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I do not date men with children, I have made this decision from experience. Having a child thrown into the mix takes a relationship from 0 to 100 really fast. Not only do you have to give time and attention to the relationship with your boyfriend, you have to make sure you ask about the child enough, take an interest in what the child likes/dislikes, construct dates around the child, etc. It is very tiring.

In one of the relationships when I would try to break up with my boyfriend he would use my relationship with his child to make me stay. Too much... just too much.

2 years, 8 months ago on Would You Date a Man with Kids?

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@AJ2011 I see tons of youtube clips on the subject, I'll see if I have the patience to wade through all of them. Thanks.

2 years, 9 months ago on BB&W's First Healthy Hair Growth Challenge!

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@deleted_1895823_Pearl@Babybear4104 It doesn't matter how old you are, LOL! Start young, keep them out of your business.

They had pictures of the house I grew up in, even said I owned it o_O... really now?? Another site to check out is Spokeo.com. They have tons of information, even your current FB profile picture.

2 years, 9 months ago on Don't Allow Facebook (or Any Other Ssocial Media Site) to Ruin Your Reputation

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@Jamila , I am graduating in April and I find myself thinking the same way. If I could find a way to complete my education and elevate myself, why shouldn't he? I think excuses are growing thin - I started off with a traditional ground campus, life got in the way, so I completed my education online. It took me 8 years, but I did it. He has to have the same type of drive as me for us to date, and if he has not tried... Forever trapped in the "Friend Zone".

2 years, 9 months ago on You Want to Get with Me? Show Me Your College Degree!

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Oh... the hair, the hair! I went natural in October 2011 and I am trying to figure out what to do with my new curls and waves. Twists won't hold because of the waves... *sigh* Any styling advice for a four incher?

2 years, 9 months ago on BB&W's First Healthy Hair Growth Challenge!

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I am constantly "googling" myself to see what comes up. I was p.o'd when I first found these links for sites like mylife, etc. I hate data mining sites, I would contact them and tell them to take my information OFF their sites, they had no right to post my address, phone numbers, etc. That is SO dangerous. I suggest that everyone make a habit of "googling" themselves, you never know what you will find.

2 years, 9 months ago on Don't Allow Facebook (or Any Other Ssocial Media Site) to Ruin Your Reputation

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I'll admit, I've been lurking for about six months now ;p

I never thought the site was a BM bashing site, I wonder how some got that idea?? I enjoy the advice given about health matters and the site has encouraged me to keep my options open. I'm currently working on expanding my portfolio, if you will :)

No more lurking - I plan on participating from now on. Thanks for the proper introduction!

2 years, 9 months ago on Video: A BB&W Primer for All the Newbies, Lurkers & Trolls

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