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@Naomi2 I'm wearing NYX Glam Lipgloss GLG07

21 hours, 22 minutes ago on Creamy, Smooth, Holiday-Photo-Ready Skin and Make Up!

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@mlank64 I've recently taken up highlighting...it also makes the eyes appear brighter. 

21 hours, 26 minutes ago on Creamy, Smooth, Holiday-Photo-Ready Skin and Make Up!

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@Ri74 Whoa that's cool. Is it similar to Urban Decay's makeup setting spray? I find that even with the set spray I still get so shiny!

1 day, 11 hours ago on Creamy, Smooth, Holiday-Photo-Ready Skin and Make Up!

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@Browncow Hi Browncow! Can you give some links to the maximum hydration method you mentioned? I think I've heard about this before, but I'd like to see what you've been looking at.

1 day, 23 hours ago on Hey Naturals, Have You Heard of Mop Top?

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@Deanna125 Unfortunately she's too weak and unstable for cancer treatment. We are now going into palliative care. There's essentially now hope.

2 days, 11 hours ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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@markhaaseth @mzsunshine @MizzCinderella If I could punch your adoptive parents in the mouth, I would. What horrible, sick people.

2 days, 20 hours ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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@oekmama AA= Associate's degree.

2 days, 23 hours ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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@oekmama "No interest in learning todrive? How does she get her shopping done?"


When my father was alive, he would drive them. After he was gone, they would just take a taxi. My niece has a high school diploma, but never completed the handful of units to get her AA. That was like a decade ago.

3 days, 1 hour ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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Started a convo in the "healing" section of the forum so you can share your stories in a safe, and protected environment. No judgements, just learning from one another. http://beyondblackwhiteforums.com/forum/the-new-new-black-woman-aa/bb-w-healing-circle/1609-food-addiction-what-s-your-story

3 days, 1 hour ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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@oekmama Yep. Projection all the way. I'm just leaving the comments up to show examples of how no matter how you position the discussion, you'll always have someone accuse you of fat shaming. 

3 days, 1 hour ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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@oekmama She's sad. I talked to her, told her I loved her, and reassured her she's not alone. But after it's all said and done, we simply can not allow her to continue with dependency on family. She has to get a skill. She has to learn how to drive. She has to learn how to interact with people. But how, at 32 years old, can you teach this??? Especially if she's expressed ZERO interest? We don't want to throw her out in the street. We won't do that. But...WHAT DO WE DO???

3 days, 1 hour ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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@oekmama Folks on the fan page accusing me to fat shaming anyway. :-/

3 days, 1 hour ago on Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.

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@Cami2210 @EarthJeff I think she hit him with a stiletto, and it drew blood. I think that's what set him off.

3 days, 23 hours ago on Black Female Aggressiveness at Epic Levels. Why?

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These You Tube fights are the modern day blood-thirst-inducing gladiator tussles. Folks to watch this stuff for jollies are sick as shit.

3 days, 23 hours ago on Black Female Aggressiveness at Epic Levels. Why?

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@ReynoldsJames SEE! These images are SO DAMAGING to black women, and here we are financing our own oppression and dehumanization. 

1 week ago on I’m Taking a Hard Line. Either You Are With Us, Or You Are Against Us.

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@Brenda55 It's not the ring quality...I have this weird, itchy rash I get on my ring finger whenever too much moisture gets between the ring and the skin around it. Happens no matter what kind of ring it is. 

1 week, 1 day ago on So…I Got Accosted In Cancun…

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So I started a forum entry because I want to hear your experiences dating Latino men. This should be...interesting! ;-)


http://beyondblackwhiteforums.com/forum/beyond-black-white-discussion-boards-aa/relationships/787-what-s-your-experience-dating-latino-men

1 week, 1 day ago on So…I Got Accosted In Cancun…

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@trinigirl1 No worries. Feel what you need to feel, hon.

1 week, 1 day ago on Latest Foot-In-Mouth Cuisine Highlights How the BC Blames Black Women for Everything.

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@MeliaFavors @maryann660ac1 Oh wow...yikes. Why you make me look? *need to un-see*

1 week, 1 day ago on Latest Foot-In-Mouth Cuisine Highlights How the BC Blames Black Women for Everything.

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@maryann660ac1 Huh? What's that got to do with the cost of tea in China? In other words, what's that fact that you date black men have to do with how black women are often to blame for everything wrong in the community? Well...I guess since you date black men, you can just sit by and let black women continue to be demonized and thrown under the bus because you "date black men only." :-/

1 week, 1 day ago on Latest Foot-In-Mouth Cuisine Highlights How the BC Blames Black Women for Everything.

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@Statuesque I take a collagen supplement regularly. It WORKS. No question.

1 week, 4 days ago on Asset Maximizing: Black Women Have the ‘Ageless Advantage’

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@Aquagirl1 @Christelyn  @MikeStStation @Keioni Oh I've been to the cesspool that is the "manospere" and you are absolutely right. Most of those men are women-hating beasts.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Holding Your Past Against You!

