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@PJDeanwriter  "Cuz if they are paying for college or anything tied to a life goal of his, you might find yourself being dropped (or becoming a secret) if  he needs their financial help and knows they'd withdraw it if you popped up. "


This is why I mainly go for guys 5-10years older, many young men are still quite attached to their parents financially and their friends opinions socially.  I am 24 and I find men that are 29-34 are completely independent and less influenced by their friends.  I think respect for your parents is important, but letting them completely run your life as an adult is too extreme.

1 day, 17 hours ago on Ever Wonder What Millennials Think About Interracial Dating?

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@darkandlovely @PaoloP  The majority of white men I know that buy into the "mystical black dick" myth are losers who think similarly to the ass clowns in the video.

1 day, 19 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@trinigirl1 @JanGibson  The field of thirst and desperation, what a magical place :)

1 day, 19 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@scilibragirl85  In reference to the list of parody chapters above, I couldn't help myself!

2 days, 13 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@Curlygirl83  Past high school it's immature, past 25 it's pathetic.  It's very middle school and something kids do to look cool, not grown ass men.  I have a feeling they think that they have "game" or "swag" and women who won't put up with it are bitter.  Watch them try to spin this as a joke after being put on blast.

2 days, 13 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@JanGibson  Frank is going to be competing with other men around his age who are better looking, have better manners, and who are more mature.  In other words yes he will be single for a long ass time.  That or he will be attracting the desperate types and stay complaining.

2 days, 13 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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After thinking this over a little, I came to the conclusion that you cannot depend on men who most likely grew up around dysfunction, and have never been in a mature long term relationship let alone married, to know squat about maintaining a marriage.  These clowns have no authority to speak on relationships, yet the painfully large number of thirsty desperate black women is deluding them into thinking they do.

2 days, 13 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@Gijou @JoyKaine  Anytime I see nonsense like this from any male then it enforces my no BS vetting policy. One of the most pathetic things as far as relationships go, is seeing a man over 30 still trying to test women and play games.  By then you should be mature enough to be upfront about what you want.

2 days, 15 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@PaoloP @thecrazyartist @dani-BBW  Yeah you're right.  ALL women MUST be evil picky hoes who can't see an intelligent, handsome black Adonis with a dazzling personality and great sense of humor when he is right in front of them. 


My bad for suggesting otherwise....


2 days, 16 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@dani-BBW  Dang, first the white women, now the Asian women.  Maybe these males fail to realize the problem is not the women but them.....

2 days, 20 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@SacLove76 @thecrazyartist  When black men say they are looking for a decent black woman it usually means "I am looking for a light skinned preferably multiracial black woman that is 5-15 years younger, with hair that is at least to her bra strap, and a perfect curvy/slim body.  Light eyes are a bonus". 


You should see how hurt these men get when they find out light skinned and mixed women are also dating out.  How could the so called "prize" not want them?

2 days, 22 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@formeonly @Brenda55  24 bucks is the new Organix  extra strength Moroccanoil line or my monthly starbucks tab.  I will pass on this BS.

2 days, 22 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@trinigirl1 @cns NONE of these men were handsome enough to be that self centered.  Really, I am tired of below average and average looking men walking around thinking they are Tyson Beckford or Shemar Moore.  Stop just stop, they have no problem telling women they are unattractive, we should have no problem telling them they are unattractive.

2 days, 22 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@_Toni_  All this fuckery and it's just the beginning of the week...

3 days, 7 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@kennaGransberg  Why are so many "marriage minded" and "family oriented" men still single?  I refuse to believe the problem is only women and not them.  People are truly sick of the IBM crap.

3 days, 7 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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All that and no promise of a ring?  Damn, whateva honey.


This is just another batch of man-children who want a woman who looks like Halle Berry, the girl next door personality of Betty Cooper, cooks likes Martha Stewart, has the bank account of Melody Hobson, and caters to them like the wait staff of a 6 star hotel. All with nothing in return.


On a side note has it ever occurred to these "marriage-minded, family-oriented" men that they value light skin, long hair and a banging butt/body over character?  Just food for thought.

3 days, 8 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@Sfbta What I don't get about the ladder is the current rhetoric that is spewed in the black community doesn't make any sense.  On one hand black men are victimized by the white man, hunted for sport by cops, and imprisoned and kept down by the establishment; this is why it is the black woman's duty to march for them, uplift and support them, and defend their honor. On the other hand black women are foul, overweight cretins, who deserve all the abuse and vitriol spewed by black men because they are disgusting and no one wants them and they are only good as baby mamas and pump-and-dump cum dumpsters.  Can someone please explain this to me? Because it makes no damn sense.  How can black women be bottom of the barrel nasty, yet you are dependent on them(and their financial resources) as BM main support system?

