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This is soo sad. We women also have to take a stance and still choose who we love and not because some racist black or white feel we are the wrong color mix in a relationship. My heart aches for this women and this man...
1 week, 5 days ago on NOT AGAIN!! Another White Guy with a Black Girlfriend is Killed by a Black Man.
Let those who oppose of this great family gag until the choke. These are the racist that need to die out and yes because Obama is trying to think of all, including the poor, under-insured caucasian society, he i given a hard time. They are just mad because they could not pull this off.
3 weeks, 4 days ago on So, Bill DeBlasio’s Marriage Makes Folks in the Tea Party “Gag?”
I think they look wonderful and wish them a very long and successful marriage.
3 weeks, 4 days ago on Swirling and Marriage: Tricia and Peter
Sorry typo got showed up as git....
2 months ago on This Sh*t is SICK!!! The GAT-DL Police Gone Rabid on BB&W Sis, ‘New Shoes’
This is total BS. I am glad the co-worker/bully git fired and I am sorry for this woman and her dates horrifying experience. I hope that get past this and take it further.....
I am hoping that this will be a great and positive show. Showing Love and their Triumphs together. Drama would not be good for us who are in or want to be in inter-racial relationships.
2 months ago on Meet the Lewis’, Rumored Cast for Much-Anticipated Swirl Reality Series
@MichelleRobinson Thank you for bringing out the unknown... wow...
I love my eyes to be their best on the weekend. That is when I pull out the make-up, it could take me 30 minutes for the entire look..... Love it
2 months ago on Eyeshadow for the Rest of Us: How to Dark Girls Should Rock It.
II am happy that you and your Honey Bee are hanging in there. You to look marvelous.
2 months, 2 weeks ago on EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 12 – Random Musings
I am thinking this could be know as an actual act of terrorism and definitely bullying. Those are strikes against him. And if he plans of hacking anything, you have all of his threats on cyber , just as good as paper. I would not worry. He is only seeking attention and has no better way to make himself feel better but to attack you and your work. He should just stay in his own backyard as his bones are being dug up. If you ignore him he will see he is not of importance. If I were him, I would tread lightly.......
2 months, 2 weeks ago on World’s Dumbest Internet Criminal Threatens Swirling, All While He Swirls. (Must Read)
Well Said Christelyn.... Great advice and I wish him the best in is hunt for the right woman.....
2 months, 2 weeks ago on Older Latin Man Wants Younger Black Woman…Should He Go For It?
The Day is still fresh in my memory. I was at work for a major automotive company as assistant banker on the campus of the corporation in between two building's with almost 2.5 million dollars in checks and an engineer walked up and said we are being attacked. I rushed into the building where the checks were to be counted and I watched with the engineers in horror. My parents were in Las Vegas in their brand new finished custom built home as me and my at the time fiancee flew back on September 10th to Michigan from Las Vegas. We had gotten several messages that plans were spotted over our headquarters so we were panicked. As we left work me and my brother sought out our Grandfather for comfort and answers. My TV stayed on 24/7 as the images replayed in my head. And to make matters more scarier, we heard plains fly out of our Selfridge National Air Base all night long over the homes. I was reminded today by my Mom at the exact same time I called them on Pacific time to alert them. Forever in my Hearts and Forever etched in my mind.
2 months, 3 weeks ago on Where Were You On 9/11?
@Jenn Jenn @CocoaFly Thank you very much... I have a purpose, not sure what it is yet. I am here and kicking.........LOL
3 months, 1 week ago on Discussion: Do We Opt Out of Mental Health Help in Favor of Prayer?
@MichelePaynter1 Thank you very much. I am so happy that I could share. I learned when I asked "WHY ME?", my Mother would say, " Why not you?, just like other people go through things, they get hurt, killed, and get cancer." you are no different. I though about it and yes why not me? I am exposed to life just everyone else. I am no better than anyone else. I have had so many things to humble me. That is only one out of many......
