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@tonyrog Awesome shade of blue on him.
5 hours, 50 minutes ago on Man Candy Monday: A Well Dressed Man
Yay for the return of Man Candy Monday! I was missing it. I don't always comment but I always look :)
I love to see a good-looking man in a turtleneck (a real one--not mock!), particularly a royal blue or bright red against blonde or black hair. There's also something about a long, shiny tie or shiny, well-cinched dress shoes that drive me nuts. I can't explain it, it's on an instinctual level. I think feet and ties must be phallic symbols.
I think in general men shouldn't be afraid of fit, color, or pattern. Or actually wearing clothes to keep warm when it's cold. It's OK to wear an overcoat or a scarf. Layering is much more attractive than trying to be tough with no coat or a flimsy windbreaker, walking hunched over with your chin to your chest and your hands jammed in your pockets!
5 hours, 51 minutes ago on Man Candy Monday: A Well Dressed Man
@MichelePaynter1 Definitely yes to 1 and 2!
1 week ago on Open Forum: Community Brainstorm Session
@darkandlovely @Brenda55 I was thinking the same thing. I also thought Facebook issued warnings first or at least temporarily suspended pages before just wiping them out. I wonder what their definition of hate speech is, since BB&W has never incited violence against anyone.
I appreciate Christelyn and the BBW moderators and commentators so much. I sincerely hope Facebook's poor, hasty decision is reversed. (Petition signed!)
1 week, 2 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…
@ron232656 Please point to one single sentence anywhere on this site where people say it's OK for a policeman to be shot and killed. And as far as marches, you're always free to start one.
1 week, 4 days ago on Gotta Say Something Because This is Inexcusable: Eric Gardner Didn’t Have to Die for 50 Cents.
@mzsunshine I love that color for boots too! Knee-high with a stacked heel in leather or faux leather. Have you checked Zappos or 6pm.com?
1 week, 5 days ago on Fabulous Boots For Fall
@ChocolateDiva Yes, I've seen this beauty=whiteness products to bleach the face, the lips, the armpits, etc. Interesting enough The Mindy Project had an episode titled Mindy Lahiri Is A Racist. Was it about her racial attitudes towards non-Indians? No. Whites? No. It was about whether she was racist against blacks, at the same time pining for a hot young black politician. And the black female character on there is a walking stereotype.
2 weeks, 1 day ago on Video: Are Black Women Who Swirl a THREAT to White Women?
@srhurd @Christelyn @DelaineThomas White European mother, black Jamaican father.
2 weeks, 3 days ago on Video: Are Black Women Who Swirl a THREAT to White Women?
@caligirl94117 @onmywayup @The Working Home Keeper @NavpreetDhillon "I once had an African American studies professor who summed it up that Asian (Indians included) and Latinos take one look at blacks on the American hierarchy and know that they will be more accepted and successful than blacks, in effect making themselves white."
I think a lot has to do with the country and its immigration policy. The US selects for people that are already highly skilled and highly educated. In England the Indian population is not so successful. In fact an Indian friend described Indians in England more like blacks in America.
@Law Wanxi @Law Wanxi Actually Latinos are claiming to be more American than blacks or whites that were born here, due to their indigenous ancestry. This goes for Latinos from San Salvador 2,000 miles away.
The only Indian with a TV show, Mindy Kaling, has dated 200 men on the show and they are 100% white, just like all her female friends. Most of India's population is light brown, dark brown, and even black, yet all of their television and movie stars look like they were imported from Greece or Italy. I won't mention personal statements made by Indian friends of mine that made me wonder had they ever seen a mirror. The only people declaring Indians white is themselves.
@phillychick @zipporah @mzsunshine And braid extensions are at least 3,000 years old. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2762537/The-way-Egypt-3-000-year-old-Amarnian-woman-unearthed-70-HAIR-EXTENSIONS-tied-intricate-layers.html
3 weeks ago on People Magazine Shows Racial Shade During Shonda Rhimes Big Network Television Night
Those who can, do. Those who can't, criticize.
