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Haven't watched the video yet, but I know you. I am proud to call you a friend. You are dynamic, inspiring peice of work.
5 months, 2 weeks ago on Come Hither 101: Tracy Renee Jones Schools Us On How to Enchant the Opposite Sex!
I don't see the big deal. He is a fitness buff that wants to date another fitness buff. Then he should do that. My only thin with this guy is why are you accepting friend requests from big women? That's dumb as hell. You like what you like....ride it out, and don't waste your time on what you're not interested in.
I believe we should strive to be our personal best at all times. I believe physical fitness and great health is a personal must for black women. I'm not tiny, nor do I have an athletic build. I have curves......which I love. What I do not love, is the extra weight that I have, and am working on discarding.
I jus don't understand why everyone is all up in arms over this guys preference.....
8 months ago on A White Guy's Honest Opinion About Black Women...and Their Weight.
I hurt for that child....beautiful piece....
8 months, 1 week ago on It's the LaLaLa From Halsted........
Tracy's words fit, and she' not randomly cursing people out in the comments section. There is a diference between art and belligerence. You will come to lean that.
8 months, 1 week ago on Sometimes the Words Don't Fit in My Mouth.........Makes Me Wanna Holla
Wow you are incredible, girl! That was great......I truly enjoyed it...
Go back and read what I wrote.....
8 months, 4 weeks ago on Black Women Who are Acceptable in Film and TV
As ya'll know, my parents will be married 51 years in less than a week. My mother has her own retirement, checking account, savinggs, job, hobbies beliefs, etc. However, she was happy to take my dad's last name. So, yes. I would do it.
I don't believe all traditions are bad. I think it ads a certain cohesiveness to the family. I know it's odd, lol, a raging liberal like myself with some sort of tradition. Seriously, everyone has to follow their own set of moral beliefs, and do the right thing for them and their families....
8 months, 4 weeks ago on Do you plan to change your last name when you get married? If so, you might want to think a bit more about that choice.
I love this. You are versatile. You bring folks together when other writers only can rip people apart. So good....one of my writing inspirations.
9 months ago on Like Bees to Honey: Be Charming...It's Totally Easy and Well Worth it!!
Only a true pussy has to put down an entire group of women, because they don't have the balls to own their own preferences...next....
OH, and I concur...not a fuck was given...
9 months, 1 week ago on The Ultimate Touché: Blogger Lists Reasons To Date White Men in Response to Ice's Ode to White Girls!
I agree with DeepWater...I'm ready for these stories to be told as well, but it is nice to see these actresses making it further, a bit 'faster' in this buisness then in previous years. I think as more Shonda Rhymes' pop up.....people, meaning white folk in Hollywood with the wealth to prodcue and distribute will begin acknowledging the true diversity of our stories. However, I'm not holding my breath, lol....
Zoe is Latina, above all else....atleast that's what the Latina's tell me. They enjoy downplaying her race, lol. Not all, but when it comes up in discussions that is the first thing that s brought up, and the biggest thing played down. Isn't Naomie Harris English? IMO, I think being black and foreign is a plus in this sense.... you have to be able to supercede your blackness, and that def helps. I'm not saying it's any easier for foreign black actresses, but I think if they're trying to reach a wider, targeted audience then it can def be a plus.
9 months, 1 week ago on Black Women Who are Acceptable in Film and TV
As per usual.....an excellent post. I've been reading some of the comments, a combination of excellent, interesting, tragic, and why are you even on this damn webste.
Mysmile...you're saving yourself for the right time. Do not let anyone try and make you feel odd, wrong, weird, simple or silly about the choice that you made...FOR YOUR LIFE. Stand strong, embrace what works for you in your journey. Be your own role model. As I've gone on in life I've realized folks have a lot of shit to say about how other folks run their life, based on their own experiences, insecurities, strengths and weaknesses. Listening, to honest, thoughtful opinions and sharing of experiences may help you on your quest. I'm one of those 'choice zealots'.
