not left early. I was stunned. This couldn't have been further from my intention. My actions had been completely misinterpreted by them and I hadn't taken into consideration what my walking around at 4:30 on a Friday afternoon might look like to them. I was in denial at first. "Come on! They know me better than that! I don't manage that way. It's me. I used to be one of them. I thought they'd appreciate..."
I thought about it for a while and decided to bring it up at the next group meeting. I had to communicate my intentions and explain my general philosphy as the director of the department. That was a few years ago and although I don't do the walk-bys every week, I still manage to get them in once in a while and so far, I've not heard or seen on a survey that it bothers anyone.
@EdenSpodek or maybe that ship sailed.
1 year ago on #FollowFriday: Kevin Vandever
@feeesh You know my rule: The one who scores me the best birthday and Christmas gifts is my favorite daughter.
@EdenSpodek Thank you Eden! This is a fun group. @ginidietrich finally realized I wouldn't embarrass her (too much) so she let me come out to play. Oh, and I wish I were as talented as my daughters, but that shipped sailed when they were about eight years of age. Now I'm just trying to hang on to their coattails.
@JRHalloran @belllindsay Me too. Let's go grab a glass. I really like the wines from Washington and Oregon, especially the Pinot Noir from Oregon. I'm also with you on Australian and Italian. Mrs. V is in the wine biz so I get to taste from many regions.
@belllindsay I lose me at the IT-geek part.
@jasonkonopinski Thank you Jason!
@ClayMorgan @KevinVandever Ha. It matters. Thank god for editors.
@LauraPetrolino Thank you Laura. I may have to take you up on that. Although we are new school and now use a machine for grape crushing, I am happy to save some grapes for you to stomp. We'll bottle and label in separately and call it our Private Reserve.
@Howie Goldfarb I remember those days like it was yesterday, but it's no longer Ken. Once I moved to LA, I changed it to Kennn.
@biggreenpen @Digital_DRK That's what I do.
@Digital_DRK Yeah, I've heard from role playing game folks as well as from the rocket-propelled grenade folks. They both lost interest in me quickly upon further research of my book.
I had to look up "plonk" (should I admit that as a winemaker? ) Excellent word. I may have to use it on my next label, although I do want people to drink my wine.
@annelizhannan Hi Anne. My business partner tell me I need to stop painting the town with wine. Something about hurting profits. Whatever!
@@jason_ Thanks Jason. I love that city, too. You should go back again. Be interesting to see what you think now. I was there a few months after Katrina and it was eerie and surreal.
@JoeCardillo I was a natural for that role.
@ClayMorgan Thank you Clay! I am happy to be hear?
@bowden2bowden Well, I was in a hurry that day so I stuffed a few large marshmallows in my armpits to have later as snacks. I didn't know it was going to be in the 90s that day...and me in a sport coat.
@Joshua Wilner/A Writer Writes @creativeoncall @Howie Goldfarb I'm just glad there was no social media around when I was hanging with Carmen.
@creativeoncall "I have something hanging from my nose?"
@Howie Goldfarb @JRHalloran @ginidietrich My next release is will come in a box with a straw attached. It's the Gini Dietrich blend. "You, too, will think you can achieve Global Domination after you drink this wine"
@JRHalloran I make Cabernet blends. Bordeaux style so they are blended with none, one, or more of the following: Malbec, Cabernet Franc, Petite Verdot, and Merlot. I would like to make Rhone styles, too, because I really like them. Also South American and Spanish. Oh, and Italian. OK, forget it. Let's try the other way. I don't like the wines from Michigan or Virginia.
@KateNolan Thank you Kate! I brought this up to @ginidietrich a while back, but she wanted us to wear those funny hats, with the wine bottle on top and straws leading to our mouths. I told her that I wouldn't stand for it. That my wine held much more class than to be treated in such a sophomoric manner...we put the order in last week.