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@writerbaby391 This is a question I get asked a lot, and honestly I don't know how much time I spend because it's fun for me so I don't measure. But with a small deck and growing in pots, once you're properly planted there isn't much to do, except do a weekly feeding with an organic fertilizer to get a good yield. Good for you though...get growing!

12 hours, 48 minutes ago on Fall in the Garden…Time for Greens, Greens, and More Greens

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@ChocolateDiva I also side eye him being 36 and "eventually" wanting a wife and family IBM's get married soooo late, and I think we all know why. A black woman in her mid-thirties (his counterpart) can't just sit around waiting and waiting until you're ready to get to her. Her eggs ain't having it.

1 day, 21 hours ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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@jazzyfae45 Yeah, that's about right. These so-called "good black men" let their thug homies go for decades unchecked while they BENEFITED from being the black special snowflakes. In short, they wanted..no needed the miscreants of black society to dominate, why? Because it made them look all the better. 

1 day, 21 hours ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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OMG I'm just CHEESING right now that so many young ladies are coming out of the woodwork about how WE have changed their perspective on their beauty and worth. YAAAAAAEEEESSSS!!! 

3 days, 7 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@DanielleMonique Hey Danielle! We need to have you on our broadcast this Friday!! Are you up for a G+ hangout chat at 7PM PST? Say yes!!

3 days, 7 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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I love that sites like "For Harriet" are also asking these questions, but they make the same mistake too. Someone wrote an article over there about how this site is trying to force black women to date white men. Look, we're not forcing anything. When you write articles about how black men are doing you wrong while still writing articles how no other man but a black man will do, then I'll no longer be listening. I think other intelligent, critically thinking black women will stop listening as well. Some of ya'll want your "Waiting to Exhale" pain porn sessions and I'm just not about it.

3 days, 9 hours ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@ibetnoonehasthisusername As much as I love him (yes I'm ashamed but he's country-boy sexy to me) the lyrics in this video sum it up: "Hey; I'm just being honest."


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWgvGjAhvIw

4 days, 4 hours ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@Brenda55 @thecrazyartist You and me both, Brenda. It's the happiest ending I could have ever hoped for.

6 days, 18 hours ago on We Broke $5,000 in just THREE Days! Get Your “Troll Tears” Sippy Cup Today!

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Thanks to the second donation by @_Toni_ , we're only $72 away from breaking the $5,000 mark! I was waiting to get to that threshold because I'm going to write a press release! Thank you so much, everyone! 

1 week ago on Video: Update on the BB&W Fund Raising Push!

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I gotta say something else. I've seen this girl. She sent me a picture. I won't be showing anyone because I WILL protect this girl as best I can. But this is the type of girl the BC calls "fast," and other horrible names we won't mention. These girls are NOT little adults. They are CHILDREN. There is ALWAYS a reason a child manifests this and 99% of the time it is NOT her fault. Time for the adults to take some responsibility for the walking wounded of this generation. They created this mess in the 90's going into the 2000's. This is the product of those poor decisions. WE are responsible for these kids.

1 week, 1 day ago on Young Girl Needs Our Guidance: 15 Year-Old-Girl, Only Interested in Men 26-50.

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@zoeydebra Believe it or not, I got it at Cost Plus World Market! They have a great accessory section!

1 week, 1 day ago on Highly Pigmented, Color-Popping Shades…You Asked…All About BLEND Cosmetics.

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@EmpressNK Girl, you go ahead and write the post you have in mind. We need more of this!! BTW you look gorgeous!

1 week, 1 day ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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Also ladies don't neglect your smile! If you're a coffee drinker and wine drinker like I am, your teeth might need an occasional brightening. I whiten my teeth on average about twice a year.

1 week, 1 day ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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@Browncow @Brenda55 It's still open! All the extra will go into escrow

1 week, 1 day ago on Video: Update on the BB&W Fund Raising Push!

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@PoetOfDarkness Indefinitely. All the money will go into an escrow account.

1 week, 1 day ago on Video: Update on the BB&W Fund Raising Push!

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@Kels I love that suggestion! You're right...tailoring gives you such a polished look. Especially during the holidays. You can make a dress of the rake look like couture.

1 week, 1 day ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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You guys, this is IMPORTANT work. Of course the fools over at The Coli were doing a victory lap until they saw how we reacted. But even our critics respect our power. Check out this comment; 

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@Brenda55 @Laura_j They have awoken the sleeping giant. 