As for therapy....hell, we could all use someone as a sounding board that has nothing to win or lose, so to speak, other than a paycheck and a need to help. If you have had some sort of undealt with trauma...rape, incest, spousal abuse, POW...whatever it maybe...therapy is an excellent option.
You know what amuses me about the entire 'whore', 'slut' thing? You call a talented, well paid working girl a 'slut' she'll rip your head off? Why? To the working girl, a 'slut' is a fool who gives a valuable commodity, herself, away for free. Then of course, to a self-proclaimed 'slut', the power is not in the money...but in the control that she exercises over whom she engages in sexual activity. To the 'slut' a whore is a fool that is beholden to her male customers, and therefore not actually making a 'choice'.
Definition depend on your perspective...... JMO
9 months, 1 week ago on What Black Men Say When Black Women Aren't Around
I enjoyed the article,and I do not believe that Christalyn is raising her daughter to be elitist.
I remember being taunted in school...by the other black kids. Why? Because I dressed different an listened to heavy metal music, the majority of my friends were white, and I wanted to live in Germany. They gave me hell. I mean absolute hell. I was called black, ugly, rusty, stinky...every freaking name under the sun. This was constant. I was constantly told that while I was black...that I wasn't black, I was an oreo cookie, and I spoke like a white girl. Keep in mnd this is at a private school. Well, one day one of the kids that had made fun of me all year long just kept riding me and riding me. He decided that he would bring it up a notch....he got right up under my arms, and started sniffing and saying that I stunk and I was gross. At that point I was done. I picked up the desk and threw it at him. It hit him, and it messed up his glasses, his clothes and everything else. I got sent to the deans office. He laughed, and gave me a week's detention, and the other kid ended up getting suspended. The other kids and the teacher told the dean of students whatt happened. The school felt that he instigated the situation. He never bothered with me again. As a matter of fact, most of them left me alone after that. Was I wrong for throwing the chair? Absoluely. If I hadn't the constant taunts would'v contintued.
The young lady was dead wrong for what she did. However, the young man instigated the situation, and were it not for him egging it on, would she have whipped hisass? I don't know. I don't know the kids. I don't know if this girl is a problem child, or if she was like I was...just trying to get an ongoing situation to stop.
We teach our kids that sticks and stones may break our bones but words will never hurt me. An ass whopping only hurts for a little while, but cutting, nasty remarks leave permanent marks
9 months, 1 week ago on Harsh Reality: Ghetto-Girl Mentality Has Little to Do With Economics, More About 'Fitting In'
@Toni_M @Lance85 @MarkCustard
One of the reason that I love Gwen Stefani, Debra Messing and Pink....they rock the shit out of their boob size, and that is an attractive/sexy quality in a male or female...rocking what you got...
9 months, 1 week ago on Thinking Of Moving Abroad? Better Find Out Who’s ‘Packing’ Before You Start Packing!! (INFOGRAPHIC) | Beyond Black & White
Lance, are you crazy? Sounds like she was juicing you. I had a couple of friends that would do shit like this to guys they thought were simps. They ended up getting shopping trips, and the guys got blue balls and disconnected phone numbers...
Yikes! Stay away from women like that....thankfully, my girls that did this shit back in the day, are married with children now, and they are in a much better place mentally.
You know I laughed when I read that....the only time I ever here 'size queen' referenced is when I'm with gay men, and they're gossiping about who is the biggest bottom, and who's the biggest size queen.
It's rare to hear straight men say that, lol! That post in and of itself made me laugh...
Most adult humor is in some fashion poort taste, but the shit sho' is funny (*in my best Shug Avery voice*)
I still work in the airline industry for atleast another month...and I am on vacay.....hmmmm
Yes, Brenda, I agree with this sentiment. However, if you feel nothing when he's inside of you ...skill means jack shit.... ;-)
Good morning! It's nice to wake up to a peen post! It says that God loves us, and hears are pleas for sexual justice and satisfaction!
9 months, 2 weeks ago on Becoming Kerry Gabrielle Michelle