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she shouldn't worry about how he feels about her culture, BUT the best thing is to get hi to the ALTAR, and if she met most of his family, she is 'halfway' there....LOL

since he has a 21 year old daughter, it shows he is NOT a guy under 35 and may be more mature about these things

1 day, 20 hours ago on (Bonus) QOTW: “How Can I Talk About My Culture with My White Boyfriend?”

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@FriendsofJay i believe it wont be just WM that could view him in a bad light, but other minorities as well

anyway, what that father should have done IMO is to get his son into STEMs courses in high school/ college since it is a rare thing to see BM there. It would also give him respect.

another thing the man should do for his son is to get him to learn a 2nd language

Besides, sports are harder to keep up with after 35 with injuries etc. and he would need something to fall back on

my gosh, he wont lose the positive things of our culture if he does that

1 day, 20 hours ago on (Bonus) QOTW: “How Can I Talk About My Culture with My White Boyfriend?”

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@BreannaNouveaux BTW, when they tend to marry and have kids with such women, they tend to have an 'exotic' look and not just 'biracial' especially when 'biracial' looks like a , 'mixed black'

(these are just for the hardcore WM who are afraid of what others thought about him)

2 days, 17 hours ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

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@BreannaNouveaux WE MUST CHANGE OUR ENTIRE THINKING!!!!!!!!!

you have SAID a mouthful!!

we just have to bring it up to these BW

BTW, many WW aren't doing that much better either (unless they are blonde and thin)

the ones getting the 'cream of the crop' males are the ones who are latina, asian, or mixed with such....

2 days, 17 hours ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

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@Leona_LoveQuest @Oaktown Paul  @Keioni @Daisy_inthe_Field I heard that 'real men' need to be needed..and if the woman is 'too independent', it could be a 'turnoff' or worse, attract the lesser qualities of men  "mamas boy' mr unambition, etc."

3 days, 19 hours ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

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@QueenAnne uh oh,,, the gold digga thing is starting to 'creep into the young WM culture'=millenials

since THEY listen to sc/RAP music as well

not a day goes by, when i see a WM as well as a latino, etc. with their windows rolled down listening to SC/RAP with NIGGER blasting in their ears every 4th word........nigga...

3 days, 20 hours ago on Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix

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@tonyrog tonyrog... you are JUST TOO FUNNY!!! lol

WHERE DO YOU GET THIS STUFF!?..LOL

3 days, 20 hours ago on Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix

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@tonyrog too funny!!

but we DID think, that IF BW would start helping the 'community', we would have our guys come back, get married, etc....

what we got was BLACKISTANS==full of women with two generations of children...from 1 year, to 40 years

3 days, 20 hours ago on Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix

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@tracyreneejones ol' Leroy: hmm they could add other silly names like Javonte, Traeyvon, etc

i still wonder WHO WAS THE FIRST trayvon

3 days, 20 hours ago on Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix

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@zimekcyn many of my cousins said stuff like this (not the marriage is for WP--now many of THEM aren't even bothering to get married)

the cousins who said stoopid stuff, many of them got on DOPE and some of them are either on the street, --i don't know where they are, its just sad, since we grew up together

i have been married for 25 years, and even my stepdaughters are having trouble in this 

my daughter in which i'm hoping to get married, is still a virgin, finds a good husband

3 days, 20 hours ago on Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix

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@tonyrog @tracyreneejones @dani-BBW nice catholic boy i see>>>>LOL

what was your baptism name..mine is MARIE

5 days, 17 hours ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@BeautyIAM long hair on men along with pierced ears looks GIRLY to me

always did'......LOL

if he didn't have a slight mustache, and a shirt on, what would he look like...?

5 days, 17 hours ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@tonyrog i ALWAYS WILL LOVE NAT KING COLE

but it would rather imagine him with short dreads--never liked the 'conk' look. Besides the Ink Spots didn't have it, and wore their hair natural..

5 days, 17 hours ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@tonyrog Rock is biracial=mom i think is pacific islander

since his daddy was the SOULMAN ROCKY JOHNSON in the 1970s


WOW, i even remembered the fight when the Von Brauners complete with Nazi costumes tried to beat the Soul Man, but i was there are the COW PALACE right in the 3rd row, and NO, they didn't even hurt each other

its was all an optical illusion....LOL


5 days, 17 hours ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@tonyrog wellll....IMO---- bald guys didn't look all that hot

UNTIL THE SHAVED LOOK.....its an optical illusion, when a guy doesn't have that 'horseshoe ring' around his head

in fact, this seems like the only style that makes sense, better than pierced ears...LOL

5 days, 17 hours ago on Two BB&W Fans Sitting in a Tree…Real Life Meeting on Two Regulars. Sparks?

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@caligirl94117 @zipporah @belabela ...hmm, and just GUESS who are the 'monolingal' speakers? the Basic black/white 'rednecky' people, and they seem to have the highest unemployment rates

in fact, latinas, asians, and even some african or dominican types could get a job over them

1 week, 1 day ago on Are Black Women Extra Clueless When White Men Approach Them?

