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@darkandlovely "cursing their kids out in public and smacking them"

WOW.... just WOW... i've seen it too, and it yields BITTER FRUIT!!--many black couples need PARENTING CLASSES!!..LOL

just a few days ago in the town of Antioch CA (SF bay area) there was a HUGE FIGHT of all black and few hispanic girls, as least 20 OF THEM outside the High School.=the cops were too 'afraid' to break it us, or so it seems

it was so bad, that the nearby Taco Bell and McDonalds had to close their doors until 5pm.

I've even read that the town of Antioch CA is the only town of that name in the world outside the one in ancient Syria--when the first Christ followers were called Christians...even some churches are called Antioch

1 day, 12 hours ago on Why are Some Folks Defending Child Abuse as ‘Black Culture?’

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@SirLoinDeBeef @friendswmimi that is the KEY!!

think for OURSELVES!! and not what the 'group' tells us what to think...that GROUPTHINK has to GO!!

1 day, 12 hours ago on Why are Some Folks Defending Child Abuse as ‘Black Culture?’

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@darkandlovely You are RIGHT!!

parenting IS more than money. Besides, i wonder if Peterson knew his dad and grandad as well, and if they beat him as a FOUR YEAR OLD!!--and why he wouldn't settle down and get married, and have kids by one woman!!

i remember, and my dad did too, that you DON'T USE belts etc on a FOUR YEAR OLD.. just a pat on the rump or the BACK of the legs==AND NEVER SOMETHING THAT could leave huge welts like that...


1 day, 12 hours ago on Why are Some Folks Defending Child Abuse as ‘Black Culture?’

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sometimes, when a woman has too little fat, they tend to stop menses, which is NOT HEALTHY.. for their bones later...

3 days, 10 hours ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Ab-solutly.

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@GoldenPrecious A PASTOR?!

GIRRRRRLLLL he needs to be REPORTED! IMMEDIATELY

BTW, i didn't know about the skankiness of the black church until i heard it from 5723michael and Jesse Lee Peterson

3 days, 10 hours ago on QOTW: “Am I Wrong to EXPLICITLY Exclude Black Men from My Dating Pool?”

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@Joyce345 @CecelieKeys WHITE CHICKS was pretty funny though....

but i know what you mean....like MADEA 

i've heard Tyler Perry got that character from a neighbor who used to watch over him, when his father couldn't believe he got molested by a family friend..and beat him when he came forward and tried to tell him

3 days, 11 hours ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@oceanspray @Joyce345 @zipporah @Vivaforever true but ONLY BELOW THE MASON DIXON LINE!!

they still didn't teach that Moses had a black wife..

3 days, 11 hours ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@oceanspray @Joyce345 @zipporah @Vivaforever well, i've heard in the KORAN or is it the HADITH (another muslim writing) that blacks were called RAISINHEADS by Muhammad and belonged in slavery...

i remember that the NOI was started by Wallis Fard--he is either a light skinned black man or a white man, telling black people, that Christianity was the white mans religion while islam belonged to the black man?

3 days, 11 hours ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@Neil Marsden oh emm gosh

you should know that 'slang' changes by the semi decade

just like  the way some use the term aight, for right as in 'he aight'--nomsayin

3 days, 12 hours ago on QOTW: “Should I Worry If the White Guy Macking On Me Has No Black Friends?”

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@KalEl72 she looks a little like 'steroid' use.. although i could be wrong

when there is too little fat on the female body, they look 'off'

3 days, 12 hours ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Ab-solutly.

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@tonyrog ..with 'nude' bras...LOL

have you heard about victorias secret, with its 'nude' bra?

3 days, 12 hours ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Ab-solutly.

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@Man With No Name hate to disagree with you on this one

girls with a 6 pak look strange to me......if they are perfectly FLAT with no 'lumps' that is different....(muscle or fat)


3 days, 12 hours ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Ab-solutly.

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@darkandlovely omg==

i've just watched MTV the other day, and saw a condom commercial

it wasn't the commercial that bothered me but there were THREE girls at a table and one said she was finally meeting her boyfriends father...HUH? and to me, it sounded like she was trying to 'sleep her way to an engagement" ....sigh....

5 days, 9 hours ago on “Did This White Guy Use Me for Sex?” Yeah; Probably. But Not Because You’re Black.

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@Sfbta actually SEX is the PROPER TERM...

gender is only or used to be  in LANGUAGE male gender female gender on nouns

(unless i'm getting old....LOL)

ooh I hate when language changes LOL

5 days, 10 hours ago on “Did This White Guy Use Me for Sex?” Yeah; Probably. But Not Because You’re Black.

