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@BeautyIAM @itsgoodtobeme i HATE that term
STRONG BLACK WOMEN
does it mean you have to be stronger than the males? --some say the SBW crippled the BM--it could be an 'excuse', but a valid one, since WE are the ones who have the small children==and are supposed to get good role models if we don't have adequate ones--MALE ROLE MODELS of any color
does it mean, you didn't have a father who loved you like a girl should be loved? "Daddys princess"
no other female group uses this term--individuals do, but not to the extent that we BW do
2 days, 13 hours ago on Live Tweeting from Ferguson; But Is @Jack Dorsey a Potential Ally for Black Women?
@caligirl94117 @sbstewartlaing this is why, some conservative WM who are into BW or has a black wife and is Christian, could be the better choice at times
most conservatives IMO, tend to be 'colorblind'
i have yet to meet one who says silly stuff
3 days, 12 hours ago on I’m So Glad Russell Brand Opened His Big, Fat, Mouth. Proof the Many Liberals Practice Soft Bigotry
@Browncow @caligirl94117 he has been on you tube for about 5 years before he decided to run.
Years ago, i told him, "i didn't like his earring" LOL
he got a little angry, BUT he learned not to wear it in certain company, so, even though he lost the race, he doesn't wear it anymore....LOL
@Browncow @caligirl94117 Derrick Grayson is also on youtube as tmotofga
i listen to him sometimes, and people would call him TMOT (the minister of truth--of Georgia)
BTW, he also does videos in his car as he drives thru the streets--calling it a 'drive time'
i'm surprised he didn't get a ticket since he drives, and then looks right to the camera...LOL
@JolieMelodie BTW, there are some BM who are discriminated against by parents who are biracial
i didn't know this at first, but my daughters currant boyfriend is a BM and he said that a girl he liked had a black father and a Phillipino mom, but they wouldn't let him go with them.
He also had the same problem with an african girl he liked.
it just seems like these silly negros don't care who they hurt with their foolishness.
these stereotypes harm the good BM out there who are tattoo free..LOL
also, her black boyfriend has two black parents and have been married for 26 years
there are also a nice couple.
3 days, 14 hours ago on Is It Okay to Discourage Your Daughters from Dating Black Men?
@Lady Cheetah @bellechose @dani-BBW I think, in a way, many who are calling blacks who want a change 'sellout, uncle tom, etc'
may BE the sellouts themselves, and still want you on the 'training wheels' which many modern civil rights people are. Not all though, but really, most of the civil rights people in the modern era, tend to want to over protect the BM over the BW, instead of getting your son, nephew, etc to be an independent man with a lucrative career.
Possibly get married and have kids in that order
3 days, 15 hours ago on Live Tweeting from Ferguson; But Is @Jack Dorsey a Potential Ally for Black Women?
@Lady Cheetah True, but many BW who may be single, have SONS who need to be brought into manhood
and if there are NO or few black men willing to do it, all it takes is one MAN to help do it
No.. you don't have to be married to him...LOL
although its a big plus, if your sons mentor is already married to someone else, and could see what a marriage or how to treat ladies is like..
i've always thought this way---especially when i was raised by others who are Not Black, but also not white either.
BEING A WOMAN FIRST....
@bellechose of course BM would 'starve' simply because they didn't make better decisions years ago.--c/RAP with its F** the Police just made things worse.
I also notice that they're fewer BM than WM and especially AM in STEMs type courses, which paid better; instead they would go into sociology and stuff like that, which wasn't cohesive to a business environment
BTW, i have a female cousin taking STEMs courses right now, and going to be a medical engineer!!
@The Working Home Keeper YOU GOT THAT RIGHT...LOL
besides, if blacks in 2014, etc. try to follow Jesse Jackson, Sharpton, et al.
its like a cyclist trying to ride a bike on TRAINING WHEELS
At one time, Jackson was needed, but not in 2014, he is a hinderance in many cases.
