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How do.


So sad to see a beautiful young woman to pursue and complete a permanent solution to, most likely, temporary challenges (yes, I know, easier said.....easier said)


22 is just entering, generally, into the adult world and navigating its' rough and tough (metaphorical) terrain.


It is my understanding this young woman's mother recently passed on.  A BIG life downer for sure.


Been to therapy myself (for matters never mentioned here) and it's been a great release to get anxiety, feelings of doubt, and pain out of ones' self, out and away from your body in order to look at your issues dispassionately and with neutrality in order to work on them.



So, so, sad.......she hadn't even begun (armchair quarterbackin' on my part).


Rest In Love young lady, smh.



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@Brenda55 @chocolateadmiral    I feel you on that one, B55.   Prince has a song called "Style" and speaks on this very thing, something to the effect of "Style is not having seats courtside, but owning the court and charging them ALL a fee"......"    


So, yeah, I feel on that one, lol.

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@chocolateadmiral


Lastly, chocolateadmirial, I do admire Black men on the field and court of play.


I'mma sports fan and nobody does it better and dominates on the court (or field) than Black men in these arenas.


Stereotypical, maybe.  


GO, UCONN (University of Connecticut), MEN & WOMEN, NCAA Champions!


Woooooooooooooooo, hoooooooooooo!


YEEEAAAAHH, BOOOYYYEEEE!

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@chocolateadmiral


Lastly, chocolateadmirial, I do admire Black men on the field and court of play.


I'mma sports fan and nobody does it better than Black men.


Stereotypical, maybe.  


Nobody dominates better than Black men in these arenas.


GO, UCONN (University of Connecticut), MEN & WOMEN, NCAA Champions!


Woooooooooooooooo, hoooooooooooo!


YEEEAAAAHH, BOOOYYYEEEE!



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@chocolateadmiral @Brenda55    


Oh, I do have a boyfriend of Irish decent that treats me exceptionally and I, him, so I'm not just some "angry Black woman".  


I love being a human, a woman, and Black after that.


Stopped dating Black males early on because I saw, heard, and lived through their tired behaviors long ago.


No longer live in a Black communities, they are detrimental to my soul.   


It ain't all gravy in White folk world either, they got their own sets of problems but not at the degree that Black communities have.


I no longer have respect for Black men, y'all decided that for us, Black women.


Do whatever you must, but I don't believe (in) you, don't trust you, and am faaaaaaaaaar from respecting you, just tellin' it like is, chocolateadmiral.






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@chocolateadmiral @Brenda55    


NO, I ain't on board, homes.


You gets NO sympathy here, not with me, buddy.


You gets no respect. 


You ain't earned it and you ain't gonna.


I've already stated Black men have lost respect for themselves and Black women, call us names, in public and private, make children they don't want (me), tear down their communities, denigrate and degrade us in the rap game on the regular, tell us daily in public and private they don't want us, have no love for us, and want nothing to do with Black women on constant, consistent and daily basis.


And you want sympathy and respect up in here?    Man, you ARE truly tripping and bugging.


Oh, let's not forget their priorities; money, heaux, illegal substances and gain, and prison, and what "the White man is doing to us".   BIG LAUGH OUT LOUD!


The Black men I have respect for is our (mixed heritage) President (no matter what people say) and our U.S. Attorney General, and Bill Cosby.........The man called the truth on Black America and most Black Americans couldn't handle the truth.


Sell yo' bs to somebody willin' to buy, baby, cause it shole as heyall ain't me.






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@Justme65   Exactly, Justme65.    On The First 48 on A&E, I think it was Dallas, TX, that a Black guy detective, whom I actually have some respect for, pretty much stated what I already have mentioned here.   Dude was a corrections officer in the beginning of his career, then a Marine and is, obviously, now a detective after having about 10 years of police work under his belt.   The brotha actually stated what I've stated in seeing the sad state of affairs with young Black men killing each other over little of nothing.  Naturally, they have to start with the telephone call received of whatever shooting and a subsequent investigation into whomever's (sad) death.


