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Internecine fights exist among women of all races.
Yet, BW are fighting over nothing (most BM) so the fighting would be at a higher pitch.
They are trying to win the battle by counterpropaganda and bullhorn projection of the exact opposite of the truth. I know there are BW out there who "aint wit dat", meaning IRR. They only have the fcked up BC to call their own (which it really isn't) so "dey stay praisin' dey kangs" to hold onto something that never was. In every community, when someone rejects the BS, it is always those who would benefit from the same change of view (and vue) who will oppress she who ain't stayin'. Look at the lye attacks on women in India and Pakistan -- most are orchestrated by other female family members of the wife, not even the husband.
But every movement needs a defining event. And, after that defining event, Keysha will either get that wake up call or she will be in some far off public housing development holding a "Black Citizen's Council" meeting to hold it down for da brothas on lock down.
It is getting close to that "event", but it is approaching. It will be so egregious (as if there have not been countless outrageous and egregious acts of violence and disrespect of women and children by BM in the BC) that not even Tanikeya and Keysha and Laquanda will be able to ignore it.
4 days, 13 hours ago on Take That, Haters! BB&W ‘Circle of Support’ In Action with Wronged IR Couple
This is what love looks like
marriage bands included
@formeonly Don't Hate, Imitate, I like it!!
This was probably the most important discussions I have heard in a long time. This is the BS, from a white woman and a black man (who else) that Black Women are no longer tolerating. A white woman has the nerve to lecture to a black woman about interracial dating? Don't make me laugh. This is how BM screw with our minds, or try to. They want us to be perfect. Well, they don't demand that from any other race of women that they MARRY, but only BW must be perfect. So since no one on this earth is perfect, then BW are seen as not up to the mark or standard. So black men use this as a reason not to marry at all or definitely not a black woman.
BUMP THAT. My head ain't allowing that mess inside anymore. Since black men are off my menu, the words of this fool are like raindrops on my window -- they just fall off.
But there is an interesting piece on muslim bushido this month about the insanity of black men and the deadness in their eyes. Interesting what happens when the crazy a person is trying to spread comes back around on them.
Black women should take away from this a good laugh and a lesson in verbal bushido from Christalyn. Well done, Chris for checkin' those two idiots.
4 days, 14 hours ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!
@SweetGardenia Super sad, only prayer is going to break the "spell" over BW.
1 week, 4 days ago on Reader Weighs In: Wife vs. ‘Wifey’
@SweetGardenia Excellent post. Historically accurate and demonstrates how we as BW feel now. I feel about BM today as I did about WM in the 1980s (they only want their "black experience"). BM think they have some type of supernatural hold on BW. Many of us, multi-generational are waking up and leaving BM to star alone in their own nightmare.
I was utterly blown away by the story of Madame CJ Walker
when I was assigned to do a paper on her two years ago.A totally remarkable woman.She made a way and made a way for many black
women as well.
I enjoyed the movie Selma.I liked it because it was not focused on the reminder of "not all
whites were racists" but the subjection of Black people to outrageous
hatred and bigotry.The real story was
told, and it was a propos.I do not tire
of civil rights era movies, but I tire of civil rights era movies that do not
tell the TRUTH.Selma got a 96% from me
on the truth factor and 100% on acting.
I look forward to more diversification of genres of films
with Black folks, but the opening scene of Selma IS the story of U.S. domestic
terrorism against Black people and that story has yet to be told in its
truth and its entirety.
2 weeks, 3 days ago on Civil Rights: Can We Focus Less on Marching and ‘The Struggle?’
Beautiful Girls, you young girls go get it!
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Beautiful and romantic
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@Christelyn You know I passed over that because it was so absurd and I guess that was a big mistake. I was just impressed by the comments of the Black Women whose eyes are being opened to the swirling by black men and the disrespect by same of black women. Perhaps this was inappropriate so feel free to delete it or add a disclaimer.
I was just wanted to acknowledge that BW Interracial dating may be taking a big leap in 2015 and beyond by many, many black women, given that that site is really a hip hop gossip site. Those comments on a site like that are atypical. I just wanted to point out that a new mentality may be flourishing, even among die-hard Black women hip hop fans.
Again, if you feel that the link is offensive and/or a poor example, please delete. I meant no offense, if anything, I meant just the opposite.
2 weeks, 6 days ago on Utterly Speechless…Is Kim Kardashian Wearing Blackface?!
Happy New Year Everyone:
All I have to say to this is that the masses are slowly awakening. Start reading comments at 12:22.
Perhaps not the most appropriate forum for the comments, but ahem, it is all so obvious now isn't it?
Will this be the year Black Women awake to the purpose of Kim Kardashian, Iggy Azalea and the public attacking of Black Women by Black Men and take some kind of action. Even if action is not taken, the seed is implanted in the mind.
