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1 week, 2 days ago on Swirling and Marriage: 2014 Couple of the Year

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I remember when my roommate (a WW) told me that WM would only be interested in me for just sex. After I picked up my jaw from the ground, I told her straight. 

I've met guys that seem like they just want sex...but that seems just common in the 20-30 age range.  Not interested.

1 week, 2 days ago on As Millennials Support Dating Out, the Black Community ups the “Fetish” Rhetoric

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I've been living in SoCal in a very wealthy area for  3 months now...I'm the only black person or black woman here 9 times out of 10.  I think I've been learning pretty fast when a guy is interested in me. I've also watched how my white acquaintances flirt with other WM. It works :)  

Anyway, I was generally clueless before...

1 week, 2 days ago on Are Black Women Extra Clueless When White Men Approach Them?

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No matter what race you are interested in, vet your men!

1 week, 2 days ago on Are Black Women Extra Clueless When White Men Approach Them?

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Cute! Does anyone know how to go back in pages on the BB&W website?

1 month ago on Have You Seen This Hunk? Nick Bateman Blows Up Facebook.

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Disneyland. Disneyworld....theme parks in general seem like a waste of money to me. Give me that money for a plane ticket and some real adventure.

2 months ago on Why I Said “Goodbye” to Disneyland, Forever. They’ve Raised Their Prices Too High to Justify.

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There are two covers...one with the women AND one with the men. 

http://i.gyazo.com/78ed736745c4091e2a8cb1d10a55c67f.png

Essence is a magazine that targets black people.  Explains the all black ensemble on the cover. 

Anyway, black people/celebs are frequently left off of the covers.  We probably get one or two token black people on the list of upcoming actress/actors every few years. Hello!? Vanity Fair New Hollywood mags, anyone? 

2 months, 1 week ago on Essence Excludes Gabrielle Union’s Interracial Romantic Interest on “Think Like a Man Too.”

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I wish I had a big enough backyard for apple and lemon trees.

2 months, 3 weeks ago on How Growing What I Eat is Getting Me the Body I Want

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I wonder what the article says...Maybe black girls at the time were starting to wear more makeup and do their hair more...investing in a fashion...thus becoming "prettier".

I don't know.  I would have to read the article.

3 months, 2 weeks ago on And People Wonder Why We Rail So Much About Colorism…

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I think it's strange when people give praise to white people who sound "black".  Like people are just gobsmacked when they see a little white girl sing Whitney Houston on talent shows. LOL

4 months ago on WTF Another White Artist Who Sounds Like a Black Dude!

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Advice?

Dating a Rainbeau and he thinks my waist length hair is real.  I wear my hair like Solange...to give a hint.  How do I go about telling him that my marley twists aren't real and my real hair is about 5 inches...and in a fro.

5 months, 3 weeks ago on From ‘Fro to Flat Iron: Carol’s Daughter Monoi is the TRUTH!

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@jjelsewear  

(2) when the wrong texture/finish for the occasion is chosen

Can you elaborate?

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Does This Woman Offend You?

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@Oaktown Paul  @Bellatrix79  Thanks Oaktown Paul. I think I'll see him tomorrow. I'll say hi and see where it goes.  I don't think he is looking for a relationship...which is fine because I'm graduating and prepping for graduate school.


Should I bring up the 12 AM text or just act like nothing happened?

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Holiday Off Topic Thread

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@Oaktown Paul  Well, a week before my birthday, he texted me at 12 AM asking to hang out the following week....after a month of not talking to me since I told him how I felt. SMDH. I told him no because I had plans with my friends for my bday weekend.  That was nearly a month ago and he hasn't texted me since.  I do see him in school since he didn't transfer and have said hi to him.

6 months, 2 weeks ago on Holiday Off Topic Thread

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Rocket is amazing. Partition, Blow, and Jealous are my favorite. I like DIL too.

6 months, 3 weeks ago on Beyonce (the Album) Review: Why this Church Girl Loves Bey and the Book of Knowles-Carter

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:(  I don't know why this made me cry.

