I live in NY. I am pretty eclectic and open to everything and, always have been.
I've seen him.... VERY nice.
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@Yorkshireman in Michigan LOL. The broken fingers comment sounds like something I might say.
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@DWB That's not a bad thing. My boyfriend is always sniffing in my hair.
@cjdimplez I'm doing pretty good. I hope your date is going well!!
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@International_Responder I know. I almost didn't respond. Because I didn't know if the comment was... Serious? Two Black women might not have the same experience in relationships with WM. So, I don't understand the comparison being made to a WW/BM relationship. Funny thing is, I am a person that likes to remain as positive as possible. It comes back to you. But, good vibes doesn't envelope people and make their ignorance go away.
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@cjdimplez @melissamak007 @itsgoodtobeme
I thought he was gorgeous. cjdimplez, how have you been??
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@itsgoodtobeme Liking you choices and adding INXS, and The Cure!
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John Taylor... I guess I was so busy looking at him that I didn't realize Roger Taylor is giving me a Ralph Macchioesque vibe. Ralph Macchio was probably my first celeb crush. New Moon On Monday is my song.
@Lili2009 When I was transitioning, my hair would get tangled just for funsies. It gets easier dealing with the two textures.
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@MelissaCritchley I'm sorry. I am not sure who your response was for. But, how can expecting racism and ignorance actually make someone experience it? I never in a million years expected it. But, it happens. All. The. Time. Sometimes you have to look through a different lens to get the full picture. I live in NYC and have never been to Minnesota. But, I have no doubt that whoever you were responding to has experienced whatever it is she said she did.
1 week ago on “Im a Negro Bed Wench,” and Other Things I Learned Since Marrying My Husband
@Keioni That's what I always thought. Honestly, it depends on where we are. Harlem, the Bronx and Brooklyn are where we have the most problems. Mostly we laugh it off. I refuse to entertain people like that. I had to explain to my boyfriend that responding to them is exactly what they want. Once in a while I comment on the fact that if my boyfriend was not in the picture, I wouldn't be with whoever is opening his mouth at the moment.
1 week, 2 days ago on “Im a Negro Bed Wench,” and Other Things I Learned Since Marrying My Husband
@Keioni It depends. The bulk of the disrespect comes from Black men. Every once in a while Black women will give a look. Sometimes they smile. White men and women will cast a disapproving look once in a blue moon. But Black men??? Ohemgee! Looks,comments, I get "Come back to us beautiful." You name it, they do it. They are testing my boyfriend. They act like he's not there. One day (I hope I'm wrong) it may become physical. Do you live in an area that is diverse?
1 week, 3 days ago on “Im a Negro Bed Wench,” and Other Things I Learned Since Marrying My Husband
@Keioni Yes. At least it does to me. I live in NY. So, you figure so many people, nationalities, cultures... No. I have never been called a Negro Bed Wench. At least not yet. Or an Uncle Tom. There are other, disrespectful things that happen.
1 week, 4 days ago on “Im a Negro Bed Wench,” and Other Things I Learned Since Marrying My Husband
@Brenda55 Your whole comment was gold. BUT when I read "If people only knew how stupid they appear throwing that they would stop it once and for all." I almost snorted my coffee. I may have to put you in the same category as Chicago404... Do not read comments while eating and drinking!
Oh Lord. I had totally forgotten about Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire! When I first started seeing the ads for this show, I thought my eyes and ears were deceiving me...
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I am using Alikay lemongrass leave in, avocado oil (which lends some sort of spf), olive oil, water. But, Brenda55 has the right idea. Being a mixtress is usually best.
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Venus looks great! So does the young lady SirLoin posted.
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@sunflowerraven Actually, there was a comment made that was old. But, there is a rapper (who I have never heard of and, will probably go the way of the by bye just like the first) who said something like that recently as well. You are right. It is sickening.
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@sparel @MayaBee @melissamak007 @lumiereleclaire I've been to different parts of Cali a few times. I don't think you should be scared to go. I saw that video (which turned my stomach). But honestly I think that could happen anywhere. A male friend of mine (who is Black and a police officer himself) was recently profiled. All he was doing was getting into a cab after coming from the gym.
@MayaBee @melissamak007 @lumiereleclaire Vibrant colors do typically look good on darker skin tones. Yellow looks great on me. Orange, just doesn't.
@lumiereleclaire @melissamak007 You're welcome! I deal with all types of ignorance when I go out with my boyfriend. So, it's nice to hear that you don't have to anymore. I love yellow. But orange would not look as good on me as it does on you.
@lumiereleclaire Happy that you are in a place that is accepting... Or at least people mind their business. That orange is your color.
@NATruthstudent I read a lot. I HATE romance novels. It's the only genre I exclude. Addicted isn't romance. Trust me.
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@LadyHumor @cjdimplez @melissamak007 I am also in recovery for my product problems. I had a minor relapse a few weeks ago. But, doing better now. I am actually going to a product swap tomorrow. My hair doesn't like Miss Jessie's either. I think HeyFranHey said once that Miss Jessie's doesn't do much for what they want to charge you. And Cantu charges too little because some of their products are filled with bad things. LadyHumor, I don't blame you.
