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@allie1231 Yes, yes she is. My pride and my joy.
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15 hours, 44 minutes ago on Once Again, Main Stream Media Awards Black Dysfunction, and You LOVE It!!
@Ri74 I don't watch television either. 90% of it is inane, brain-celling-killing bullcrap.
16 hours, 14 minutes ago on Once Again, Main Stream Media Awards Black Dysfunction, and You LOVE It!!
@Law Wanxi Why Law, I do believe you made me blush!
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@Sfbta I have the kick-assiest moderators on the internet. I am blessed beyond belief.
2 days, 10 hours ago on Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Controversial Author Says It Has.
@nyaw Good point...I think there's going to be a lot of younger women marrying older men as well.
3 days, 10 hours ago on Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Controversial Author Says It Has.
@StarStroy I believe she is white.
3 days, 11 hours ago on Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Controversial Author Says It Has.
@zipporah @Canola_Q Keyword is SPRUNG. Most men get sprung when they feel like you are a prize to be EARNED. An extreme example is Kanye West's absolute worship of Kim. Another example, Beyonce and Jay Z. Beyonce wasn't having no illegit babies, and Jay Z came correct. Both men view these women as coveted prizes.
3 days, 12 hours ago on Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Controversial Author Says It Has.
@zipporah @Canola_Q Yep. And make no mistake. If a man is SPRUNG on a woman who demands marriage before making babies and shacking up, he WILL accommodate.
@StarStroy Not excluded. Men can get benefits. They just get less or none at all if they live with someone who is working, even if it's barely above the poverty line. And that's the point. I would have never qualified for benefits when I lived with my child's father because he made too much money, which wasn't a lot...AT ALL. His salary was enough to cover the rent and buy gas. We would have had to live deep in the hood to make his salary work for the both of us.
@taycohen55 Clearly you didn't read the article. I hate it when people like you come in here are shit on the floor of our house.
@StarStroy If you follow the history of the modern day welfare system, you'll see that it followed a template for farm aid, with one exception. You had to be married to get benefits. The WOP welfare system mandated the opposite. There's actual data to prove this...I promise I'm not making it up! :-)
3 days, 13 hours ago on Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Controversial Author Says It Has.
@PaoloP When people see how children of two-parent homes are often emotionally superior to the ones raised in single parent homes, and live more successful lives with more wealth, then maybe people will pay attention.
@StarStroy Listen...I was on welfare with my first child. I know how the system works. I had to hide the fact I lived with my child's father for a time, and I also had to hide that I was in college and receiving financial aid. Trust me...
@StarStroy It is true. In order to receive welfare benefits, no man could be present in the home. Social workers would often do unscheduled pop up visits to ensure that no men were living in the home of single mothers.
3 days, 14 hours ago on Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Controversial Author Says It Has.
@jazzyfae45 I agree that this situation is more complex than radical feminism. I think it's part of a trifecta: radical feminism that suggests women need men like fish need bicycles, less social consequences for out-of-wedlock rates and little-to-no effort to get sex on demand, the after affects of the Great Recession
I think the quote from my husband is pretty much the most compelling part of this. These days, there's not a lot of incentive for men to marry. If raising kids in a single household isn't a problem, and living together isn't a problem, and having indiscriminate sex isn't a problem, what compels men to do anything AT ALL?
@CassieM12345 Yes! I'm kind of surprised too. Looks like I'll start having a good harvest of squash by April!
5 days, 16 hours ago on Gluten-Free Squash Blossoms…a MUST Try if You’ll Garden With Me!
@Blanc2 "Will your squash still produce fruit if you pluck the blossoms?"
As I mentioned, male blossoms are produced before female blossoms. There's usually more than enough to both fertilize and pluck for the blossom dish.
6 days, 15 hours ago on Gluten-Free Squash Blossoms…a MUST Try if You’ll Garden With Me!
