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@tonyrog @BreannaNouveaux speaking of fatherlessness, i've heard about some tv anchorman who just got suspended by using the term of black family fatherlessness being the problem

but now, I've heard on other circles that america is having 64% of UNMARRIED WOMEN HAVING CHILDREN!! that is 2/3rds, not just BW. What is going to happen when THEY grow up. some one needs to STOP THE CYCLE!!

BABIES GROW UP and tend to repeat it, unless it is stopped by people getting involved and mentoring these young children of all races.

especially married couples who were married for a while.

3 hours, 44 minutes ago on Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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@Nippyfan89 yep, since the c/rappers started calling women ho's etc, many of them tended to have low self esteem and started acting out...just look at how some of them want to show the mess on WSHH, to get a laugh..and most of the victims tend to be darkskinned women.

3 hours, 49 minutes ago on Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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@darkandlovely @RhondaSpeights this is actually where it comes from... THE "FRIENDS"!!

since many BM might go for a darkskinned BW but wont because it would make him look like  a 'simp' if he does.

3 hours, 55 minutes ago on Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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@Chicago404 like...Tommy? since he is the one who coined the term 'hair hat'....LOL

and the dude doesn't even know how to swim.

3 hours, 59 minutes ago on Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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@tonyrog Hey, i look at skin color among us blacks, similar to looking at hair and eye color among whites, it really is not difference, but i KNEW since the mid 80s when c/rap became popular, that c/rappers didn't like the women who looked like themselves and wanted to go 'lighter'.

that music was disrespectful to women and mostly black women SINCE Sc/rappers Delight (taking her to the HOTEL..and bragging about it)

4 hours, 2 minutes ago on Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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i was away in central CA when i've heard about this--(away from the internet most of the time) 

you gotta know, whites and other non-bm are hearing this too (since central CA has fewer blacks than northern and southern CA), about BM not wanting to have BW who are darker than they are--its really quite embarrassing and also leads to the other ethnics thinking we are 'less than' since even our own men don't think we are 'worthy' as a group.

4 hours, 9 minutes ago on Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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@Minn_man we all come from the same two parents all right:

if you look at some multiethnic families..for example: two biracial parents with at least one 'black' ancestor, and you have at least 10 kids from that family, all of the kids could look like three different 'people groups'.


I've heard the country singer Neal McCoy was PART PHILLIPINO and part white, instead of being biracial, but to me, he looks 'black american'..its just the way some of them 'look' since some of the provinces over there have tribes that look black.

4 hours, 16 minutes ago on Ladies, Be VERY Careful Dating Ethnic Men. Parents and Family Often Come First

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@caligirl94117 coming to think of it...many have that ABB (anything but black) status among potential brides

thanks to the modern media of c/rap music and saggin pants--and many GAT-DL tend to make 'excuses' for that behavior instead of 'calling it what it is'

4 hours, 22 minutes ago on Ladies, Be VERY Careful Dating Ethnic Men. Parents and Family Often Come First

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@kiki jones @Gooner483 they are even very colorist among themselves

just look at India and the 'dalit' peoples..simply because many of them are darker; they are even slaves, but the strong Christian churches over there are trying to change it.

Ravi Zacharias, D'Souza and Jindal would have been considered 'half caste' if they were raised in that enviroment--and this belief system was before whites set foot in india.

4 hours, 25 minutes ago on Ladies, Be VERY Careful Dating Ethnic Men. Parents and Family Often Come First

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@SweetGardenia @Gijou LOL..i am ALWAYS telling women this. Most of the teen girls in my social circle know this one though, but others tend to be surprised when I tell them

"you don't get quality men with your BODY but your mind and the rest of you"

the body is usually until after marriage, or at least 'engagement'

or else, guys will take ADVANTAGE of this...and then go to someone else, 'if' he didn't see his mom and dad together or at least around other long term married couples...

2 days, 2 hours ago on Intimacy Is Not Built Through Sex. Surprised?

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LOL...BTW,,,,,me, my mom & dad, etc. were ALWAYS the only black person in any group

besides, not all of the non black people were whites  either--there were Phillipinos, Mexicans, etc.. but just no blacks--

5 days, 23 hours ago on Feeling Lonely? Isolated? Use Social Media to Create Your “Circle of Support”

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@EqualOppLover @The Working Home Keeper cool!!

as long as the WM is a good one.. because so many are NOT and could be as bad as some BM, and there are some BM who are good guys like this woman's husband

it all depends on what you and him are into

hobbies, etc....