1 month ago on Shonda Rhimes Hands NY Times WW Writer Her Hindquarters on Social Media
@Tipper2 I don't believe she was having sex either. Heavy petting, yes....actual intercourse, no. She lost her cool, but people are acting like she cussed the cop out or threatened him. The video doesn't capture the very beginning of the incident where supposedly the boyfriend was grilled "Who is she to you? How do you know her?" According to Watts the officer did not even speak to her. THAT is why the boyfriend said they were being treated like prostitute and client. If they were assumed to be a normal couple getting too frisky in public, why only speak to the male and ask how he knows the female?
1 month ago on Celebrity Interracial Couple, Daniele Watts and Partner Detained by L.A. Police Who Mistook Her for Hoe and Her “John”
@Neecy The power of being in show biz. Even if you've only had one small part in TV or movies, it just goes to show how the media prioritizes what they shine a light on.
1 month ago on Update on Danielle Watts: BB&W Exclusive Interview with Boyfriend, Brian
Wow--this story is splashed across the front page of CNN, with an interview of the both of them. http://www.cnn.com/2014/09/15/showbiz/django-unchained-actress-detained/index.html?hpt=hp_t1
@smartacus @Maxine @Statuesque She was on the phone with her father, but I guess he didn't advise her of this.
@PamelaFoster @Maxine @Tipper2 Every special interest group has piggy backed on the gains that blacks and their white allies have fought for. Every single one.
@Tipper2 @Maxine Interestingly I've found the darker the Indian the more colorstruck and prejudiced. Lighter-skinned Indians are secure in their privilege. It's the "black" ones that have to actively do what they can to separate themselves from blacks.
@Statuesque "She should have asked "are you arresting me ?" and confirmed the answer before walking away. That was the critical mistake if she wasn't going to comply with an illegal request. He cannot force her to ID herself unless the law requires it, but he can detain her until he confirms no crime was committed."
Therein lies the rub. She needed to make him answer whether she was free to go or not. I've broken my own rule about not reading article comments sections, which are rife with BW stereotypes about her giving "attitude"and escalating the situation by exercising her right to refuse. CA doesn't even require a person to carry their ID on them. Since the purpose of laws is to protect the public from harm (or people from harming themselves), did this cop's actions do anything more than waste time and humiliate an innocent couple?
It's bothersome to me that despite the law, a lot of people seem to take the attitude that well do whatever a cop tells you regardless of proper procedure and if you don't comply prepare to go to jail.
Making out? So there was no nudity, no actual sex acts? What would showing her ID even solve if there was no suspicion of criminal activity? Even married couples sometimes have different last names on their ID. Why didn't the cop just say this is a public place, go get a room?
@SacLove76 "Being black in this country has gotten really hard since Obama has been in office and I feel like these racist are taking it out on the rest of us FULL FORCE because he is the President."
You are speaking what I've been thinking. It's not something I can prove in a linear fashion, but I do get the vibe that racists who were threatened by his election sat back the first four years, in fear of some black takeover. Now that they've seen that having a black president neither deters racism nor gives black people special powers, they've just UNLEASHED. I honestly predict a lot more racists in positions of authority to get away with beating and murdering black civilians while Obama and Holder are still in office.
@Tipper2 Yup! Can't be on top unless there's another group under you. It's OK to ask for her papers to prove she's not a prostitute but not OK to ask for his to prove he's not an illegal.
@LorMarie I want to hear the police call audio. I would be shocked if it was a male caller, of any race. Honestly I believe a man who saw them making out would just enjoy the show!
@Zetahille What does the danger of being a cop have to do with it? I do believe when they chose that profession they were already aware of that! And I doubt any cop in Studio City is dealing with skinheads or murderous gangs. Most people who work in customer service will tell you that they're regularly mistreated by the public, so does that mean you'd be ok with every waitress being a jerk to you because she's in a difficult profession? The potential danger of the job is no excuse at all engage in misconduct or violate someone's rights.