Even dude said it's heartbreaking for him to chase these cats down over little of nothing cause somebody wanted somebody elses' phone, monies, or over some type petty jealousies, that it broke his heart to continue seeing this as, markhaaseth, states below, over, and over, and over, again.


I totally agree with you JustMe65, in that Black men, with integrity, should begin a website similar to this one to groom, help, and lift up Black men.


I don't want to tear them down, however, there's nothin' more to be said other than SAVE. YOURSELVES, Black men.   That's on them.   


It doesn't seem they want to.   There are decent Black men out there but not enough.  Those men need to salvage the lost Black men, that's the, seemingly, only way change will happen, I suppose (shoulder shrug).

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@chocolateadmiral @Lady A   The only other males that fit into this category are Latino males that I've encountered, are just a bad, if not worse, than Black males in the arena I've already talked about.


White men don't bring the same pathologies as that of Black and Latino males, which harbor bringing uber masculine traits to (non) romantic situations such as "You are beneath me, you mean nothing and are not intrinsic to a progressive relationship",,,,,,,,such as said men do.


To be honest, White men, don't, generally, bring those traits into a new relationship with anyone, let alone, Black women.


The study above does give eyeopeners to certain matters but not the whole of Black Life.


Black America has much more depth than the Kellogg approach above.   The assumption is that Black folk are in lock-step with each other and know how things "are", when in fact, we are wholly separate individuals as is any other race of people.


The bottom line is I'm done with Black men coming to a Black womans' (web)site and workin' to give their side of things, when, in fact, someone like me, don't give a rats' ass.


I no longer care what Black (or any form of Latino) men think, care about, or have to say about ANYTHING that has to do with Black women.


A Black man has already spoken as to what was thought of me, the woman he procreated with, and his lack humanity he had for us both.


Who cares what Black males think, cause I shole know they don't give one dayum as to what Black women feel, have to say or think (on any matter, let alone, other non-White males) why would I give damn about you have to say now?


That day IS. OVA!   


I could care less and don't give damn about what some Black male has to say, you ain't been there, and don't give one damn about anything about what a (dark-hued) Black woman has to say, y'all have made that CLEAR.   So, as far as I'm concerned, chocalateadmiral, (Text removed by moderator due to TOS violation) .  that's come here to get some type of "care" from Black women, or, at least, this Black woman.....when, in fact, I don't give a ****.


(Text removed by moderator due to TOS violation......save it for someone that believes you...........CAUSE IT SHOLE AIN'T ME.




Go back to WorldStarHipHop.com where you Black males have so much hate for us and leave us Black women to ourselves. 


We don't need anymore losers that are already on the said bandwagon.

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Leave us be, and do yourselves a favor, and go back to you wretched lives, cause I shole as heyall don't want wretched business in my "lexicon", FAIL by yo' selves, (which y'all've pretty much done anyways.......)


Just mirroring back what y'all Black men have dished out to us dark-hued Black women for the last 40+ years.....EAT IT, I hope it tastes good cause I ain't got no love for ya!


Enjoy how it feels!



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@chocolateadmiral @Lady A   


"Black girls don't have any help and this article pretty much sums that up. The notion or idea that since black women are doing so well in education and the corporate world means we have help is b.s. Nobody helped us get to where we're at, we had to develop this "Do it by myself" mentality on our own because WE DON'T HAVE HELP. Being ignored forced us to focus more that's we're we're where we are at today. It's insulting to refuse to give black women credit for building the empire that we have on our own. People act like we're incapable of everything, sucks :(  "


Exactly, Lady A, you hit the proverbial nail on the head (lol).


I have my own business with my boyfriend and a (paycheck) job as well.    Nobody gave me anything.


Black men RARELY give anything to anyone other than to "their boys".


So when Black males (few are "men") roll up in here talkin' 'bout it's the boys that need to be salvaged is a JOKE.