5 days, 23 hours ago on Reader Letter: Black Woman Married to a Black Man Sees the Site for What It Is

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@AnakaMuthaEarth ...and BM were marrying WW since the early 70s, and we should have nothing to say about it?


2 weeks, 2 days ago on “Im a Negro Bed Wench,” and Other Things I Learned Since Marrying My Husband

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@Geekette221B i bet having such a messy relationship with your dad, made you want to NOT MARRY A BLACK MAN==OMG calling you a HOOKER?==BTW, my daughter is a watermelon junkie, and has my dads lips...LOL

for me, it was my ex-bro in law, who was into afrocentric stuff in the late 60s and all the while, beating my sister..so if I didn't find a BM like my dad, who was NOT raised with some of the black 'dysfunction' because my grandmother wouldn't let him, i ended up marrying a man who was mixed with stuff, but not with black.


that is what it is with these africentric negros---of course everything is for the BM and if they want a BW, she has to be as close as white as possible

look at what Marcus Garvey was into--he didn't want black women to straighten their hair, but who he married was a lightskinned BW with straight hair.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on “Im a Negro Bed Wench,” and Other Things I Learned Since Marrying My Husband

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@KalEl72 is that you daughter? or your niece? just saying since she looks biracial

although its not my business since i don't have a picture with my username....LOL

3 weeks ago on Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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@KalEl72 love your USER NAME

SUPERMAN.....LOL--Kal El was his name before Clark Kent

either you were born in 72 or someone from your family was.---although i could be wrong.

3 weeks ago on Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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@TexasGurl @darkandlovely @ElLagoJeff Even 'strict and religious' homes raise their children BETTER than that and to be very careful..... unless she didn't have, male mentor,  a father or close religious grandfather nearby.


BTW, i don't watch these type of shows anyway--and they work from a 'soft script'

3 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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@kia although i may be wrong again on this one, but educated WW or other types of women would NOT waste their education just to be some guy's educated mule, so they could be househusbands

3 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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@kia True:

it could be similar to the BM who stand by, watch a few BW fight over them and then PUT IT ON WORLDSTAR HIP HOP for ALL THE WORLD TO SEE.


I've seen this from other sites, who aren't necessarily 'black only'. They are the ones trolling around WSHH just to make BW look bad....although i may be wrong.

3 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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@tonyrog @Browncow WELLL,  i've heard this from my Uncle who was from Philidelphia....LOL

my dad and him would joke about his--it was kind of a 'macho' thing among guys==a little like some guys using the term 'nigga'

they can use it BUT WHITES CANT....

CPT------LOL

3 weeks ago on Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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@tonyrog @Browncow even blacks were drinking tea with their pinkies out--LOL

the guy didn't know many blacks, but then, all people today aren't using mannerisms like that anymore.

3 weeks ago on Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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@EarthJeff "inserting racial jokes, etc"

OF COURSE!! just watch the movie GUESS WHO when Kutchers character went to meet Bernie Mac and daughter.

he told all kinds of 'jokes'

3 weeks ago on Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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@The Working Home Keeper @SirLoinDeBeef IDK...

to me, it seemed to go 'downhill' since the early 00s--the women started acting a little 'wild'---even my stepdaughters couldn't find decent guys to go out with

hence the term DBR-WM....LOL

3 weeks ago on Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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@Law Wanxi @zipporah NO... LOL...

i made it up. I've known a few kids who were into the Nortenio gang, and they called the Surenios, SCRAPS...since both were latinos, i would call the gangster types, SCRAPTINOS.. especially since they could be real business people, learn to work a real job, etc.

3 weeks, 2 days ago on One Black Mother’s Heartbreaking Story of Raising Her Son Amongst a Nest of Miscreants Intent on His Ruination

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@Brenda55 i notice, in 'blackistan'--the only ones  who know how to work on cars are the latinos.

When i go out with my husband, to get a car part, only latinos and asians are in the store buying parts to fix their cars.


