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But Nicki…why you nekkid, boo?
9 hours, 11 minutes ago on Really, Nicki Minaj? What Are You Trying to Prove?
Good for you for leaving an abusive situation. there has been many a young person who has enlisted in the military to get away from similar horror stories.
Many times leaving at 18 is the right thing to do.
In my niece's case that is not true. Quite frankly the family...including her parents who are also persona non grata ...are glad to have rid of her.
13 hours, 15 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
She didn't think. One usually neglects that piece when your a legend in your own mind.
14 hours, 50 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
"Let's see how long before this is deleted."
14 hours, 55 minutes ago on It’s Here! The First Episode of “Swirlr”
@Oaktown Paul @Brenda55
Hey. There been many a woman who loved herself the bad boy and lived to regret it. This is just the opposite side of the coin.
Wisdom born of pain.
14 hours, 59 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
Now you know there will be some man out there who will see that, ignore it cause he just knows he can change her.
16 hours, 54 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
And the crowd goes wild.
18 hours, 6 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
18 hours, 18 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
This just the kind of drama fueled chick guys like to hook up with because they think she's hot and the sex is off the chain. When she rips off and then hands him back his balls he then goes on to bitch about women ain't shit. A blind man can see this one coming but oh no some fool is going to pork her cause it can't happen to him.
18 hours, 48 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
Why is there even a lawsuit?
18 = grown = on your own.
I guess they do things differently in white upper middle classville.
Let me tell you how my family rolls.
I have a niece who took the same stand. "I'm 18 and I can do better on my own", so she bounced.
No H.S. diploma. Not even that useless GED. No visible means of support. How is that independence working out for her?
She couch surfed for a couple of years until people got sick of her. Shacked up with various losers on a will boink for food basis. No kids......(there is a God in heaven).
She has worked in a pizza shop taking orders. Had a job sweeping the hair up off the floor at a barber shop and a shampoo girl at a beauty salon. Those are the kinds of jobs you get when you have no skills, no credentials and sleep in to start your job search at one pm.
Oh freedom. It has kept her weight down since she may eat every three days or so. Skin looks a mess but the tattoos cover some of that up.
Currently age 20, shacked up with a felon who has skipped out on parole. She is now working as a telemarketer. He is not working......remember he's on the lamb.
Got the mattress on the floor bit...heat optional deal going.
Nice life. Living on spit and vinegar. She is welcome to it.
Sure. There is enough money and assets within our family to have financed collage and beyond. We could finance a decent place to live with heat and furniture even but why? Not gonna happen now. We do not do collateral damage and this nut has that written all over her so she has been cut off and told to stay away. We watch this soap opera from a distance. And before you ask what if her life intersects with the criminal justice system, (I am laying odds that it will). Well, that is what public defenders and plea deals are for so she will manage.
So lawsuit? Why? Stupid waste of money. Let the school of hard knocks do its work and see how it all turns out. Again 18 = grown = on your own.
21 hours, 50 minutes ago on Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath
Oh now. We can launch Swirlr better than this.....here goes.
1 day, 7 hours ago on It’s Here! The First Episode of “Swirlr”
I just read this mess. Pah-leeze.
Do you see right there just how weak and defeated this dingelberry is?
Leach off of black women, use her to procure from white men.
Be a user and a taker and not a producer or maker. That is the philosophy of the pimp.
It is all right there in that comment. Is this what AA men have been reduced to?
"Women are supposed to use what they earn from society to nurture their men and cultivate his fatherly qualities so that men may function towards the construction and establishment of families."
^^^^^This right here. Make me a man so that I can be a man. Weak, defeated, powerless. You can't make this stuff up. Whats more other men see this every day. They shake their heads. Men who hold these views garner no respect in the community of men which is why they are marginalized.
"Play the game right. Use her labor and income for the good of what you want to build as a man. She is yours if she has agreed to be in a relationship with you. If you remember this, dating certain black women will be a come up for you and you will be able to easily fill up your pockets and your overall portfolio with the sisters that you interact with."
And there it is. You have to agree to your own destruction by agreeing to get involved with a puke this this. You are in the drivers seat and you have to agree.
I will ask it again. What does a P.O.S. like this have that would make me go along with this stupidity?
Answer. Not a damn thing. These turds do not control jack.
They know it, I know it and a growing number of AA women know it.
They have nothing to really force you into putting up with their B.S. You make that choice and you agree.
So walk away. It is just that easy. Walk away.
Let some other women take one for the team and settle down with this punk. 90 miles of bad road is what she is in for. Me? I am not the one and neither should you be.
