I live in NY. I am pretty eclectic and open to everything and, always have been.
Love the pic. They are both too cute. So is their little one.
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Ahhh... I see.
2 weeks, 6 days ago on Listen white guys, you REALLY need to get over your fear of the black man’s penis.
I've gotten that too. Like you're the Childless Unicorn of Black women...
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I was actually going to ask why you stopped paying for dates? And if you found that the women you were going out with had a problem with it?
I'm 39. I have high school friends who are grandparents. I don't know if I feel old, or young when I hear that. But, I get what you're saying. Anyways, the people that are treating you like an outcast for not having kids are people you really don't want to spend any time with anyway. And if you had kids, they would find something else to try and make you feel bad about.
I do remember this. Absolutely disgusting. When I first saw it, I was hoping he got street justice somehow. This was not the first time he's done this. it won't be the last. Loser. The fact that not one of the little boys standing around said anything is telling.
3 weeks ago on Stop Telling Women to Smile comes to Oakland!
I have a coworker who has 5 children with 3 different men. They range in age from 13-6 months. She has a live in boyfriend (the father of the youngest two) who cheats on her every chance he gets. A while back, he "moved out" for a little while. We went out for my birthday. So, her and this guy start talking... The pace at which he sped away from her when she told him she had 5 kids was almost comical. If I didn't feel for her. Having 5 kids with no reliable support (I am not talking monetary. But, that too.) from the fathers seems overwhelming. Of course you would want to date. But, I agree with (and actually told my coworker the same thing) whoever said sometimes you have to work on yourself first. I am divorced, no children. I was actually told one that I was a "hot commodity" for not having kids. I don't know about that. But, I do think it's possible to find someone quality if you have kids.
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@dani-BBW I bought a shirt from her too. There are movements (like this young woman's) that should definitely be supported by as many people as possible.
3 weeks, 1 day ago on Stop Telling Women to Smile comes to Oakland!
And you didn't respond the that classy line? Teehee... I couldn't even really type that with a straight face. Disgusting.
I saw the headline of this story somewhere. I could not bring myself to read the actual story. I think I will now.
Thank you! I know the zombie apocalypse would probably make you behave in ways you never thought you would. But, I wasn't exactly on the edge of my seat when the zombies came for Carl.
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I love Sophie Okonedo. She did her usual excellent job in this movie. I saw it with my mom as well. Very moving.
3 weeks, 2 days ago on Stop Telling Women to Smile comes to Oakland!
I think she already did NYC? I saw her posters up in Harlem. I probably need to keep my eyes open. I support her project all the way. Earlier this week a guy (with his friend) demanded that I "PUT A SMILE ON THAT PRETTY FACE." Le sigh.. I wonder if my face is offensive because I'm not smiling?
@The Silent OneRight. Then they make up reasons and excuses as to why they aren't throwing themselves at them.
3 weeks, 2 days ago on Listen white guys, you REALLY need to get over your fear of the black man’s penis.
@The Silent OneOK. I was going to give a reason or two but, realized they probably wouldn't sound right. Or, would maybe come off as offensive like you said. I was also going to use the word limitations. So I will stop there.
@The Silent One @Chicago404 Why do you think it's easier for you to be around (and talk to) non Black men? I ask this because, at the jobs I've had (including now) I found it easier to vibe and talk with non Black people. For a variety of reasons.
You are hilarious. Too much so. That's why if I ruin a keyboard while drinking coffee and reading one of your comments... We may have to tussle!