For the last now 40 years now Black males have shouted from the rooftops, "We don't do education, we don't do upwardly mobile career changes, we don't want better communities, we'd rather kill each other and whomever else gets ensnared in our madness, we screw Black women (in more ways than one) but don't want them, we (Black men) only want light-skinned or White anybody else so long it's not dark hued, we don't do marriage, just baby-mamas, we don't help with household monies, we leave you to raise the out of wedlock kids with what little money YOU (Black women) have.     We (Black men) will give you no life-affirming nor life-sustaining support of any kind, love, friendship or even a basic measure of kindness.    


We, Black men, will leave you, Black women, with just our mere presence.........That's us, we's be "them cats."


(replace "cats" with that other term)


Black males in a nutshell.   Pathetic.




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@chocolateadmiral @Lady A   Perceive?  IT. IS. A. LOST. CAUSE.   Black males have abdicated their manhood and responsibilities for money, drugs, heaux, and prison, and continued denigration and degradation in the rap game.  Don't respect their mothers that bring them here, their sisters and whatever other relatives they have and then want us to hold them up and excuse their sick pathologies?    


I don't think so, son.


A Black man taught me early that Black women are not wanted nor worthy of being supported, and for that, y'all gets NONE from me.   


Save yourselves, Black men, cause I ain't nothin' for ya and ain't got nothin' to give to ya and don't want to.   


I learned THAT from a Black man.



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@Justme65  I've tried understand these ladies, along with singer Jill Scott, with their nothin-but-a-brutha mentality.   These ladies' art are deeply felt and are truly outstanding.


Lauryn Hll is /was an outstanding singer-rapper dealing with a man that gave her five (or six, not sure) children and dumped her, never married her and married some Brazilian model damn near out of the blue.   Evidently, he thought very little of her.        Ms. Badu has a few children (3 or more) with Black men that have never, seemingly, offered to marry her.


Obviously, I don't know these ladies other than their art and from what I read in the tabloids on and offline.   


The only thing I can offer up is that as they progress in life they may come to the realization that they've been used, no different than us regular everyday folk.


Hopefully these creatives (as Jonelle Monet calls herself) will wake up one day and realize they've given themselves to men who didn't give a damn and find better mates (shoulder shrug).



2 weeks, 5 days ago on Did You Know? Black Women Are Bashed On You Tube for Page Views.

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Great video and narrative, dude has struck onto the major points of the hatred of Black women by Black men.


A&E has a show called The First 48 and you see Black men killing each other for little of nothing, and once detectives find out the who's, what's and why's, then guess what.....some Violent Fugitive Task Force, US Marshalls, Gang Task Forces and whatever city and county police, come for them.........and I'm like...........is this what you want for your lives?    Is life so cheap that y'all are willin' to go down like this over $200 dollars and some caps somebody's ass?


Black men can miss me with ALL of it...........


Watched Beyond Scared Straight - some dude was lookin' at 240 years tellin' a 19 year old (Black male) child this ain't the road you wanna go down.........DA has got to have major evidence in a case like that.......and most Black males (not all) in whatever prisons are doin 20, 30, 50 years to' life+ and will never see the light day again.     

Black males always talk about "The Man" is puttin' us in prisons.    NO, YOU ARE PUTTING YOURSELF INTO PRISON and you want to blame us, Black women?     


I don't think so.


Yeah, dude in the video has definitely hit on some serious points with the Black male distaste of Black women.


Glad that other men are recognizing this and calling Black men out on their BS, this is what needs to happen to set them straight, so to speak, other men setting men calling other certain men out on their trifling mess.


Great video.


2 weeks, 6 days ago on Did You Know? Black Women Are Bashed On You Tube for Page Views.

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To all the Black male haters on YouTube and in The World.   Enjoy!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YY2-mrsXgMM



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@itsgoodtobeme @TiaMonae @Kimber2013   


Chief Keef, another loser.....


http://www.kollegekidd.com/news/chief-keef-gang-violence-chicago


We'll read about him one day, dead, in somebody's gutter.

