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I don't think it necessary to preach it too all. It is another option of living.

2 weeks, 6 days ago on I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks are Contented in Dysfunction.

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The phrase of the day! "things happen" I can picture that coming out of the guy mouth as the woman worries what now. Then no ring is produced. That is sad.

2 weeks, 6 days ago on I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks are Contented in Dysfunction.

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Agree a 1000% keep saying your thing bc some young woman might would see it and know that her life is worth more.

2 weeks, 6 days ago on I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks are Contented in Dysfunction.

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Most white guys are not going to cat call, as BM way of "hollain"/ showing interest is that. There was a video piece and cat calling and it was a hint hint prevalence in one culture of people.

3 weeks, 2 days ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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Yeah...can I hear, ONLINE DATING!

3 weeks, 3 days ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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It does not make a difference to me. I have always had an attraction for white men. So that is good.

1 month ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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I said that same thing. In the long run the haters will like us because now black men would see there is a demand for black women. Well of course I would not be looking for them but the haters will find all type of guys looking there way including their hit commodity, bm.

1 month ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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Also, not sure your location and the School you go to but if you can transfer do it. I transferred in sophomore year my School year was small so everyone knew each other. I joined a team in high School and realized that get to know other period in other schools. Being involved in the team, the male School team we trained around them. I can imagine that the way kids socialize has changed allot. I am the early 2000s hs student the time where cell phones were scarce etc. I did not date in high School, I just had fun and no drama. The only thing I looked forward to with hs was when it finished, School parties, the fight gossip, who else to crush on.

Who dated in high School and always had a boyfriend/gf???

1 month, 1 week ago on Young Girl Needs Our Guidance: 15 Year-Old-Girl, Only Interested in Men 26-50.

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Advice.... I want to t take it from another angles.Everyone says experience but my question is how much experience? There are women in late 20s with not much life experience especially if you are taking on years of School and studying. Experience comes from taking a chance and getting involved, not with an older guy but socially. My advice would take every opportunity to get involve in outside School activity to meet more youngsters your age. Join a School team so you get to play with other schools meet more young people. Great sport for girls, soccer, tennis and volley ball. Then go to the male team games. Making great friendships with the guys should be the way. If in the friendship it becomes more, consider it.

1 month, 1 week ago on Young Girl Needs Our Guidance: 15 Year-Old-Girl, Only Interested in Men 26-50.

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Omg! I wish I can like your comment a TRILLION times!lol

1 month, 1 week ago on Steve Harvey Has a New Dating Websites Aimed at ‘Teaching Women to be more DATEABLE’

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@The Working Home Keeper @nyaw @MeliaFavors @HowardTyroneSmithII that's the misogyny, the equivalents of racism. Yes, Black men don't like the infringement on their natural right and I am all for it but when you cannot do the same for me when it comes to my right to date whom I want....smh. I will have to pick my battles when it comes to you. That's all. I think these black women should step back and let black men stand up for something by themselves and we stand up for ourselves. Sounds good to me.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hate…

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For me I have just always had a taste for white guys and never felt away if a black guy was dating a white woman....I have always been that way. My back ground, raised in the Caribbean and US half half..

1 month, 2 weeks ago on From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hate…

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High five to that. I want to be able to encompass all of this in a look.... Give a troll a look that says all of this, that they dumb, need psychological help, your words are beneath me.

The Jesus eye

1 month, 3 weeks ago on Wake Up, Black Women! IRR “Permission” Is Never Coming!

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@christelyn she is going to be on New Day at 8:30am looks like this will be a hot topic!

2 months, 1 week ago on Celebrity Interracial Couple, Daniele Watts and Partner Detained by L.A. Police Who Mistook Her for Hoe and Her “John”

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I do this every morning. I started a month ago and I love it! I thought the gym was too much moving and noisy. I even got a head ache at the gym. Heard about yoga on huffpost and the benefits. I did not want to do it because it was a thing out trend. I decided to look it up on youtube and I think it is my thing for now. I am open to change.

2 months, 1 week ago on Yoga for Weight Loss: Hit All the Major Muscle Groups with Sun Salutations

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I know I am vulnerable. However I do not feel obligated to support black men when they do not support us. I would support this cause tooth and nail. And others should. But question, do you think in the coming days this will be a hot topic? I hope so, if not we cannot be discouraged.

2 months, 1 week ago on Celebrity Interracial Couple, Daniele Watts and Partner Detained by L.A. Police Who Mistook Her for Hoe and Her “John”

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Wow, don't feel bad. I don't even see it like that for myself. I say my brain likes what it likes, there is no reason. I believe it is the same for her. You have no reason. I understand you explain all that to us but even if you go to a psychologist to deal with those issues, would it change who you want to date? Probably not.