1 month ago on The Battle of the Azealias: Who Gets Mocked, Who Gets Protected.
@jazzyfae45 So true Jazzy, we are the awakening giant.
Check out this artist on youtube that I saw on another BWE site:
Artist: Monsieur Nov, Song: Trop Fresh, He is singing in French, but OMG, what a voice!
Black Male R&B Who?
@Christelyn Thanks and Much luv this holiday season!
He made disparaging comments towards his fan base (black women). He then releases about 8 mos. later a CD (in late Oct./early Nov.). Then, he gets on Twitter and whines about the poor sales of the CD. He then says, I wish, "I had been white, but no shade to white artists"; he wanted to give up singing, etc. complete meltdown.
Here's his first Twitter rant:
Here's his second:
Hello fellow 1980s and 1990s veteran.
Glad to hear you kick a little history lesson there and
inform the lil sistahs why we called them white boys.And thanx for telling the story about
BM.Haven't they gotten away with
murder???That latent hostility they
always had towards BW; I'll never forget that.
I am just glad that we have been awakened.It is NOT too late.You just need to deprogram, debrief and disengage from all things BM.
I got so many wake up calls this year, if I didn't wake up
this year, I think a death certificate would have had to have been issued, LOL.
When I see what my own brother is about to marry (very nice
girl, but 3 marriages and the next makes 4 and more cellulite on her thighs
than I have), then I know I could have been as talented as all get out, thin as
a rail, light as the sun, dark as the night, had several degrees and I still
would not have been good enough.
Black men have developed an art form of talkin' out the
sides of all orifices and slowly their audience is hip to the bad magic show.Even, if I remain alone, at least I am no
longer under a spell or a lie.But I
feel so liberated now, that I know I won't be alone for the rest of my life,
and that is truly invigorating.
Let this information empower and enlighten you.It doesn't negate the past, hey, it only
We are all waking up, young and old sistahs.Look at what happened to Tank's album.When music companies start learning that it
doesn't pay to diss the sistahs, the memo will go out to BM.
If we are being made invisible, great, because the best
offense is done under cover.This is the
time, when we are ignored, marginalized and dismissed, that we can plot, plan,
strategize, observe and execute.Just as
BM did all those years.Right under our
noses and we didn't even see it.Now, we
do the same.
They want to use Iggy to turn white girls into sluts, hey,
I'm not a white girl, that ain't my problem.Sorry that Azalia Banks thinks it is her problem, but she will wake up
too.When the student is ready, the
teacher appears. Other than old-school
rap, the only present-day rapper I will listen to is E-40.
I ignore BM and their desire to be white upon which their
entire existence is based.They want to
erase BW and the black race, but, now they are up against God who is such a
better fighter than you and I.
Plan, strategize, observe and execute.But don't forget to get a bag of popcorn and
watch the movie because they cannot BS God.
Agreed, just as long as she doesn't get OUR money, she can sell her wares on the corner for all I care.
The biggest problem I have is the presentation of Iggy Azalea, not her existence. She is an imitation of a STEREOTYPE of southern black women.
The Iggy Azalea controversy has nothing to do with can whites do rap. The black DL rappers want us to believe that is what it is about, it is not. They are using Iggy to degrade black women by imitating a stereotype and undermining the true origin of rap -- which is about the spoken word as a social justice tool.
If she came out as an AUSTRALIAN rapper, rapping about AUSTRALIAN issues and purviews, then rap as the universal art form of entertainment and social commentary would be enhanced.
But she is just as wack as she wanna be and the black DL rappers want us to cosign.
So my only direction to Azaelia is to stop doing the same thing black DL rappers are doing which is stanning for what is not you (going against Eminem over some BS about Lana Del Roy) and BRING DA NOIZE, which is the NON LESBIAN BW rap that needs to be heard.
Peep game sistahs, Iggy ain't the enemy, per se, her promoters (black DL rappers, music moguls) are the enemy and our image is at stake.
Remember, an unchallenged perception becomes the reality.
Awesome, congrats and I have my New Year's inspiration!
1 month ago on Former Naysayer Takes Health in Her Own Hands and Thrives!!
Thank you for your honesty and sharing. I am so humbled and can identify with the bi-polar mother. Good thing my mother was mostly stuck on rage, so I wasn't so surprised when she was calm. You are such a great visionary and you help so many people. Just remember that I think it was Maya Angelou who said that which makes you special can make you lonely ("Was it Maya?). Celebrate that "thorn in your side" and always remember you have lurking fans and prayer warriors. You are also blessed with a beautiful face and mind. Peace and Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
1 month ago on The Critics are Right. I AM “Crazy.”
@ScorpioEnigma09 @LaShondaMatlock Good points. which is why they will eventually come around. Numbers will force them to. A lot of the lack of interracial dating of Northern Asian men was due to insularity. Now that Asia is a global economic force, old ties and traditions will become modified.
