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@DeepWater WOMAN!!! You tell the BEST stories... a rich life lived and risk taking at all the proper moments. I love it. 

4 days, 11 hours ago on Man Candy Monday: Able Bodied Men

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GIRL!! You KNOW I came across him while researching and I couldn't believe what i saw. Talk about being like an average man...dangerous and tempting.

1 week ago on Man Candy Monday: Able Bodied Men

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@Christelyn I swear I try to keep it about more than simply looking at hot bodies, that's too easy! 

If more males and females opened their eyes there wouldn't be so many single folks looking to be partnered. Sexy is relative and active men may risk the chances of being injured, things happen but that doesn't mean that life stops! 


I'm just doing my job. 

1 week ago on Man Candy Monday: Able Bodied Men

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@ncatina I am 73 also. Great minds think like..it twas a good year. 

1 week, 4 days ago on TBT: It’s…………… SOUL……….TRAIN…………..!

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@DWB You KNOW this is my handy work!! *pop locks and while typing* 

1 week, 4 days ago on TBT: It’s…………… SOUL……….TRAIN…………..!

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@BWC I just saw this comment. And you know the door is always open for you and yours. 

2 weeks ago on The BIG LOVE Movement: Intimacy, Friendship, and Community

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@EarthJeff You give awesome advice and insight. I'm glad to see you 'round the thread, love. 

2 weeks ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

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@SavageTango Ha. I'm sure the audience is quite taken aback by you. Me? Sir, I've not the urge or desire to be racked over coals unless I'm allowed to take gloves off and my mouth guard out. 

*le sigh* Folks don't like criticism. I'm a woman who dates women and men. I spend time around women and men as friends and as lovers. I've got a point of view unlike many but....we shall see. I like 'spirited' conversation, no lie, so you may just be able to smoke me out the rabbit hole...maybe. 

2 weeks ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

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Yasss! Ooh, girl. You've said enough. I'm off to write.

2 weeks ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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Um. No moral man will want you if you show your t*ts. I try to cover my tats up so I don't scare away the pastors and reverends who may want to cruise my profile online. :) 

2 weeks ago on The Importance of Little Mystery: Would You Click On Me?

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@Daisy_inthe_Field @MissFLondon You had a Man Candy Sandwich going on...? I'm so jealous. Tell me more. Tell me more!! 

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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I cried real tears..... Chris is officially cray-cray!! 

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Video: Sh$t Black People Say to Black Women to Keep Them Stuck in the Matrix

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Well, let's see if the advice is better received from a White guy than a Black woman who dates (not really because...er) black women. I got my opinions of what does and doesn't work and we seem to share several. 


Awesome new topic, by the way... very entertaining. 

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

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Good for you!! I didn't have an issue with the selection of men at all. It's simple screening and very casual. You do what you came to do and the appropriate men will show themselves, whatever that may be.

There weren't boogymen hiding out there are most were friendly and engaging. If i were serious about needing a new way to meet men, I would definitely use it again.

Keep us posted on your endeavors, please and thank you.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on BB&W Writer Joins Tinder…Check Out the Results

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@zipporah I thought the same thing. He would cycle in and out of characters, and would have several dialogues and side jokes about each character to the point where he struct me as manic. 
No other way to describe a person's brain working that fast, but for the fact that I am familiar with a manic thinking brain. I wasn't surprised to learn of his suicide, at all. 

It made me scared, and fearful for the rest of us, when one leaves because they just couldn't take it anymore. Fame, riches and love didn't 'cure' his sadness. That's a very scary thing for 'us' to recognize. 

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Open Thread: Share Your Favorite Robin Williams Moments

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@Freespirit888 I just want to run my hands along the lines of Mensah's body.. That's all. And maybe rub his bald head. :)

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@Swirlgirl28 I just want Tyrese to stop dam talking... I seriously want to hit him up on Twitter and be like 'bruh, all you gotta do is sing, smile and go to the gym', I wonder if he'll listen to the voice of reason?

If he ages like Tyson Beckford (not age) then he can have a wonderful career as a model, actor and singer. Why he gotta be thinking and speaking is beyond me....

Bernie Mac gave me the impression that he would charm the pants off a woman, which is what his wife said, he charmed her, her parents and he made her his wife. He got her on board with his entertainment aspirations because he wanted to provide for them better than working class Chicago could offer and he did that. I liked Bernie Mac alot (not like I knew him but...) and I'm very sad that he only lived to be 50. His career was really taking off with the Ocean's franchises and his Bernie Mac show bought him into mainstream America. 


You know he didn't care for Steve Harvey, right? Steve tried to back stab him by calling the network doing the Bernie Mac show and offered to do it for cheaper and said he was funnier. Glad they didn't bring his loud suits and horse teef into my living room. 

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@dani-BBW GIRL...... so much going on. And I had just gotten my first cable box and was looking for something to watch. The acting wasn't bad, the actors were good and the story line was interesting enough. 


and then..

and then....

and then...

I saw pee-nis and naked-ness and lots of disturbing (in a hot and bothered way that made me think I should say the rosery for forgiveness) images. 


LOVED THAT DAM SHOW... Adebezi was hilariously obnoxious and dope at the same dam time. 


