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@cns @zipporah @tf9009 @MiseeHarris it is what it is..LOL 

i used to be confused with Pacific Islanders all the time when younger..with my nappy hair... 

15 hours, 11 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@cns @tf9009 @MiseeHarris well. imo, some hawaiian (polynesian) types look like blacks anyway but there are not very many TRUE HAWAIIANS because of THE mixing with the Japanese

15 hours, 39 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@Keyasha heck, my mom always had a boyfriend even after my dad died (she never wore pants..LOL and wore sheath dresses--she was overweight and short)..... i think many young ladies need to change up on what they are doing

go on What Women Never Hear.. wwnh.wordpress.com... yes many WW are 'single' too but this is a black womans site..LOL

15 hours, 41 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@Keyasha single 'no boyfriend' or single 'not married'

i consider all women single until married---or engaged

15 hours, 43 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@BreannaNouveaux its ok to walk alone sometimes, but the kicker is that they don't have a ring on their left hand--with or without kids

15 hours, 50 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@joytulip 'male ego' with them but 'like attracts like' in some instances

perhaps, when she starts becoming a Dr. she could take some time off and start a family--providing she marries a high quality doctor.......since most docs who are women are married to the male doctors

15 hours, 52 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@The Working Home Keeper @Statuesque i LOVE the newest one, when Sir Guy brought up about using the term DARLING and how men used to call women that

15 hours, 55 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@PaoloP @Christelyn  @GoldenPrecious "say WHAT?!" and the dood didn't even give one cent to her support? even diapers? etc.

16 hours, 18 minutes ago on On Vetting: Dump Toxic People Who Prefer You to Sustain Unhealthy Habits

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@MerrieHare @Michael Miles YES!! the dominos are very FUNNY THOUGH..."BIG SIX" blammmm

clinking them  bones...LOL

16 hours, 21 minutes ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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well, i've been on you tube. and what SOME are saying like a dude called darevolutionarywiththetattoos he used to be called danigga...(i look sometimes to see what DBR types are doing), some BM is for other BM to STOP THE COLORISM

well I THINK its a little too late

i think they KNOW that BW are moving on

1 day, 12 hours ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@kennaGransberg @simplylois WOW, and Harvey is giving advice on how to date and marry, and he CHEATED?!

BTW, i've seen him on Christian tv once, but my young 13 yo great niece said he is still rather 'foul' on his radio show...(ok one of my weaknesses is the STEVE HARVEY SHOW on TV) because sometimes he has pretty good guests on there

1 day, 12 hours ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@ShepherdNation WELL IT could be a date for those in high school. Lattes are pretty good...LOL

1 day, 13 hours ago on AAWG: Tell a white guy

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@NicoleLittle WHAT?! doesn't he want better for you than himself?

its ok for you to 'need' him for a while, but doesn't he want you to get married and bring him GRANDCHILDREN?


i've heard that BM need educated women, because today, they are not doing as well, and need them to put in a word for a job, etc.

1 day, 13 hours ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@ms22perfect WOW, YOU WERE 20 and he was 37 when you got together?-large age gap for someone under 30=this 'relationship' stuff is usually something some men say if they don't want to be 'responsible (unless he is special)

that doesn't sound right sweetheart.. you need to either get married (2 years is long enough to waste with one man, ) or leave--he just might follow and 'put a ring on it'

1 day, 14 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@horrorjunky hmm they must now KNOW about the word LOVE and how its used in the BIBLE

you could LOVE someone, wish the best for them, but don't have to have them in your life. i think this is where the BC gets mixed up, many don't know about the GREEK LANGUAGE, even the pastors==they just 'whoop'

1 day, 14 hours ago on On Vetting: Dump Toxic People Who Prefer You to Sustain Unhealthy Habits

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@MarthaLankford @zipporah C. Delores Tucker and Dr. James Dobson, were screaming from the housetops about this type of mess--and Dobson should have had the black church backing him--Tucker said it too, but i don't know if she was from a church or not..

1 day, 15 hours ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@MsEva ==darker BM and lighter BW, is just a 'takeoff' on how when white couples are together, the women has lighter hair and the men has darker hair

its still rare to find the opposite in any direction

BTW, IMO, if a darker skinned BW goes out with a WM, it doesn't count, since they are two different looks

1 day, 16 hours ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@MarthaLankford i know it sounds trite. BUT ...why did BW in the early 80s even GIVE MONEY to men for them to degrade them.. with c/RAP.. 

the late 80's were WORSE, but we still gave them our money, and our time (hey, a brother is makin' it, give him a chance) while he calls you ho' b**ch etc.?