3 days, 8 hours ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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@JoleneQuinnEhrhardt  Just because you write a book doesn't mean you can make up any and all sorts of stories involving real people. You cannot "allege all you want" if you are naming names and cannot back it up.   If Chris Kyle had never falsely identified Ventura as "Scruff Face" in an interview then none of this would have happened.  The bigger question is why did he single out Ventura?  Ventura was right in his lawsuit,  Chris Kyle basically accused him of something that amounts to treason.  Jesse Ventura admits that the book is both fiction and non-fiction but Chris Kyle did not.  He refused to retract the story, Harper Collins(the same publisher that is now under fire for Lena Dunham's apparently false rape story) admitted that this fictitious story by Kyle increased sales.  Jesse Ventura's livelihood suffered as a result of this fake story.  You are quick to point out that Jesse made more in his payout than Kyle donated, but fail to acknowledge Kyle also lied about donating all the proceeds. Kyle didn't have to donate anything it's his money I personally don't care if he donated or not it's his business, but the fact he lied about it says something and only adds weight to Ventura's claims he defamed him. Ventura's payout is his money, he can do whatever he wants with it, if he wants to set it on fire and dance around it butt naked so be it.  Ventura only took Kyle to court after he refused to retract his statements, this was not about money.  The sheer amount of emotion driven response to this case is incredible.  In all the articles I have read people immediately go in based on how they feel and fail to acknowledge any facts.  Taya Kyle was and is not a destitute widow  Chris Kyle was human and not God.  He made mistakes, he lied and got himself and his estate(read:estate not widow)sued.  Crap happens.  Do I think this slip up diminishes Chris Kyle's legacy and service to our country? Of course not, you cannot take his achievements as a SEAL away from him.  Do I think the anger directed towards Ventura is warranted? No, and the recourse for Ventura being written into the movie as Kyle claimed would have resulted in an even bigger lawsuit.  Kyle's book was about him until he dragged Ventura into it.

3 days, 8 hours ago on Jesse Ventura Clears Up About AMERICAN SNIPER & Chris Kyle

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@zipporah @thecrazyartist @kennaGransberg  The thing is there are plenty of web developer, IT, and even sales jobs that pay well at entry level(35k with a 90% guarantee that salary will grow beats anything McDonalds can offer you) and don't require a 4 year degree, so there really is no excuse for all this foolishness.

3 days, 21 hours ago on ‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Letter to Zane Shows Clear Timeline of What-the-Cussery

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Wow great article!  It all comes down to their own feelings of inadequacy and their thirst for male attention.  These thirsty women see black men hanging around IRR pages and see it as their opportunity to show the men hanging around how down they are for them.  These women are not used to getting solid validation so ANY attention from black men is welcome, if it means insulting and tearing down other black women so be it.

3 days, 21 hours ago on Anti-Swirling Black Women And You: Why Their Loudness Means Nothing To YOUR Happiness

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@Veronique Valesquez @thecrazyartist @zipporah @kennaGransberg 


Some of the most common excuses are:


"She was asking for it"

"The man is just trying to turn black women against black men"

"Black women are supposed to support the brothas"

"Don't report them, too many black men are already in jail"

"The white man destroyed our community with slavery"

"Black men are all black women have, so black women need to put up with them"


The list goes on, but that is the general gist of it.  We should make a game of sorts out of it.  Like who can scour the internet for the most asinine excuses, or a bingo card.

5 days, 20 hours ago on ‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Letter to Zane Shows Clear Timeline of What-the-Cussery

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@jazzyfae45  Preach, I turned 24 this past Monday and I can't even imagine having 6 kids.  Most people around 23 are just starting out and not really stable enough to raise even one child, let alone 6.

6 days, 13 hours ago on ‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Letter to Zane Shows Clear Timeline of What-the-Cussery

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@BWC  We could even hire a plant, like an actress that looks 12-14 but is actually 18 and do an expose of sorts.

6 days, 14 hours ago on ‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Letter to Zane Shows Clear Timeline of What-the-Cussery

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@zipporah @kennaGransberg  A lot of black men see nothing wrong with destroying their communities women and children.  Why not? It's well-tolerated by the black community and many will come up with all kinds of excuses as to why they think it's acceptable.  They are not interested in helping black women maintain any wealth they have built they are only interested in exploiting their resources.

6 days, 14 hours ago on ‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Letter to Zane Shows Clear Timeline of What-the-Cussery

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@trinigirl1 @Ri74  I agree this man should be in prison.  I know a lot of teens like older men, but at 14 older to me was 18.  It's not normal for a 30 year old to be dating children.  How the hell did this fly under the radar at the welfare department.

