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1 day, 5 hours ago on Mark Jacobs Knows Pink…with “Kiss Kiss Bang Bang!”

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He looks like trash and he prefers such.

1 day, 5 hours ago on Kid Rock (Crudely) Highlights How Preferences Can Change Over Time

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Kid Rock? Whatever. What Kid Rock thinks is what he thinks. Beyonce has more money and fame than he does and chances are even if she were single, he wouldn't enter her mind for a dating choice. Moving on.

1 day, 5 hours ago on Kid Rock (Crudely) Highlights How Preferences Can Change Over Time

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That lipstick looks gorgeous on you. Did you have to use a lip liner? I'm not a fan of applying lip liner so I tend to avoid shades of lipstick where I have to do so. BTW, I have the exact same Stila eyeshadow palette and night sky is one of my favorites when I want to wear blue eyeshadow at work and not look like I'm going to the club.

2 days, 10 hours ago on Mark Jacobs Knows Pink…with “Kiss Kiss Bang Bang!”

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I love the way bold colors compliment our skin, from eyeshadows to lipsticks to clothes.

2 days, 22 hours ago on Zara: Eight Reasons Why We Love Black Women

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Serena is looking DELICIOUS on that ESPN cover and the young lady in the picture below that one is absolutely STUNNING. Good article Toni but you know a lot of the times, talking to these men is like talking to a brick wall. You'd think they'd get the hint already.

3 days, 9 hours ago on Dear Black Men, Did I Hurt Your Feelings? You Don’t KNOW Hurt Feelings…

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Went to the gym this morning and burned 550 calories WALKING on a treadmill (speed 4, incline 7). Keep this up and I'll be bikini ready in no time.

3 days, 9 hours ago on Four Ways to Be Your Best You

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I've been taking steps to get into better shape by exercising more. Eating healthy isn't always possible but I try.

3 days, 22 hours ago on Four Ways to Be Your Best You

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Kanye West is a total joke. Anything he says fall on deaf ears with me. For all I know, He and Kim may be miserable behind closed doors.

1 week, 1 day ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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My husband prefers when my fro is out and about, not in twists, which I wear for work related purposes. I prefer a free fro as well.

1 week, 3 days ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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Being that the writer is damaged, has low self-confidence and has issues with low self-esteem, she would use a negative word such as "mediocre" instead of "average" to describe anything.

1 week, 3 days ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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You know what? If she wants to apologize, let her. I'm NOT apologizing, so moving on in life...

1 week, 3 days ago on Black Woman Writes Apology Missive for Preferring White Men; Seeks Understanding and Forgiveness.

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The mockers were bullies. Plain and simple. I would say that an apology isn't required however it isn't a bad gesture either. Case in point: my first two years of college I had a huge crush on a baseball player at my school. He was a very nice guy but he kept using the excuse of being too busy with school to hang out with me or he kept saying he would but then wouldn't. One day I was having breakfast by myself in the cafeteria in the same area he and his team were eating. When I got up to leave his teammates were making fun of me asking him out and they were laughing. I felt humiliated. He didn't say anything. After that I thought his teammates were buttholes but I thought he was an even BIGGER one for not being honest with me. He said hello to me a couple of days later but I already had the "whatever" mentality about him. I would have had more respect for him had he at least apologized for allowing his teammates to humiliate me and for not being honest. Don't get me wrong, I remember how cute, smart and talented he was. I also remember him being passive, which, to me, overshadowed everything else.

1 week, 4 days ago on Zara: Asian Men, Black Women…So Undesirable, We Don’t Even Want Each Other

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Where was "Jon" when I was in high school? Lol. During my high school years, Asian guys were included as guys I was googly eyes over. I wasn't shy about letting them know either. I didn't give a crap about what other people thought because I was getting myself along in life. What I will say is that peer pressure in high school can be greater than the need to do your "own" thing. Zara, it's unfortunate that you and Jon didn't get the opportunity to hang out because of those immature nuckleheads. And at the same time, the older you get the wiser you become, at least for most people.

1 week, 4 days ago on Zara: Asian Men, Black Women…So Undesirable, We Don’t Even Want Each Other

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Lol. Cute video! They all made the right decision.

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Carrie: “Ulterior Motives: Are We Dating Interracially to Escape?”

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Or how about a simple I chose him because I love him? It's annoying how people try to complicate things that are so simple.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on Carrie: “Ulterior Motives: Are We Dating Interracially to Escape?”

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AMEN! If anything, I escaped "black patan" by going away to college.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on Carrie: “Ulterior Motives: Are We Dating Interracially to Escape?”

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Kanye's gonna get clocked by someone's Grammy in the future.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on Zac: “ I wish a muthaf#^%*a WOULD,” and Other Kanye West Observations

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DeltaRoots should return back to his Delta roots.

2 weeks, 6 days ago on Who Didn’t See This Coming? Threatening the Monopoly of Dating Black Women…

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I hope they enjoyed their date. It was a very nice gesture. Regardless of the people who disapprove of IR, specifically between wm and bw, there will always be more who do approve.

