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Thanks, sometimes the concern trolling just gets on my nerves.
3 hours, 11 minutes ago on Weekend Read: Book Recommends Black Women Take Notes From Asian Women If They REALLY Want to #Win at Swirling
Feel free to use it. I just don't get how so many black women become so violently angry and deeply offended at the mere suggestion of improving one's looks. As I work to move up the career ladder I am starting to really internalize just how important it is. If you want to interact with a professional man you need to look, act, sound and dress the part. Come on now even trophy wives know this, women trying to be professionals definitely should know this.
3 hours, 12 minutes ago on Weekend Read: Book Recommends Black Women Take Notes From Asian Women If They REALLY Want to #Win at Swirling
I know that this is going piss a lot of people off but black women have been given nothing but shitty dating advice(and life advice) in general for the past 40 years. Really, other women are primping priming and doing all they can to attract a mate but black women are rarely ever encouraged to improve themselves; we are told to stay fat, stay loud/ignorant and focus all of our attention on helping "the community". What benefits do black women reap from this? None, I(and many others on this site) accepted a long time ago that it is not my job to save anyone but myself, why should I struggle and live miserably for "the community" when many of these DBR men and women refuse to handle their own lives? It makes zero sense and is akin to putting water in a bucket with no bottom.
When we do take an interest in ourselves then we are shallow and "chickenheads". Being "soft" and feminine is seen as weak and as a result we are expected to be "strong" women who in reality are nothing more than mules and doormats for the problems of others. All this has done is cultivate an image of black women as loudmouth, obese, asexual beings with little or no desire to change it. Is this true across the board? No, but we really need to stop and think about how this affects our love lives and even careers. Really it's so bad my family freaked out when I started putting more effort into my appearance. Most women in their early 20's care about dating and looks, I don't see why I should wait until 30 to start dating actively. We think we have all the time in the world but as we age the dating pool decreases, fertility drops, and it becomes harder to. Due to mistreatment in blackistan many black women have no idea what a healthy relationship looks like. Many just don't value themselves enough as to care.
Black women have a very unique beauty, yet we ruin it with either lack of caring(rampant obesity) or outrageous and unflattering styling(butt length blonde weaves, ill-fitting attire, and press-ons that put wolverine to shame). It's terrible, I can't tell you how many times I see absolutely stunning black women who have ruined themselves in this manner. When this website prints articles like this the objective is to help black women, not insult them. It's not telling you "Asian women are superior" or that you should be ashamed of being black. It's just constructive criticism and feedback, what you decide to do with it is up to you.
1 day, 1 hour ago on Weekend Read: Book Recommends Black Women Take Notes From Asian Women If They REALLY Want to #Win at Swirling
I consider light make-up just a bit to freshen up your look. Like tinted moisturizer and/or concealer to cover blemishes and dark circles. a bit of blush or highlighter to "wake up" and enhance bone structure, some mascara and eyeliner and a tinted lip balm. It takes 5 minutes but there is a huge difference.
1 day, 11 hours ago on Weekend Read: Book Recommends Black Women Take Notes From Asian Women If They REALLY Want to #Win at Swirling
Dammit! I went to make coffee and missed the trolls yet again! I needed a laugh!
The few passages posted here hit the nail on the head- looks and femininity DO matter. Hair is a sensitive topic for many black women but many fail to realize it's not relaxed vs natural or long vs short, it's color and neatness. I just recently lopped off 3-4 inches of dead ends and dyed my hair black(to cover up a string of rouge henna gone wrong and to rid myself of dead ends). I was left with a fairly "boring" bra strap length style, but the male attention has increased ten fold. Top that off with regular light make-up, more feminine dress and a 15lb weight loss and more customers actually want to make conversation with me.
2 days, 2 hours ago on Weekend Read: Book Recommends Black Women Take Notes From Asian Women If They REALLY Want to #Win at Swirling
People who are very active tend to snap back from childbirth much more quickly. I don't know anyone who looked like that after 4 days, but I do know a woman who runs 10k's regularly, crossfits and is really into yoga and a healthy diet who looked like her superfit self a month after giving birth. Her lifestyle along with her age(25) and genetics are all factors. People like this have conditioned themselves and their bodies to do this. Plus she didn't have much of a bump to begin with.
3 days ago on RANT: Want Us to Stop ‘Fat Shaming?’ Then STOP With the Skinny Shaming!!
I personally don't care what someone decides to do with their body, if you are happy then it's none of my business. On the other hand the reaction this woman received is absurd. If you cannot handle the fact that someone else has a nicer selfie then please stop using instagram and find a hobby. This woman is a fitness guru and a WAG, of course she is going to be in shape. I am going to keep it very real, most people would not take fitness advice from a fat trainer. For all we know this could be retouched, if not then more power to her.
That being said I do believe the fat acceptance movement is made for obese white women and really has nothing to do with black women. Let's be honest, the movement really has nothing to do with health at every size or the self esteem of teenagers. It may have started with those intentions, but it's turned into an outlet for white women who otherwise are considered "out of the running" in the dating and beauty game due to their weight. Black women were never considered "in the running" in the first place, regardless of weight. Ever notice how this movement compares being fat to being black? What it means is that a black woman can look like Naomi Campbell but still be seen as unattractive like Rosie O'Donnell. It means a model like Jourdan Dunn is just as comical as Rebel Wilson. I just interpret this as the same old "it doesn't matter how pretty you are, you are still black and that is all that matters" mantra. Only instead of coming from DBR's it's coming from white women in the guise of "feminism".