My aunts used to like Jackson back in the day, but i think if they were still alive, and seeing blacks making it, along with other minorities, they would change their minds
3 days, 15 hours ago on I’m So Glad Russell Brand Opened His Big, Fat, Mouth. Proof the Many Liberals Practice Soft Bigotry
@ttyl203 @bellechose EYE CONTACT is very important since many 14-30 year olds seem to be on their smartphones..LOL
and you will have an advantage smiling and talking to people
5 days, 12 hours ago on UK Girl’s Response to Skinny Pickings for Swirling Across the Pond
@mzsunshine @bellechose it is possible, that what we EXPOSE those 4 year olds to will make them happy or sad
another thing we need to do is MONITOR your childs MEDIA!!
@ReneeMoore "SWIMMING KAYAKING, and CYCLING"
LOL, what you get from some NOT ALL, BM, is that you 'think you white'
and some BM never even learned how to swim
i LOVE those kinds of things too
i bet you like Camping and the REI store..LOL
5 days, 12 hours ago on Is It Okay to Discourage Your Daughters from Dating Black Men?
@Divalicious @bellechose this really isn't a black and white issue
IMO, if i seen my daughter with guys with uber tattoos, not taking the right courses in school,partying too much NO MATTER WHAT IS COLOR IS
i would get 'leery' LOL
its just too bad, that most blacks have at least one tattoo somewhere on their body and the men are marked up really bad
i have talked so many girls OUT of tattoos and they listened, although i LOVE henna art because it isn't PERMANENT
@Marielisa_ DBRWM and DBRAM do exist, and may think, since you/she is a BW, then she is 'fair game' to mistreat
it really isn't a color thing,,'besides, i would be leery of my daughter dating or going out with dudes with too many TATTOOS and piercings anyway
no matter what color, since it is part of the c/RAP culture, since many of the lyrics are into bashing BW more than other kinds, even if they don't say it
I remember Betty Chambers said something like this:
if your non-bm has too many BM friends into the c/RAP culture, be CAREFUL.
@your epiphany @Chicago404 she has to be MARRIED to have a child!!--i was 35 when i got pregnant, although married at 30
i didn't want kids before that.
why can't these women understand this?
BTW, there are some women ADOPTING instead of having a natural baby.
My pastors daughter did just that, and so, the little baby has both sets of grandparents, with two parents..(a 'normal' family)..LOL
1 week ago on Stay Away from Sociopathic Men Who Wish to Corrupt and Shackle You Via Single Motherhood!
@FutureLobbyist @Chicago404 I'VE heard of people getting pregnant at 48, even knew the woman...
after she and her husband, got their kids off the college, GUESS WHAT?
the little girl is very healthy, but people think she is the grandma..LOL
@ChocolateDiva dude needs to get a VASECTOMY!!!
@Lala88 I'M just hoping, that DBR s who are NOT BLACK (whites, asians, arabs) will think BW are fair game
especially if the guys are into the c/RAP music culture
JUST BE CAREFUL LADIES
@Reaching_100 hm black PROFESSIONALS are like this?
i wonder if all of the other non white PROFESSIONAL groups think we are this stupid? no?
many of them are MARRIED before they have children
@CassieM12345 @Zetahille IMO if men don't want to have children, or be responsible for them, they should have a VASECTOMY!
I know a guy who did just that, after he had one kid since he didn't want anymore after he got married.
besides, i've heard it could be reversible in certain circumstances
@Keioni @Zetahille genital mutilation seems to come from africa as well, or what i've heard, since the arab muslims 'say' they don't believe in this
@caligirl94117 this kind of talk is happening in San Francisco?
noticed you zip code...LOL
GET PREGNANT? from a DOCTOR who doesn't know you?--heck i got married at 30 and had a child at 35
at first, i thought the black community wasn't this bad, but this is ridiculous!!