NO!!

WHERE oh WHERE is the OLD MOTOWN crew?

they are so 'yesterday' that there is a MUSICAL called MOTOWN

not a MOVEMENT

1 day, 16 hours ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@tonyrog AND IT LOOKS LIKE she is getting MARRIED although i could be wrong...

4 days, 14 hours ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: AfroPunk

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@tonyrog this probably isn't a bad look, if it was blue henna.. which is TEMPORARY

4 days, 14 hours ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: AfroPunk

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OOH I HATE PIERCINGS AND TATTOOS... ....oh well......LOL

y'all know where i stand on this='scarring in a sense'

what is going to happen when they get OLDER.. and besides, there are GOOD imitation tats, and blue henna for the look

4 days, 14 hours ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: AfroPunk

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@darkandlovely @zipporah @tonyrog @Sfbta hmm is acting like a GENTLEMAN for a boy, 'sexist' IDN i don't think so,

but then again, i was raised where black women didn't have to work outside the home to keep food on the table

my dad bought my grandma a house, and my uncle bought my other grandma a house, etc...

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@trinigirl1 @mzsunshine there are some idiots out there saying Mrs. Obama and the Williams sisters are really TRANSEXUALS 

so, this SBW stuff has to stop. and we have to not 'feed into it'

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@darkandlovely @chocolate_fashionista @PoetOfDarkness ALWAYS DID!! ///

we just have to make them work for US

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@tonyrog @zipporah oops... my bad.. i thought it was the police department...

BTW, the sacks of mail, were rarely 100 lbs, or what ive heard...i may be wrong though

a woman could carry 50 lbs pretty good

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@kennaGransberg @WandaWorks perhaps, its because they made the same types of mistakes that many BW made, or was thrown into

when WW have two generations of redneck drunks for fathers, they need to 'chime in'

i have 4 stepdaughters who are non bw-ww, and have made poor decisions with men

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@WandaWorks its one thing of having to be the SWW as an individual, but the stereotype of the SBW is still there

you could still look at media and see, that many of your sisters are NOT living this kind of life

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@chocolate_fashionista @EarthJeff ..depends on what genes we actually have being BW since many of us are a menagerie of genes and some of us do NOT have the booty and breasts.. and are like asian women

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@chocolate_fashionista @darkandlovely i've heard dark chocolate women are RARE in many parts of Europe SO We are appreciated and guys over there want to go out with us Northern Europe Sweden Denmark ;UK not so sure)

just like at one time, true BLONDES were rare, and became exotic, and childlike

BW just need to LEAVE blackistaini things ALONE

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@darkandlovely @chocolate_fashionista @liloulilou they can PLAY the docile game to get the 'top guys' for  HUSBANDS

telling a boy hes STRONG, is actually a complement like telling a girl she is PRETTY


i've heard by Sir Guy, on wwnh.wordpress.com, that every little boy deep down wants to be a 'mr fix it' and every little girl a 'princess'

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@NATruthstudent @tracyreneejones BTW, there are FEW SCHOOLS that have both home ec, and shop today.. especially in Nor CA

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@tracyreneejones @SavageTango its rare for a female firefighter to lift a body of a normal sized man out of a fire---although they are needed----men, even the ones under 6 feet, could actually lift a man over 6 feet

as far as male nurses, they are needed as well 

my daughters boyfriends father is an R.N.

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@_Toni_ @EthanSchaeffer "STRONG is a  very masculine word, often associated with physical strength"

this is why, I didn't respond so much to the softball player Mo'ne, actually i was 'torn' since i like seeing girls doing fun things, but why wasn't she  a non bw?

at 13, she should be becoming more 'feminine' instead of throwing 75 mph fast balls and being a role model for more young BW==to become more 'masculine'?

4 days, 16 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@tonyrog @Sfbta A REASON they aren't marrying, is the ECONOMY!! 

ALSO, (i may get in trouble for this one) many women don't know how to act like 'ladies'==look at many commercials

BTW, for childbirth, there are EPIDURALS.. (PRAISE THE LORD)...lol


since you are 79, i know exactly what era you are from

i've been around people who were, today, if still alive, would be in their 90s and beyond and they were a little upset about how men and women started to act in the early 1970s

4 days, 17 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@tonyrog years ago, in the PO, they didn't LET the women handle the rough cases, but to protect them, even if they were on the beat (remember Charlies Angels) when they were working the beat--in TRAFFIC DIVISION--(in the beginning of the theme song)

now, some silly women would go out there, and be as strong as the men or even stronger?

