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7 hours, 41 minutes ago on Ladies, Be VERY Careful Dating Ethnic Men. Parents and Family Often Come First

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I know this is off topic but is that Cha Seung Won in your profile pic. Goodness that man is foine! Them ajusshi's though. :-) Mmm. Lord have mercy. Lol.

3 weeks, 4 days ago on Utter Hypocrisy: Let’s Talk About All the Dudes Hating On Eve’s Marriage

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Yeah. I found that blog entry of hers a day or two ago. I was really sad about it but at least she's in a good place about the situation.

2 months, 3 weeks ago on BB&W Special Guest Dishes on Her Experience at a Black Woman/Asian Man Dating Event

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Wow really. That stinks. :-( I hadn't been on her blog in a while so I had no idea. When did it happen? (If you know)

2 months, 3 weeks ago on BB&W Special Guest Dishes on Her Experience at a Black Woman/Asian Man Dating Event

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I love Jo Gan! Her blog is awesome. Her hubby is handsome. :-)

2 months, 3 weeks ago on BB&W Special Guest Dishes on Her Experience at a Black Woman/Asian Man Dating Event

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I saw this a couple of years ago. It was totally messed up. Lol.

2 months, 3 weeks ago on BB&W Special Guest Dishes on Her Experience at a Black Woman/Asian Man Dating Event

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I saw that episode. It was very upsetting but not surprising. SMH.

2 months, 3 weeks ago on Femininity Series Part II: Why Black Women Aren’t Happier When They’re Pregnant

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I love this song since I heard it a couple of years ago!!!

3 months, 1 week ago on The Great Debate: Should WM and BW Get Together Because Their Same Race Counterparts Are High Maintenance? Some Say Yes

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That's what I suspected. Second generation and beyond tend to be more open-minded than the newbies. I would like to start shopping at asian markets too. You can only find so much on the "international aisle" at Kroger. Lol. I wish we had a H Mart. :-( I'd be all up in there! We have a few Asian local markets though mostly NOT on my side of town though, booooo. I'm not surprised about the underlying prejudiced feelings of your white friends or many southern white people in general. I know that they are not all card carrying members of the kkk but........ You understand if you're not apart of their klan.

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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Do the Asians in Atlanta seem to be more recent immigrants therefore less inclined to interact with non Asians? I know the one's straight from the motherland will probably be more standoffish and sometimes prejudiced towards other people of color especially black people. Also older Asians can be notorious with their racial prejudice and this may affect their children's choice in mate. Maybe the Asians back home in DC are more acculturated into the mainstream culture. I do know that the DC AMBW meetup group was/is pretty popular so maybe they are just more open-minded there. Plus you live in the dirty south and maybe they get discriminated against alot by white people and other groups and it makes them standoffish. I'm just speculating but these things may have something to do with it.

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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I visit a number of AMBW groups from time to time and they have meetups all the time. Especially in Cali where you live, New York, DC there even used to be one in my state. Maybe you should try to get in contact with some of the sisters and Asian men who set these meetups. They may be able to give you the lowdown on how to set up these events. If meetups for AMBW groups can be set up and successful then certainly WM/BW can be set up since it's much more common.

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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The guys were completely disgusting. SMH. Black women run for the hills.

3 months, 1 week ago on Buzzfeed Does Creative Video On Who’s Most Interested in Interracial Dating. What’s Your Take?

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I'm not surprised by this but it is no less annoying. The narcissism is quite "clear". (Pun intended.)

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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I'm not surprised by this but ut is no less annoying. The narcissism is quite "clear". (Pun intended.)

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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Minus the jealousy his adoration of her is endearing.

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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Jimmy Uso is pretty hot. A little too jealous for my taste but he definitely loves him some Trinity. Polynesian men can be super foine! You're right that Trinity would probably be passed on or at least not been wifed up by a black man. She is "regular black" and therefore not exotic enough for most black men to consider wifey material. I'm always happy to see black women get married to men who really love them. :-)

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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That annoyed me too. I was like "why they just gotta be white? " People often seem to think interracial relationships have to always include a white person.

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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I watch it sometimes (I've seen season 1.) and was surprised that both black women on the show were in IR relationships. :-)

3 months, 1 week ago on And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…

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On your list blackwomenasianmen Tumblr is my favorite blog besides this one. I love that place! :-)

4 months, 1 week ago on Why are Black Women Mocked If Their Non-Black Mates Don’t Look Like Adonis?

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Lol. I guess because the Black community puts so much emphasis on the bottom it made me self conscious about my shape. But now I'm learning to embrace my shape and work with what I have and wear what looks good on me. :-)

4 months, 1 week ago on Iffy Belly? No Waist to Speak Of? Consider the Monokini

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@MySmile

 I feel the same as you and Christelyn. I also have the apple shaoe. No Butt At All. SMH. I used to tell myself I had an hourglass figure but I don't. I have broad shoulders too. A bountiful bosom I have so at least my shape is not totally manly looking. lol.  But I would be lying if I said that I was never insecure about my lack of curves. I guess we can't all be like Beyonce. ( shrugs shoulders.)