6 months, 3 weeks ago on Swiffer Commercial Is Just the Beginning. Ad Guys Know EXACTLY What’s Up

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@kia LOL.  Most AA have white in them.  
French is a nationality.  
In addition, I need to see the receipt of anyone claiming NA blood.  If you watched the H.L. Gates documentary, a small percentage of AA have NA blood.  It was most likely a dark haired white person with some strong features.

6 months, 4 weeks ago on “Clutch/The Frisky” Nails It With Their Critique of ‘Whitenicious’

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Oh my goodness!  I am so sorry for your loss Jeff.  May she rest in peace.

7 months, 1 week ago on Death in the Family: ‘EarthJeff’ Loses His ‘Bee’

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OMG! My mouth is on the ground.  He is BEAUTIFUL! She is BEAUTIFUL! They make a GORGEOUS couple.  Oh my word.

7 months, 1 week ago on Nicky and David – From School Crush to Marriage

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Wow. What kind of job does the couple have? Or what kind of family did they originate from? I just watched the video of them introducing their daughter...and the carriage the baby was in looked stunning.

I know I sound shallow, but I just had to put it out there.  The wedding is STUNNING!

Best wishes to the lovely couple.

7 months, 2 weeks ago on Video: Black Girl Gets the Princess Treatment, Marries Adorable Rainbeau in a Castle!

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Nice!

7 months, 3 weeks ago on Irene and Aaron’s Blissful UK Union

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@One n Only I just did and it was not good.  A lot of guys who say "No offense to BW, not my cup of tea" *eyeroll* I hate this area.

7 months, 3 weeks ago on While Gabrielle Union Cries in Her Soup, Eve Celebrates Her Engagement, But Will There Soon Be News of Random Babies?!

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@One n Only Yeah. I want my guy to love me.  If I wanted a guy who just wants sexual relations...thats a dime a dozen lol.

7 months, 3 weeks ago on While Gabrielle Union Cries in Her Soup, Eve Celebrates Her Engagement, But Will There Soon Be News of Random Babies?!

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Bless her.  


I hope she finds solace in her situation.   I would love for her to dump this man with 4 kids (One is a nephew) under his belt.  


I wish her the best.  I know she was a "mean girl" through a big portion of her life...I think she is still healing from something.  She needs to believe that she deserves better...if she doesn't think that already.  

7 months, 3 weeks ago on While Gabrielle Union Cries in Her Soup, Eve Celebrates Her Engagement, But Will There Soon Be News of Random Babies?!

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@DU2 Woah. I need video of said Oprah interview.  They would make a cute couple

7 months, 3 weeks ago on While Gabrielle Union Cries in Her Soup, Eve Celebrates Her Engagement, But Will There Soon Be News of Random Babies?!

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I'm going to make things happen in 2014.  I'm going to put myself out there.

7 months, 3 weeks ago on What Are Your Goals For 2014?

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lol. Oh my!

7 months, 3 weeks ago on LMAO, I’m All For Cutting Out the Sugar “Butt”…

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Nice advice Christelyn.  I've definitely have this problem.  It feels so weird/strange when guys pull out my chair, hold the door open, offer to carry my books, and pay for me.  I'm so used to "If I want it done right, I better do it myself". 


 However, I'm working  on changing my ways really hard.  Since I express myself with clothes (It's like I change personalities!), for me, when I were something feminine,  I act more feminine.  I just need to transfer that feminine energy when I wear combat boots and all black. haha

7 months, 3 weeks ago on QOTW: “Forced to Always Be Tough, How Do I Show My Rainbeau My Vulnerable Side?”

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I really want to go to Sweden! That's on my list.

7 months, 3 weeks ago on Black Girls Traveling: Break Some Ice In Iceland

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@jess509 Hey! I've been on here for about a year or two...I can't remember and I'm the same age as you! Welcome!

7 months, 3 weeks ago on Message to the Lurkers: Not All of Us Are Preaching to the Choir

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http://youtu.be/xo7Vyf3EyFw

Jamie and Nikki are in a new Coca-Cola ad!

7 months, 3 weeks ago on Watch Real Black Women with their Non-Black Boyfriends

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