Uh, first let me say, I will take Billy Ray Cyrus any day down the isle and then do our honeymoon bed...... She has to be a slight hard head when it comes to listening to her elders especially her Father about how she is behaving. Yes the Teddy Bears have been shamed... They can how ever be recycled, but we , black women as stated cannot take our color off and we are not forgiven as easily with our graveling to our audience and the people who helped our success. She is immature and she will get it one day, I hope....
3 months, 1 week ago on Miley Cyrus Isn’t the Only Dingbat Co-Opting What She *Thinks* is Black Culture.
@MichelePaynter1 @Morenika Thank you very much.... I keep getting tested and I rise each time. Therapy has and is helping. Sometime we think that we are finished with an issue or chapter in our lives and have to resort back to having someone un-biased to talk with. I just left my personal session... I am not ashamed to tell my story.... It helps you to see an area that you may have been closed off from in the mind and heart. I am one who swallows everyone else's BS and then end up physically ill because I did not want to say no. I was a pleaser and I am a recovering "People Pleaser".... I am getting bolder and better at telling people where to go and how to get themselves there.... 'Usually I tell them to fly a kite in the storm and pray lightning don't hit them." Corny I know.. LOL
@CocoaFly I also believe mental heath and physical health go hand in hand. If your spiritual belief's are that your higher being can walk you through your illness than you can get better. Reason being because their has been studies and proven facts that spirituality is positive and therefore with being positive your brain chemistry, hormones and other biological chemicals we produce changes the negative for positive which helps heal us. As for me personally, a breast cancer survivor, who discover a lump at the time in her life when all hell broke loose in her marriage, and wishing to die because her husband was leaving her and kicking her out of their home and not to mention removed her, meaning me from his insurance before our divorce, saying its a lump there and it will stay there. But with the help of my praying and always "I'm your mother even when I am gone" gathered my praying spiritual Aunts into the picture to make me move and seek help, I turned everything around. This is my testimony. That was the year I stopped feeling sorry for myself and praised my God that my cancer was caught in its early stages and I skipped chemo by the way, decided to get my Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling/Psychology. Sorry to go into details as I believe, positive support no matter where that individual is gaining their strength helps the sister with cancer. Even though yes she could still pass away from it, it is greater knowing that you had people on your side sending positive and or spiritual thoughts up for you. We all are born with that expiration date. Yes I sought therapy to even find out why i was stuck to identifying my worth by my husband views...... Much love....
@BFC He was a movie opposite with Angela Basset, in a Toronto or Vancouver setting where he owned a restaurant and they were lovers. The name of the movie has not come to mind yet.
3 months, 1 week ago on Long-Time Swirl Vet, Robert DeNiro Stars in New Mob Film…Will You Watch?
I am already thinking fall and apple orchards and leaves and great wholesome recipes that only apples can bring.... It brings tears to my eyes thinking about a sugarless apple pie and Tim Horton's and Starbucks Pumpkin Spice lattes.....
3 months, 1 week ago on Apple Season Approaches, Check Out this Healthy, 'Good Sugar' Treat!
As a Mental Health Professional who is AA, faces life's challenges just like the next, spiritual and grew up in the Southern Baptist Church tradition, receives therapy to resolve the issues that has caused me depression and to ball up into a fetal position, can honestly say that yes while being spiritual is a very big part of getting well, however therapy goes with it. For those who may not be spiritual of have belief in a higher being, cope with therapy alone. For so many years it was taboo for AA's to even mention therapy because the "Pastor can fix it through prayer and talk", was the only thing majority AA's religiously believed in. I remember having this discussion with other AA's women and I just as well have been wooshed on fire for saying the "Pastor" alone may not be enough as his/her views are biased depending on what your issue is. Church Ladies, Deacon's and Deaconess's please don't woosh me. I believe that if you have a higher belief you can have a higher bar to look up to for help, but please do not dismiss the though of seeking professional help from a therapist. Beside's in Therapy, you can say things as openly and freely as you want that you may not otherwise do with your Clergy. P.S. I am the poster child for therapy.