I mean really a selfie is "an act of war"? Whoever wrote that has serious mental health issues and needs to step away from the computer. Self esteem isn't built through a computer screen, if you are crying tears and feel you are being bullied because you think this woman looks better than you then you are an idiot with no life. This is just an example of a rabid pack of low self esteem women with way too much time on their hands. For all we know this could all just be a publicity stunt or fake.
3 days, 1 hour ago on RANT: Want Us to Stop ‘Fat Shaming?’ Then STOP With the Skinny Shaming!!
That story is disgusting, those poor kids do not have a mother and all for what? I used to be anti death penalty, but "people" like this "man" deserve it, it's damn hard to sit down with a straight face and explain why a cretins life should be spared, really hard.
Wait and see, more of these punks threatening women, playing the "knock out game" and terrorizing the general population(shoplifting,raping women, beating old people and kids, vandalizing property etc) will find themselves dead or in jail. NO ONE should be defending this kind of behavior. If they are only 11-14 then just imagine how awful they will be at 18, and by 25 they will probably be in prison or have a rap sheet that will cripple any future opportunities they may have. Blackistan loves to yell "racism" when young black males are incarcerated but part of the problem is the refusal to address black on black violence. Instead the "white people do it too" excuse is tossed around and the little cretins are coddled and defended. Sickening
5 days, 5 hours ago on White Guy Asks, “How Do I Protect Black Women from DBR’s in Public?”
@Conor Flannery @Tammy_Ghalden @thecrazyartist
This is why most gun control is a waste, criminals(like gangbangers, druglords, and the convicts in training in the above letter) do not give a flying f*ck about what laws are passed. They are going to continue to gangbang and kill and maim innocent people regardless of what is written as the law.
Meanwhile law abiding citizens get to tell the police what happened after they have been harmed.
6 days, 11 hours ago on White Guy Asks, “How Do I Protect Black Women from DBR’s in Public?”
Any black woman that values the her safety and her children's or future children's safety needs to leave blackistan ASAP.
Another inconsistency is black women are allegedly ugly, vile and not worth anything, yet DBR's will chase us around like it is going out of style.
The thirst is mad real
This is why I think all black women should apply for concealed carry and self defense classes(along with rainbeaus and others). Let's face it: the cretins are getting bolder and bolder, avoiding blackistan is the numer one safety tip, but blackistanis are now spilling out into other areas. Just google "the knockout game" to see what I mean.
For the gentlemen, be firm and confident, that is all I can say.The scarier you are the better, really these kids are vicious and reallydo not care.
1 week, 1 day ago on White Guy Asks, “How Do I Protect Black Women from DBR’s in Public?”
He's all kinds of sexy, I see a new "sexiest man" nomination right here.
I also apologize for the first picture, this is Arlenis Sosa, not Jasmine Tookes.
1 week, 1 day ago on BB&W’s First Annual “Sexiest Woman of the Year” Nominations!
@your epiphany @Tammy_Ghalden
Damn hes fine :)
1 week, 2 days ago on BB&W’s First Annual “Sexiest Man of the Year” Nominations!
Jasmine Tookes, my favorite model at the moment. Shes sexy in a Audry Hepburn pixie-ish way, and very pretty.
I also like Shanina Shaik's look
1 week, 2 days ago on BB&W’s First Annual “Sexiest Woman of the Year” Nominations!
My main issue with fat acceptance is that it is made with obese white women in mind. Fat acceptance seeks to validate obese white women who are otherwise considered "out of the running" in the dating and beauty game. Black women were never considered "in the running" by these people, that is why it really has nothing to do with us.
Really, these are women that spend most of their time bitching about victorias secret and how fit women are "brainwashed by the patriarchy". I honestly think both parties need to take a chill pill.
Maria Kang is a fitness professional, of course she is not going to promote obesity, expecting anything less would be idiotic to say the least. Ms. Kang is quite obnoxious in her wording and needs to learn that it is not so much what you say but how you say it. I mean really, if it's not bothering you why worry? Focus on the people who want to lose weight and stop bothering the ones who don't.
1 week, 3 days ago on What Just Happened to Maria Kang is the Reason I Quit Talking About Black Women and Fitness.
I wouldn't call him the sexiest but I wouldn't kick him out of bed. I have a weak spot for tattoos(being too clean cut is a turn of for me), but this is why these list are just fluff and not serious in the least. People have different ideas of what sexy is. Some women may love a tattood punk rock look while others love a clean cut look. Personality is also a big part in this, sexy is an attitude, and what comes off as confident to one person may be arrogant to another.
I personally prefer more ethnic looking white men(greek, armenian, italian etc), Dark hair, olive skin and light eyes are a weak spot for me, but I know plenty of women who love blonde hair and blue eyes. Some women want a man who has his entire life planned out to a T, others want someone a little more lax. Different strokes for different folks.
2 weeks ago on Adam Levine “Sexiest Man Alive”…Really?!
Good for her! I am actually looking forward to this. TONS of white women have branded themselves as domestic divas and have forged empires and made millions doing so(Martha Stewart anyone?). The commotion made about this was just a mistranslation or the result of a slow news day. Actually, the controversy led me to discover her blog and I now frequent it. I hope she does well.
3 weeks, 5 days ago on The ’300 Sandwiches’ Lady Went and Got Herself a Book Deal, Hip Hip Hooray!!
If the racist come from Appalacia they could possibly have everything under the sun mixed in there. Recently, melungeon groups have been tested, it has been long speculated said group is everything from triracial, to gypsy to turkish. The results confused more people than it helped, they were so varied from family to family.
3 weeks, 5 days ago on White Supremacist’s Epic Gene Pool Fail!