greengirl7
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Thank you so much for posting this. I want to move to Germany and she has videos about Germany in her playlist. :D
http://www.youtube.com/user/AbbytheEmigrant/videos?view=0
@Bren82 "Ben Barnes makes my heart MELT!"
Yes, that long hair and those deep eyes are heart stopping.
@MySmile "I know how they come to that conclusion...mostly your demeanor and the vibes you give off."
That is so creepy! It happened to me once and I was struck dumb.
o_0
Wow, it looks beautiful Christelyn, very classic.
@Toni_M @KolaBoof1 ""Facebook has refused to take the offending pages down""
That's disgusting, FB won't take down "rape-joke pages", ugh. But they banned Kola for a month because she offended some DBR BM who can't mind their own business?
Oh, I forgot BM are an endangered species, so it's perfectly acceptable for them to be angry about BW talking about other BW on a Black Woman's website!
<Fuming>
BM are the definition of the word "entitled". They think they have the right to come into our spaces and rant, even when it is a BW/non-BM article or blog BM still think they are invited and have the right to lecture us..... I'd like a restraining order.
"Miri" sounds like a BM to me: "many black females", "about black females", "benefit black females", sounds like DBR-speak.
And this comment: "feel that their self esteem is boosted": we can't have that now can we?
It's mostly DBR BM that have an _I-must-prove-this-wrong!!!_ reaction to things that uplift BW. They are so eager to shout down anything positive about BW, and need to prove that anything that isn't degrading or insulting BW is untrue. If this article was something slandering BW, "Miri" would not be hunting and pecking to disprove it .
Kola, refuted all of your proofs BlackManri, go back to your cave and brood over our awful "self esteem boost". ;D
@mzsunshine " one of the people on the page suggested putting a 'bullet in her brain'. This person was of all people, a black male."
Of course. A lot of angry BM have chosen to take their anger out on BW, because the "Black Community" has given them permission to.
@Seenyc "There ar probably so many more we haven't heard of yet."
But why would anyone want to hear about BW leading happy, privileged lives, when instead we can hear about how unattractive/undesirable/un-marriageable/unfeminine/unsophisticated/etc. we are? BW might start getting "ideas".
@Kels "Norwegian shipping tycoon. He died in a mountain climbing accident some time ago."
That's sad, poor Diana.
@Brenda55 @Butterfly1 "[Gremlin-speak]"
Oh god, even when they are saying something "positive" it sounds repulsive. I wish they would stop talking about BW, period.
@mzsunshine "Besides having a 70% chance of losing their fortune in 5 years"
That's hilarious.
"Comparing men with money and no values to men with money AND values is not a fair comparison."
Well said.
I've always thought it was strange that some BW think that you can compare successful-responsible men to man-children, just because the man-child in question happens to be black.
Black people have taught BW to grade BM on a curve, and that bias is hurting BW and children. Comparing men objectively is not "racism" just because most BM would end up with an F-.
Ok, now I'm in love.
I just read some of Stefan Ludik's comments on youtube, and I fully take back the very unkind things I said about his song, and beg forgiveness.
Stefan Ludik (LudikTV)
"I actually wrote this song out of a personal experience/relationship. The dad didn't like me dating his daughter. So the video just tells my story."
"...Unfortunately there are still some people who are ignorant to believe you are better or worse than someone, because of the colour of your skin.. That is one of the reasons I wrote this song and deliberately accentuated the "black and white" to "get in the faces" of the haters who have a problem with it! It's all one love :)"
"Not actually. If you know me and know where I come from you would see it differently.. For me there is no "skin colour", we are all one people. I was lucky to grow up in a culturally diverse country, Namibia where we are different, but one nation. I went to school and grew up with a lot of friends from different cultures and backgrounds so for me that is normal..."
http://www.youtube.com/all_comments?v=7O0mX0LT93c
AceChica. "Disgusting. Black men can do whatever they want to black women and women in general because they make themselves out to be victims to feel sorry for."
^^This^^
Most of the "men" these non-vetting-women are dating are self-pitying children who think that they have the right to harm anyone they want, especially BW, because THEY are victims. BM are committing most of the murders in the country, but still consider themselves to be victims.
BW need to remove the rose-colored glasses they put on for BM, and start looking at them objectively, because 1 in 3 BM have been to prison, yes **ONE IN THREE**.
BM are catching the disease in prison, and then infecting female partners once they are out of prison.
"In 2009, black men who have sex with men (MSM) represented an estimated 73% of new infections among all black men, and 37% among all MSM. More new HIV infections occurred among young black MSM (aged 13–29) than any other age and racial group of MSM."
"In 2009, black men accounted for 70% of the estimated new HIV infections among all blacks."
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/aa/index.htm
Many BM are having unprotected sex with other men and keeping it a secret because they don't want to be called "gay" or "bisexual", and these men have the highest STD infection rate.
"Unprotected receptive anal sex is the sexual behavior that carries the highest risk for HIV acquisition. For sexually active MSM (men who have sex with men), the most effective ways to prevent HIV and many other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are to avoid anal sex, or for MSM who do have anal sex, to always use condoms."
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/msm/
@Hallyu Love "However I do like the song"
You're right, it is a good song overall.
"and his boldness to make such a song."
He's bold and he can work a guitar.
@JQAbroad " Stefan got a lot of heat for the video. Looks like there's issues about IRR in Nambia as well. The leading lady in his video is also a widely known model in Nambia and peps were pretty upset about that"
How awful, Nambian women can't date who they want either!
"Anyway I commend any man who will proudly proclaim his love for BW especially through media. It shouldn't be committed as crime or that something is "wrong with him". Just another way to guilt WM out of being interested in us."
Yes, and I hope there are plenty more sexy WM/BW music videos and movies coming.
There is another BW/WM music video? Thanks for telling us.
The video is really good, even better than Elle Varner's video, but the chorus line is a little cheesy: "Black girl, white boy, can I get some?"
Here's the live performance.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SdHz4rwENHM
@CutieBlkBarbie "The fact that she made a sex tape with her boyfriend at that time. No. Probably half of y'all have more sex partners than Kim had ."
Speak for yourself, CutieBlkBarbie. Your Kim-Kardashian-sex-partner comparison chart is yours and yours *alone*.
You have no right to insult the women on this forum by comparing them to a Kardashian.
Good points, Christelyn. Many BMale activists and Black Nationalists married WW, and black people supported them.
http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/2010/01/whose-zooming-who.html
The idea that you can't speak on Black issues if you are married to a non-black person only applies to BW.
Lady A
"They bring up slavery and all kinds of things to guilt shame black women into even thinking about considering love outside of her race/community."
Yes, slavery is the number one weapon black people use against BW who date/marry WM. It needs to be made public knowledge that most caucasian Americans are not descended from slave owners.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slavery_in_the_United_States#Distribution_of_slaveholders
If we took the slavery argument away from our detractors they would lose their sense of entitlement to condemn BW/WM relationships.
@melissamak007 It's refreshing. To say the least."
It must really make being in a foreign country easier, when you find men who are so warm and welcoming.
"But, I will say that there were patterns."
That is interesting. Expat women talk about there being a big difference in the way Northern and Southern European men court and date.