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The video posted above is exactly in line with my way of thinking. I've been ghost looooooooong before this "revelation". It doesn't hurt me one bit.

3 days, 19 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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How about the cliche:" It's not you, it's me" statement or "I'm too busy for love".

5 days, 14 hours ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@ibetnoonehasthisusername I like your username.

6 days, 13 hours ago on AAWG: SavageTango tells it. Why I Swirl.

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I co-sign your last paragraph. I liked black guys when I was younger and my friends would often tease me about liking "those white and Chinese boys". I took no offense. When it came to the black guys I liked, they usually ended up choosing the light-skinned black girl with the long hair or the dark-skinned black girl with the body of a video vixen.

1 week, 1 day ago on QOTW: “Why Are Black Women So Hesitant to Date and Marry Non-Black Men?”

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My favorite guy features are nice eyes, full lips and great smile, all which my hubby possess.

1 week, 1 day ago on QOTW: “Why Are Black Women So Hesitant to Date and Marry Non-Black Men?”

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And unfortunately black women are still under that pressure. That would explain, in my opinion, that out of all groups of women who are in IRR's black women face the most criticism. People have a very difficult time and refuse to accept that we deserve to love and be loved by a quality man, regardless of what his color may be. They are PISSED that we are seeing through the lies and refuse to live our lives in a box.

1 week, 1 day ago on QOTW: “Why Are Black Women So Hesitant to Date and Marry Non-Black Men?”

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Life is too short and we don't have time to convince.

1 week, 1 day ago on QOTW: “Why Are Black Women So Hesitant to Date and Marry Non-Black Men?”

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The women are stunning

1 week, 2 days ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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Christelyn, I fully support your effort. To me, there is nothing offensive about what you are doing. Keep doing what you are doing and I will follow your site wherever you may go.

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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I'm also natural. My eyeshadows, blushes and lipsticks consist heavily of colors which are bold and accentuate my brown skin. I also like to wear brighter colored clothing which bring out my skin tone.

1 week, 2 days ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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I've definitely heard of this movie. Considering watching it.

1 week, 3 days ago on Answering My Own Question: YES; Asian Men ARE a Thing…a VERY GOOD Thing…

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All of the models are slamming! Glad that a picture of a non-hour glass figure was featured. I was starting to feel some kind of way, lol.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Summer Breeze

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I love boba tea! Favorite flavor is coconut.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Friday’s G+ Chat: Real Talk About Dating Asian Men

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Thanks for sharing. A relationship built on stereotypes doesn't usually last.

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Friday’s G+ Chat: Real Talk About Dating Asian Men

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I actually know a few Asian guys who dated/are married to black or hispanic women, who are dark skinned, and they have children, so it is happening. i took the bold step of suggesting to one of my sisters that she consider Asian men an option after several failed relationships with black men,

2 weeks, 3 days ago on Friday’s G+ Chat: Real Talk About Dating Asian Men

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Getting married is a big deal and a huge responsibility. Perhaps in the eyes of society, couples who married and had children, even if they later divorced are viewed as having made an attempt at having an "in tact" family as opposed to taking the "easy way out" by simply living together and having children. But the thing is, if you are already living together as if you are a married couple, adding a ring to it shouldn't be that big of a deal. For many couples, a ring seals the deal of showing commitment to the person you want to be with as opposed to having that window of opportunity to pick up and leave. In my opinion, being called a "wife" and "husband" is respectable.

2 weeks, 5 days ago on If It Can Happen to Amber Rose…..Why That Marriage Certificate Makes All the Difference in the World

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Congratulations!

2 weeks, 5 days ago on Another BB&W is Getting Hitched!

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"I reeeealllly don't think BW at Whole Foods are walking around scowling."

Or at Trader Joes.

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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Thanks for that.

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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Yes and that constant changing and pursuing without It being returned is a HUGE turn off.

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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Thank you! I had an unpleasant look on my face this morning after coming home from working an overnight shift and being exhausted, I went to buy groceries only to find out after standing in line and swiping my card that it wasn't working. I then had to literally run home, get another card and run back to the grocery store in the pouring rain. Needless to say I wasn't interested in smiling.

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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I remember smiling at a man in a grocery store as we made eye contact when we walked past each other and he gave me the DEATH stare!!!

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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EXACTLY! The last sentence you wrote hit the nail on the head: the fact that there seems to be a double standard with facial expressions when it comes to bw but an exception when it's a non-bw. It's frustrating. Once people begin to realize that they have double standards, they may begin to realize that maybe they need to change their way of thinking. Any woman is approachable if you go about it the right way.

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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I hear you NY man. Perhaps it would be so kind as to inquire about how our day is going. In most cases, bw don't walk around with miserable looks on their faces for no reason. It could be that their day was going well but along the way they got street harassed while walking and now they are upset.

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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I appreciate your comment but what I'm curious about is why a bw rejecting a wm once ruins the chance for approaching another bw where as if a wm is rejected by a non-bw, it's just "her loss, on to the next one".