3 weeks, 1 day ago on Update on the ‘Meme’ Couple!

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I'd call him average but that voice of his makes him sexy.

3 weeks, 2 days ago on Why Women LOSE When They Select Mates Primarily on Looks

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Nah, I have 4b and it definitely isn't easier, at least for me.

3 weeks, 3 days ago on Zara: ‘Bad Hair’ Blues – Not All Natural Hair Coils Equally 

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Beautiful family! The kids are funny!

3 weeks, 4 days ago on Meet Erik and Tanya: Interracial Couple Living Abroad in Israel

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I find nothing insulting about what he wrote. As many times as I may think I would have liked to live in a certain era, I am aware of what my reality would have been like. No thanks. Anyways best luck to Stan in his search.

3 weeks, 5 days ago on Everybody Ain’t “The Lovings”: Why Are Older White Men Being Judged for “Suddenly” Pursuing Black Women?

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I knew my husband was a keeper when we were cleaning the pool as young camp counselors and he asked me what were my hobbies and what I liked to do in my spare time, something NO man I called myself dating ever asked.

1 month ago on Anti-Swirling Black Women And You: Why Their Loudness Means Nothing To YOUR Happiness

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WOW! What is this notion that people feel their happiness is more important than the person to whom it's due? The complex and nerve of these idiots!

1 month ago on Video: Five Reasons Nobody Wants a Black Woman!

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Love your hairstyle Mamie!

1 month ago on Mamie: Your (Black) Feminism Crash Course…

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Um, I'll choose the fourth!

1 month ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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Complete and utter nonsense. As usual it's about what the woman should do for the man while he is expected to do nothing. I would be surprised if any of the authors are in committed and monogamous relationships.

1 month ago on When IBM Nonsense Doesn’t Go Over Well with White America

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For some reason I'm hearing Andrea Bocelli's chorus of "time tooooo say gooood byyye..."

1 month ago on Video: Five Reasons Nobody Wants a Black Woman!

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Awesome video and pictures of absolutely stunning black women. Chris, your skin is flawless and glowing.

1 month ago on Video: Five Reasons Nobody Wants a Black Woman!

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A study recently came out with NYC being number 2 out a list of 15 cities with a high herpes rate. Don't know the sample size but I will say the young lady is right to be cautious and to not let her guard down.

1 month, 1 week ago on QOTW: Twenty-Something I.T. Girl’s Swirling Woes in New York

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Thank you to the wonderful men who love and stand up for us. It is great to know that we don't have to be the only ones fighting for ourselves.

1 month, 1 week ago on Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Sound Off on Jesse Peterson Bigotry

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Is it possible to block twitter followers? I wouldn't even waste brain space engaging brick walls.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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I say be proud of who you are.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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I hear what you are saying but it is IMPOSSIBLE for me to believe that you are having a hard time finding a black woman.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

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I always thought the idea of going skiing and staying in a lodge with hot chocolate, a comfy couch and a fireplace to always be a fantasy of mine. Not a fan of cold though. Lol.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on What Skiing in Big Bear Taught Me About Interracial Dating Prospects for Black Women

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White and Hispanic women don't find some AM attractive. SO WHAT?! If those particular men have any sense, they will stop being so oblivious and go after women who ARE attracted to them.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on AM/BW: “Never Settle for Secrecy”

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Knowing me I probably would ask these questions BEFORE the first date just to weed out whether or not it is worth a shot. Life is short and I don't believe in wasting one second of time on someone not worth it.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on AM/BW: “Never Settle for Secrecy”

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That lady is right. It's a cold, hard truth.

1 month, 2 weeks ago on Reader Weighs In: Wife vs. ‘Wifey’

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I agree. We should move on. Moral of the story: don't look for an Asian man. Look for a good man who doesn't care what others think and if he HAPPENS to be Asian, GREAT!!!

1 month, 2 weeks ago on AM/BW: “Never Settle for Secrecy”

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Spot on.

1 month, 3 weeks ago on AM/BW: “Never Settle for Secrecy”

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Aww. Feel better soon!

1 month, 3 weeks ago on Utterly Speechless…Is Kim Kardashian Wearing Blackface?!

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Don't get into a relationship you aren't ready before because you will hurt the other person. If you feel safer in the safe zone, stay there.

1 month, 3 weeks ago on Hangout Roundup: Long Distance Relationships, Preferences, and Resolutions

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His video is spot on. There is a difference between not being attracted to someone vs considering them to be unattractive. It's not rocket science that bw are attacked because we have less protection as compared to other women. Kudos and much love, respect and loyalty to men who think like men and not like immature boys. Those are the men deserving of our time, passion and dedication.

2 months ago on Glad to See More Non-Black Men Seeing Through the Lies About Black Women.

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There's this song I have by Green Day called Let Yourself Go. It's a edgy song to listen to if you're tired of hearing nonsense from people. But beware, it's not child friendly.

2 months ago on On Justifying Preferences, and Evolving Preferences…

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