@PaoloP Studio City is very white and affluent. I would guess a pearl-clutching, geriatric white woman who hardly ever goes anywhere.
@harem @Brenda55 " just read the other day about a 70 pound (I believe it was 70) teen that three cops took to the ground in her school over a cell phone that she was on concerning her ill mother. "
I saw that too. It was a Hispanic girl in Texas.
1 month, 1 week ago on Celebrity Interracial Couple, Daniele Watts and Partner Detained by L.A. Police Who Mistook Her for Hoe and Her “John”
@wanderinglady @harem I live in Los Angeles. They could've been going to the park, to the beach, to a concert...it's 90 degrees here in broad daylight. We shouldn't have to wear silk suits and white church gloves 24/7 to prove we aren't prostitutes.
@ChristieRJohnson YES X 1000
1 month, 1 week ago on Ask a White Guy: Older Men, Younger Women?
@Statuesque What are the 4 Ps?
1 month, 1 week ago on Open Forum: Okay; We Know White Men Married to Black Women are 44% Less Likely to Divorce. But Why?
Because most white men grow up with both a mother and a father, they absorb these early examples of relationships. Even if their parents divorce, they're still likely to see stable marriages through others in their community and social circle. Virtually all the white men I've known--friends or colleagues--always had marriage in mind as a life goal. Sure they sowed their wild oats in high school and college, but finding that dream girl and giving her the world was seen as a normal part of a healthy, adult life. Remember Christelyn's parody video of the single 45 year-old bm serial dater? It's funny because it's true. A lot of black men have just lost the desire for companionship these days. I think many bm marrying ww are doing so on impulse, or were pursued and pressured by the ww.
I don't know if it still rings true for 2014, but I read that money is the #1 reason behind divorce. What you spend your money on (or save your money for) is a reflection of your values. I'd be interested to see whether BW/WM couples are older, more educated, and/or more established in their careers compared to other couples by the time they marry.
@phillychick I was thinking this too. A wm proposing to a bw is not gaining a trophy wife who society has put on a pedestal. He is proposing for the person and not any elevated status he will have due to marrying her.
@quiquinorton Agreed. We'd have to know which gender is initiating the divorce to talk about who is staying put.
I love statement necklaces. They look fabulous and dramatic against dark skin.
1 month, 1 week ago on Fabulous & Flirty Fall Trends
Congratulations you guys! Can I say, Jeff, that I am impressed you did +/- ten years in your age range and didn't put seeking woman maximum age 40....Also Vegas in July? Well, some like it hot! Looking forward to the pics.
1 month, 1 week ago on BB&W’s Very Own ‘EarthJeff’ is Getting Hitched!!
@caligirl94117 Well you know what they say in real estate: location, location, location. I think it's better to own a small place in a nice, safe neighborhood than live somewhere affordable but have the mental stress and possible physical harm of a bad neighborhood. And if you need to sell, will a property in Blackistan increase in value or even break even in a few years? Maybe you can get a fixer-upper or foreclosure in a nice area.
1 month, 2 weeks ago on And We Wonder Why More Non-Black Men Don’t Approach Us?
@phillychick Sudan actually has more pyramids than Egypt, albeit smaller. The first Egyptians, before many waves of conquerors, originated from the Sudan/Somalia area.
1 month, 2 weeks ago on Lineage: The Extraordinary Gift of Knowing Where You Came From
@dani-BBW @Christelyn @MissFLondon What do they mean by Southwest Asian? Perhaps Arab rather than Indian? There's just a puddle between East Africa and the Arabian peninsula. But I'm also scratching my head at the Kenyan ancestry. Even Central Africa would be too far inland for the American slave trade. But you never know--maybe Christelyn's ancestors migrated to western Africa for whatever reason.