3 weeks ago on Letter: White Men are Catching a Clue…

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I believe that those women who may feel threatened by us fall into at least two categories: those who feel entitled to what we have and those who feel that we don't deserve the best, causing them to become jealous and upset when we get it. Remember, we were supposed to eat the crumbs thrown from the table and be happy with them, not actually have a sit down seat and receive a full plate.

3 weeks, 1 day ago on Video: Are Black Women Who Swirl a THREAT to White Women?

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I'd be pissed. Ignoring the problem will not set things straight. Addressing it will. If Rob really cares about Twigs, he will protect her and tell those racist beasts to eff-off. So far, I'm not pleased with his lack of response and am waiting for the crickets to stop chirping. I'm sure he tells her that he loves the person she is and what other people say doesn't matter however he needs to also let commenters know that he will not tolerated their vitriol.

3 weeks, 4 days ago on Is Robert Pattinson a Lame Swirler? Leaves Black Girlfriend to Save Himself From Online Bullies!

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Unfortunately People Magazine doesn't know how to act when someone surpasses THEIR achievable level of success and wealth. They hit a glass ceiling while the individuals they are shading are walking on it. Sucks to be looked down upon, huh, PM? Cheers to THAT!!! Shonda, keep laughing all the way to the bank, girl! What did 50 say: If they hate, then let them hate AND watch the money pile up.

3 weeks, 5 days ago on People Magazine Shows Racial Shade During Shonda Rhimes Big Network Television Night

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Beautiful couple.

1 month ago on Three Cultures One Couple – Anou and Siobhan

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Makes me want to become a fitness model.

1 month, 1 week ago on SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Ab-solutly.

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Thank you Chris! I get tired of hearing this question as well as though people were sleeping under a rock.

1 month, 1 week ago on QOTW: “Should I Worry If the White Guy Macking On Me Has No Black Friends?”

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Keke looks like a princess. She is very beautiful. Let this be a reminder to all the black girls around the world that they are so much better than eating and fighting over crumbs thrown from the table.

1 month, 1 week ago on First Photos of Keke Palmer Playing Cinderella on Broadway!

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Holy smokes!

1 month, 1 week ago on MAN CANDY MONDAY: 50 Shades of Bae’

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Also the thing is it isn't as though the cops just walked up to the car. Someone called 911, who routed the call to the dispatcher who then informed the cops. If I we're her I would give the cops the id and ask questions later. No offense but I've watched django more than once and am still not quite sure who she is. The reason for the stop on her part is unfortunate but the cops were doing what they were sent to do.

1 month, 1 week ago on Update on Danielle Watts: BB&W Exclusive Interview with Boyfriend, Brian

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Because we are committed to making it work.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on Open Forum: Okay; We Know White Men Married to Black Women are 44% Less Likely to Divorce. But Why?

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Congrats Jeff and Toni!

1 month, 2 weeks ago on BB&W’s Very Own ‘EarthJeff’ is Getting Hitched!!

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I appreciate your comment. One bad experience should not spoil the entire experience. If I was so concerned about the what-if's I may have never found my husband.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on And We Wonder Why More Non-Black Men Don’t Approach Us?

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WHYYYYY!!!??? (Sorry everyone. Summer is my favorite season).

1 month, 3 weeks ago on Open Thread. Summer is over on to Fall

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What a dumb question!

5 months, 3 weeks ago on And People Wonder Why We Rail So Much About Colorism…

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Lol! We had a spring day on Thursday: 73 degrees! It was absolutely marvelous! Can't wait until it stays like that.

5 months, 3 weeks ago on Photos, Cursed Wind, and ‘The Babster’ Policing the Garden

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Team Lupita!! She's gorge!

6 months ago on Let It Fro. Let it Fro. Let it Fro…

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Um, isn't the whole point of going to the gym is getting/remaining fit? Correct Me if I'm wrong.

7 months, 1 week ago on A True WTF Moment…When a Gym Manager Tells a Black Woman She’s Too Fit.

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Looking good. I like the turquoise monokini above. I think it's the ruffles.

7 months, 1 week ago on Iffy Belly? No Waist to Speak Of? Consider the Monokini

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We love you Chris!

7 months, 2 weeks ago on It’s Not Always Easy To Love Me. But I Thank You For It

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Beautiful family!

7 months, 3 weeks ago on Lovely in Lavender: Claire and Phil

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I had water with lemon a few days ago and it was pretty refreshing. I'm not a fan of like though. Don't like the bitter aftertaste.

7 months, 3 weeks ago on Strange Fruit…But It’s Still Good For You

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I hope the rumor isn't true. If it is, oh well. What baffles me is how a couple can be together for years, get married and then divorce within a year. Makes no sense. There is much truth to the statement that a couple's relationship changes after marriage.

8 months ago on Janet Jackson Rumored to Divorce: Are Some Differences Just Too Difficult to Overcome?

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What is the name of the petal pink lipstick the model above is wearing? It's very beautiful.

8 months ago on 3 Off the Runway Beauty Trends for SS 2014

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