6 days, 14 hours ago on ‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Letter to Zane Shows Clear Timeline of What-the-Cussery

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All I feel is sad after reading this,  this woman is only 23(which is still very young in the big picture) and already has 6 kids, is unmarried, and is living in squalor.  She never stood a chance because look at the trajectory her mother followed.  She clearly doesn't have any positive role models or influences in her life and has been used and abused my men since she was a 14 year old child.  So much is wrong here and it all stems from the vicious poverty vortex blackistan is so eager to justify.  Why in the hell was a 30 year old man sleeping with a 14 year old?  This makes no damn sense and the very fact this man isn't being held accountable says it all.  At least she is trying to get her life together and actually sees a problem, but whew what a mess.

6 days, 15 hours ago on ‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bubble! Letter to Zane Shows Clear Timeline of What-the-Cussery

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@jazzyfae45  He doesn't even have the balls to stand by what he said, it was disgusting but if he truly believes all the BS he spewed he should at least have the guts to defend it.  It just shows what a wimp he is and how desperate he is for approval.  He is one on those black men that thinks he can trash black women in front of other groups and get away with it.  Major fail on his part.

1 week, 4 days ago on Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Sound Off on Jesse Peterson Bigotry

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@321ZYX  I say both DBR and mentally ill, the two are not mutually exclusive.

1 week, 5 days ago on Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Sound Off on Jesse Peterson Bigotry

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"Reverend" Peterson is the type of man that values black women after a white man has spoken for them, because we all know that if a white man values a woman then she must be important(other races of men actually have to tell black men that black women are worthy of love and respect, aint that some $h*t?).  He saw Chris as just another loud mouth, ignorant, obnoxious hood booger that he could use to prove his point about how uncaring and evil black women are.  He was expecting Chris to lose her cool and disrespect him, to say something foul mouthed, or snap and say/do something un-ladylike and she didn't.  He failed miserably, several white men came for him, and now as a result he is trying to backtrack.  He only acknowledges that he was wrong as hell for that interview because white men are coming for him, not because he genuinely feels like crap for treating Chris the way he did.  He thought he picked an easy target with no protection and boy was he wrong. 

1 week, 5 days ago on Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Sound Off on Jesse Peterson Bigotry

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@LovelyLulu  All "reverend" Peterson did was show his ass.  He thought he could attack a black woman and embarrass her because he felt that we are not a protected class and no one cares about us.  Boy was he wrong.

1 week, 5 days ago on Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Sound Off on Jesse Peterson Bigotry

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Promoting this fool is not a good look for Sean Hannity or Fox news, considering that Harris Faulkner is interracially married.  Tamera Mowry and Adam Housley are another IR couple.  Mia Love(new GOP darling) is interracially married, and Arthel Neville is married to an Asian man.  Is he saying all of these women are damaged?  Fox and the GOP might not realize this but there are plenty of progressive, forward thinking and (get this) politically conservative leaning black women that might be interested in their programming.  If they keep putting people like Reverend Asshat Peterson and Bob Beckel on, then they are turning off a big portion of their potential viewers and voters.  If you were a network(and political party) who was notoriously attacked for being racist( and sexist, and backwards) and you wanted to show the nation and the world that you are not racist, inclusive and open minded who would you target as an audience?  The hundreds of thousands of conservative leaning black women(and even open minded black men as well as other conservative swirlers) or bitter, angry trash like this guy, his female caller, and he who must not be named?  This affiliation can only hurt them in the long run, unless they actually share the same sentiments as this Peterson guy and like pandering to the ignorant. 


http://kolorblindmag.com/2012/07/13/kolorblind-spotlight-arthel-neville-drumming-to-her-own-news/


http://ballerwives.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Tamera-Mowry-Gets-Married.jpg


https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2A6C1_GuCH4/VGL48ooQpDI/AAAAAAAAA_8/JiZ6A-oEyao/s1600/Mia%2BLove%2BFamily.jpg


http://www.modernmom.com/c192b2ae-3b3e-11e3-be8a-bc764e04a41e.html


2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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@divalocity  A lot of conservative black women are married interracially, I wonder how he feels about that?


http://www.modernmom.com/c192b2ae-3b3e-11e3-be8a-bc764e04a41e.html

2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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@zipporah @thecrazyartist @MamieMooney  I really don't like kids, and the whole mother thing just doesn't really appeal to me.  A guys family background doesn't really mean anything to me in this case, kids are a deal breaker for me if he wants to carry on his family name then he needs to find a different woman(this also includes any children he may currently have, being a stepmom is a no go to me).