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@The Working Home Keeper @heron_sky @darkandlovely @mzsunshine @FriendsofJay IMO, not only a-line dresses get you noticed, but in some way, it makes your 'silhouette' look like the X chromosome that you are...LOL

the Y looks like a male and is closed, or looks like 'pants'

1 week, 1 day ago on Are Black Women Extra Clueless When White Men Approach Them?

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@Vivaforever @The Working Home Keeper i feel that many young girls today, tend to be 'not as pretty' since they aren't allowed to be feminine.

there is BEAUTY in femininity, even if the woman isn't as beautiful to the eyes

it makes up for it


i've even heard, that this is a reason some 50-60 yos are prettier and are more approached for dates than millenials because of this


looking like a 'TART' really isn't pretty (MIley Cyrus? Hello?)--wish they would bring sundresses back as standard wear instead of 'hot pants' 24/7 or seems so

1 week, 2 days ago on Are Black Women Extra Clueless When White Men Approach Them?

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@belabela this is what its like

since black americans tend to be the only minority group WITHOUT a second language


so, we 'stay to ourselves'..not me though..since i've been in non black areas all my life

i say non-black since many people i was around were phillipino, mexican, etc.

1 week, 2 days ago on Are Black Women Extra Clueless When White Men Approach Them?

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@Lili2009 wow,,its amazing he had such an 'IMPROV' ability

BTW, there was an improv school in SF i've visited in highschool--they did an act for us.


we would give then a scenario, and they would 'act it out'...but then, i was too stoopid NOT to go to in or want to, was also shy then.

1 week, 2 days ago on Open Thread: Share Your Favorite Robin Williams Moments

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its funny,

it could be possible, that what we have been seeing in him, was his MANIC BEHAVIOR.. (acting like a cartoon 24/7, that made us laugh-don't forget, he even played POPEYE)

BTW, there is a comedienne named Chonda Pierce who had a similar style. Later she said that she had to get HELP FOR HER DEPRESSION...


now, when i see any one, MALE OR FEMALE who acts like this, i'm tempted to have them GET HELP. But i wonder, if they already know they need it, or is afraid the meds would make them 'lose their comedic edge'

1 week, 2 days ago on Open Thread: Share Your Favorite Robin Williams Moments

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@Patricia Kayden @Vivaforever well, my 20 yo great niece, said many guys of all colors go for the asian women..even if they are 'liberated' simply because asians have this 'submissive look' 'only to them'

they have the stereotype working WELL for them--we just need to stop listening to the 'blackistani' tripe


heck, even if the BW wants to date BM, she would have better chances if the BW who wants a WM dates out


1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@tonyrog @Driving Miss Britt WOW...LOL

that little boy may look like part of the mans family (nephew, son) since he does seem to have a 'biracial' look

1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@The Working Home Keeper @Brice Cameron same here

i had a WM boyfriend in which i was his first BW

then my husband who had two WW marriages before, i was his first BW and we have been married 25 years on July 30th 2014.....LOL

1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@FriendsofJay WOW, Jay, "that black girl is darn cute...."

this could be the reason many WM didn't hit on me in the 70s

and you would know, seeing that you are a WM

1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@tonyrog @Driving Miss Britt simply because, his parent(s) (hopefully he has two) may become YOUR inlaws, if you marry.  When you have your baby, he will have two sets of grandparents....

1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@tonyrog @Nippyfan89 like the picture, but it looks like SHE is the aggressor especially when she pulls his hair


IDK, i'm a little traditionally  romantic than that and the guy should be in that position

since she is pulling his pony tail, and that is a 'female thing' 


like i said...LOL i'm a little 'old fashioned' on this issue...

1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@Nippyfan89 "BLACK WOMEN DON'T FALL FOR THE TRAP!"


and stop LISTENING TO c/RAP...lol..rhymes


if you want to hear any music, its best to listen to stuff made BEFORE the c/rap culture started--pre 1980s

i've always loved the 50's and 60's type stuff.


1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@onmywayup @tonyrog although the LTR's sound GREAT

we need to get to THE ALTAR

don't forget: Mr, & Mrs. Loving could have lived in Caroline county as 'common law' when they  got pregnant and would have had no problems, since many in that area were not segregated


Its was when they wanted to get MARRIED that they got in trouble--

in fact, many White people has black blood from some common law relationships


1 week, 3 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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@MixedUpInVegas i was a virgin, and didn't have a pap smear until i was 18

1 week, 6 days ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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@MixedUpInVegas I KNOW this may sound good, and sometimes girls don't even want to go into these talks,--since many mid teen girls still want to stay children--and if you give them 'talks like this' may just tend for them to go 'over the edge'

unless you know your daughter

besides, many guys don't respect the girl or don't care for her--except to be a party girl

same teaching for boys since they are even MORE FERTILE 

and their lives are even more messed up for making kids


the best talks are the 'virgin' for both talks

remember NWNW

1 week, 6 days ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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@zimekcyn @Law Wanxi @Tammy_Ghalden BTW, i've also seen on another blog, that FATHERLESSNESS among BOYS and even girls, is a reason for them DROPPING OUT OF SCHOOL--the blog is called ruthblog.org

they said its harder for a girl to find her MRS in college for this reason, and with many Asian types,  Koreans, etc, they 'tend' to keep up with their children especially sons better, or so ive heard