1 month, 2 weeks ago on Asian Men…I’m Getting To a Certain Point Where I’m Ready to Throw it In.
@Milla21 "Oppressed people have a way of returning the favor"
Now that is the funniest, wittiest line I've heard since "Get out of "Blackistan", LOL!!
@Kenna: Awesome observation. And throughout the smaller Caribbean islands, citizenship is being sold by politicians who obviously have no forethought about the future of the country.
@BreannaNouveaux Mean what you say, but don't be mean when you say it. A bit of patience and reticence would go a long way to bridge the generational gap.
@Taiyl00 @awaywego2626 LOL, I loved Bruce Lee also; and, Chow Yun Fat could get it!
I agree with you wholeheartedly, but, I was just saying that with an increase in fatherlessness, they are vulnerable because they don't understand that they are precious to Daddy. Also, his teammates aren't going to call him out, they don't know it's wrong, they probably do the same thing, which is disgusting. I'm gonna let 'em know though -- the power of the pen.
Yes, there have always been predators and always silence from our community, with the church being one of the most dangerous places to be for a little girl (and little boy).
1 month, 2 weeks ago on Objectifying Our Girls…Thank the Gods Malia Has Body Guards.
@Selmix Go str8t to the source, I am. He used his position as a football player, I am contacting the team.
Not good for "the brand", ya know what I mean
@Sfbta Thanx for taking that one. I usually don't respond in a knee-jerk fashion to I hate Al and Jesse.
1 month, 2 weeks ago on Charles Barkley: “The Black Community Has a Lot of Crooks”
All I will say about class warfare is: there is a class warfare going on and Cosby and his ilk are very much a part of it.
There was a quote on here, I forget which discussion about people profiting from oppression. Not necessarily monetary profit, but by imposing their demons on others.
How could he get away with it? Just my musings: Industry protects industry. He was a player in the industry. The women had as they said back then, "reputations". Many women were ready to "play for pay".
Sexual harassment vs. pedophilia, which is worse? Both are awful, but I think pedophilia. There were things going on in that industry that was worse and Cosby knew that about the industry. Mutually Assured Destruction if they blew the whistle on him.
Industry protects industry.
You look radiant.Beautiful eye shadow and makeup you are
wearing and very good advice!
1 month, 2 weeks ago on Tips On How to Approach Black Women with Confidence
@janet14 You know I think something is afoot. I cannot call it. But I feel that Black folks are taken for granted by the Democratic Party. I don't think there is much of a difference with the Republicans, but I think the Republicans are no longer as cohesive as they used to be. We will see, but I do feel a time of reckoning will be upon the entire nation and it will be a good idea to have "our house in order."
1 month, 3 weeks ago on Charles Barkley: “The Black Community Has a Lot of Crooks”
@SirLoinDeBeef No, just what I have seen in my neighborhood which is why I wrote corrupt cops, not just cops. There is a lot of undercover madness in the BC. Also, never presented it as fact, just as "my take" which was me offering a hunch which can be "taken" or "left." No harm no foul.
Good Luck and Best that Love has to offer to you.
If only someone had told me 25 years ago what "rescuing" actually was and that it was not a leading or a great role to be in.
1 month, 3 weeks ago on QOTW: Are You the Backup Booty?
@DWB @Ri74 Will do!!
Prosecutors can "indict a ham sandwich" if they want to. It is their show. Interesting how the man who filmed the abuse was indicted by a grand jury on a frameup.
Now maybe the SI Prosecutor did a good job and the SI residents were not indicting a white cop for contributing to the death of a black man. It is that kind of borough:
Please read that article.
@Ri74 Thanx for the advice, esp. number 3, I didn't think of that and I really cannot waste anything right now.. I use to make beans all the time and have a hambone in the freezer. Maybe i will do that this weekend, LOL.
I am actually grateful for this time to my parents for busting their a$$es to show me this is not the way and it will be temporary.. It has also made me less lofty and rooted in reality. I am more aware than anytime in my life. I can only "rescue" myself right now. I guess God knows how to deliver a wake up call.
@BWC Unless of course, you are not breaking any law or disobeying the police or resisting in any way. To watch the video and assume that Eric Garner was disobeying or becoming combative with the police is to be in agreement with martial law. Police also have an obligation to be in compliance with constitutional law.
I will be writing to the PR Dept. of this POS's football team. It is the only way to stop this BS. Had lots of sexual harassment as a young girl and I will be standing up to stop this because the issue really is, "What about our daughters"?
Our daughters are left vulnerable by the fatherlessness in the BC. How will they know this is wrong if we don't say anything. A
backhand in the form of a backlash is in order.
1 month, 3 weeks ago on Objectifying Our Girls…Thank the Gods Malia Has Body Guards.
