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You know, after reading all the colorist horror stories, coupled with how I KNOW black women are dragged, belittled and demeaned, is it any wonder that so many of them are throwing up deuces? I mean, it's crazy to me how these abusive people are so SHOCKED that a segment of black women are moving on! It's so counterintuitive. How do you treat the backbone, marcher, bailor out of jail and owner of couches you sleep on like doo-doo and then when she says, "Enough!" you think additional insults and guilt tripping and telling her she ugly and nobody wants her will bring her back?! I'm just....you're have to see it for yourself to believe it. I see it almost every day.

1 hour, 19 minutes ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@Brenda55 @N2ition @MeontreByrd LOL...now I'm curious about what he said. 

1 hour, 51 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@tf9009 @MiseeHarris Los Angeles, San Diego, San Francisco, Austin, Dallas, New York, segments of Virginia, NJ, PA and FL...I could go on and on...

16 hours, 57 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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@PoetOfDarkness A lot of people say that that is indeed the case.

17 hours, 40 minutes ago on It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!

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And just a gentle reminder to the lurkers...THIS is why we still discuss "black issues," because so many black women are still caught up in the matrix that doesn't benefit them. We're here to be the beacon--and I just know you hate that. ;-)

20 hours, 3 minutes ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@MsEva No part of what I wrote is meant to bash you, Ms Eva.

23 hours, 17 minutes ago on Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond Repair” (DBR), But…

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@GoldenPrecious I once dated a guy who insisted that my hair be done (like beauty salon done) at all times.I was a college student!! I dropped that fool real quick. Especially since his "demands" meant I had to spend MY money for HIS expectations. pffft.

23 hours, 42 minutes ago on On Vetting: Dump Toxic People Who Prefer You to Sustain Unhealthy Habits

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@Michael Miles LOL thanks Michael! I lived around them my whole life, so that was an easy one!

3 days, 2 hours ago on My Strong Is <em>Not</em> Your Strong, My Swirl Is <em>Not</em> Your Swirl: On White Women Entitlement Issues And Epic Cockblocking

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Got this comment from a non-black man who watched the video. I'm so glad I made this.


"I have never heard a black woman talk like this before. Sadly, I think you are right about the "strong black woman" stereotype, as I have not really ever seen black women as "girls" but as (generally) angry, vicious people that hate the world and white people in general. 

It is sad, but I think more importantly, one needs to look at the black man and ask: Why he does not create an environment that allows for social, interpersonal and community growth (in general)? I think this video has made me see black women in a whole new way.  Bravo. "

4 days, 3 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@ShepherdNation @Christelyn Exactly If I were to hunt this chick down and put her in her place of her complete lack of empathy and understanding, the first thing she would probably do is break out the old reliable "white girl tears." Shuts up down every time, and they use that get-out-of-jail-free card whenever confronted or called out.

4 days, 12 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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This post is catching fire. Being shared everywhere. But take a look at this share. And this is why I'm not marching next to these women for nothing. They just don't get, don't want to get it. 

4 days, 13 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@BreannaNouveaux Girl...you said it better than me. #respect

4 days, 13 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@_Toni_ @simplylois @janet28 Not only is it use to stereotype, it is used to MOCK. BELITTLE. "Whatchu need me for? You a stroooong black woman!" 

4 days, 13 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@ShunJack Thank you! I just LOVE makeup. LOVE IT!! 

4 days, 13 hours ago on “Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying This…”

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@writerbaby391 This is a question I get asked a lot, and honestly I don't know how much time I spend because it's fun for me so I don't measure. But with a small deck and growing in pots, once you're properly planted there isn't much to do, except do a weekly feeding with an organic fertilizer to get a good yield. Good for you though...get growing!

1 week ago on Fall in the Garden…Time for Greens, Greens, and More Greens

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@ChocolateDiva I also side eye him being 36 and "eventually" wanting a wife and family IBM's get married soooo late, and I think we all know why. A black woman in her mid-thirties (his counterpart) can't just sit around waiting and waiting until you're ready to get to her. Her eggs ain't having it.