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@LadyHumor @cjdimplez In Target AND less $ than the store. You won't have to finance your organs!
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I read the book years ago. When I saw that a movie was being made... The book was pretty steamy. I didn't see how. I like Sharon Leal, the actress playing her. The character in the book was, well I won't give anything away. Addicted was a really good book though.
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@annyjay400 Coilier is a word!! It is a very good feeling to be able to do your hair yourself and not be a slave to your hair stylist.
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Bougie Black Girl was talking about the same thing yesterday, or the day before. She had two pics of two women side by side. One had maybe 3a/b type hair, the other had 4b/c. They both did a 3 strand twist out. One had 10,375 likes.The other, had 3,796 likes. I don't think anyone needs to guess who was who. They both had beautiful hair. I follow natural hair bloggers and vloggers with all different hair types. My hair has been in it's natural state long enough for me to know what works. I follow HeyFranHey. Our hair type is nothing alike. Do I want mine to look like hers? No. I love my hair. There are too many people out there that don't realize if they don't love themselves, no one else will. It has to come from within.
P.S. The title of this post killed me!
@International_Responder I did go. I think, it's primarily to celebrate the Lovings and their union. Their case was such a landmark. The Loving Day celebration is for couples, and singles of all races. Eating, drinking, and mingling. There were also a few tables set up with information about the Loving Day organization and other things.
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@cjdimplez @melissamak007 OK. So Texas is way too far for me to dry and drag you out somewhere! I'm not a natural hair blogger. Just a junky like you! LOL. I am still trying to master my hair. I subscribe to a bunch of different naturals. Some with hair like mine, some not. Is your hair fine like HeyFranHey? Check her our if you haven't already. Also Quest For the Perfect Curl and Naptural85 have pretty good videos. I think the summer is a good time to start trying to get out there. There are always a lot of things to do.
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@JolieMelodie @cjdimplez @Seenyc @melissamak007 I see you JolieMelodie! I love it!
@cjdimplez @Seenyc @JolieMelodie @melissamak007 That's understandable. I am also a Youtube/blogger natural hair junky. I am famous for not knowing when guys are checking me out and flirting.It doesn't matter so much now. I have been with someone for 3 years. I thought you might be doing the same. I don't think there's anything wrong with being a homebody. Do you live in NY? Have you tried online?
@Lei @Seenyc @cjdimplez @JolieMelodie @melissamak007 Of course!!
Firefighters! The men here are all very nice. But I've had a thing for firefighters for quite some time. Of course, I gravitated towards 2, and 3. They always bring the fire truck to the grocery store near me,. Last week I was talking to one who asked if I would cook him dinner...
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These couples are so cute. The ladies are all natural too. I am including Shama as well. I was there. I certainly didn't see Miss Christelyn!
Looks very fun! Cute kids. I am sure you are exhausted!
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@Lady A Very pretty!
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@JolieMelodie @Lisa_Lisa @jaylwo @DeepWater @Lady A
That's the MO.
@cjdimplez @JolieMelodie @melissamak007 Well, it sounds like you are already helping yourself by exploring your other options. I don't know if you have dated inter racially before. But, you're open to it. That was my Christelyn voice. Believe it or not, 10 years is not that long to be single. Trust me. I'm sure you would rather you be single then with someone who is not worth your time. Could it be that you are over looking guys that could be checking you out?
@JolieMelodie @Christelyn Exactly. I try not to generalize. There are many Asian families that want to disown as well as many that do not. One or two of my Asian friends could NEVER bring home a BM. The others could. I ran into more of a problem (as I think I mentioned on this site before) with the Italian families of men that I dated. But not all. So again, people can't make blanket statements.
@JolieMelodie @cjdimplez @melissamak007 OK. Miss JolieMelodie? I tried! At least I think I tried. Cjdimplez isn't having it!
@brownbeautUK @melissamak007 The best part is how happy they look. I am constantly trying to understand how someone's relationship is anyone else's business.
@Lisa_Lisa I think she handled that well though. I'm glad she pointed out that there were other interracial unions going on right now that no one had a thing to say about.
@brownbeautUK They look great together don't they? She actually dated another White guy. A few years ago. I think that's when the grumbling started.
@Lady A @DeepWater I liked Eve musically as well.
@Justme65 @melissamak007 @JolieMelodie Oh boy. You remind me of a friend of mine. She told me she would, and I quote "wop me in the head." If I ever dare look in the direction of? I forget who right now. One of her celeb boyfriends.
@Justme65 @melissamak007 @JolieMelodie LOL! Sowwy.
@JolieMelodie @melissamak007 We can just divide the time equally. I have no problem sharing.
@SarahCarson @melissamak007 We can only hope!
@Gijou Isn't he gorgeous? I also think Dao-Yi Chow is handsome.