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@Brenda55 @MTS2000DES OTOH, I believe if the cop asked for her ID, she should have GIVEN IT...lol

i even had cops ask for mine at times, its NO BIG DEAL

i remember when my mom would get pulled over by the cops for doing stupid stuff, and she was even able to talk herself out of a ticket=='just cooperate' with the cops===

in a way, she sounded a little like Professor Gates part deux.... when the cop asked for his id at his house..when he locked himself out

5 days, 10 hours ago on Update on Danielle Watts: BB&W Exclusive Interview with Boyfriend, Brian

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@GoldenPrecious having said that, there are some 'black churches' who are like neighborhood churches who are very bibical their is even one in Berkeley CA 

1 week ago on Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race Traitor”; “Bed Wench” for Calling Out Ray Rice Disparity

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@darkandlovely this is why, IMO, that some women will agree to live with a boyfriend, and thinking it will lead to marriage... when the guy many times is only trying the girl out sexually...


its not will ALL COUPLES though, but in GENERAL...

1 week ago on “Did This White Guy Use Me for Sex?” Yeah; Probably. But Not Because You’re Black.

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@Nikki J ALWAYS CHARACTER ABOVE COLOR

because there are WM who could be DBRs as well

AW, etc...

1 week ago on QOTW: “Am I Wrong to EXPLICITLY Exclude Black Men from My Dating Pool?”

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@Chicago404 STEMs and PHDs? and still waiting, being a mule etc.

this beyond SAD...

ITS hard today to find guys of any kind who are in these fields who aren't married at a young age.

1 week, 3 days ago on Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race Traitor”; “Bed Wench” for Calling Out Ray Rice Disparity

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@mim86 "nothing about the OOW pregnancies, nothing about the men not acting the way men should"

this is why I don't TRUST solid black churches like AME, COGIC etc...

this has to CHANGE

1 week, 3 days ago on Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race Traitor”; “Bed Wench” for Calling Out Ray Rice Disparity

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@Lady A @Tammy_Ghalden @harem BTW, I saw on the news WM turning in their Rice Jerseys because of what is happening

if that isn't in BW corner, i don't know what is...

1 week, 3 days ago on Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race Traitor”; “Bed Wench” for Calling Out Ray Rice Disparity

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@Lady A @Tammy_Ghalden @harem Its possible, that even though many BM don't want to protect their women, or think this way, OTHERS would PROTECT US...

Besides, i for one, didn't like the 'foppish' ways many black men have/had

i tend to go for guys who are outdoorsy, and many of them tend to be either WM or BM who aren't raised in a black 'community'

BTW, Prince was raised by a BM but his mom is an Italian WW

1 week, 3 days ago on Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race Traitor”; “Bed Wench” for Calling Out Ray Rice Disparity

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This may sound a little 'off the cuff'

but Super Bowl XLVII was rather eerie

49ers and Ravens

1) they  had the Harbaugh brothers who 'looked' like twins on both teams (i can't tell them apart well..LOL)

2) the teams were BICOASTAL

3) the lights went out for 30 minutes 

4) they have TWO GUYS NAMED RAY, who are BOTH BM... who are VIOLENT

Ray Robinson is on the 49ers and got in trouble recently but there simply is no VIDEO


i feel sorry for Janay, but she reminds me of an old blues song done by Billie Holiday

TAINT NOBODYS BUZINESS IF I DO== (its on you tube)

the lyrics speak of abuse, and in the song, she gives him money as he is a drinker and beats her up....


If this isn't a WAKEUP call for BW or ANY WOMAN messing with BM who are 'traditionally raised' i don't know what else is there!!

traditionally 'hood' female headed AND having the women MULE FOR THEM!!


1 week, 3 days ago on Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race Traitor”; “Bed Wench” for Calling Out Ray Rice Disparity

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@sunflowerraven i'm just hoping this look TAKES OFF

i haven't seen this many skirts with this length since the late 80s!

with the 'sundress' look

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@Brenda55 @FriendsofJay You got that right...70 isn't old anymore

in fact some of them are stronger than guys in their 50s

i even know a guy, from our church who is 92 but don't look a day over 80

1 week, 5 days ago on BB&W’s Very Own ‘EarthJeff’ is Getting Hitched!!

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@indiestar777 @zipporah @FriendsofJay well, IMO, if its a girl, they 'tend' to take after HIS mom etc... the kids look like the paternal GRANDPARENTS..




1 week, 5 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@kennaGransberg i just found this identical story on a 'conservative web site' that goes worldwide--so everyone knows about this. Just like clockwork, all of the redneck racists come out to put in their 25 cents

1 week, 5 days ago on How Blackistanis Police Their Own: Girl Gets a Beat Down for “Acting White” (And Being Too Light)

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@HowardTyroneSmithII @NYMan "not being single all of my life"

meaning he wants you to be MARRIED SOMEDAY?.. GOOD FOR HIM!!!

you should THANK GOD that you at least have a father---even if you are/are not from a divorced home

the father/son connection is an IMPORTANT ONE...with daughters too, but fathers give their last name to children (this is why when a married woman gets a bank account etc. they ask for mothers maiden name)

1 week, 5 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@SweetGardenia @LovelyLulu A POLICE OFFICER?!

you have to be KIDDING....LOL

i wouldn't trust any man who does this, trying to serve the public with a GUN....