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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This is wonderful. With the extra $$ we can now create a budget to assist with clerical duties related to managing the forum. 

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@Brenda55 @Christelyn It's expensive, but worth it in the long run I think.

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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Receipt of purchase of vBulletin software. I want complete transparency of how I'm using YOUR money.

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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Just updated this thread, because I'm going to screenshot on the threats so we have a record. Here's the latest:



1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@SirLoinDeBeef And HOW!!! I love you guys. You are my fairy godparents.

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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Wow....I come back from yoga, trying to shake of all this torment and stress, and come back to THIS!! Way to show the haters! OMG...it's ON!!!

1 week, 2 days ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@Sfbta To me, a sister is a woman who supports you, no matter what the race. :-)

1 week, 3 days ago on The Iyanla Vanzant Cluster Cuss: We BB&W MUST Keep Discussing the High OOW Rate

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@EmpressNK Let me know how it is! If you like it I might buy it. The line is pricey, but it seems to be quality.

1 week, 3 days ago on Get Cheeky…Natural Looking Cream Blush Works Double Duty as Lip Shade

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@Keioni That definitely needs to happen. I'm on it.

1 week, 5 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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@Elegance Here's my issue...I report on issues that negatively affect black women. I talk about our out-of-wedlock rate. I talk about misogyny. I talk about how BW are degraded and dragged through the mud, because those issues have to do with empowerment. Does every post have those elements? Of course not. Look at the posts for the passed month. How many were about saying black men ain't shit? And you know what? Last month was a record for visits. I'm just saying...I don't want people to silence the only place black women can speak their truth.

1 week, 5 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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@SwirlQueen You're smart to do that. Time to migrate off Facebook. Can't put all your eggs in one basket.

1 week, 6 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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I just want to take a moment to THANK all of you for your support. This kind of support, community and love does not come cheap, and believe me I value that so much. It means so much to me. I'm humbled by all the love and your dedication to work to keep the movement going. You guys are amazing.

1 week, 6 days ago on The Death of Beyond Black & White…

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@Daisy_inthe_Field It's never too early to start taking care of your skin...dermatologists say "the earlier the better." There's cellular changes that happen below the surface that may not manifest for years. I'm working on a pretty comprehensive feature on the skin products that have worked well for me.

2 weeks, 1 day ago on I’m FINALLY Ready to Talk About Hairfinity. Does It Really Live Up to the Hype?

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@nubianinthedesert Click the link in the bottom paragraph of this blog. I think there's a few there that don't contain biotin.

2 weeks, 1 day ago on I’m FINALLY Ready to Talk About Hairfinity. Does It Really Live Up to the Hype?

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@MeliaFavors @HowardTyroneSmithII "If we ain't shit, why do you care??"


Simple. It's a classic abuser trademark. Make the abused person feel they are worth nothing, which makes them grateful for any little scrap. But when other races of men--particularly white men--date, marry and mate with the very women they say are worthless whores, it kinda throws a monkey wrench in. White men are deemed statistically to have the most choices of all races of men in the U.S., so when the "man at the top" picks a "bottom bitch" these idiots start foaming at the mouth. BTW, 99% of the time, white men with options aren't picking "bottom bitches." They pick the cream-de-la-creme of black women--she is usually exceptional in some sort of way. But many BM might walk over these same women for the more "exocticals" but still express anger because their back up punching bags and options for "cum dumping" have diminished.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hate…

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@onmywayup Thank you! I'm going to do a post about it. It's a new (new to me at least) line of make up I found on accident.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on Friday’s G+ Chat: Real Talk About Dating Asian Men

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@lindsaynagle YES!! That's EXACTLY what I JUST said.

2 weeks, 2 days ago on From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hate…

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@Aleah2015 

" i'll be more impressed when he takes this message to predominantly Black male websites and really confronts this issue. Im sorry but im just not impressed."


You might not be, but I am. Do you realize men like this DO go on male dominated sites are regularly shouted down and dismissed? They are called every traitorous name in the book if these dudes don't go along. These BM hating sites are a bunch of bullies. Do you REALLY think his ONE voice is going to do anything? At least here, he can say his peace and not be laughed off the site. I give this young man credit, and I appreciate him. 

2 weeks, 2 days ago on From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hate…

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