Hello My name is Heather Clark, I am a Clinical Specialist. I believe that tomorrow is not promised and wish to live my life, laugh and love like there is know tomorrow!
Happy Birthday! 40 and Fabulous! Your hair is awesome!
1 year, 5 months ago on This is Forty...
I used to get yeast infections often when I was on the pill and also immunoduppressed due to meducations. So I've tried everything because I'd rather use natural remedies because I'm not a big fan of medications. I tried yogurt down there not a good idea, made it worst. Acidophilus works. Garlic burns but it kills yeast. So I just take garlic tabs as a supplement now and I haven't had a yeast infection in years. Good luck!
2 years, 5 months ago on Health: Natural Remedies to Combat Yeast Infections
Awh! Too cute. Happy Birthday Emma!
2 years, 5 months ago on Yesterday, The Babster Turned "Seventeen."
Sorry but Albrey needs to get a job. He's been chillin and I haven't seen him in anything since he was with Halle. He just wants a meal ticket.
2 years, 6 months ago on Halle Berry Has to Pay Gabriel Aubry $20K a Month in Child Support--And He's NOT Even the Custodial Parent
2 years, 9 months ago on Mmm...Mmmmm....MMMMMMM!
Wow! this makes me think of the sorry ass Tyrese who constantly puts his foot in his mouth about Black women. He's back trying to sell CD's so he comes out with a song called Stay anf his explanation of the song in an interview was, This is for the ladies, i know we may cheat, and yall have to deal with a lot, brothers on the down low and all that but I'm just asking you to "STAY". Don't give up on us, we love you? Really? and then he put his foot in his mouth by saying that Yall ( Black women) are so busy being independant that yall are going to independant yourself lonely. And we are supposed to but this song? He acts as if they are the prize and we should be so lucky to have a cheatin low down dirty disrespectful fool to call our own. UGH!! Everytime it comes on I turn it off and to my knowledge it hasn't become a hit. So ther is Black girl power after all!!!
2 years, 9 months ago on Too $hort and XXL magazine Hate Black Women: So what else is new?
Chris your skin looks great by the way!
2 years, 9 months ago on Video: "Why So Much Hate For Black Women Who Swirl?"
Chris, you are soooo right. I just wonder why do they care. These people really take it personally. i have friends Black women with this mentallity. One girl's night we had a discussion because I was on my soap box about all of us being successful beautiful Black women who are single and started talking about a lot of the things i've learned through your blog etc. and the coversation got heated, not only by them but by me as well. Because One said she wants to preserve the Black family! and another said that Black women are the least desirable women in the world. i could not believe that was coming out of their mouths. They were adamant and very comfortable waiting for their Black man to drop out of the sky all chocolaty and glistening! LOL so I really got controversial and asked what Black family? does it even exist anymore, Everybody has babies all over the place, noones trying to settle down and get married. your living in a fantasy land. Needless to say after I finished everyone was quiet. LOL They probably thought I was off my rocker. But it frustrated me to here these highly intelligent women belittle themselves and willing to sit by and watch their lives pass them by for the sake of saving the race. give me a break! Where does that come from? I even gave them some info to research themselves.
Ok I was appalled to say the least! And to have this type of bafoonery going on in of all things Black History month! That's a clear example of the division within the Black community. I know that people think this stuff doesn't really happen but it actually does happens within Black families and to have some promotor have the Balls to have a party and call it the battle of the complexions is insane!!!
2 years, 9 months ago on What Da Cuss x100: Club Owners Pit Light-Skinned Girls Against Dark-Skinned Girls Under Guise of 'Racial Pride'
I totally agree Chris . I saw Tge movie Friday $10.50 ! $8.00 in Cali? Lol! Anyway it was wonderful. I felt so good after watching the movie and very proud to be an American. It was refreshing not to see bafoonery for once. And as far as the love story with the Itsliab women, people need to get over themselves , it's a very real occurance when men are stationed in another country, they date the women their. Do you think the movie would have been realistic if they had a black women anywhere in there . They didn't want the black men there. People done times just need to fuss about something . I highly recomend it. Wonderful video of your day, it's good that you have one , My father passed on November and we only have pictures .
2 years, 11 months ago on Went To See "Red Tails," and...
I just want to thank you for your story and allowing us to see that interracial relationships with Black women can and do exist. You are helping so many of us move on to love, family and companionship. Thank you for all that you do.
2 years, 11 months ago on My Story: Jumping the Broom with a "White" Boy
WOW! This was great and also a very good way to explain this disorder. I am a Registered Nurse and Health and wellness coach and have seen this disoorder first hand and it can be debilitating. The fact that you don't "look sick" really affects peoples perceptions. Mental illness is still such a hush hush subject although it is starting to come to the fore front. I'm glad that you had the courage to speak about it and say it out loud!!!! Because so many people are suffering insilence and so many family tradgedies may be avoided because of the dialogue. Kudos to you!!
