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@Browncow @500and50 Can you mix it with your favorite shampoo? 

17 hours, 20 minutes ago on Home Made Detangler and Shine Enhancer…Apple Cider Vinegar!!

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@Ara Jazz  @zimekcyn Co-sign on the Camille Rose. It's AMAZE BALLS.

18 hours, 18 minutes ago on Home Made Detangler and Shine Enhancer…Apple Cider Vinegar!!

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@Allandise Rashire I love her!! She's adorable!!!

21 hours, 25 minutes ago on Mark Jacobs Knows Pink…with “Kiss Kiss Bang Bang!”

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@Bren82 No lipliner needed girl! 

21 hours, 28 minutes ago on Mark Jacobs Knows Pink…with “Kiss Kiss Bang Bang!”

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@500and50 I spray and don't rinse it out. I tried this method when my kids had lice...LOL don't ask...the acid releases the nits (eggs) and the byproduct was that my two affected kids had incredibly shiny and manageable hair, so I figured, what the hell? lol

1 day, 6 hours ago on Home Made Detangler and Shine Enhancer…Apple Cider Vinegar!!

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*slow, strong hand claps* this needs to be a speech at a university somewhere....seriously.

2 days, 10 hours ago on Dear Black Men, Did I Hurt Your Feelings? You Don’t KNOW Hurt Feelings…

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@zukosstruggle Okay, I'll have to concede that on this site, you're bound to encounter some bitterness from some black women. How can an entire community tell you from birth that you are less than, tell you not to aim high and scraps are probably all you'll get and NOT be bitter? I can understand the women here who have been told to grin and tap dance while they have been dragged through some of the most painful experiences, and then MOCKED by these same people when they express themselves. I think Robert is genuine, and I think you are too. But it doesn't do much to as what you can do to change the way the current is going, except to speak to your brothers and encourage the next generation.

2 days, 22 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@zukosstruggle @giantrafflesia Hey you! Hey guys...this is a fan from my You Tube channel. He's a cool guy and he supports what we do. 

2 days, 22 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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Hi ladies...Robert sent this note, and goshdarnit, I think he's sincere:


"Greetings ladies!

I must say, I didn't realize my email would cause a commotion. Let me start by saying my email to Christelyn was based off of a post on facebook. I didn't research the website that it came from, I simply responded to the editor. It was not an email directed at you all, as I didn't realize the source, so , I apologize for that misconception. For the most part, I understand and agree with everything that you all say on this site... My brothers are messed up. Black men denigrate black women and exalt other women. It's in our talk, music, and daily life. Contrary to what has been said, I actually am a defender of BOTH the worth of black women, and the right of everyone to date whomever they are attracted to. I can only say that, I understand both the purpose of this site and why you all feel the way you do. I have a daughter, and in no way am I going to force her to date black men. She can date whomever she wants, as long as he treats her like the queen I am raising her to be. But again, I can only say, I'm sorry
... I'm sorry for the experiences that you all have had in the past,
... I'm sorry that my brothers aren't the men that their mother's wanted them to be
... I'm sorry if my letter appeared condescending, it wasn't meant to be, but just as you all say I should presch to my brothers (which I do), I was simply attempting to defend my brothers that do the right thing, that treat black women with the respect that they deserve ... Yes, we're few and far between... And I'm sorry for that, too!
Peace and blessings to you all!"

3 days, 5 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@Sameriah 99 @Christelyn  @allie1231 "The truly happy ones are actually too busy being happy and loved.  It's the ones that want us to suffer like them that keep posting comments of their "happy marriage"


I believe that's probably the case as well.

3 days, 6 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@PoetOfDarkness @Christelyn  @_Toni_ Yup. They want EVERYTHING, yet think all they need to do is show up and lay pipe. It's so gross. By the time I left I was so disgusted at myself for staying so long.

3 days, 6 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@_Toni_ *raises hand* the last black man I dated expected me to pay half the bills, work two jobs while I was in college, take care of our baby 90% of the time, cook all his meals, do ALL the cleaning, do all his laundry, do checkpoints in the apartment to make sure it was "up to code" before he got home from work, would pull out the bible to justify why I should bend over with no vaseline, wake me up at 3AM on a school night to have sex, and that was after I did all the above, all damn day. And when I wasn't doing that, he was devising a list of "rules" in which I had to adhere to before he'd have the "marriage discussion." So glad I ran like Forrest! LOL

3 days, 6 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@simplylois @PoetOfDarkness Yeah, it was a play at manipulating me, but I allowed it because we need our experiences validated..not for him, but to know that we all aren't crazy. 