1 day, 21 hours ago on Sh!t Haters Say to Discourage Black Women From Dating Out
@markhaaseth @SirLoinDeBeef @kia
Dayum. THAT bad huh?
2 days, 14 hours ago on Sh!t Haters Say to Discourage Black Women From Dating Out
" I can only imagine what she had been told about white men or any non-black man who showed interest in black women. But, I was glad that she had seen examples for herself that we could find love and tenderness with a variety of men."
Herein lay the root of the fear. WM/BW couples showing one by one by example that the lie really is a lie.
3 days ago on Sh!t Haters Say to Discourage Black Women From Dating Out
End of story.
Yeah OK dude. You are in that tight with white men that you know the score?
White men have opened up to you and laid it all out there. To you. Right.
Your powers of observation are that fantastic that you see and hear it all and got the whole deal straight.
Just a question since you are sooooo deep. What have YOU got going for YOU that is so strong that black women have got to listen to YOU and no a big mouth does not count.
How can YOU.....or for that matter any black man affect a black woman's life and well being that she has to stop doing what she is doing and do a 180 back to your way of thinking?
Do you control black women's money?
Do you control black women's job prospects?
Do you control where black women can live?
Do you control when and where she can go to school?
Do you control where black women can travel?
Do you control where and when she shops?
Do you control the black woman's vote?
I mean what have you got friend? Explain to me the leverage you think you have?
Anybody? Explain this to me.
Sure you have a little chicken sh** Facebook account, that I can ignore BTW......that is right YOU can't compel anyone to even click on the links you post unless they choose to. That falls into the big mouth category and I can tune out big mouths. I mean you don't even control the platform your site appears on......you have to pay out of pocket to put that stupidity out there which tells me a lot about you, what you value, the way you spend your time and how you handle money. You won't be getting near me and mine and your viewpoint will not be getting my consideration because in the scheme of things you don't count. You are just another loud mouth in a sea of loud mouths keening for black women's attention with nothing to back it up.
My advice to you is to take your perceived privilege. Find a stadium, have a seat and pipe down.
"So yes, if there was no Steve MCq there probably would be no Lupita and the object of Fassi's obsession would be a [half caste girl as we so eloquently put it in Ghana] mixed girl if it were up to AA directors. B/c AA sometimes can't understand why a wm would desire a drk blk wom but he is suppose to desire a mixed woman instead b/c to AA she is a prize & AA's can't fathom a wm obsessing over a drk blk woman b/c they don't. How the hell u gonna write a period piece abt slaves and not have a drk skn wom?? How did mixed race happen? It certainly didn't start with a mixed raced captured African wom/girl in 1600's.
Ps. I hope I didn't offend any1 on this site & all women are beautiful."
3 days, 1 hour ago on Judge Not An Ally By Their Skin Color or Whom They Marry…Support is an Action
@kendrat199 @Takunda @chocolateadmiral
3 days, 6 hours ago on Must Read: Endless Opportunities Abroad For Women of Color
"Well apparently this person felt like putting black women in movie roles where they can be seen as desirable women or in a role where they win an Academy Award is not enough--the true test of how you feel about black women is whether or not you are sleeping with one. So, sexing black women is being supportive of them, but putting black women in major film roles where they win awards, make money, advance their careers, and end up being seen by millions of eligible men is NOT being supportive of them. OK."
Somewhere along the line the message has gone off the rails. SMH
3 days, 7 hours ago on Judge Not An Ally By Their Skin Color or Whom They Marry…Support is an Action
" I'm confused...what is it that women who feel like this expect this man to do?"
This question will never get answered.
People are free to create what ever product or content they want. Consumers are free to buy or ignore it. As an economist once told me a dollar is a vote. Vote for what you want or not.
Black women must consider that they are not the only ones who are consumers of the products that they see in the market place. In the U.S. they are not even the largest group of consumers so spending their time in protest against products black women don't like may not be the most productive use of their time.
Speak out, give feed back sure, social media makes that easy and just about everyone does consumer surveys for their products these days. Producers of content and products spend a lot of money tracking just where people spend and what they spend on. They know to the penny just what each of us are worth and what they can extract. They know.
Will there be some organized social movement of black women protesting their erasure? Nope. Black women are much too varied in lives and experience for that to happen IMO.
I think this whole erasure meme is foolishness. I see all over black women creating their own for themselves and that is key. Black women need to have the courage to move beyond Reflected Glory. Reflected Glory is transient since others control it. Forge your own crowns and place them on your own heads instead of expecting some one else to place the diadem on you. That is what empowerment is all about not organizing to flex consumer muscle in the hopes of getting someone else to change what they are doing.
3 days, 12 hours ago on Dear Black People, Can We Support More Songs Like This?!