2 weeks ago on Fear and Loathing; Interracial Dating When You’re 30+

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@MeliaFavors @Levans  If their aim was to make black women look damaged and angry both parties failed.  Chris never lost her cool, was respectful, and comes off as very likable in this.  The other two sound like raging ass clowns.

2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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@trinigirl1 @zipporah  Bone marrow transplant matching is done by HLA typing.  Members of a certain race and/or ethnicity are more likely to have a similar HLA type and immune system, but that isn't always the case.  Specifically an HLA matched sibling is the best bet.  I could go into this further but I'm a little fried from today.

2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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@lili2009  This a** clown is part of the reason I refuse to partake in organized religion.  F**kery masquerading as scripture.

2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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@wri316  Look, this guy is entitled to his own opinions, and I am entitled to think his opinion is bullshit.  It's just more of the same "black women need to stay in the race and rebuild it".  It's more of the same "black women are bitter and angry and nasty and undesireable" rhetoric.  It is also more of the same Bitter Becky Brigade(TM) trying to derail the conversation.


All of them can kiss my ass.


2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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@jazzyfae45  yup, some older white women are losing their shit over this.  They want to know what will happen to their daughters and their options. 

2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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I am going to keep it very real, I prefer white men.  If anyone doesn't like it then they can fuck off.  My life my choices,  I don't owe you an explanation, suck it up and deal with it.

2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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Gorgeous skin!  You look so young in these pictures, if I had to guess I would say 33 tops!


I have to try these products.

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Beauty Tuesday: Easy Combo That Makes Skin Look So Dewy; Must-Have Jane Iredale

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@MamieMooney  I think it is solid advice to anyone who wants a long term relationship regardless of age.  I'm almost 24 and I already know I don't want kids.  If a guy wants kids then I know he is not for me, it's not something I am willing to compromise on.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on Fear and Loathing; Interracial Dating When You’re 30+

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@AmourelleCorley  Yep I was like "damn they fine" when I saw the pic.  Do they ski anywhere near Colorado?

2 weeks, 2 days ago on What Skiing in Big Bear Taught Me About Interracial Dating Prospects for Black Women

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I used to snowboard all the time, I need to get back to it, it's been 6 years :(

2 weeks, 2 days ago on What Skiing in Big Bear Taught Me About Interracial Dating Prospects for Black Women

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@Cami2210 @cjdimplez @Letta  WTF is wrong with people?  I hope these two young ladies get the justice they deserve.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Don’t You Just Love it When Racists Slip? Fox News Guest, Bob Beckel Equates ‘Intercultural Dating’ with Radical Islam

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@NYMan @IvyJain  I firmly believe that the people that are drawn to radical islam must have something wrong with them from the get go.  The whole ideology is violent and criminal, so in order to truly believe what ISIS, IS or whatever they are calling themselves these days is OK, you must be OK with it.  It's not a pressure or belief thing, normal people are not attracted to this kind of violent, disgusting behavior.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on Don’t You Just Love it When Racists Slip? Fox News Guest, Bob Beckel Equates ‘Intercultural Dating’ with Radical Islam

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What the fuck is he suggesting?  Ban interracial relationships to prevent the spread of radical islam? Are you fucking serious homeboy?  What about telling congress to stop spying on everyday people and start looking at the fools on twitter posting Jihadi messages and websites?  What about actually screening incoming passengers from Arab countries or actually securing our border? Nope that will offend the people you have been dependent on for oil. Nope, lets just blame innocent people and propose all kinds of racist fuckery in the name of stopping violence. For fucks sake, FOX news NEVER solves anything, they pretend to be "an alternative news network" when they are just as fucked up(or more) as CNN and MSNBC. Both parties can kiss my ass at this point.  I will not be voting for ANY of these ass clowns come 2016.


Sorry for the rant, the fuckery in the news has been so rampant this week I can't even.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on Don’t You Just Love it When Racists Slip? Fox News Guest, Bob Beckel Equates ‘Intercultural Dating’ with Radical Islam

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@Naomi2  Which is why I am a libertarian leaning independent.  Screw both parties IMO, most of them are mentally ill and out of touch with society.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on Don’t You Just Love it When Racists Slip? Fox News Guest, Bob Beckel Equates ‘Intercultural Dating’ with Radical Islam

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@keimiasmoon @Christelyn  @ShunJAY  I have to hand it to FOX and other major news networks.  They always manage to take a serious story, derail the subject matter, forget about reporting entirely, and turn it into a way to push their own agenda.


Bravo.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on Don’t You Just Love it When Racists Slip? Fox News Guest, Bob Beckel Equates ‘Intercultural Dating’ with Radical Islam

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