@giantrafflesia Good question. Early on, a squash will give out male flowers first, so you'll have plenty to prepare for this recipe in the absence of female flowers. But once female flowers begin to appear, you want to make sure you have enough male flowers to pollinate. Most pollination happens in the morning when the flowers open. I just noticed I have a female flower forming and will probably open up by morning, and one or two male flowers. What I might do is hand pollinate the female and then use the male flowers for more of the recipe. That way you can fertilize the flowers and eat the blooms!
1 week ago on Gluten-Free Squash Blossoms…a MUST Try if You’ll Garden With Me!
@Oaktown Paul Ha! Paul, I'd love to see you in a Speedo!!
1 week, 1 day ago on LaToya: Steps to Take TODAY to Kick Start Your Fitness Journey
@DDan1967 Try this link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/multiracial-family-man-ep./id969793342?i=337650669
1 week, 2 days ago on Check Us Out: Alex Barnett and I Have Hilarious Convo About Blended Families
@PoetOfDarkness Ah it was really sweet. The baby loved it!
1 week, 4 days ago on Bobbi Brown Does Mauve Like a Boss, Plus #ThePaintedLipsProject + Giveaway!
@Oaktown Paul @BellaVoce Careful, Paul...you're sounding like an alpha...;-)
1 week, 4 days ago on How to Date an Alpha Male…Do You Have What It Takes?
@Rexy012 And you know what? You GO. Don't let ANYBODY make you feel like you're less than because that's what you want and value. I'm a stay-at-home mom myself, and I'll "step away" too! ;-)
@ladyluxe Why are you coming in here barreling and guns blazing? You don't like the article? Move the eff on! No need to be mocking and belittling. Considering that the "typo-laden" piece has been shared over 200 times and liked over 2,000, you're in the minority. But hey; the world takes all kinds.
@Allyson Wright He's not married...so I guess...yes lol
@AnnieRUok @itsgoodtobeme Just went to "Return of Kings," which I do on occasion when I feel like vomiting. There's an article on how to nail 19 year-old girls. These men are SO gross...
@Robin1 Alphas like challenges and often like "thrill" activities. Skiing and snow boarding: YES. These men go with their buddies in packs and it's prime picking for women. I was recently on a ski trip and the place is dripping with testosterone. Rock climbing, hiking, car shows (YEP) all places to meet such men.
A good example of an alpha, who is an consummate gentlemen, business owner, and all around EVERYTHING kind of man is Matthew Hussey. He's an alpha through and through. Great business mind, smart as a whip and will probably make his first million before he's 30, LOVES and RESPECTS women, and commands respect.
@MomofIV @Robin1 It's true. Not enough alphas to go around, unfortunately. Lots of pretenders though...pretty much all the men on the pick up artist sites are omegas pretending to be alphas. It's pretty pathetic.
@kennaGransberg *Raises hand* had sex with hubby on the third date and he's been sprung for 15 years. :-)
1 week, 5 days ago on On Vetting: Beware of “I Can’t Find a Black Woman!” Men. They’re Full of It.
@ladyluxe @Elegance Agree with much of what you said, but he's 32, not 42.
1 week, 6 days ago on On Vetting: Beware of “I Can’t Find a Black Woman!” Men. They’re Full of It.
Just want to say that I'm really REALLY touched at the sisterhood and family we've got here...like no place else. We may disagree, but it's in kindness, honestly and love. You guys are the ELITE of all black women on the internet. BELIEVE THAT.
@Elegance @Neecy I for one think Carrie was smart. She was really into him, so it wouldn't have been wise for her to have had sex with him. Women get attached much easier. I'm sorry...any way you look at it, saying to a girl, "A lot of women want to be with me" is douchebag behavior. Does that mean he's a monster? No. Just means he's a douche. The good news is, douchebaggery can be cured over time if one is motivated sufficiently.
@CarrieThompson1 Carrie, I believe you. Ladies, I can also vouch for this, because Carrie held counsel with me. This happened. I believe her.
@Neecy I for one never said he was DBR. What he DID was jerky. If he wasn't into her, why did he try to sleep with her? He KNEW I was going to hold him accountable...I told him so publicly on a video. If he didn't feel sparks, why why try to stick the candle in the wick??? Just leave it alone. I would have respected that.