1 week, 1 day ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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@jazzyfae45 Yeah, that's about right. These so-called "good black men" let their thug homies go for decades unchecked while they BENEFITED from being the black special snowflakes. In short, they wanted..no needed the miscreants of black society to dominate, why? Because it made them look all the better. 

1 week, 1 day ago on Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How Swirling Might Help Black Women Marry Black Men?

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OMG I'm just CHEESING right now that so many young ladies are coming out of the woodwork about how WE have changed their perspective on their beauty and worth. YAAAAAAEEEESSSS!!! 

1 week, 2 days ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@DanielleMonique Hey Danielle! We need to have you on our broadcast this Friday!! Are you up for a G+ hangout chat at 7PM PST? Say yes!!

1 week, 2 days ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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I love that sites like "For Harriet" are also asking these questions, but they make the same mistake too. Someone wrote an article over there about how this site is trying to force black women to date white men. Look, we're not forcing anything. When you write articles about how black men are doing you wrong while still writing articles how no other man but a black man will do, then I'll no longer be listening. I think other intelligent, critically thinking black women will stop listening as well. Some of ya'll want your "Waiting to Exhale" pain porn sessions and I'm just not about it.

1 week, 3 days ago on Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How “Black Men Hate You” While Scoffing at Expanding Your Options…Then You’re Just Begging.

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@ibetnoonehasthisusername As much as I love him (yes I'm ashamed but he's country-boy sexy to me) the lyrics in this video sum it up: "Hey; I'm just being honest."


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWgvGjAhvIw

1 week, 3 days ago on On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!

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@Brenda55 @thecrazyartist You and me both, Brenda. It's the happiest ending I could have ever hoped for.

1 week, 6 days ago on We Broke $5,000 in just THREE Days! Get Your “Troll Tears” Sippy Cup Today!

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Thanks to the second donation by @_Toni_ , we're only $72 away from breaking the $5,000 mark! I was waiting to get to that threshold because I'm going to write a press release! Thank you so much, everyone! 

2 weeks ago on Video: Update on the BB&W Fund Raising Push!

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I gotta say something else. I've seen this girl. She sent me a picture. I won't be showing anyone because I WILL protect this girl as best I can. But this is the type of girl the BC calls "fast," and other horrible names we won't mention. These girls are NOT little adults. They are CHILDREN. There is ALWAYS a reason a child manifests this and 99% of the time it is NOT her fault. Time for the adults to take some responsibility for the walking wounded of this generation. They created this mess in the 90's going into the 2000's. This is the product of those poor decisions. WE are responsible for these kids.

2 weeks ago on Young Girl Needs Our Guidance: 15 Year-Old-Girl, Only Interested in Men 26-50.

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@zoeydebra Believe it or not, I got it at Cost Plus World Market! They have a great accessory section!

2 weeks ago on Highly Pigmented, Color-Popping Shades…You Asked…All About BLEND Cosmetics.

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@EmpressNK Girl, you go ahead and write the post you have in mind. We need more of this!! BTW you look gorgeous!

2 weeks ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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Also ladies don't neglect your smile! If you're a coffee drinker and wine drinker like I am, your teeth might need an occasional brightening. I whiten my teeth on average about twice a year.

2 weeks ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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@Browncow @Brenda55 It's still open! All the extra will go into escrow

2 weeks ago on Video: Update on the BB&W Fund Raising Push!

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@PoetOfDarkness Indefinitely. All the money will go into an escrow account.

2 weeks ago on Video: Update on the BB&W Fund Raising Push!

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@Kels I love that suggestion! You're right...tailoring gives you such a polished look. Especially during the holidays. You can make a dress of the rake look like couture.

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Just for Fun…What Makes a “Creature Like No Other?”

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You guys, this is IMPORTANT work. Of course the fools over at The Coli were doing a victory lap until they saw how we reacted. But even our critics respect our power. Check out this comment; 

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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@Brenda55 @Laura_j They have awoken the sleeping giant. 

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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This is wonderful. With the extra $$ we can now create a budget to assist with clerical duties related to managing the forum. 

2 weeks, 1 day ago on Beyond Black & White Fan Page is Under Attack Again. Time to Go to War.

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