@tonyrog @zipporah northern, southern, or central?
don't want to get too personal though...LOL
@dani-BBW i have found out, in my lifetime, that it takes MEN to change other men
women could only do it in certain circumstances, and also 'indirectly'
i've heard this from wwnh.wordpress.com
WHAT WOMEN NEVER HEAR
Mr. Guy, said men tend to be stubborn in certain ways for women to be 'too direct'
1 week ago on To the Guys Ready to Swirl, ” I’m rooting for you, I really am. But we need to talk.”
@darkandlovely @Michelle Corion @anzidavis why should they?!
boys ARE NOT GOOD unless they are raised by STRONG MEN who tend to teach them right from wrong
1 week, 1 day ago on Stay Away from Sociopathic Men Who Wish to Corrupt and Shackle You Via Single Motherhood!
@Bellydancer OK,. that is jUST CRAZY!!
EVEN some rednecks know better than this..so far....
you have kids AFTER you get married
there are only so many generations that could do this before the nation crumbles, and many blacks are looked DOWN by other people groups (asians, some latinos, arabs) MORE than whites for this kind of thinking.
@tonyrog I've just saw a youtube video with Jesse Lee Peterson
the title is OLDER WHITE MAN OFFERS SOUND ADVICE TO BLACKS--the guys name is 'jimmy'--'jimmy' is on the phone with Peterson and is 83 years old and is from the south...
he said the BM doesn't cherish the BW--very similar to what this blog says
i wonder if it is you...LOL with a fake name....LOL
you should put a link of this video since i don't know how to, but many on this blog may not like Peterson
i've haven't heard of this at all
besides, my moms friend had foster teenage girls, and all of them were on the pill in the early 1970s..they ALL were white as well
so, this must have been between 1960 and 1963 (if it happened), besides, it would be OK for the husband to know what is going on with his wifes' health, and her with his
this was what kept marriages together
1 week, 2 days ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…
@chocolateadmiral @Swirlgirl28 just today, i've heard of a native american cop in OK who was assaulting BW and finally got CHARGED and given time for it
he even raped a few
1 week, 2 days ago on How to Talk to Your Partner About Racially-Charged Issues
@KalEl72 hmm, I also believe, if it was a female cop, and was attacked, she would have shot him wit NO QUESTIONS ASKED
he punched the cop in the face and broke his orbital socket.
1 week, 3 days ago on How to Talk to Your Partner About Racially-Charged Issues
@The Working Home Keeper @introvertedwanderer @darkandlovely TRUE
but their are Asians and Latinos who are into c/RAP music who DO use the word
heck, on a hot day, you will see non blacks with their windows rolled down listening to a song with the N word every 4th word
Also, there is an Asian who is on you tube named Ryan Higa, and since he is into rap, his handle is NIGAHIGA
BTW, I've found another channel with Asians called the FUNG BROTHERS.. they tend to be funny when they show all of the Asians cultures (making fun of their own stereotypes, and most of the videos are FAMILY FRIENDLY (no cussing)--along with their Vietnamese friend who looks French with Asian eyes...^-^
she shouldn't worry about how he feels about her culture, BUT the best thing is to get hi to the ALTAR, and if she met most of his family, she is 'halfway' there....LOL
since he has a 21 year old daughter, it shows he is NOT a guy under 35 and may be more mature about these things
1 week, 5 days ago on (Bonus) QOTW: “How Can I Talk About My Culture with My White Boyfriend?”
@FriendsofJay i believe it wont be just WM that could view him in a bad light, but other minorities as well
anyway, what that father should have done IMO is to get his son into STEMs courses in high school/ college since it is a rare thing to see BM there. It would also give him respect.
another thing the man should do for his son is to get him to learn a 2nd language
Besides, sports are harder to keep up with after 35 with injuries etc. and he would need something to fall back on
my gosh, he wont lose the positive things of our culture if he does that
@BreannaNouveaux BTW, when they tend to marry and have kids with such women, they tend to have an 'exotic' look and not just 'biracial' especially when 'biracial' looks like a , 'mixed black'
(these are just for the hardcore WM who are afraid of what others thought about him)
1 week, 6 days ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary
@BreannaNouveaux WE MUST CHANGE OUR ENTIRE THINKING!!!!!!!!!
you have SAID a mouthful!!
we just have to bring it up to these BW
BTW, many WW aren't doing that much better either (unless they are blonde and thin)
the ones getting the 'cream of the crop' males are the ones who are latina, asian, or mixed with such....