2 weeks, 2 days ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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hmm i just remembered

this is dated July 30, 2014, my 25th anniversary...LOL

2 weeks, 2 days ago on OMG…Let These Folks Be! In Their Ninety’s, Interracial Couple Fights to Stay Together

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@JeffreyAlanStephens WOW.. he sure does

i wonder if JIm Henson seen someone who looked like this to pattern Waldorf by....LOL

2 weeks, 2 days ago on OMG…Let These Folks Be! In Their Ninety’s, Interracial Couple Fights to Stay Together

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@Ariesgirl1418 @Brenda55 @Tammy_Ghalden it is true, about boomers:

it seems that the generation has taken from their parents, AND their children

boomers in general were able to see their friends parents stay together as a rule, even if their parents divorced


Also if you were a boomer, you had a chance to go outside and soak up some vitamin D, but your kids stay in the house, and when they go outside, the medical community tells them to put on sunscreen 24/7 even if they are dark...

KIDS NEED SUNLIGHT.. just not too much of it.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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@HaroldBozarth i couldn't believe he came right out and said Lupita was UGLY

even WM don't say that about super white redhead actresses

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@tonyrog @SirLoinDeBeef @Keyasha hmm, i bet the first girl who is blonde has her natural hair and her natural hair color

the BW mom may also have a WW for a mom for these kids to look that way

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@Christelyn  @DanielleYay @Keyasha Christelyn, i've told my daughter about you, and when she pulled up your name on her cellphone..shes seen all of these crazy blacks with anti-Christelyn videos on there

i couldn't believe it!! 

it shows that you are making AN IMPACT,, even more than Evia

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@Vivaforever the only culture that is affected not by europeans, is the INDIAN CULTURE!!

They were colorstruck even before whites set foot on their shores...


the whole DALIT movement is an example of this

the dalits are the darker skinned INDIANS who are simply the lowest class in their country and sleep in the dump, unless they become Christians--and many are.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@FriendsofJay I believe if this guy gets with a non bw and has a kid by her, he would have a RUDE AWAKENING... 

because IMO, the MAN tends to carry the color and the hair texture of the first children

the reason Halle Berry looks black, is that her DAD is black--if it was her mom, she would look more racially 'ambiguous'

some exceptions though, are the blacks with a JEWISH parent--Mowry twins, Jasmine Guy, Tracee Ross.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@Keioni perhaps, similar to blond WM looking more 'feminine', but i still don't see it.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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@caligirl94117 @FriendsofJay i wonder if you saw that article by MUSLIM BUSHIDO, another blogger.. which shows that many BW bloggers are starting to use the color BROWN instead of BLACK for describing themselves

she said the MEN do NOT use the color BROWN and still refer themselves as being BLACK

SHE blames the c/rap culture for the change...

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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I hate to say it BUT my 20 year old GREAT NIECE said this has happened in her 20 years of living in the BC

she is rather dark skinned and very beautiful.----

i told her to probably go to where other groups of men are and if someone asks her out for coffee, to go--but she is still likes to date black men

its ok, but she would have a better chance getting a better black men if she goes to places where other men are, and when anti blackistani bm are around.--since we know, many BM are where the non bm are...


the way this guys personality is, IS NOT SURPRISING since c/rap music caused darkskinned bw to feel bad at least 30+ years ago--since he looks way under 40.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Looking Black Women. See for Yourself Why Expanding Your Options is Necessary.

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I've heard that the OOW rate in the US is actually 2/3rd or 64 percent ACROSS THE BOARD..

this isn't just a BW problem


although for a group, we have the highest.....

all BC fails at least some of the time.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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@DWB @deleted_27953618_girl1015 when i see people like this, i wonder if is a BM in disguise because today, many of the people in 'power' aren't necessarily WM but other non-bm who not only have a 'second language' but out of wedlock births tend to be frowned on. Many asians, arabs, and even latinos are doing better than whites who are born OOW

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@Christelyn  @VadimvandenDonk colorism is a BIG PROBLEM in the BC, like i said on another thread--"black men may like to date darkskinned women BUT they would rather have peer pressure define who they are, so, they go for the woman that their friends and other c/rappers think is a 'dime' which means lightskinned.

and DOUBLE for the guys who have no real strong male figures in their environment who married women and stayed with them.


if a BM was raised among real men, they would go for them

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@tonyrog @BreannaNouveaux speaking of fatherlessness, i've heard about some tv anchorman who just got suspended by using the term of black family fatherlessness being the problem

but now, I've heard on other circles that america is having 64% of UNMARRIED WOMEN HAVING CHILDREN!! that is 2/3rds, not just BW. What is going to happen when THEY grow up. some one needs to STOP THE CYCLE!!

BABIES GROW UP and tend to repeat it, unless it is stopped by people getting involved and mentoring these young children of all races.

especially married couples who were married for a while.

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