1 week, 5 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@cspeed @indiestar777 it seems like AFRICANS don't have the 'stigma' of NOT speaking proper english

besides, i love the african accent anyway (nigerian women).. more than the 'black american' accent...LOL

1 week, 5 days ago on How Blackistanis Police Their Own: Girl Gets a Beat Down for “Acting White” (And Being Too Light)

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@BWC actually the 'reverends' need to BE HERE when things like this happens

i NEVER hear them bring this up--when they NEED TO --unless they are full of 'hot air' and not preaching the GOSPEL and try to heal the people in this issue...

just my rant..

1 week, 5 days ago on How Blackistanis Police Their Own: Girl Gets a Beat Down for “Acting White” (And Being Too Light)

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@HowardTyroneSmithII @MissFLondon @ChocolateDiva that is just TERRIBLE!!

being a man is taking RESPONSIBiLITY for your actions

OMGosh, WHERE IS THE CHURCH in the hood?


that is NOT feminist teaching, to be a responsible MAN

1 week, 6 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@darkandlovely --another brain 'drain'...LOL

"the problem is IMO that they were 'not' childfree"

1 week, 6 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@ChocolateDiva it seems sadly that 'some' people DO think we are 'idiots' (whites and others)

these folks are making us 'look bad' ..sigh...


most people have the WEB and could see how these silly males and females ...are

1 week, 6 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@zipporah @Chicago404 WOW...LOL i meant DAUGHTER!!

it looks i'm having a brain***, since i'm 55 years old, and (ummm) MENOPAUSE

that GOD I didn't have the hot flashes :D

1 week, 6 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@dani-BBW @MissFLondon @onmywayup @zipporah @LovelyLulu is THAT A 360? looks like a conk to me, except upward...black men look the best in short afros, and no pierced anything!!

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@kennaGransberg @Tammy_Ghalden I WONDER how Erykah Badu is today......

"wooooooooooooooooooooah"

"wooooooooooooooooooooah"

Bag lady you gon' hurt cho back...

i just found out who she was.....sigh

black woman in blackistan===my silly daughter likes that song, and has it for a ringtone...

well. she likes to sing...LOL

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@Tammy_Ghalden a person could have 20 kids like the DUGGARS but there is ONLY TWO PARENTS FOR ALL OF THEM.....Mr. Duggar didn't have 4 babymamas along with his WIFE...

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@ChicMystique IT TAKES A MAN TO CHANGE OR FIX STUFF LIKE THIS!!!! not her.....

besides, the only thing a woman could change on a man is his DIAPERS.. men and women are that different sometimes.

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@Expresso24 WOW,, i've seen them!! and not in the 'hood' either..thats right the 99 cents store

just noticed, we don't have the c symbol with a line thru it for cents anymore 

i don't think they ever had unless it was an adding machine

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@MissFLondon @ChocolateDiva yep, black men should have been taking the RIGHT COURSES in college, like STEMs, since those were mostly male

but what did they do? take courses like 'black studies' 'sociology' etc.

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@darkandlovely the problem is IMO that they were childfree, its that they are HUSBAND FREE

i've heard in my 20s, that if you were NOT MARRIED by the time you are 30, you would be an 'old maid' etc.. 

and yes, many people who were 30ish in the 1980s, and not married were more likely DIVORCED rather than unmarried, so they could be playing from that 'script'= I've even heard then that 25 was the cutoff from my AUNT (mom sister) for marriage since my cousin got married at 23....and she had 4 boys..

people know that babies don't stay small and become grown males who are a mess or females who in need of love and perpetuate the problem

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@Chicago404 100+ children??!! back in 1995?, (my daughters was born in 95) so they could be, many of them, around the same age as Michael Brown.. its  A BIG MESS alright

and EVERYONE WORLDWIDE is watching this foolishness--since they are 'linked up'


this breeder nonsense wasn't popular before, at least i haven't heard of it by my parents, relatives, etc.

2 weeks ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@The Working Home Keeper @FriendsofJay @BreannaNouveaux of course not all black women subscribe to 'groupthink' but too many of us STILL DO

in fact BM are into groupthink as well!

and it has been the factor IMO of what held us as a group BACK 20 years, while the other minority groups MAKE IT --businesses and otherwise..


when a BM/BW does NOT subscribe to groupthink, is when we will MAKE IT

and i agree with you: 

not all white people are 'out to get us' (besides i never hung out too much in 'black circles)

these folks still live in the past, when other groups just WALKED ON


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@Swirlgirl28 @HowardTyroneSmithII @thecrazyartist @Christelyn yep, in the BC the boys tend to be 'coddled' and the girls are taught to work

this is where the feminists 'dropped the ball'

heck, if a women wants to be an engineer, and wants to 'save a man' with her paycheck, many men today, NOT ALL would LET HER

2 weeks, 2 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@HowardTyroneSmithII they tend to be 'hypermasculine' because they haven't seen REAL MEN within a MARRIED FAMILY..and just learned from the MEDIA

it IS what it IS

2 weeks, 2 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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@your epiphany "his mother was coddling him"

THAT IS THE PROBLEM!! why did she pick on her granddaughter like that?!

a reason why some BM don't seem to 'man up' is because they haven't seen any in 35 years

2 weeks, 2 days ago on Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with These Silly Women Who Think They’re “Special!”

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