@oneboobee It pains me what we go through as young black girls. Black Lives Matter should be amended to say, Black Girls' Lives Matter Too!
@PJDeanwriter I am glad you were saved from that punk and sad at the same time that a child had to have that presence of mind like a commando.
@BWC LOL, so true.
@ole'skool Hi! Totally I believe it also, because like you, we were told to have babies for the "revolution". We wuz lied to. However, what we weren't told was that the "revolution" was for BM, not BW and black children. Baby mamas became acceptable because the revolution was a mass exodus from the BC/Black Family for BM.
Black men have been trendsetting for 40 and 50 years. When did they decide not to get married to the mothers of their children? When did they decide that their futures were not to include Black Women? When did they decide that their survival was not mutually dependent upon the Black Community? When did they decide that it was okay to publicly declare BW as bitches, hoes, etc.?
I really believe in justice for all. Life ain't fair, but the dispensation of justice should be immutable. We are not seeing that with police excessive force. We are also not seeing it with the presence (or lack of it) of BM in the community and family.
I just pointed out the change in demographics because we only have individual control of our image as BW, not a "network" control of our image, so, we should just know that when we are used as the "face of public benefits", we can say, uhm, that picture needs more global diversity.
"All of the southside of Chicago is NOT a ghetto or crime-ridde, but if you think the parts that are are being kept safe by cops, you really have NO clue what's going on (and you probably shouldn't speak on it)."
Then please tell us. I would like to know. I've learned a lot from this site in the short time I've been here. And I have no prejudice about Chicago, I just wanted to know if the heroin trade is driving the crime rate higher in some areas and is that terrible WMD making a comeback into the BC or is it being sold from the BC to the suburbs?
@Ri74 Some Black folks wanted to claim Pres. Obama as their own. I was not one of them, but I expected that he would rectify some things that negatively affected black people. State/municipal police forces receive federal money, esp. in these times of terrorism. Perhaps the number of brutality complaints, tied to federal money?
I realize that he couldn't do things without the Congress, but he was way to appeasing to the Republicans. He could have gotten the single payer option, but then what about his corporate healthcare sponsors? The Affordable Care Act is really horrendous. Why? too many compromises with the Republicans. I don't know why Pres. Obama even claimed that. Search and seizure is constitutional law. Major fail on Eric Holder's part, esp. since it was a case that involved the NJ State Storm Troopers and Eric Holder lived in NJ. Amnesty, well, that is his choice, but he might want to consider doing the same for people who got caught up in federal drug conspiracy laws. Many folks are in federal prison on someone's lie.
But then it should behoove our black political leaders to start making a list. Why do I think that will not happen.
LOL about Charles Barkley, he really is undesirable.
@ole'skool I agree with your statement about BW making better choices with whom to procreate....
But please, I was recently laid off so I am doing the public benefits thing. First time in life and it has been an eye-opener. Let me tell you, the demographic has changed. White folks, lots of Africans, Latinos... English speaking Black folks are in the minority.
@BWC Eric Garner's murder was ruled a homicide by NYC medical examiner.
@Selmix Cosby's back story leaves a lot to be desired. The chickens came home to roost. It is a tragedy, really.
@Ri74 Hi, I couldn't agree with you more about the choices, or really the lack thereof in the presidential political arena at the time.
I don't blame folks for voting for Pres. Obama the first time, the second, well, to each his own.
What I mean by the con is, I am not your only constituency, but the main one and you do for every other political interest except mine?. It is a black male move: stringing BW along for many years and then lo and behold, they meet the white/Asian/Latina, or just remain players.
Pres. Obama stated on his campaign platform that police brutality is an issue. Now, 24 mos. before the end of his term, he is "considering" a panel on police brutality? He just "pardoned" illegal aliens who will outnumber us and outmaneouver us for jobs and political clout. And before anyone comes at me, let me disclose that I am the granddaughter of immigrants. But he has a solution for illegal immigration, but none for police brutality? He couldn't do an executive order to extend unemployment benefits, the single payer option and a host of other democratic political issues?
The first black U.S. Attorney General argues, himself, before the Supreme Court that unreasonable search and seizure is okay, as long as it is applied to all, not just Black people?
That is what I mean by the con on Black people (esp. women). We are expected to support black men, and expect nothing in return. That is illogical and it is not working for us.
As for Barkley's preference for a spouse, I believe I am on the right website to speak on that. If a black man has a white spouse, my swirl (when it happens) ain't his swirl (Christalyn Karazin's words, not mine). Separate and distinct. BM will try and get up any way they can. Will BW recognize when BM try to incorporate our diverse dating choices into their agenda? My eyes and mind have been closed for so long, I'm not missing a beat (at least I hope not) going forward.
@jetirado Thank you so much, ANOTHER GREAT QUOTE.
I need these quotes for my deprogramming away from black community issues, men, etc. Thanks!!