3 days, 6 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@allie1231 "Im sick of hearing bm/bw go on and on  about how they are happily married to one another all while ignoring the stats and the DBR’s who are on a constant crusade to reduce bw to zero."


What I really find sad is that the women married to these men come to rub it in our faces. I feel like this: If you're truly happy, then you should be happy for your sisters for finding love in whatever package it comes in.

3 days, 7 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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Thanks ladies for sharing these hard truths. People think we're making this up...we aren't. The truth is, most of us have some story about how an IBM they wanted to date wanted to bleed them dry of every ounce of blood for the "privilege" to be the girlfriend, let alone the wife. I had a friend who dated a black podiatrist in Atlanta and he cheated on her so many times, gave her an STD, and damaged her so badly she needed therapy. This friend went to ATL in the heyday when it was being touted as the "black woman's mecca for successful black men." Why did he treat her so badly? BECAUSE HE COULD. STD or not, he had a line of black women waiting for their turn.


Some might dismiss this as bitterness, and maybe it used to be. But once your free, I mean, really FREE of the shackles and feeling like you have no CHOICE, that bitterness falls away. It truly does.

3 days, 7 hours ago on Black Doctor Wants You To Know: “There are Good Black Men Out There.”

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@MeliaFavors OMG...how appropriate. Yep. These men keep telling on themselves.

4 days, 9 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@_Toni_ @PoetOfDarkness I'm working on a video on this as we speak, and this is going IN!!! Thanks @PoetOfDarkness 

4 days, 16 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@_Toni_ @MeliaFavors "We have crossed over to the other side of the looking glass. Black women hating themselves SO MUCH they're using intra-racial misogyny as a way to put down other black women."


Blog post #2...#jussayin

4 days, 16 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@AlyssaTilton No...she's not. She's known as one of the sexist women in American history. 

4 days, 18 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@allie1231 @streamhomiestv Love how the ladies and gents here take ownership of their space! We're family, ya'll!! ;-)

4 days, 20 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@_Toni_ I just featured this comment...hopefully some of these folks will take the time to actually READ.

4 days, 20 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@HappyFree You think only white men won't wait till marriage before having sex? Sorry hon...that's most men these days. However, there's lots of interracial couples in places like Austin and Dallas.

4 days, 21 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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Wait...WHET?! 5,000 people? Why is this article breaking the internet???

4 days, 21 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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I wake up and 3,ooo people are on this post? What the heck?!

4 days, 21 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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Hey ya'll isn't it funny how we've had guest demonstrating everything we discuss on the regular, in real time? 

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@JHLonerism Nobody's angry...actually we're having a hell of a good time! lol

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@OliviaG 

"And interracial marriages do ?"


Yes dear. If you like, I can give you the data. Marriages between black women and white men are 44% MORE LIKELY to be married 10 years or more. 

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@OliviaG Seriously, Olivia. I'm not kidding...if black men are your preference, you like it I love it. But in THIS space, we are interested in entertaining quality men of ALL races. I won't call you names because you want a "black king," so don't be up in here calling us self-hating, okay?

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@InnerCitySlim Amber is hip hop's appointed "black queen." Black men associate her as "black enough" and she herself calls herself and family "Creole," so...

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@kennaGransberg @OliviaG I know...OMG...this is better than any movie I could be watching right now! This is comedy gold!!!

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@OliviaG Good luck finding your "king" sis. We're actually helping you out. Most of us are married/dating interracially, so...more for you! :-)

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@OliviaG "If you had true knowledge of self you'd want a black King"


#DOA

#LMAO

#WHOABOY

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@SeanNa1 Sigh...I'm the author of this piece. Who's mad again? BTW, I'm MARRIED. With papers and everything! :-) 

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@StarStroy Exactly. Moving target. Poor @SeanNa1 thinks if black women hop through hoops, bleed, bark like dogs, fall prostrate on the floor will bring "the black menz home." Po baby...

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@SeanNa1 Might I suggest you take your "real black" behind to blackpeoplemeet.com and find yourself a "real black" man. No cookies here given. 

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@SeanNa1 Uh...okay. Legions of quality black women are all doing it wrong. Got it. /sarcasm

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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@SeanNa1 Oh so now we don't talk "black" enough for you?! OMG...AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA!

5 days, 7 hours ago on Kanye’s Comments About Amber Rose Highlights How White Women Are “Always” Virtuous No Matter How Skeezy Their Past.

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