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Its crazy how some people are I would think that when people have friends or a potential mate and you share that person with your family its someone that they care about a great deal...So to look at that person and talk badly about them knowing this person is important to your family member is disrespectful...I think it stems from jealousy/envy/hatred...all the things that spell...I wish I woulda coulda shoulda...

10 months, 2 weeks ago on When Family Openly Scoffs Your Interracial Relationship

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thank you good vibes mon...

10 months, 2 weeks ago on Ladies, Never Apologize for Wanting More!

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Well..said..that's crazy to tell someone that when your miserable you make better music....people people people...we have to improve..follow ours dreams and take chances...we need change and change is constant..

10 months, 2 weeks ago on Opinion: "You think you BETTER than us?" As a matter of fact yes I do.

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when I see any negativity towards single/childless/poor/male/female..you have to take in the information swirl it around...and see if it makes logical sense to you...because some people that throw out numbers makes me wonder how many people did they involve with this study...is this person creditable...so many questions...but no answers...

1 year ago on Of black women and totem poles...

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first of..she is pretty..hopefully they did have other people other than Caucasian in that contest...because even though the majority might be Caucasian to not recognize the other members of the community as beautiful..is taking 20 steps backwards...but on the love of Beyonce...she is pretty she can dance..and some what sing in my opinion...but I guess the most beautiful woman/person is only by look and popularity...not substance...because in my book...looks play a part but I would expect it to include...achievements in the progression of society or something like that..but I guess that is not important or its wishful thinking..

1 year ago on Science Has Selected the Most Beautiful Woman, And Guess What? It's Not Beyonce

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but I forgot to say...there are people that use their IRR as a status symbol....but then people get into relationships/marriages for the wrong reasons all the time...part of the reason the divorce rate is so high...instead of marrying someone for who they are...they marry for what might be(potential)...

1 year ago on Swirling double-standards: Does blaming the opposite sex for dating out work both ways?

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I have heard more AA men say crazy things towards AA women to justify why they date IR..but AA women say some crazy stuff too...like he/she is too broke/uneducated...the AA women don't have their own hair or long hair...the AA men are thugs/gangsters..sale drugs....come on now...stop the madness...

1 year ago on Swirling double-standards: Does blaming the opposite sex for dating out work both ways?

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I understand what he is saying and I understand what she is saying...but what I don't understand is people that don't listen to what the other person is saying...when I have a serious conversation with people or a person...I want to leave with an understanding of where they stand ...just leaving stuff all up in the air...makes me want to scream....

1 year ago on Ralph Richard Banks: "What Do Black Women Owe Black Men?"

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this might be a bit far fetched  but it could be that the women that the AA man choose to be with are damaged individuals...and it made him lump all AA women in one category when they might have done or said something similar to the other women that he had past relationships with...so it made him dissatisfied with AA women and Caucasian women are the better alternative....I might be reaching but it makes a little bit of sense

1 year ago on A peek into a damaged mind: The reason behind intra-racial hatred of black women confessed?

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I really don't  like when people generalize something that doesn't have the right to be...like all black women/children/men...have you taken a people poll...no....that's the first problem...and to think the only reason you have an intimate relationship with someone that is Caucasian is to thumb you nose at Caucasian men..or wait for it.....to feel masculine...and black women just do not fit the bill...why don't we just eliminate all black women so the world doesn't have to suffer as much...because we all know we cause all the world's problems....

1 year ago on A peek into a damaged mind: The reason behind intra-racial hatred of black women confessed?

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Knowledge is sexy.....

1 year ago on Is "Nerd" The New "Cool"?

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I have noticed that what people experienced growing up molds their mind...if you grew up around a lot of different people you might have a tendency to accept a world full of color...but if you grew up with just one part of the spectrum like indigo/red/yellow then that is all you see...glad that didn't happen to me...but...even if I did live like that venturing out in the world...would have changed me I believe..because I'm an open person..but not everyone wants to be open

1 year ago on African Women More Open to Interracial Dating, Unless They "Turn Black?"

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well...I think by nature women sometimes want to help..but enough is enough...you need someone that is your equal or more accomplished...because with people like that around you they help you dream/focus/love/educate/calm your mind...if that person just happens to be Caucasian/African-American/Asian/Hispanic/Martian so be it...

1 year ago on Dr. Black Woman, MD: Fixing Damaged Persons?

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gag me with a spoon...let's move on people...I have sailed so far past this...people of the same ethnic group are racist towards each other...now that is what we need to take a gander it...

1 year ago on Don't Date Massa!! A Note On Slavery And Swirling

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He reminds me of a crazy uncle that will do and say anything to get attention....

1 year ago on Election 2012 Watch: The Motor City Madman, Ted Nugent, Makes Startling Prediction About His Fate

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well...it took forever for him to get to the crust of the video...but of course..it made no sense...its not OK for a AA women to date anyone..because that reminds him of slavery...but if his AA men friends do the same..they are sticking it to the man...wow...that could have been a 5min video...

1 year, 1 month ago on Friday Not-So-Funny: "I avoid Black women that date interracially like the Plague..Black Men can do whatever they want!!!"

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