I used African Ancestry to trace my maternal lineage and found out I'm Temne from Sierra Leone. The beautiful CNN International anchor Isha Sesay is Temne (and she is interracially married). African Ancestry is about twice the cost of the others but they claim to have the most comprehensive genetic mapping for Africa. I'll eventually get my dad or brother to find out my paternal side, and test with another company to reveal the non-African lineages. I love knowing. I love having an origin and being able to answer people who ask where my family comes from!
Praire fever LMAO!
1 month, 2 weeks ago on LMAO! New Video, “If Black Women Said What White Men Say”
@Tammy_Ghalden Let's not leave out "tar baby" and "boy" http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2011/08/01/congressman-calls-obama-a-tar-baby/
1 month, 2 weeks ago on I’m So Glad Russell Brand Opened His Big, Fat, Mouth. Proof the Many Liberals Practice Soft Bigotry
@Tammy_Ghalden Now this is more relevant than a foreign stand-up comedian who can't vote or influence American policy. But since the election of Obama, and the shifting demographics of the country, conservatives are grasping at straws to show that racist liberals exist. Well duh, of course they do. But not all have the power to enforce their bigotry.
@Browncow @Maxine @jesslabellefleur Why should I come up with something else when your convenient answer will be that that person is inflammatory and only seeking attention?
@jesslabellefleur @Browncow Well when someone says "our blacks are better than their blacks" they might as well be calling you a pet. And none of her fellow conservatives called her out on it.
@Yorkshireman in Michigan @kiki jones @SavageTango CSPAN, BBC, NPR.
@caligirl94117 @Daisy_inthe_Field It would take reams of paper to cover what Ted Nugent and Rush Limbaugh have said, and they've been popular for a lot longer than Russell Brand.
1 month, 3 weeks ago on I’m So Glad Russell Brand Opened His Big, Fat, Mouth. Proof the Many Liberals Practice Soft Bigotry
I'm a liberal for many reasons that have nothing to do with race. And since Brand is not an American legislator, a political strategist, a judge, or even an American, I fail to see what this has to do with the Democratic party. He's on nobody's side but his own thirst for attention. Honestly I'd take his ridiculous, ignorant "jokes" over right-wingers trying to justify Eric Garner's strangulation death or rallying behind Darren Wilson. Ultimately racists come in all political stripes and we can't look to any one political party to "save" us. No one can save us but ourselves.
I agree with Christelyn that telling her daughter not to date BM could lead to just that because teenagers like to rebel. I also think by explicitly banning a certain group of men, the daughter will wonder what's so bad about them and make it her mission to go through every BM DBR to find out. Depending on her relationship with the mother, she may even set out to prove that she's different from her and a better woman by trying to make it work with a BM DBR. You know how inexperienced women believe they can change a man and take pride in being the ride-or-die chick for someone so not worth it. Emphasize quality not color, or else the daughter may bring home a non-black man who happens to be a loser.
1 month, 3 weeks ago on Is It Okay to Discourage Your Daughters from Dating Black Men?
@Brenda55 @ChicMystique I'm trying to figure out what was in the mostly-eaten appetizer bowl. Looks like some fried crunchy goodness. And now I'm having an onion ring jones.
1 month, 4 weeks ago on Here’s Another Rainbeau Who Just Came Out of Lurkdom
@EarthJeff @Maxine @Zetahille @Keioni Oh no? But they made a movie about i! http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0780622/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1
1 month, 4 weeks ago on Stay Away from Sociopathic Men Who Wish to Corrupt and Shackle You Via Single Motherhood!
@Zetahille @Keioni Uh....did you seriously write that women can clamp down on a man during sex so he's unable to pull out??? Between that and the "powers of seduction" and Adam and Eve stuff I'm flabbergasted. Please don't tell me you also think our vaginas have teeth and our periods ruin crops.
2 months ago on Stay Away from Sociopathic Men Who Wish to Corrupt and Shackle You Via Single Motherhood!