2 months, 1 week ago on QOTW: “Am I Wrong to EXPLICITLY Exclude Black Men from My Dating Pool?”

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That is why, I am not going to put my 2 sense to support wrong, by anyone including black men. Anything woman, I will support. Anything black male, let black males support each other. It is like black women stretch themselve`s to support everyone.

2 months, 2 weeks ago on Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race Traitor”; “Bed Wench” for Calling Out Ray Rice Disparity

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The list is too long. However anyone can get pregnant even, well educated women. This rate really encourages women to

1. Pick better partners. 2. Marry before having sex, but the reality is we all have sex before marriage and many women are 1. Those who are health conscious and are not putting birth control in their bodies 2. They take the chance of using it. 3. Just use condoms 4. Pull out. Now after ask thus is said as a single woman who do not want to be in that situation, if pregnancy happens then an abortion must be the way to go, if 1. Not a good partner 2. Not ready. This is my opinion..

Just trying to figure out a solution for some women.

3 months, 3 weeks ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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I know all you say, it is not new. We have to take what we read and make sense of it and form a solution. We either wait until marriage before having sex. Or if you want to be a sexual single woman, utilize the option of birth control, condom or an abortion if you do not want this to happen. The fact is state by state they are closing abortion clinics and we need to stand up for that.

3 months, 3 weeks ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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I would love to know, how many black women actually have abortions? Has religion forced us into a decision and then let us down by not forcing the man to marry???? I know for a fact parents of sons discourage their sons from marrying and then put the shame on the girls.

3 months, 3 weeks ago on New Documentary Decrying 72% Out-of-Wedlock Rate…Love the Content But…

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When i read the title I chuckled, because so many people have psychological problems and that is seen there.

However, I really do not mix up with anyones that sound like that and if black actresses sitting down and allowing that, then they like it so. If I was a passionate actresses and have to read this categories there would be a problem.

4 months, 1 week ago on Hey, Did You Know Hollywood Grades Black Women Just Like Color-racists Do? Truly WTF-iest Casting Call for “Straight Outta Compton” EVER

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I am done with the discussion, exhausting.........

4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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I agree there is some dysfunction in families.

4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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I am calm, trust me. Not going to make a blog post anger me in anyway. I just do not like the comments on here. Some of the comment really put a bitter taste in my mouth that's why I have not been commenting at all. I used to comment more often even before you become moderator so it has been a while. However if it is okay for you guys,I will just read the article and not the comments. Problem solved in my book. 



4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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I have no problem with people being critical, which I said before, I said that before, but would you like someone to call you "a hot mess?" And say, " She got what she was looking for?" I think the article above was critical, understanding and well rounded but then people went on to bash her in the comment area, my problem is with that...

4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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@Daisy_inthe_Field @nyaw @Swirlgirl28 Ugh??...Either I was writing in another language, that's strange but last time I check it was English I replied in...ummmm.


I said what I said and that's that...not going down your road, sorry...

4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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You should have said something to her supervisor.

4 months, 2 weeks ago on That Awkward Moment When Numbskulls Assume Your Biracial Baby Isn’t Yours…

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@Swirlgirl28 @Kels Why are you so hung on being so negative! Okay so what negative can you guys pin point on the show "Married to Medicine"? Please share! Yeah! I watch all the shows and reject what does not entertain me about people and learn for myself. Sports is the same as RHOA they are all for the soul purpose offfffff...ENTERTAINMENT! If it does not entertain you do not watch and as people stop watching they will take it off.

4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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@Kels I do not know about Todd Though. He said Kandi wanted him near her so he gave up on jobs that required him to travel. I think he is sacrificing too much for the relationship. She has to allow him to take those jobs and travel to see him if necessary. She knew the industry he was in. That is like a actress saying no to a acting job because her husband does not want her to travel. He might have to get a job with Tyler Perry! Or do more plays like they did together. I love the partnership of them. AGAIN  I THINK THE COMMENTS ARE TOO CRITICAL AND HEADING TO BASHING! Mrs.Karazin the convo is too negative and not uplifting at all. it is ok to be critical but OMG! Please people....disgusting....

4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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I do not know why Phaedra picked him as  a mate. But if she knew about this blog years ago maybe she would have thought, I did not know my options could be opened up so much! I think still she should know about the blog. I do not like the bashing of her! If you have nothing positive to say shush!!!! critical criticism is okay, BUT YOU CAN DO BETTER PEOPLE!!!

