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And Tom Hiddleston in full Loki gear.
1 day, 4 hours ago on Time to Reactivate the Friday Funny: “Who Would You Boink, Livefyre Edition!
Henry Cavill, Liam Hemsworth, William Levy, a few others...
OMG, I can so relate to this. The biggest regret that causes me THE MOST heartache is choosing the wrong career path I'm paying for big time both financially AND professionally. At this point, I'm 40 spending this time hoping for the opportunity to do what I've always wanted and be successful...
6 days, 16 hours ago on Confessions From a Woman Struggling with Her Sanity…Can You Relate?
Not sure why some of the comments aren't showing up...
1 week, 4 days ago on Spike Lee Wants Whites Out Of Brooklyn
@Brenda55 It's a cycle. Somebody was there before it became black. What really struck me was that he basically admitted that things are better now that whites "took over."
I actually think that looks matter more to women than people think. After all, it's no secret that the taller a man is, the more likely he is to find a wife. Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. What might be average looks to one woman might be above or below to another. I suspect that any time an ignoramus black puts down the nonblack mate of a bw it's because they will find a reason to down her choice no matter what. If he's a drop dead gorgeous adonis, they'll just call her a bed wench. Black women can't win no matter what she chooses.
1 week, 5 days ago on Why are Black Women Mocked If Their Non-Black Mates Don’t Look Like Adonis?
Why do I get the feeling this separation is temporary???? As long as they come back better than what they were before.
1 week, 6 days ago on Oh Sh!t…Robin Thicke and Paula Patton Divorce!
@jazzyfae45 It would be hilarious if she starts stepping out with another white guy. What will they say then???
@kia That's the problem right there. Some things are related to race, some are gender issues.
It's a frightening thing that any woman would feel that she doesn't have to vet her neighbors just because they are white. They may not steal your car or mug you but they might molest your child...
2 weeks ago on Legion of Doom Mothers on Steroids — What the Cuss?
@Tammy_Ghalden No one's having a hard time grasping the concept of risk factors. What we are saying is that the percentages quoted are not high enough to rule out whites from our vetting process. Yes, blacks represent a disproportionate amount. But that does not mean that I'm vetting a white man any less than I would vet a black man. If I send my girls over to a friend's house for a sleepover, I will have vetted that family just as much as I would have a black family.
In other words, No one should let their guard down just because they're around nonblanks. I know I'm not.
I'm not implying that YOU lack vetting skills or anything. Just clarifying where others are coming from.
She's better off, now. May his career sink faster than the Titanic.
2 weeks ago on Oh Sh!t…Robin Thicke and Paula Patton Divorce!
I totally agree with escaping blackistan. But there are some things that are present in all communities but behind closed doors. That being child abuse and domestic violence.
2 weeks, 1 day ago on Legion of Doom Mothers on Steroids — What the Cuss?
@LadyHumor @SirLoinDeBeef I can't get with the manosphere types or any man that runs to me because he's running from something else. Plus, I haven't seen any respect for bw from the manosphere. Not to mention, white nationalists seem to find "friends" there.
2 weeks, 1 day ago on Roseanne Barr is Running for President, and She Thinks Siding With Known Black-Woman Haters Will Get Her the Black Vote.
You said it best, Nippy.
2 weeks, 4 days ago on Roseanne Barr is Running for President, and She Thinks Siding With Known Black-Woman Haters Will Get Her the Black Vote.
Roseanne wouldn't last two seconds in a debate with people actually qualified to run the country. Look at how much of a hypocrite she is berating her white son and his cohost for disrespecting women:
But she's cool with black men that disrespect black women.
So I'm confused Roseanne, Is misogyny wrong ONLY when it's directed at white women OR ONLY when spewed by white men?
This is great. I agree with Onmywayup. This post is a long time coming and is a great read even for those of us that aren't married.
2 weeks, 4 days ago on How Long Should You Hang On to Your Marriage?
Yup! Co-parenting can definitely work well for all parties involved and isn't bad in and of itself.
2 weeks, 4 days ago on QOTW: “Why Can’t I Just Be a Baby Mama?”
*are a bad idea
2 weeks, 5 days ago on QOTW: “Why Can’t I Just Be a Baby Mama?”
I'm not sure why living with an adult male is worse than living with a hyper toddler or mouthy teenager. Not surprised that such a thing would be uttered by someone that does NOT have children. So if she thinks living with a grown man is unbearable wait until she has a tween or teen that she can't "break up" with. NONparents (yes, I meant to say that) can typically see parenthood with rose colored glasses. If you want children you need to be prepared for the very good, the bad, and the very ugly.
You won't have to tell your angry boss that you need to leave work early pick up your sick or unruly husband from his job. My point is that the writer does not seem to consider that parenthood can be more difficult than marriage.
No woman should EVER settle for being a baby mama but I respectfully disagree with most here that co-parenting arrangements aren't a bad idea for adults or children in and of themselves. It's simply not what black women need.
Where the answer seeker fails is asking if black women should opt for co-parenting arrangements. Black mothers by and large are parenting alone with no help from the father(s) of their children. SINGLE PARENTING IS THE RULE AMONG BLACK WOMEN. So the question we SHOULD be asking is if black women should consider marriage BEFORE having children. I don't know why people do get that.
Ultimately, she's going to go to Sweden and do whatever she wishes. But I suspect that her not wanting to be married is more about how she feels about men than wanting to co-parent.
2 weeks, 5 days ago on Model Lanisha Cole Fires Back On Haters of Her Non-Black Fiance