4 days, 17 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@AleksandraDennis i bet youre son looks like a boy with two black parents, so i'm all for you raising him to be comfortable in his own skin.. but the SBW is a rotten stereotype to most BW.

Please remember this:

even if you are a strong feminine woman, you didn't get the stereotype of HOLDING DOWN the neighborhood, and could also use 'feminine wiles' to cry on other mens shoulders.....

that may not be as common today, but in older movies/media etc.., it still is...

4 days, 17 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@Raptorgirl @KingsDaughter WOW,, are you 'english' or 'western' in equestrian style

I LOVE SEEING BLACK WOMEN in these kinds of things!!

4 days, 17 hours ago on Open Thread: Brainstorm Session -The Forum

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@Gijou --as long as 'blue eyed god' is a provider at least more of a warrior....

many are really worried about this one though.. ww who have boyfriends husbands who aren't making the same amount of money that the bw's husband/boyfriend makes..

6 days, 14 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@Gijou WOW!! WM BEING ATTRACTED TO BW.. for marriage and LTR.. that is what many are worrying about!! including some WW

I even know a WW who are shacking up with the father of their children while she makes more money.. she still doesn't want to marry him though..(she didn't practice hypergamy) father of children is also a WM

6 days, 14 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@itsgoodtobeme @ladyofmagic1974 walking penises make MORE OUT OF WEDLOCK CHILDREN.. those men need to get a vasectomy. 

Those poor children end up with RAGE!!


oh and BTW, I was in the library, and on two separate occasions, i saw a family of kids

one lady had twins who weren't identical and they had a younger brother in a stroller.. the girls were about 5 years old

they were getting their first library card..YIKES MOM..lol... and the librarian said, to the mom, 'DO YOU and the children have the same last names?' 

one of the twins replied OF COURSE we do!! she is my sister and he is my brother!! (mom had on a wedding band)

the second time, was another mom with a 4 year old boy, with a baby girl, the librarian said you have two kids, the 4 year old added I HAVE AN OLDER BROTHER, and he is in school..


BTW, both families are WHITE and the moms were S/WAHMs.... 

what i am saying, is KIDS KNOW when the families of origin are NOT correct.. they WANT a mom AND a dad around them..

i know black families can be the same way BUT there is lots of 'getting rid of foolishness' from the MEN have to happen first..

6 days, 15 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@rexy012 "thats saying it"

BTW, do you know how many anti black racists there are online?

saying blacks have lower iq etc.. but when you see how these people are acting.. BM having oodles of kids out of wedlock and no one says anything.... at least not much..it makes you wonder (I know there are other groups that have kids out of wedlock.. but we have a generation ahead of everyone else with this)

WE SHOULDN'T GIVE RACISTS FODDER for them to hit us with.. especially when black women start to BEG BLACK MEN for CRUMBS

6 days, 15 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@AnakaMuthaEarth @darkandlovely @Deanna125 @Sybellis Don't forget:

this was how those who couldn't find white spouses years ago, and wanted to 'pass' acted.. it was how they survived

i know this because i knew a lady who was the great niece of JW Booth by blood (born in 1906)

her family was black but many passed, EXCEPT her and her brother WERE TOO DARK--and they were shunned..


many whites TODAY even those called 'redneck' are from the pairings of these women and white men--if a white person cant trace his or her ancestry to the Mayflower or at least after 1800, in the south, its possible they are from this bunch

6 days, 16 hours ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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@PamelaFoster @MsB73 "the good old days when people actually sang"

i wouldn't put sang in quotes.. rap isn't and never was SINGING..

1 week ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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@xoRMS @coco78728 WOW.. since you are only 19, you know what you are talking about...

also, girls your age need to VET ALL MEN since many didn't come from a home with a DECENT father who was in his life..this is 2014

1 week ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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@reggigirl BTW, there is a website wwnh.wordpress.com with SIR GUY. and he just wrote about how men used 'pet names' to give women (Darling was really popular until the 1960s)---and how the radical feminists ruined it

it could also be a reason why c/RAP music and other forms like to DEMEAN WOMEN since we kinda 'let' them by not having them show us the proper respect and us using out FEMININE ENERGY 

1 week ago on Open Thread: Brainstorm Session -The Forum

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@palefloret @Maddie27AZ1 that 'BLACK LOVE meme, is soooo late 1960's anyway.. i remember when it first came out

1 week ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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