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Jen N - awesome pictures, +Traci Toguchi! i LOVE ocean/water sunset shots!

Traci Toguchi - Thanks and Happy New Year, Jen and Mahei! (Just added my respective Quotes of the Day under the pics.)

Traci - Jen: Me too. I'd venture to say my digital photo albums consist of about 45% ocean/horizon shots (another 45% is of food :).

Jen N - when i used to take more pictures, i would say mine were primarily divided between those two subjects too! =)

1 year, 5 months ago on Last Sunset of 2011 and First Sunset of 2012

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Did you listen to the program? LauLau81

My latest conversation: Start where you stand, but move forward

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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From Twitter: RT @KentBeatty: RT @tracitoguchi: Start where U stand [Poem]. http://bit.ly/sXBeVl (cut the rope that drags yr past then full court press n2 yr future! :)

1 year, 6 months ago on Start where you stand, but move forward

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From Twitter: RT @DaniaEdibleHI: #GreatQuote “@tracitoguchi: Start where you stand [poem]. Then, move forward. http://bit.ly/sXBeVl”

1 year, 6 months ago on Start where you stand, but move forward

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I think so too. fergusonsarah

1 year, 6 months ago on Start where you stand, but move forward

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How can/do you identify your gut feeling? Charlotte74

My latest conversation: Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

1 year, 6 months ago on Question of the Day: How do you know when to persist or move on?

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LauLau81 Ah, welcome to the Hopeless Romantics Club! Thanks for keeping the faith. ^_^

My latest conversation: Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

1 year, 6 months ago on One or Many Soul Mate(s)?

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From Twitter: @cierhianna: I can dismiss wandering eyes. It's wandering hands or other body parts I'd be more concerned with.

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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From Twitter: @ MrVulcan: Left comment @ link, but I'll tweet you 2. As long as 'wandering' eyes see other *women* as other *people*. Faithfulness = key

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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@JunmaiShu: Yes, the friends issue is something, again perhaps for another video, as like this topic, there are multiple comments and questions I have about it. Wow, never heard of or tasted oyster stuffing. It sounds uber yum! Thanks, wishing you and your family a wonderful Thanksgiving too (thought we had one more day, but here it is).

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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@JunmaiShu Thanks for sharing. Yes, the impulse is understandable, but I feel it's what one does with that impulse makes a difference, especially if the person expressed what he/she feels when it happens. If someone in a relationship is admiring someone else, wouldn't the human impulse mean they would pursue that if they could?

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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From YouTube: @JunmaiShu: Oh, and I LOVE that movie! I've always gotten along better with women than other guys. My best friend is a girl, and that has caused problems before in relationships. They don't understand, and furthermore sometimes don't believe me that that's all it is (friendship). It's a tough line to toe. And she's dealt with the same problems. It's great to talk to you again. I hope you have a great Thanksgiving! I make a mean oyster stuffing, if I may self-indulge for a moment?

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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From YouTube: @JunmaiShu: Well stated. It's just slimey to gawk at them when you're already with somebody. But we wouldn't be human if the impulse didn't exist to be attracted to beauty. And I've been asked the question before: "do you think she's pretty"? I think it's worse to lie, so I say "yes". You hope they're mature enough to understand what I conveyed above, and if not, you explain it to them and hope they admire the honesty. Not a bad time to remind them that you love them, too ;)

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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@JumaiShu: Someone commented on my blog page (I'll include the direct link in the description). Since he referenced your response, I wanted to share my comment to him: The way and duration (lol) the person looks at another are factors. Like what was said in the show - what is the intent behind it? What is the purpose of looking at another person that fits one's physical attraction tastes if it is attraction which brings the people to be in a relationship together?

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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From YouTube: @abhishekagarwal77: nice views!

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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@JunmaiShu Friends of opposite genders - that's a whole 'nother show! It's an everlasting debate ala "When Harry Met Sally." ^_^

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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@JunmaiShu Thanks for sharing. I'd go out on the limb and say most/all women want to feel from their significant other that they are the most beautiful woman in the world. When I've had recent conversations with men about this topic, I ask men what they would want for their daughters -- Wouldn't they want their daughter(s) to be with someone who treats her the way many fathers tend to think their daughters are -- the most beautiful and precious in their eyes? The answer is always "yes."

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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From Twitter: @nctrnlbst: "Keeping Options Open" = still get chance. =P

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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Thanks for your comment. The way and duration (lol) the person looks at another are factors. Like what was said in the show - what is the intent behind it? What is the purpose of looking at another person that fits one's physical attraction tastes if it is attraction which brings the people to be in a relationship together?

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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From YouTube: @JunmaiShu: I find it impossible not to recognize beauty when I see it, whether it be a sunset, a work of art, or a woman. But if I'm already with one such work of art, I'm too preoccupied with her to notice what else is around me, or care.

A problem I run into is I become good friends with the women I really like. After that taking it any further seems awkward. I don't regret the friendships one bit though, quite to the contrary in fact. But, you know...

1 year, 6 months ago on Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Options Open, Wandering Eye

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