@Leona_LoveQuest @Oaktown Paul @Keioni @Daisy_inthe_Field I heard that 'real men' need to be needed..and if the woman is 'too independent', it could be a 'turnoff' or worse, attract the lesser qualities of men "mamas boy' mr unambition, etc."
2 weeks ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary
@QueenAnne uh oh,,, the gold digga thing is starting to 'creep into the young WM culture'=millenials
since THEY listen to sc/RAP music as well
not a day goes by, when i see a WM as well as a latino, etc. with their windows rolled down listening to SC/RAP with NIGGER blasting in their ears every 4th word........nigga...
2 weeks ago on Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix
@tonyrog tonyrog... you are JUST TOO FUNNY!!! lol
WHERE DO YOU GET THIS STUFF!?..LOL
@tonyrog too funny!!
but we DID think, that IF BW would start helping the 'community', we would have our guys come back, get married, etc....
what we got was BLACKISTANS==full of women with two generations of children...from 1 year, to 40 years
@tracyreneejones ol' Leroy: hmm they could add other silly names like Javonte, Traeyvon, etc
i still wonder WHO WAS THE FIRST trayvon
@zimekcyn many of my cousins said stuff like this (not the marriage is for WP--now many of THEM aren't even bothering to get married)
the cousins who said stoopid stuff, many of them got on DOPE and some of them are either on the street, --i don't know where they are, its just sad, since we grew up together
i have been married for 25 years, and even my stepdaughters are having trouble in this
my daughter in which i'm hoping to get married, is still a virgin, finds a good husband
@tonyrog @tracyreneejones @dani-BBW nice catholic boy i see>>>>LOL
what was your baptism name..mine is MARIE
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@BeautyIAM long hair on men along with pierced ears looks GIRLY to me
if he didn't have a slight mustache, and a shirt on, what would he look like...?
@tonyrog i ALWAYS WILL LOVE NAT KING COLE
but it would rather imagine him with short dreads--never liked the 'conk' look. Besides the Ink Spots didn't have it, and wore their hair natural..
@tonyrog Rock is biracial=mom i think is pacific islander
since his daddy was the SOULMAN ROCKY JOHNSON in the 1970s
WOW, i even remembered the fight when the Von Brauners complete with Nazi costumes tried to beat the Soul Man, but i was there are the COW PALACE right in the 3rd row, and NO, they didn't even hurt each other
its was all an optical illusion....LOL
@tonyrog wellll....IMO---- bald guys didn't look all that hot
UNTIL THE SHAVED LOOK.....its an optical illusion, when a guy doesn't have that 'horseshoe ring' around his head
in fact, this seems like the only style that makes sense, better than pierced ears...LOL
2 weeks, 2 days ago on Two BB&W Fans Sitting in a Tree…Real Life Meeting on Two Regulars. Sparks?
@caligirl94117 @zipporah @belabela ...hmm, and just GUESS who are the 'monolingal' speakers? the Basic black/white 'rednecky' people, and they seem to have the highest unemployment rates
in fact, latinas, asians, and even some african or dominican types could get a job over them
2 weeks, 5 days ago on Are Black Women Extra Clueless When White Men Approach Them?
@The Working Home Keeper @heron_sky @darkandlovely @mzsunshine @FriendsofJay IMO, not only a-line dresses get you noticed, but in some way, it makes your 'silhouette' look like the X chromosome that you are...LOL
the Y looks like a male and is closed, or looks like 'pants'