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i was absolutely shocked that he was obviously abused and yet he doesn't seem to think so. Maybe all of those effed up things he experienced as a kid contributed to his craziness. If the genders were reversed it would be clear as day light that he was raped but unfortunately some people don't even see male victims of sexual violence as actual victims. Oh and i thought he was not with rihanna, maybe his current gf might care more.
1 year, 4 months ago on Who Raped Chris Brown? Sexual Assault Has No Gender
I am obsessed with this show, watch it watch watch it. I watched the whole first season in less than a week and can't wait until the second.
1 year, 7 months ago on Orange is the New Black: Are You Watching the New "It" Show on Netflix?
@Christelyn @Toni_M @kia Its called sarcasm and no definitely not years but i do occasionally visit once in awhile
1 year, 7 months ago on Question of the Week: "Am I Wrong for Wanting My Daughter Not to Date Black Men?"
@The Working Home Keeper @Toni_M why?
@tracyreneejones Right??? As if it actually matters. I didn't think she was on trial...
1 year, 7 months ago on Don't Be a Rachel Jeantel
@Infinity88 @MySmile omg I cna't believe she did that. I really hate it when some black women feel like its their right to tell non blacks on how they should take care of their black/mixed baby, like wtf? Especially when the black woman has traction alopecia and has never seen her natural hair. I think Wendy is so incredibly disrespectful.
1 year, 11 months ago on 5 Reasons Why The Old Aunt Viv Should Keep Her Mouth Closed
@Dandelion100 @grrlysquirrel75 @Toni_M @CherieMaria duh
1 year, 11 months ago on To Whom It May Concern: Black Skin <em>Is</em> "International".
@Dandelion100 i think its perfectly fine for people such as yourself to acknowledge your multiculturalism since you are not black. What was wrong with what she said wasn't that she said she wasn't black but because she thinks her fair skin is the reason she has an international look.
@nikkikeith7 you have an adorable family, congrats on 21 yrs of marriage, and 7 kids wow.
1 year, 11 months ago on Why we should be concerned about the attacks on Michael Jackson’s children
yes yes to everything. we sadly live in a world that tells girls not to get raped and tells nothing to the rapists.
1 year, 11 months ago on Lets Talk About 'Rape' and 'Consent', Steubenville High School Edition
@Law Wanxi as a bisexual girl i think the second girl is hawt, its crazy how we see our selves compared to how the world sees us.
1 year, 11 months ago on Question of the Week: "Help! I Dont Like What I See in the Mirror!"
@SeanCyphers aww its always nice to hear stories like yours:)
1 year, 12 months ago on Question of the Week: Self-Proclaimed "Redneck" in Love with Caribbean Queen, Scared Senseless.
Honestly i have never ever been affected by black guys who date non-black girls. i could not care less, I just don't understand why some feel the need to bring down black girls in order to justify their preferences. I date white girls, blacks girls, white guys, black guys and anyone with a great personality so i just don't get this at all.
1 year, 12 months ago on The Ultimate Touché: Blogger Lists Reasons To Date White Men in Response to Ice's Ode to White Girls!
This reminds me of the countless times my mum has encountered racists in her job (she's a nurse), she is very passionate about helping people even the ones who hate her black skin but the hospital doesn't bend over backwards to accommodate those fools. Most of the nurses in her ward are non-white so if those racists go their way that would complicate things in the time sheets that they follow.
2 years ago on No African American Nurses To Care For My Baby! What The Cuss?
@KolaBoof1 that was a lovely comment and so freaking true. It hurts my heart knowing that once a person knows the dangers of relaxers that they would even consider using it on their hair let alone their kids hair. There is NOTHING WRONG with nappy hair, kinky hair, black hair, whatever, i just don't get how a parent can tell their kid that they are perfect and beautiful whilst putting dangerous chemicals on their tender little heads.
2 years ago on One New Mother Asks,"Is It Best To Stay Natural and Nappy?"
@AminahMatthews @MamieMooney its kinda harsh don't you think?
2 years ago on A Self-Proclaimed 'DBR' Black Woman Reaches Out To Us. It's a Bird's Eye View Into How Some of Us Are the Way We Are.