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@Aquagirl1 @Christelyn  @MikeStStation @Keioni Actually, I've interacted and spoken to Mike via G+. He's a really nice and respectful man, with strong values. He's currently engaged to a woman and they've both agree to refrain from sex until they marry. I can't knock him for that. He's not a bad guy.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Holding Your Past Against You!

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@MikeStStation @Aquagirl1 @Keioni Mike, do you think I'm a "quality" woman? I mean, based on what you've seen of me and know about me from your experiences? Well I can tell you that there was a time in my life that I felt deeply insecure, inadequate, ugly, and worthless. It was reflected in my choice of mates and sexual partners. It took a lot of work, but I grew. Would you have discounted a woman like me who made some errors but came out on the other side stronger and better? Just something to think about.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Holding Your Past Against You!

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@maw906 @Brenda55 For now, try logging out of the forum and then signing in under a different user name, careful to put your correct b-day.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna test out the new Forum?

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@maw906 @Brenda55 What's your user name? I'll see if I can get it fixed tomorrow.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna test out the new Forum?

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@BellaVoce Yep. I've belonged to both kinds of churches and you are 100% right on the money.

2 weeks, 4 days ago on I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks are Contented in Dysfunction.

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You know, after reading all the colorist horror stories, coupled with how I KNOW black women are dragged, belittled and demeaned, is it any wonder that so many of them are throwing up deuces? I mean, it's crazy to me how these abusive people are so SHOCKED that a segment of black women are moving on! It's so counterintuitive. How do you treat the backbone, marcher, bailor out of jail and owner of couches you sleep on like doo-doo and then when she says, "Enough!" you think additional insults and guilt tripping and telling her she ugly and nobody wants her will bring her back?! I'm just....you're have to see it for yourself to believe it. I see it almost every day.

3 weeks, 1 day ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@Brenda55 @N2ition @MeontreByrd LOL...now I'm curious about what he said. 

3 weeks, 1 day ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@tf9009 @MiseeHarris Los Angeles, San Diego, San Francisco, Austin, Dallas, New York, segments of Virginia, NJ, PA and FL...I could go on and on...

3 weeks, 1 day ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@PoetOfDarkness A lot of people say that that is indeed the case.

3 weeks, 1 day ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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And just a gentle reminder to the lurkers...THIS is why we still discuss "black issues," because so many black women are still caught up in the matrix that doesn't benefit them. We're here to be the beacon--and I just know you hate that. ;-)

3 weeks, 1 day ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@MsEva No part of what I wrote is meant to bash you, Ms Eva.

3 weeks, 1 day ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@GoldenPrecious I once dated a guy who insisted that my hair be done (like beauty salon done) at all times.I was a college student!! I dropped that fool real quick. Especially since his "demands" meant I had to spend MY money for HIS expectations. pffft.

3 weeks, 1 day ago on On Vetting: Dump Toxic People Who Prefer You to Sustain Unhealthy Habits

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@Michael Miles LOL thanks Michael! I lived around them my whole life, so that was an easy one!

3 weeks, 4 days ago on My Strong Is <em>Not</em> Your Strong, My Swirl Is <em>Not</em> Your Swirl: On White Women Entitlement Issues And Epic Cockblocking

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Got this comment from a non-black man who watched the video. I'm so glad I made this.


"I have never heard a black woman talk like this before. Sadly, I think you are right about the "strong black woman" stereotype, as I have not really ever seen black women as "girls" but as (generally) angry, vicious people that hate the world and white people in general. 

It is sad, but I think more importantly, one needs to look at the black man and ask: Why he does not create an environment that allows for social, interpersonal and community growth (in general)? I think this video has made me see black women in a whole new way.  Bravo. "

3 weeks, 5 days ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@ShepherdNation @Christelyn Exactly If I were to hunt this chick down and put her in her place of her complete lack of empathy and understanding, the first thing she would probably do is break out the old reliable "white girl tears." Shuts up down every time, and they use that get-out-of-jail-free card whenever confronted or called out.

3 weeks, 5 days ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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This post is catching fire. Being shared everywhere. But take a look at this share. And this is why I'm not marching next to these women for nothing. They just don't get, don't want to get it. 

3 weeks, 5 days ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@BreannaNouveaux Girl...you said it better than me. #respect

3 weeks, 5 days ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@_Toni_ @simplylois @janet28 Not only is it use to stereotype, it is used to MOCK. BELITTLE. "Whatchu need me for? You a stroooong black woman!" 

3 weeks, 5 days ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@ShunJack Thank you! I just LOVE makeup. LOVE IT!! 

3 weeks, 5 days ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@writerbaby391 This is a question I get asked a lot, and honestly I don't know how much time I spend because it's fun for me so I don't measure. But with a small deck and growing in pots, once you're properly planted there isn't much to do, except do a weekly feeding with an organic fertilizer to get a good yield. Good for you though...get growing!

4 weeks, 1 day ago on Fall in the Garden…Time for Greens, Greens, and More Greens

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