It could be because few BM are there and know how to teach their sons, grandsons, etc, how to change their brakes, for their mothers-(ok, i know there are black guy mechanics, but haven't met any in a black neighborhood)--i know, a little 'off the subject'....LOL

3 weeks, 4 days ago on One Black Mother’s Heartbreaking Story of Raising Her Son Amongst a Nest of Miscreants Intent on His Ruination

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@LadyHumor @DWB @International_Responder a CROWBAR to the machine, and scatter the money within.... saying

'MY FATHERS HOUSE IS TO BE A HOUSE OF PRAYER, AND YOU HAVE MADE IT A DEN OF THIEVES"


i still can't believe some of these churches can't read english.

3 weeks, 4 days ago on New Documentary on the Black Church Shines a Light on Prosperity Pimps for Dollars

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@dani-BBW sometimes, if you don't go to church, it is good to listen to CHRISTIAN RADIO... like Focus on the Family, Family Life Today and other shows like that

BTW, Mark Gungor Show online is a good one to also listen to, and he has a sense of humor also...he could be very funny!

3 weeks, 4 days ago on New Documentary on the Black Church Shines a Light on Prosperity Pimps for Dollars

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@darkandlovely JESUS WOULD HAVE TAKEN A CROWBAR to the ATMs.

just look at what he did to the moneychangers!!==made a whip with cords....read the bible and see!!


"my fathers house is to be a HOUSE OF PRAYER,,, And you have made it a DEN OF THIEVES"!!

3 weeks, 4 days ago on New Documentary on the Black Church Shines a Light on Prosperity Pimps for Dollars

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@WendyLBarber THATS RIGHT... if they preach the tithe system,,, we need to have a BETTER SHOWING on where the money goes.

BTW, some churches do, and use their tithes in community outreach. If the pastor has a large home, he may rent rooms out to others, or have them stay until they are on their feet.

If a pastor preaches the tithe doctrine and has NOTHING... HE MAY BE what Jesus calls a 'HIRED MAN' a false shepherd who cares nothing for his sheep.

3 weeks, 4 days ago on New Documentary on the Black Church Shines a Light on Prosperity Pimps for Dollars

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oh and yes, it was a man beating a woman similar to the Rodney King fiasco, and no one is rioting..so, it only when BM are treated like this, that people riot?..hmmm

3 weeks, 4 days ago on Why I Have Mixed Feelings About the Firing of the Co-Host of the “Opie & Anthony” Show

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speaking of being labeled an 'it',

today, there was this hwy patrol man creep, who was beating a dark skinned homeless BW outside on Interstate 10 in LA, 

I'm thankful someone recorded it, BUT IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER if someone tried to stop it.

she was badly bruised when they found her---i still believe, the guy who filmed it could have been close enough to try to stop this.

3 weeks, 4 days ago on Why I Have Mixed Feelings About the Firing of the Co-Host of the “Opie & Anthony” Show

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I believe, as soon as he leaves blackistan, and gets into a middle class enviornment, he may be ok, but will need counseling for his PTSD....oooh this is TERRIBLE!!

guys also have to watch not only for ni@@as, but for scrap-tinos (latinos)  as well, since they tend to be a little wild, but then again not as bad as all black areas.

4 weeks ago on One Black Mother’s Heartbreaking Story of Raising Her Son Amongst a Nest of Miscreants Intent on His Ruination

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@_Toni_ Country music is 'different' meaning, it has a multigenerational way about them, and the 'gentleman cowboy'  (not actin up, and not shaming your daddy/papaw-papaw is southern for grandpa) is still a mainstay in many of them...at least for now.

1 month ago on Riddle Me This: What Other Award Shows Have Actual Shootings and People Killed ‘Black Excrement Television’ (BET)

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@lindsaynagle just like 45 years ago at WOODSTOCK.. but at least back then, the kids had so many toy guns, and decent parents in the home to NOT HAVE SHOOTINGS.

i remember seeing a video of WOODSTOCK and they had some either teens are college age women being filmed skinny dipping!, and don't forget, the LSD...wheeeeee

(i never taken drugs BTW, unless the doc gave them to me)

1 month ago on Riddle Me This: What Other Award Shows Have Actual Shootings and People Killed ‘Black Excrement Television’ (BET)

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@Brenda55 @tracyreneejones humph... thats tellin it... such a scam=Dude is BROKE!

