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@PaoloP @zipporah @ChocolateDiva naah i have a husband and he is good with tools, but there are lots of men with sons who don't know how.. or just get to the next level on their video games

10 hours, 47 minutes ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@Ri74 its possible because they were 'trained' by women for not allowing them to take care of them, so he could be a narcissist--"i could take care of myself" she would say...... and if she needs something from him, she is a golddigger

11 hours, 49 minutes ago on Matthew Hussey: Five Signs You’re Dating a Toxic Person

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@PaoloP @ChocolateDiva ooooh i LOVE SEEING GUYS WITH TOOLS like building tree forts, etc.. even if i knew a few things.. i would just go and 'LET THEM do their thing.....LOL

A MAN with a son around 7 years old, should show him how to BUILD THINGS as well as shooting baskets or using a baseball bat...LOL

13 hours, 22 minutes ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@coco78728 SOMETIMES the sunscreen doesn't work at all, even an SPF of 50

many of these people are northern euros though.... like swedes, etc. or have ancestry as such

i know a few sisters who have to watch their skin for changes of moles

they have to be clothed in the summer and STILL wear the 50

13 hours, 24 minutes ago on Zara: Eight Reasons Why We Love Black Women

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@Neil Marsden @Ri74 @The Working Home Keeper @onmywayup @Cami2210 @StarStroy when guys get 'high maintenance' they get EXTREMELY NARCISSISTIC

and shows he didn't have a strong father figure

man of any color....

1 day, 11 hours ago on Zara: Eight Reasons Why We Love Black Women

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@Ri74 @The Working Home Keeper @onmywayup @Cami2210 @StarStroy this is how women should act.. YOU HAVE TO ALLOW THEM TO DO THINGS FOR YOU... or else they wouldn't know what to do .....LOL....(just kidding; i hope i'm not coming off weird when saying that)

1 day, 11 hours ago on Zara: Eight Reasons Why We Love Black Women

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@18andlegal @trinigirl1 @Calypso2 i also didn't care much about many BM when i was younger. for one thing, they seem to 'overdress' and/or not be able to make minor repairs on cars--the one i dated didn't though--brakes seem easy for them..LOL

2 days, 8 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@Lady A 15!? it means she was born in 2001

2 days, 15 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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hmm the picture with the BM wearing the earring is a huuuge turnoff

I KNOW that is not the doctor--OR AT LEAST WM doctors would not be caught dead wearing them--at work...LOL

2 days, 15 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@palefloret @zipporah @Deanna125 i think 80s stuff is better than the 90s

ESPECIALLY in what we wore--back in the 80s in Nor CA, women would wear DRESSES at least 2/3rds of the time, and only since the 90s that women stopped wearing them completely unless they were waaay above the knee

3 days, 11 hours ago on The Battle of the Azealias: Who Gets Mocked, Who Gets Protected.

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@PJDeanwriter "i do not recall this misogyny, disrespect and plain ugliness before 1980" 


but it was 1980 onwards when black men started to make RAP videos, when this happened

BEFORE THIS.. the dark skinned women like Cicely Tyson and Lola Falana were all the rage

when RAP went into videos, only light skinned women were shown in videos from then on

3 days, 12 hours ago on Want To Know What Black Men REALLY Think Of Black Womanhood? Ask Kanye!

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@onmywayup "male-identified" is so BACKWARDS.. since its the man who finds a WIFE...

4 days, 11 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@RobertSMcIver then the accountants, who are WW really don't have a brain.. and aren't thinking of the 'future'

women marry UP.  as a rule, because they don't want to leave their children in daycare

4 days, 11 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@onmywayup @RobertSMcIver ..and i think some WW are getting the idea.. 

if WW still want to compete with men especially WM he would go out with a BW and get married (and take his money with him)

4 days, 11 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@FriendsofJay you know it!!

its crazy, and i don't even keep up with regular 'reality show' media.

over 1200 comments!?

4 days, 11 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@your epiphany @_Toni_ @KinaGloria you know the kardashian famIly has DYSFUNCTION when JENNER became JENNER-FER

4 days, 11 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@trinigirl1 @zipporah so THATS IS.....LOL

i'm not even going to READ THESE

hey CHRISTELYN is all over the YOU TUBE BLOGS....

just heard a dude named KWEISI 100,, (david carroll's protege, since he sounds like a younger version) make a video called NO NEGROS ALLOWED

saying its a dumping ground on BM

4 days, 12 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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WOW, just came on board AND cant even imagine this many COMMENTS....LOL

4 days, 12 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@SavannahPost @trinigirl1 @onmywayup AND DON'T EVEN  get me STARTED ON THE MAURY SHOW!!...sigh

6 days, 14 hours ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@SavannahPost @trinigirl1 @onmywayup .changed, like in the last 18 months or so. If you look around-also notice how many young people in the spring are going to be like the young people of the past? or will they look simply more DESPERATE

6 days, 14 hours ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@StarStroy @zipporah @kennaGransberg its said to 'obey' your HUSBAND and not men in general as well

but it didn't say to love our husbands, but in titus, it says for the older women to teach the younger how to 'love' their husbands

DON'T FORGET' these were GREEKS, as well, and were just getting into the CHRISTIAN belief systeM

grecian men and women were WILD at first...


1 week, 1 day ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@GoldenPrecious WHAT?!

It sounds like he could be a 'pedophile' (although not in the crazy sense... or is it)

19 is just two years older than 17, and he is 35?

1 week, 1 day ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@DWB @Christelyn  @StarStroy THE WhOLE 'RACE' THING blah blah blah.. etc.