4 months, 2 weeks ago on RHOA Demonstrates How Some Black Women Waste Their Potential on Shifty Men

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I never said nyc was not friendly, it is rare to see bw/ wm couple. You might see it once every, month and a half. Also Once in a blue moon to see a bw/wm couple twice in one day

4 months, 2 weeks ago on Interracial Friendly States, City by City, County by County!

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@ShataviaWhitaker I never thought of Atlanta.

4 months, 2 weeks ago on Interracial Friendly States, City by City, County by County!

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@ShataviaWhitaker I agree nyc should not be on, it predominantly Asian woman and White guy interracial. once in 2 months I would one couple BW/ WM, and that is average.

4 months, 2 weeks ago on Interracial Friendly States, City by City, County by County!

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At the end of the day bloggers like African export blogger have to know why they do what they do. Is it for money? Do they have a market? Oprah is not the most beautiful according to American standards, but she had an audience.

Michael J not the most handsome but he could entertain!!!!

5 months ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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I feel hair is like dating, I want to date who I want and do my hair how the hell I want. I have no hang up. I will shave my hair in a heart beat and relax it like that!!

I think it is the Trini in me! Lol

5 months ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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Guch, this makes me cringe. Do other people here just want to do your hair how you want to!!! And not be judged! Lets start a movement, "do your hair how the hell you want". I had,

natural as a kid

Relaxed as a teen

3rd year college a dread locks for 4years!!

Then natural

Then relaxed currently.

I just like to change it up, try something, what the hell!!!

5 months ago on Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrived in the Natural Hair Community

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Why can black men, who are just men in the human race just look up other men in general, no matter their ethnicity? The problem is money in the US, that separates us.

5 months, 2 weeks ago on Watch a Bunch of Black Women Cheering as Their Pastor Shouts, “These H*es Ain’t Loyal.”

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Noooooo....I am not satisfied anymore with the excuse that cancer is an epidemic. Something is seriously going on in our environment. We need to roll back 70years from now and also look at countries that have the lowest rate of cancers.

....please "3rd world countries" you are doing something right! Do not try to be like these "1st world countries"

My condolences on the family loss....so sudden.

7 months, 1 week ago on Sad News: Former BB&W ‘Hottie’ Succumbs to Cancer at 41

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I had this discussion this weekend with my cousin. We have to get rid of the color to identify each other. . Black, white, hispanic, Asian ? We need to stop that, we tend to identify with ethnicity culture more, that is the only way to help society. If I live in a Greek neighborhood and eat the food from the neighborhood and love the neighborhood, I would have Greek health issues, not Southerners issues. All Americans from the South eat fried chicken, black, white, mix.

Thus concerning this young man congrats, but I view him Ghanian American, I am sure not all Ghanaian identify with him, because there are a million Ethnicities there. I do not identify with African American either. I put other, I am from the Caribbean.

7 months, 2 weeks ago on African vs. African American: Can We Still Legitimately Claim Racism When Folks that Look Just Like Us Come Here and WIN?!

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I saw the interview and I am so sorry that it had to be like that some negative media exposure to rain on Lupita success. 

There is no evidence of what he is saying. It is like he wants to force the future or cause something to happen. When the White commentator said something racist about the basket ball team, he could have said he was being racist, because the evidence is there. 

His speculation is biased and has ill meaning as Christelyn said why is there no speculation when Beyonce is praised or Rihanna.

8 months, 2 weeks ago on Can We Please Stop with the Black Woman Fetish Hysteria?

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I watched, It was great!

1 year, 9 months ago on Toni Braxton Plays in the Snow on Lifetime

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I think a question should be possed like>>> For plenty years women of many back grounds including women from African countries, when looking for a male prospect, they look at how can this man provide for a new family, yes they looked at material wealth. Now in the hood that is seen as being a gold digger, something negative!!!! So LOL!!! What is so wrong with wantning a better partnership. BM/ BW need to stop severely bashing each other and making these stereotypes of ourselves. So can we also bring back that traditional requirement for a union, plz!!!

1 year, 11 months ago on Hot Abercrombie Guy Tells of "Awkward" Interracial Dating Experience

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I do not know what to say...I think they were feeling like the black women on essense blog when they found out that hot actor was married to a white woman...lol! Also perhaps he was one of the hot ones...

Some people stare at couples when they do not match in attractiveness as well... However...he is super hot so I wonder if that could be a factor as well....LOL! Women are strange but what is funny you never hear white men vocalizing their disgust of white women as black men. There are plenty gold digger white women out there but rarely you hear white men saying white women are gold diggers...lol! crazy though. Who would willingly marry someonee with nothing positive happening in their life, ?? Black women, lol, so come again with gold digger talk... 

1 year, 11 months ago on Hot Abercrombie Guy Tells of "Awkward" Interracial Dating Experience

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