BTW, where are the radical feminists? aren't they going to come forward and try to STOP THIS? IDK

1 month ago on Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Harem….You Know, for ‘Black Unity’

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@Brenda55 yes, and don't forget PMS.. at the same time

hmm i wonder where he going off to when that happens...LOL

1 month ago on Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Harem….You Know, for ‘Black Unity’

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@NYMan WELLL the church lady DOES look like a woman from the FLDS camp

1 month ago on Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Harem….You Know, for ‘Black Unity’

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@DeepWater @Will E Uhm i guess, he could be a white DBR..

i've seen lots of them thru my stepdaughters...hey, not all black men alone are DBR...

1 month ago on Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Harem….You Know, for ‘Black Unity’

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@International_Responder OH,,,lol..

I am a person who is partial about men wearing long dreadlocks, etc.!!

they are for 'women' and look the best on them IMO

i remember last year, when the 49ers were playing Green Bay,  my hubby thought--"are their girls on that team?!"since they didn't have facial hair. (he was in a mood and not much into sports : i'm not either, but like the 49ers because of home team allegiance)

so, the guys probably in the islands should wear their hair shorter.


although before someone calls him a 'square', he does play rock type music, but don't like hair past a certain length...on males,, similar with me with guys wearing pink....LOL

1 month ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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@Browncow @JolieMelodie @KendraTaylor I KNOW HOMESCHOOLING is the way to go!! (they have conventions that could help you as well)

my cousins were homeschooled, and when they graduated High School at 18, they also got their A.A. from junior college, so all they need to do for a B.A. is to go two years to a university, and they are done.

its also cheaper, and when the economy loosens, they will have networked with others to find the best jobs.

1 month ago on Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Harem….You Know, for ‘Black Unity’

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@International_Responder this reminds me of that c-rapper who had kis by ten... 10...TEN different silly BW and they wanted to make a REALITY SHOW of this!!--stoopid SHAWTY LOW.. reall low...LOL

even the mormons who want to do mess like this limit themselves to four

OMGosh WHAT AM I SAYING!! Will this be the be-all end all to some black families? the ones who haven't seen a father or a married couple for at least 40-45 years?

its time for BW to widen their options. NO, not everything whites do are racist, check out ALL AVENUES and join EVERYTHING...ski clubs, ranches, go to oktoberfests, Shakespearean plays--

too many of use STILL AREN'T circulating.==especially for our 'education'....with our degrees, we NEED WISDOM...

(coming back to earth)

not saying all black families are doing this, i know a few good ones, BUT this is unreal

1 month ago on Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Harem….You Know, for ‘Black Unity’

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Also, what i've heard, is that 4a-c hair tends to have more body when straightened than 3a-c hair and that could be why they wear it the way they do

Although IMO 3 type hair may be 'straighter' it falls short when it comes to 'body'

i remember my moms white friends  kinda wishing they had the body my hair did when you rolled in into a style...although i was young then, 

straight fine hair, to whites, isn't 'good hair' either or what i've heard.

1 month ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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@MimZ241 east asians as well are into this... not just euros

in fact, they were like this BEFORE the euros... remember the CASTE SYSTEM they were under? and still are?

also, there is a Christian woman in the sudan that is very popular right now, since many of the muslims over there wanted to give her 100 lashes for becoming a christian and leaving the muslim religion. Mrs. Ibrahim.

and yes SHE IS BLACK and so is her husband--so the 'white supremacy' issues don't affect all of us, unless we wanted them to affect us

1 month ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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@Brenda55 oh BTW, 

there is a lady who has a business that is called BIG CHOP ACCESSORIES

she is on facebook, twitter and instagram

1 month ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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@BreannaNouveaux MANY of us are 'religious' but DON'T PRACTICE IT CORRECTLY.. or else, if we did' WE WOULDN'T BE HAVING SO MANY OOW BIRTHS==and, no, i don't blame slavery for giving us Christianity, don't forget, the Ethiopian eunich in the bible, became a Christian and brought it to many of his people before any of the Europeans did, especially northern Euros

1 month ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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@jazzyfae45 Coconut oil is also pretty good--since i'm between 3b-4a..i have 3b type of hair down by the nape, and 4a hair by the hairline

1 month ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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yes, i've even heard a black man somewhere on you tube bring up the ole' GOOD HAIR... BAD HAIR meme..and i told him off!! (forgot which video; but the guy looked under 30)

i said, it was guys like you that causes some darkskinned girls who are black americans to not have proper self esteem. It seems like african, caribbean types aren't as affected over this, although i could be wrong

1 month ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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