@Brenda55 sorry for expressing my opinion i'll see myself out, lol.
2 years ago on Being Soft is Pretty Sweet :)
@MissFLondon its strange that although you liked the post, you disagreeing with one tiny little thing and people are jumping on you and telling to stop derailing the convo, it could have been avoided if the author didn't say feminists and some other woman should skip this post. As if a woman can not be a feminist and be feminine.
@Brenda55 @MissFLondon @cocoababe really? she wasn't derailing anything, she is simply talking about something that was said in this post. Maybe it could have been avoided if the author didn't feel to say that this post is not meant for feminist and that they should leave.
according to this author this post is not meant for feminists.
@Statuesque if you are going to quote me don't change anything i say. How on earth does me saying blacks should give up religion be in the same lane as a religious nut case wanting me to burn for eternity because i dont believe in god?
2 years ago on Why Are Black Women So Desperate for Religion?
@Statuesque yes yes and yes, omg as an atheist i wish more black people would just give up religion or maybe accept the possibility that there may be no god. Its strange that i don't know any black woman who is not religious.
we shouldn't be mad a Kim K or being annoyed she is not treated horribly. We should be mad at the people thinking black women are worthless babymamas.
2 years, 1 month ago on An Open Letter to Kim Kardashian Regarding Her Preggo News
So celebrities should get married before having a baby to set example even if they don't want to? some celeb women don't see marriage as their number one priority and its not just the black women. Yeah and calling the child a spawn is just lovely ain't it? imagine if she did read this letter, it just sounds bitchy and random and rude.
@purpleraiiin I also love the young turks
@VintageNarcissa "One day white women will suffer on a grand scale for their actions with DBR black men."
one day black women will suffer on a grand scale for their actions with DBR white men.
Although i really really do not like Kim and what she represents (talent-less fame hungry annoying as hell celebs) i really could not disagree more with this letter.
1. she does not owe black women anything, she is not even black so who gives a damn about what she does and doesn't do?
2. she is married, right? i dont see why she has to rush into anything regarding marriage, she has her whole life to get married to Kanye so unless its for religious reasons i dont see why she has to do it for anyone other than herself and Kanye.
3. what does how Kanye treats black women have to do with her , i dont see what black women problems has to do with her?
4. her sister got knocked up twice and marriage is the last thing on her mind, why no letter to her?
5. so you know her relationship enough to know this baby was planned? like a lot of babies theis kid could be a happy accident and maybe she doesn't see anything wrong with that.
6. its her body and her life if she wants to get knocked up by every tom dick and harry what is it to anyone?
@LorMarie @MixedUpInVegas so do black on black relationships but we complain if the woman is with a criminal don't see how its different with a white guy.
2 years, 2 months ago on So What's It Like To Be Black, A Woman, And Gasp!!! Married To The Mob
Wait is this supposed to be a good thing? she married a mobster whats good about that. I highly doubt if this gangster was black that this post would end by wishing them luck, instead it would be saying how their relationship is doomed and she deserves better. She got involved with a married man and surprise surprise other women were not welcoming of her.
@EvieE yeah you got that right. Mixed race is a race of its own because there are so many of them. i love that i have honestly never thought about race when it comes to dating, i date whoever and no one cares.
2 years, 2 months ago on Are the Brits Down with the Swirl? YES.
@Browncow omg i also hate that "oh but i still love black men" comment. i just do not understand why black women feel like they have to justify being with a white guy.
2 years, 2 months ago on Eve Finds Her "Adam" in an Unexpected Package Worth a 'Maximillion'
@Toni_M disagreeing with my comment then deleting when most of the comments on here are about the locked post.
2 years, 3 months ago on Beauty and Infidelity: How Do Looks Matter or <em>Do</em> They?
@DeepWater i understand that women throw themselves at men who are in power but i just don't understand the tearing down of this woman. Maybe their marriage wasn't doing too well and it had nothing to do with her hair or her clothing? maybe she has a shit personality, maybe she is going through something and doesnt feel like her appearance is the most important thing right now? maybe he would have cheated anyways even if she looked like heidi klum because he feels lke he can have his cake and eat it too.
@Toni_M @CherieMaria @BeautyIAM I personally think its more hurtful because we are women we should empathize with her as the same thing could be said about us if ever we were in a similar situation.