Reminds me of my ex-brother in law....sigh....

few black men know how to even handle being in the country, how to USE TOOLS and make repairs on their house or cars... etc.. 

this is rather common, since most of the men from other cultures know how to do this

FOR EXAMPLE.. when you see a automotive store, even in a ;'black community', you will see ONLY MEXICANS, WHITES, and sometimes ASIANS

1 week, 1 day ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@kennaGransberg @StarStroy women are the HEART. but THE BIBLE says for MEN TO LOVE THEIR WIVES.. and the women to RESPECT their husbands, and it doesn't seem to work that much the other way


i jusT WONDER ABOUT THESE 'black churches' 

they seem so IMPOTENT!!

1 week, 1 day ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@BeautyIAM @Vivaforever "keeping them on a pedestal"?

i think that is CHANGING as we speak.

many WM are going out with ASIANS.. since they heard their marriages last longer--WM aren't stupid

1 week, 1 day ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@dwbp i believe its ALREADY HAPPENING

for one thing, WM/BW don't tend to 'compete' with each other-{and it could be a reason their marriages tend to last}

like WW/WM pairings---and BM, the ones who are heavily into the modern music WILL try to compete with the BW--like being a good protector-provider person (knowing how to use tools; fixing minor repairs in the home) etc.

1 week, 1 day ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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@Jamila BTW, this COULD BE A REASON POLYGAMY became commonplace until christianity BROKE IT...

too few men being there to teach the younger men how to be a good husband , protect and provide for your families, etc.

women wanted babies before being with a 'marriage' and would 'go it alone' if they had to....

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Jamila "people relying on marriages that were made 3 GENERATIONS AGO"

even WW are into this mess as well--of course not all WW or BW but the 'masses'

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Bunny77 @Jamila EXACTLY!!

its the AMOUNT of OOW children that is the problem

if there were only a few, it wouldn't be so bad, but many of these children have ANGER ISSUES because they feel UNLOVED, especially the BOYS who think their fathers simply don't CARE

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@darkandlovely @your epiphany @Maragirl many times 'SAFE SEX' isn't always safe

condoms do break, BUT AT LEAST she should have told her about the 'facts of life'

my aunt did that once, (dads sister) thinking i was going to have sex at my prom night.. BUT it was a mutual friend of ours who said

She WAS 'full of it" LOL

and not even go there, because of the BODY/SOUL connection

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Aabaakawad @sparel @321ZYX They need to know by 3RD GRADE at least, but we have to use TACT because of their age group...

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@thecrazyartist @ChocolateDiva TRUE, but we need to be there for some of these young girls THEIR CHILDREN and tell them, they don't have to make THE SAME MISTAKES.. 

like SHOW them our wedding rings, and tell them what a REAL ANNIVERSARY IS

simply because there are some confused kids around that think being single, means not having a BOYFRIEND--it just means you have a boyfriend but you are still SINGLE.

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Alana 2 @Neil Marsden "a christian background means no birth control"

i don't think so, there is something ELSE happening here IMO

it could be the pastors of those churches are not preaching the BIBLE or they go into 'BLACK LIBERATION THEOLOGY instead

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Sia05 sometimes, MR PHD is already married by the time you get yours?

no not like they used to be...

1 week, 4 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Aabaakawad @kennaGransberg "black elite" saying this

@:^(

it sounds like the song ELEANOR RIGBY.. an old Beatles song of a lonely woman

1 week, 5 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@MsEva in your first paragraph:

BEING WIDOWED is DIFFERENT than being a SINGLE PARENT

except for 'bachelor father' who was really her uncle

1 week, 5 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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i liked the video, BUT when they say, YOU COULD KISS THE BRIDE.. she KISSED HIM FIRST

its a little 'off'

1 week, 5 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Mulatta y Nativa i didn't know what ABC stores were, until I thought; A-BC

which none worked...

i'm 56 and from NOR CA. Not from the south

also, if you look at the connections between Lincoln & Kennedy, they are EERIE

1 week, 5 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@The Working Home Keeper i know that even if women don't have a man in their lives (you are SINGLE until you are MARRIED) women could still celebrate Valentines Day with giving their girlfriends cards

i've even went to a LADIES TEA which many of  them brought Valentines and gave them to EACH OTHER

this is what makes us DIFFERENT FROM MEN...

LOL

1 week, 5 days ago on Open thread. VALENTINE WISHES

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@MissyMorose its possible, but some in the BC use abortion as birth control, on top of the OOW nonsense

1 week, 5 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@Mulatta y Nativa its mostly the 'black community-post crack,c/RAP'

WE weren't always like this before 1984

and even if some of the BM who went out with NBW like in my family, didn't used to 'cut up' when they see BW with NBM like they do today

1 week, 5 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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@giantrafflesia @FriendsofJay @kennaGransberg i've even heard 'asian' types call whites AMERICANS but not blacks or other groups

i WILL BE GLAD WHEN THEY CALL ALL OF US AMERICANS

(my inlaws, who are part phillipino would say stuff like that--i corrected them, and said 'white')


@;^D

1 week, 5 days ago on Carrie: “Ulterior Motives: Are We Dating Interracially to Escape?”

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@PJDeanwriter @Keioni we've had BIRTH CONTROL SEMINARS for YEARS--since the 1970s

its not that, its because the sexual union is SPIRITUAL.. and no amount of sex education will stop the OOW birth rate

we need to sometimes, starting in 5th grade, bring abstinance.

or at least TRY TO

1 week, 5 days ago on Open Thread: Is Fighting Against the Black 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate a Lost Cause?

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