4 months, 1 week ago on Iffy Belly? No Waist to Speak Of? Consider the Monokini

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I love them! My Oppas! Lol. :-)

4 months, 3 weeks ago on Latest from Robin Thicke: “I’m Just Trying to Get Her Back”

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Tell me about it. Finding a job in my major will be limited. But I'm coming up with a back up plan for other things that I'd like to do with my life.

5 months, 1 week ago on Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working” Black Woman?

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ITA with everything you said.

5 months, 1 week ago on Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working” Black Woman?

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Wow. Just wow. That was so shady. I'm sorry that that happened to you. SMH.

5 months, 1 week ago on Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working” Black Woman?

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I've seen both these stories on tv before. Absolutely shameless.

5 months, 2 weeks ago on Video: “Black Women Get a Special Kind of Shade,” Says Me, Talking to Tom Joyner TV

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@ladyofmagic1974  

Wow. I am speechless. Even the "Motherland" is has drank the inferiority Kool-Aid.  SMH.

5 months, 3 weeks ago on “Clutch/The Frisky” Nails It With Their Critique of ‘Whitenicious’

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I love this commercial. It makes me smile really wide whenever I see it. :-)

5 months, 3 weeks ago on Swiffer Commercial Is Just the Beginning. Ad Guys Know EXACTLY What’s Up

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I've seen this before so awkward! LOL! What is she like 90. I bet she'll never forget that convo. haha

5 months, 3 weeks ago on Hilarious Bedsider PSA’s Addresses the Birth Control Without the Outrage

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@Savannah1812 @DeepWater 

Brandy and her fiance have put their engagement o n hold due to prenup issues from what I read,

6 months, 1 week ago on Ciara Gets the Ring: Joins #TeamBabyMomma of B-List Urban Producer With Child Support Issues

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This is so sad. God Bless her family and Jeff and I pray that they get through this. 

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Death in the Family: ‘EarthJeff’ Loses His ‘Bee’

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She looks beautiful!

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Kerry Washington Shows Baby Bump At Golden Globes

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@Aabaakawad @BelleNoireJanetWilliford @Brownie123 

Thank You! Brownie123 was getting unnecessarily beat-up on . Unlike her I've loved Tia and Tamera since Sister Sister. I too don't think of biracials as black. They are mixed and there is nothing wrong with identifying them as such. Of course they are entitled to label themselves as they please but to me they are not just black but mixed. Either way how they choose to identify is not my business. I understand where you are coming from Brownie.

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Tamera Mowry Gets Called “White Man’s Whore.” Yes; That’s What’s Happening.

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Gosh I love you for this response video Christelyn. You went in LOL!!!!

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Tamera Mowry Gets Called “White Man’s Whore.” Yes; That’s What’s Happening.

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I watched that special on OWN and wanted to cry. I saw Tamera get emotional before on their reality show about this issue and it mad me angry. Some individuals are truly evil. SMH.

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Tamera Mowry Gets Called “White Man’s Whore.” Yes; That’s What’s Happening.

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I love this!!! Sooo cute!!!

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Nicky and David – From School Crush to Marriage

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@Jamila 

This so relates to my life. I too have let personal insecurities get in the way of friendships unfortunately but I am actively working to change that. 

6 months, 3 weeks ago on One Writer’s Response to Tracy Renee Jones.

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@BlackJade 

Alicia James is an amazing singer. I found her on YouTube some time ago. She also has fab hair to boot. :-)

6 months, 3 weeks ago on What is Wrong with the Black Man? (Written by a Black Man)

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@Bren82 

They are one of my all time favorites!!!

7 months ago on Watch Real Black Women with their Non-Black Boyfriends

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I absolutely love Whitney and Fililpe! I started watching her a couple of years ago when I just knew her as a natural hair guru then I found out she had a vlog channel and now a style channel. I can't get enough of  them. They are so goofy and their daughter Olivia is the sweetest little chocolate puff ever! Most people probably know her as Naptural85. She and her family are the bomb.com!

7 months ago on Watch Real Black Women with their Non-Black Boyfriends

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@MySmile @Savannah1811 

I saw this too a while back and thought it was sooo cute! :-)

7 months, 2 weeks ago on What the Cuss?! More Media-Driven Anti-Black Woman, Anti-Swirl Propaganda by Way of Arsenio Hall.

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@PamelaFoster 


Wow. Off Topic: but I wonder why do I keep hearing that she is engaged or secretly married? 

7 months, 2 weeks ago on What the Cuss?! More Media-Driven Anti-Black Woman, Anti-Swirl Propaganda by Way of Arsenio Hall.

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