@BeautyIAM I honestly was saddened at how negative the comments were towards this woman. She has been shoved into this situation and people are tearing her down when she did nothing wrong. If he was the shit and was some sort of Greek God then maybe I might understand a little but the fact that he isn't and because she is a woman she is expected to look her best at all times in order to keep him happy. i would expect this from sexist boys my age but not from grown women the same age as Holly.
@DeepWater Is the guy expected to keep his personal appearance up as well? from what i see he ain't no Brad Pitt, I would say they are on the same level of attractiveness, but of course two sets of rules given to men and women.
I know comments are closed for the Holly Petraeus post but i just have to say that that just horrible and so beyond cruel that was. All i got from the post was that women need to look a certain way in order to stop guys from cheating and if they do well who can blame right? her husband ain't no Brad Pitt so i don't understand why the woman is expected to make more of an effort.
@Jamila i'm happy coz all of those five points and i'm not even american.
2 years, 3 months ago on Election Results!!! President Obama Elected for Second Term
@Toni_M no i am not implying that black women in general who date ir do this because they hate bm. i have just noticed that for some women who are open to dating all types of men, black men included might find some things said about black men a bit much. i think Cory described it perfectly.
sometimes it comes across as if black women's problems would be solved if they were all open to dating white men.
oh and since this is a interracial site why do most of the post focus on only white and sometimes Chinese men, what about other races?
2 years, 4 months ago on A Black Gay Man Reads This Blog. Find Out What He Thinks.
i totally get where he is coming from. i enjoy reading this blog but sometimes its just way too much when the posts are about black men or the black community. i personally am open to dating any race of men, black men included so i dont get it sometimes and i come across as some sort of white knight for black men coz i dont really have that many negative feelings towards them as a whole.
i like dating men of all races coz i like men not because i have been burnt by black men and i've found the light at the end of the tunnel.
@Brice Cameron nicki minaj was joking.
2 years, 4 months ago on Stacy Dash, Nicki Minaj Endorse Mitt Romney. Race Traitors?
@thecrazyartist @Toni_M @Brenda55
yeah i really dont get people who say stuff like that. i understand wanting a guy who has similar characteristics as ur dad but why does he have to look like him as well?
2 years, 4 months ago on "It's Cool If You Date White Men, But....": Why is the GAT-DL Trying to Regulate Black Woman Who Date Interracially?
Although i respect everyone's right to vote for whoever i just dont get why any woman of colour would vote for him.
@Brice Cameron right???? the amount of times i have heard white guys say this is way too much. Black guys do not have this problem at all, black guys will let it be known when they are attracted to a girl which cn be annoying if you are that girl and you are not interested,lol.
2 years, 4 months ago on Rainbeau Spots a Girl Who's Never Swirled, Too Shy To Speak Up But...
@DUsher wow thats a whole lot of assumptions. how do you know her child's father isn't in her life coz he is dead. Or maybe she doesn't want her daughter to feel left out.
2 years, 5 months ago on News Bits: Single Mother Ruins it for Everybody, Gets Daddy-Daughter Dance Banned!
i totally agree with ur comment especially 1&2. i dont think its a big deal at all, maybe its because im English and am not familiar with these daddy- daughter, mother-son dances. i think making them into parents sport day is more inclusive as a lot of kids dont have fathers around or have parents who are gay or lesbian. the more i think of it the more i support this decision.
Is there more to this story because i did not read anywhere saying that the mother 'insured' her daughter did not have a father. the father could be dead or maybe he walked out of the child's life , why does it have to be the mothers fault?
if you don't mind me asking, what part of London are you staying at? i hope you will not mind the weather and you will enjoy yourself here.
2 years, 5 months ago on BB&W Intern, Niala Charles Lands in London!
i cant actually believe her age, in fact i refuse to believe it its just too much for me. lol.
2 years, 5 months ago on Wendy Ida: Most Definitely a New, NEW Black Woman!
@Brenda55 @tracyreneejones exactly where did she try to guilt her into embracing her AA side?
2 years, 5 months ago on Proud to Be Black Y'all....But Not Necessarily: The Bi-Racial Conflict