What was a trigger for me is how Wes behaved, similar to what we bemoan about our so-called IBMS who do the SAME thing...knowing lots of women want them and string a bunch of them along to take advantage. Why would I EVER want the women here to be exposed to that kind of exploitation?!
That's the deadly combo...saying you PREFER black women AND THEN whine you can't find one. No freaking way. We're everywhere, being overlooked everyday. Even my husband said that was bullshit.
@jazzyfae45 @Neecy "How is saying "I'm not ready for a relationship because a lot of women want me" a nice way of letting someone know they don't want a relationship with you? That sounds like jerk to me."
Sounds like one to me, too.
@Elegance I'll repeat what I said to @Neecy upthread: I guess you would have to know more of the backstory. Without telling this woman's business...let's just say there were LOTS of sparks. At least, physically. He was DEFINITELY attracted to her. At the...uh...point of no return, Carrie understandably asked what his intentions were if things...were to progress. THAT'S when he came out with the, "I'm not ready for a relationship, a lot of women want me" mess. Men often do that to cover themselves so that after sex with no commitment they can say, "hey; I told you I didn't want a relationship..." So SHE got up and left, and I don't blame her. It was foul. Trust that it is more than BW just being bitter.
@Neecy I guess you would have to know more of the backstory. Without telling this woman's business...let's just say there were LOTS of sparks. At least, physically. He was DEFINITELY attracted to her. At the...uh...point of no return, Carrie understandably asked what his intentions were if things...were to progress. THAT'S when he came out with the, "I'm not ready for a relationship, a lot of women want me" mess. Men often do that to cover themselves so that after sex with no commitment they can say, "hey; I told you I didn't want a relationship..." So SHE got up and left, and I don't blame her. It was foul. Trust that it is more than BW just being bitter.
@lorelei84 Simple answer: the fragile male ego. :-)
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@StarStroy Hey I don't have that much weight to lose, either! I'm going to participate to help hold myself accountable and mix things up a bit.
1 week, 6 days ago on ‘Best You’ in a Bikini! BB&W Lands Personal Trainer to Coach Weight Loss Challenge!
Here's an article I wrote about the other guy who claimed he couldn't find "the one." Utter B.S. http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/beware-i-one-guy-stall-tactic/
2 weeks ago on On Vetting: Beware of “I Can’t Find a Black Woman!” Men. They’re Full of It.
@Ladylikefaith "Bring us more Matthew Hussey, he loves women of all racers and creeds!"
Yes; yes he does. ;-)
2 weeks, 1 day ago on On Vetting: Beware of “I Can’t Find a Black Woman!” Men. They’re Full of It.
@lili2009 @Christelyn Good question! We live in a suburb so there's not many critters. We do get the occasional cat, mouse, mole and rabbit, but they're few and far between. Has you tried a fence made of chicken wire?
@PJDeanwriter Two are. One was banned, and the other I'm speaking of. The third was a young white guy, a lawyer, who belonged to an IR meetup group in Atlanta. He's good looking, gainfully employed, living in Atlanta, and he had the nerve to tell me he was having trouble finding the right black woman. GTFOOH!!! Quality women are EVERYWHERE in Atlanta!!! He was VERY angry with me when I outed him and called him out on his games. He even threatened legal action. LOL
@allie1231 @luna tick "black women are not telling the world that black men don't want us. Black men are telling the world that they don't want us." <<<<<<<THIS. THIS. THIS. THIS. THIS.
@The Working Home Keeper @itsgoodtobeme @jazzyfae45 Yes. I did two video interviews, and a post interview stating clearly that I expected him to come correct, but several off-line private conversations. I didn't just pick him because he was pretty.
Check it out! Vintage #BeautifulWoman http://dangerousminds.net/comments/wonderful_photographs_of_victorian_women_of_color
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Hey ya'll! The #BeautifulWoman campaign made it on Eurweb!! http://www.eurweb.com/2015/03/interracial-dating-site-pushes-black-womens-marriageability/
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