2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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Girl, bye!! I left out several fine Black men, I was pushing it by including Tyrese who besides having idiot dating advice was actually married to a black woman and has one child from the marriage. He still gets called dead beat scum (in the comment section) which I think is just racial bias rather than his genuinely earning the title. His child support issues stem from the mother wanting mo' money, mo' money and not neglect. 


Taye Diggs is gorgeous too, but he and several others are with WW and you know that's a no-no!! #snarf @Tammy_Ghalden 

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@PamelaFoster At the last minute I considered Lance Gross but I actually didn't have time to look him up. I included men who wouldn't set the alarms off with cries of "but, but, but..he did x,y, and z' and turn this into a sh*t slinging party. 

Fine is fine.... all things considered. I COULD have included a few very dark men (rappers like P. Diddy who IMO wears the hell outta his suits and is a very attractive dark brown man but no, he gets no play here) so my list is very hand picked this week. 


2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@tonyrog I did forget about him. I was trying to find VERY dark black men, like Nat King Cole, my childhood crush from my Dad's record collection. :) 

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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@mzsunshine THANK YOU! I can't for the life of me figure how to do the kumbaya thing, which is what we're promoting here versus the THEY HATE BLACK WOMEN so you should hate them back thing and then five minutes later folks complain of the hatred BW get for dating out their race. 


Can't have it both ways. Either live and let live or fester and worry about non-factor details of ppl you don't know and continue being resentful when it behooves ppl to mind their life and focus on what is supposed to matter. 

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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Ooooh. Him so, so, so.... beautiful. That skin!!!

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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I watched him in Oz, who is the crazy African?! And why him so dam gorgeous....?

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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If i could bottle and sell this man's skin, I'd be rich.

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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Don Cheadle just does something for me. He's so sincere in his concern for people, and he does some amazing work as an actor.

Looks have little to do with a man's charisma.

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Man Candy Monday: The Blacker the Berry

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*heavy sigh* This is a hard one to deal with, especially so for those who suffer from depression and have thoughts of suicide. When someone gives in, it should remind us all that the disease of mental and emotional issues isn't something that can be ignored, nor is it always simply 'talk'. 


Robin Williams had all a man could have and want in life. And still he found life not worth living. That's a scary, scary realization for me. I hope he finds the peace he sought and I'm grateful to have had him and his cinematic genius in my life. So, so very influential. 

3 weeks ago on Open Thread: Share Your Favorite Robin Williams Moments

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Our lives are valuable when we insist that they are valuable. I believe we've (society) been fooled into giving credence to a "just society" and think someone, somewhere cares. Though i see evidence of the contrary. What to do? Break fool and cause noise and make it uncomfortable to harm/damage/violate women. Who will do this? Not current society (read:collective male). Sorry to say but that's how i feel.

1 month ago on Where Did 64,000 Black Women and Girls Go?

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Unfortunately I totally agree with you.

1 month ago on Where Did 64,000 Black Women and Girls Go?

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I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope she is returned and justice is served.

1 month ago on Where Did 64,000 Black Women and Girls Go?

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That girl is on fi-yah...... SMH at the two of you. Enjoy, that's what (biology) life is all about. Tasting and savoring the sweets...

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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Ha, both of you, actually. :-)

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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Why am i not surprised..... you, lady are one of those women who fall into adventures, I can tell.

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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Woman!!!! You are so so bad.

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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Yes. The Help Me Home program is built to integrate into other places but I didn't see it elsewhere. Strange, it's a very simple and cost efficient tool.

1 month ago on Where Did 64,000 Black Women and Girls Go?

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Thanks. I'm trying to display diversity to help the ladies see the beauty in other men and cultures.

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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@Brice Cameron I didn't even watch the video. The expression summed it all up to me. LOL.

1 month ago on QOTW: “Help! My White Friends Ask My Black Girlfriend Dumb Questions!”

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Raised in a place with our own Little India and from the children, to the men and women, I've always found their features to be beautiful.

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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I love Moroccan men, they're very intense, humble and tall...!

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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Girl bye, call me anything but a child of God and I'll respond. :-)

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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That man is Gawd to me!!!! Oh...those eyes, those teeth, that voice...

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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After the sweet tooth cravings you move on to realizing that sexy people need love to. Being attractive isn't a disease or moral malfunction. Do great hearts only come in homely and bland packages? I think not.

1 month ago on Man Candy Monday: Lustful Arabian Knights of Hot Indian Men

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Duran Duran was last week's throwback. Simon, indeed.

1 month, 1 week ago on TBT: Más, Mucho Más Menudo…..

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I could turn that setup into something entirely different. Lucky you.

1 month, 1 week ago on Fabulous Date Ideas for Cool People

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Yes, ma'am. That man is dam beautiful.

1 month, 1 week ago on TBT: Más, Mucho Más Menudo…..

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Thank you so much, love. I enjoy looking back. The past has relevance and meaning.

1 month, 1 week ago on TBT: Más, Mucho Más Menudo…..

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@Seenyc HA!! You are awesome for this!! #TBT winner!

1 month, 1 week ago on TBT: Más, Mucho Más Menudo…..

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