2 years, 11 months ago on Mental Disorders and Why Ignorance Is Bliss....Until It Kills You
I agree with this Chris. It's rather unfortunate that the BC comunity accepts mediocrity as the norm. Striving for excellence in some comu nities is a very unpopular event , almost frowned upon and collecting a check or now a card is some how ok. I had to use public assistance food stamps (independance card) to be exact when I was in Nursing school and had spinal surgery. For me it was a very humbling but necessary experience that I will never forget , nor will I ever like to be in that place again. It was temporary period.
2 years, 11 months ago on Newt Gingrich Says Blacks Should Demand More Paychecks, Less Welfare. I Agree with Him.
Hi five Abiola! I'm so glad that you have put it out there for the ladies to see and learn. I learned to take charge of what I like and how I like it. I know what works for me and am not ashamed to teach it to that special someone. It's great that we have this avenue because everyone isn't comfortable. Like I said before I bought my Mom and my little sister one to broaden their horizon so to speak . In my inner circle with my girls we make recommendations on what's hot and what's not and why. Lol! TMI? I think not .. Good for you and good for the ladies.
2 years, 11 months ago on Abiola Abrams on...Da Da Dunnnnn! Pleasuring Yourself. O_o
Wow! Congratulations ! I commend you for taking the chance and following your heart! You have a beautiful family. Your an inspiration!
2 years, 11 months ago on Love & Marriage Overseas: Three Kids Later, Happy and In Love in Sweden!
@eugeniaberg @formavitae Exactly!
2 years, 11 months ago on Jamila Akil: Beware of "Concern Trolls"
I define my curls. But I have come in contact with someone who thinks its strange for me to want to flat iron my fro to trim it and wear it straight for a bit , to see how long it is. She says just pull it down , why would you want to straighten it ? Lol! Why do you care? It's my hair period, is there some rules that Im supposed to follow? Too funny.. But mind your business!
2 years, 11 months ago on Do You Define Your Hair, Or Does It Define You?
@Black Women With Other Brothers @hclark Good idea
2 years, 11 months ago on Millicent Hunter Reports From the Trenches: What It's Like to Join a Swirling Meet-up Group!
@jameshetfield Happy New Year to you too!
2 years, 11 months ago on Hottie Of The Week: Micha Reglin!!
This will give me a variation for those dreaded crunches! Thanks again!
2 years, 11 months ago on Exercise of the Week: Plank & Modified Sit-Ups!
This man is crazy! But it goes to show you that they are getting antsy about the future of Black women and their future with black women. I love it , good for you Chris!
2 years, 11 months ago on I Normally Don't Put Folks On Blast But...
I just checked meetup.com and the group is only accepting men at this time. Maybe I'll try later.
Well everyone can say, "It's only hair"., and I kinda felt that way after having brain surgery and having my head shaved totally bald. I was happy to still be here.... But your hair is your crowning glory, I feel really good when my hair looks and fels good. I went through a process , wigs first didn't like them much and then I started to embrace my natural hair and learn what to do and how to do it. I can say men constantly put there hands in my hair and I don't have that much of it. I mean strange men or someone who's just trying to laugh or hug, will inevitably touch my hair. Don't know if they want to see what it feels like or what. So I do think they pay attention to hair. I have recieved compliments on my hair even when I wasn't in love with it yet.
2 years, 11 months ago on Is it "Just" Hair When It Comes to Attracting the Opposite Sex?
2 years, 11 months ago on Beauty: Tried Belegenza's "Simply Straight" Progressive Straightener on Maxi-Me and...
This is very nice. I just may join since I'm right up the road in Baltimore.
Awh.. How wonderful .. Congrats to yall!
2 years, 11 months ago on Sad News: Former ‘Hottie’ Jason Hendrix, Succumbs to Cancer, Age 41.
@Christelyn @ltd139 I agree with the idea that teaching our daughters about pleasuring themselves could possibly save them from giving their sexuality away to someone who doesn't deserve it. It's understood and accepted that young boys will masturbate and its ok. I think we should empower our young girls sexually and let them know that it's ok and it's natural. I even bought my Mom a vibrator which her generation would never speak about such things and she loves that my friends are so open about it, Not sure if she used it (TMI)! LOL! But she's not a prude and deserves pleasure as well. I say we women need to take charge of it and I agree there's nothing like a real man... but we have something to take the edge off, so to speak.
2 years, 11 months ago on o_O! Abiola Abrams Talks Sex Toys!
Thanks Chris. I think Pilates and Yoga really does the job and I do need some work with these thighs, sometimes a little age can be a cruel joke. Lol. So I will add this to my regimen.
2 years, 11 months ago on Flabby Thighs? This Video Tutorial is for You.
Looks Yummy! i love her energy , very vibrant!