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@PamelaFoster   The one famous woman who, for the most part pulls off blonde, I think, is Mary J. Blige.  She stated in (M)essence magazine that she's will never "go natural".......this is bone of contention for me with her.....she can afford better styling and could go between being natural and weaving, but she, in the magazine, she won't allow that to happen, which, obviously is her perogative........but does say, to me, still, that she doesn't accept her Blackness in its' original form.   I could be wrong, but it's what I believe.

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This woman is a "LOSER".........let her hate herself, that's on her.   Let her, and other Black folk that think like her, hate themselves.   I no longer care....I've extricated myself from folk like and who think like her.    

Look at Lil Kim, ya'll don't need no picture, y'all seen her, a dope rapper to me (next to Foxy Brown and Rah Digga), but has DESTROYED her looks in "upping herself in the rap game", primarily due to Biggie marrying a woman he'd met after only a month (Faith Evans)........she's destroyed her cute Brown girl looks behind other Black folk not appreciating her for who she (is) was.


I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired of Black people hating themselves.   


To much energy wasted on something that's Goddess given and that nothing can be done about........I love myself, that's come from pain and lifes' dues, heard me?


My boss loves me, my friends love me, my man loves me, and I love me.


Later for this heaux (sorry to call names, but hey).    She's beyond tired, let her expend the energy on hating herself which she could use that energy to move life forward.......she's goin' backward, let her go.   We, dark hued Black women, need to dispense of tired "negresses", yeah, y'all heard me right, like this sorry ass heffa here......... Let her twist herself up with all that poisening bleaching cream and those balloon boobs that may ultimately leak into her body and destroy her (such as it did to the former talk show host Jenny Jones), she don't care, and I shole as heyall don't care........women like her are to be IGNORED and dispensed with in the so-called "Black Collective".   


Women like her are soul-destroyers and dream-snatchers, disgusting.


She's most definitely part of the problem in Black America, we, Black folk, don't need any more haters than we already have, let alone, truly self hating Blacks such as her, disgusting, all day, everyday.


She betta hope one of those balloons don't go POP!

3 weeks, 3 days ago on Video: Singer Dencia Says on Camera, “White Means Pure.”

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@Dandelion100 @Lady A    Very misogynistic, ask Tyler Perry about it.     The man makes movies (some are interesting) that disrespects women in general and Black women in particular on the regular, particularly now with The Single Moms Club movie has failed due to its' hatred of its' main characters per multiple critical reviews (men and women, Black and White, gay and straight)........he needs to come on out.


Look at Cash Money Millionaires / "Hot Boys'" "Baby" Williams (aka the #1 Stunna, Bird Man) and Dwayne "Lil Wayne" Carter........some type of SERIOUS relationship there, y'all seen them photos of "Stunna" and Lil Wayne kissing? 


http://www.celebnmusic247.com/tq-on-lil-wayne-and-birdman-kissing/#.Uy272vldXC4


I say there's some type of twisted "father / son" control/manipulation" thing that goes on between them.


Prison culture has arrived.   The sagging pants, that comes with the removal of belts in the prison / inmate population to keep one from hurting themselves or others while there, has now become mainstream, unfortunately.


Naturally, I had to check out the video.    Yeah, dude has a beat........bars kinda of suck though and not in a good way - lol.     So is this video supposed to be cool nowadays or what?


I do know this, AIDS is the number ONE killer of gay males and the number TWO killer for Black women, both sexes between the ages of 24 through 34 (and up to 40+), marriagable and family planning ages, generally.


This is video is a STRONG reminder to Black women to be inquisitive about ANY MAN coming out of prison, it is HIGHLY likely that such male has engaged in homosexual activity, not all, but a quite few.


This video is imo is showing that The Black Male is imploding on itself and that the remnants of The TranAtlantic Slave Trade and Slavery have done job a The Black American Male.





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The beat is good - the bars suck and not in good way, so is this supposed be what passes for "cool" or "hot" nowadays, sad.    Smdh.

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