2 years, 12 months ago on Abiola Abrams on Mojito Salad & Love Advice
YaY!!!! Now if only I can get up the nerve. :-)
2 years, 12 months ago on Big News! Former "Goddess" & "Hottie" Make Love Connection!!
Great interview. She's very beautiful and vibrant. Looks like she's living her life like its golden. I look forward to seeing her on this site.
3 years ago on Goddess of the Week: Abiola Abrams!!
Refreshing.. Finally a BM who is bold enough to tell the truth. I say Amen!
3 years ago on Video: The Loving Truth
WoW! This Darnell has literally made me sick to my stomach. What's funny is that he isn't a minority in his thoughts when it comes to how Black men feel about Black women waking up and realizing that they too have options. It make them angry and now we get the charge of desicrating the race. Get a Life! I say who really cares what they think. i just love the fact that the tide is changing and everyone is feeling it. Many of the beautiful, professional, honest and loyal black ladies are going for the relationships and love that they want and derserve. Woo Hooo!!!
3 years ago on Weak Men Want to Lead? Stop Blaming Women for Your Lameness!
I think this is a cute idea. I'm going to try it out. It seems like a good way to let him know your interested without necessarily letting everyone else know.
3 years ago on For Those Close to Giving Up on Love, "Flip Me" Puts Whole New Spin on, "Please, take my card."
I am so sick of this argument. Apologize?!! Whatever. When is everyone going to allow Black men to stand up and be real men. I actually have a couple of female aquaintences who have these views and I have to not so gingerly express the fact that the Black women have been holding it down and taking up the slack from slavery times untill 2011. I mean when are the men supposed to step up? I guess step up on our backs is supposed to be the norm! I don't think so! Most Black men are cottled and babied and thats why they are worthless for most women. What ever happened to the man being the provider, the head of house hold and building a family? If the Black women can overcome her adversities , get an education, and successfully take care of her family, Why the hell can't these babyfied black men step up and do the same. I'm not talking about every Black but .. I'm talking about the countless Black men the author is referring to. I am so sick of everyone blaming the Black women for everything when most Black women are out here making lemonade out of bitter sour ass lemons! Apologize for what?!!
3 years ago on EMERGENCY POST!! Black Women Apologize to Black Men...For What?!
I agree with Armondo, New York is there own litlle melting pot. i have close friend whose from New York. She's AA , she has neighbors who are uerto Rican, Honduran, and white who all were raised as if they were family. They don't seem to see color there. But here in Maryland I have another friend who sees hispanics as something other than Black and not connected to the same culture. I found that very interesting. It depends on where your at and their perception of the area I guess.
3 years, 1 month ago on Question of the Week: "Is it 'Interracial' When Blacks and Latinos Date?"
3 years, 1 month ago on A Break from the Current Programming For...
@candezi Too Funny!
Hello Chris this video was a great explanation, Kudos to you!
3 years, 1 month ago on Video: A BB&W Primer for All the Newbies, Lurkers & Trolls
3 years, 1 month ago on Hottie of the Week: Manny, the Trifecta Latin Mix!
@MercedesHasLeftTheBuilding Too funny!!
3 years, 1 month ago on Live Video! Strong Black Woman Being Murdered!!
@Toni_M @jess1 I kmow I had to re-read my own post to be sure I made the correct reference. Hilarious!
3 years, 1 month ago on Question of the Week: Are We Going Too Far with the Encouraging Black Women to Date White Dudes?
@Toni_M @jess1 I know too funny! Missed the point I was making altogether! LOL
@Brenda55 I'm a RN as well and I concur!
@jess1 The guy I was referring to was a BM not a WM
Thanks you :-)
3 years, 1 month ago on European Blogger Gives Top 10 List on Why He Loves Black Women
i use peppermint oil for a number of things, especially my scalp. I have a natural oil ixture that I make myself. and I recently found out that if you have a mouse problem , they hate peppermint and it repels them! Just a little known fact.
3 years, 1 month ago on Beauty: All Tingly for Peppermint Oil!
Me Likey! Change is a good thing. :-)
3 years, 1 month ago on Notice Something Different? BB&W Gets an Upgrade.
What's funny is that with all the recent attention everyone is jumping on the bandwagon. I was out with my girl's at a sports bar and this guy who was trying to talk to at least two of my girlfriends out of the blue says, "would you date a white guy?" Needless to say i said a proud yes! and my girlfriends were like please don't start this converstion with her. he was taken aback and then he says well I like asian. I said good for you we all have an array of options in the love department. But I thought where in the world did that come from? at a sports bar when the Baltimore Ravens and the Pittsburgh Steelers are playing Sunday night football?!!! It was right after the Anderson Cooper show which is mainstream and must have awaken something inside of him. Now what he didn't realize even before he tried to talk to two of my girlfriends or made his asian declaration ... he had nothin comin from this lady... But it's funny how he( who thinks he can have any one of the fabulous women at the bar) is disturbed that just one of us would date a white man. The nerve!!